Chapter 438: Understanding
Luo Qingyan also knew that Lu Guiling would be uncomfortable facing those guests, so she said: "My mother doesn't care about those superficial things, and she doesn't like too many people and too publicity." How comfortable we are still here, just invite these families who we often come to have a meal together to celebrate. ”
Song Anguo said: "Then listen to Gui Ling, but you have to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the marriage certificate first, this is the most important thing." ”
Song Anguo remembered his son's lesson, the most important thing is to legalize himself first, and he is not afraid that his daughter-in-law will run away.
Everyone laughed when they heard Song Anguo's eager tone, and Lu Guiling's face was full of shyness, and she was very beautiful.
Luo Qingyan thought of his wedding dress and said, "Mom, Uncle Song, how about you take a few wedding photos?" I have fabric there to make a simple wedding dress for my mother, and then make a few sets of beautiful dresses, and also make two sets of dresses for Uncle Song. When you get married, of course, you have to dress nicely, and you have to take pictures. The scenery of our Sheng Garden is also good, so I'll take a picture of you in the garden of Sheng Yuan, how about it?"
Lu Guiling hurriedly waved her hand and said, "No, I'm not a little girl anymore." What other wedding photos are you taking?"
Song Anguo said: "We don't have a big banquet for guests, but we can still take a few photos as Xiao Yan said, and we should also take wedding photos." You just promise Xiao Yan. ”
Song Yunting also smiled: "Why don't you shoot, but also take a good picture, this is the beginning of a new life for you, of course, you have to celebrate well, but also to leave a sauvenir, and you can look at the photos to recall when you are old in the future." Xiao Yan, I'll trouble you to take care of their clothes. Don't be in a hurry, I think you can wait until you come back from the barracks to take pictures of them. Let's also prepare and invite a few more families to have dinner together to celebrate. An Guo first typed the marriage report and got the marriage certificate. ”
When Lu Guiling saw that everyone was advocating taking pictures, she agreed, and she also had some expectations in her heart. No matter how old a woman is, she has a heart that loves beauty, and Lu Guiling is no exception. She now sees that everyone is very supportive of her being with Song Anguo, and she can't help but look forward to it. Maybe this time she can really get her own happiness and have a man who loves her.
Luo Qingyan and Lu Guiling went to see the two children together. When they arrived at Lu Guiling's yard, they saw that the two children were still asleep, and after changing their diapers, the mother and daughter sat in the hall and chatted.
Lu Guiling took Luo Qingyan's hand and said with some uneasiness: "Xiao Yan, you and Cheng Yi used to be husband and wife before, and you still have two children, if I marry you Uncle Song, will others gossip? Will it affect you? I am already very satisfied with my current life, if it will be harmful to you, I would rather not marry again." ”
Luo Qingyan held Lu Guiling's hand and replied sincerely: "Mom, let's not live by looking at other people's faces, as long as we live well ourselves." As for other people's gossip, that's certain, but whoever doesn't talk about people behind their backs is not told behind their backs. Let's just not worry too much about it. Also, Mom, since you have decided to marry Uncle Song, you will definitely have to face his daughter Song Chengyan in the future. She's certainly not going to give you a good look, and she's certainly not going to say nice things. Her mother, Li Yumi, has always dreamed of returning to the Song family as a hostess. As soon as you marry Uncle Song, her dream will be shattered, and she will definitely not give up. Song Chengyan will definitely give you no pleasure for her mother, you don't have to care, we don't have to be afraid of her, and we don't have to endure it. You are an elder, and if she is disrespectful to you, then there is no need for us to accommodate her. If we don't have contact with her, you just live in Shengyuan and avoid her. ”
Lu Guiling hesitated and said, "Wouldn't this be bad? After all, she is your Uncle Song's daughter." ”
Luo Qingyan said: "What's wrong, Grandpa Song and Uncle Song don't want to see Song Chengyan now, she is too brainless, she is always used, and she doesn't listen to Grandpa Song and Uncle Song, they have already given up on Song Chengyan." Mom, Uncle Song is actually a very poor person, when he was young, he was forced by his mother to marry a woman who loves vanity, is calculating, and has a femme fatale, and he has never been happy. We have long seen that Uncle Song is interested in you, and Uncle Song has already told us his thoughts. Since he promised to be kind to you, he will not break his promise. We all want you to be happy too. Your first two marriages were actually not normal marriages, this time you can enjoy life, and when you are old, you will have a companion by your side, and you will not be lonely. Happiness is something you have to fight for, you should be brave, we have your back. As for Xiao He, I'll tell them, and they'll understand you. Uncle Song is also very majestic to be their father. ”
Lu Guiling was moved by her daughter's understanding and concern, it was a great blessing to have a daughter like Luo Qingyan in her life, and it was the luckiest thing in her life. Otherwise, it is not certain whether she is still alive now, and she may have collapsed long ago.
Luo Qingyan called the three younger siblings together after dinner, pondered for a moment and said, "Xiao He, Yuan Yuan, Xiao Chen, I want to tell you something today. Uncle Song wanted to marry our mother, my mother agreed, and I agreed, and now I want to hear your opinions. ”
The brothers and sisters couldn't react when they heard this, and Lu Xiyuan said first: "Sister, is that Uncle Song who always comes to Shengyuan, the father of the ex-brother-in-law?"
Lu Xihe pulled Lu Xiyuan, and Lu Xiyuan pouted and said, "Aren't we doing well now." Why does Mom still want to get married? Then it's not like there will be one more person to rob us of Mom from now on. ”
Luo Qingyan sighed and said, "No one robs our mother with us, but there will be one more person who cares about my mother and you." I know you may not be able to accept it all of a sudden, but you also have to think about our mother. She is only forty years old, she is only halfway through her life, and there is still a long time to go, and in the end it will only be her other half who can be by her side, not us children. She was widowed prematurely, gritting her teeth and persevering in order to feed you. Sooner or later, you will grow up, you will start a family, you will work hard for your ideals, and you may leave home. What will my mother do at that time? She will also be lonely and lonely, who will accompany her? She is still so young, why can't she find a new happiness. As children, we can't be too selfish, and we should think about her future life, which is also our filial piety. ”
At this time, Lu Xihe raised his head and said: "Sister, I understand what you said, I agree with my mother to remarry, it's good to marry Uncle Song, and no one will dare to bully my mother in the future." Yuanyuan, my sister is right, our mother has paid a lot for us, and we, as children, should also think more about our mother. I hope my mother can be happy, and I will have someone to accompany me when I am old. ”
Luo Qingyan knew that the eldest brother would understand what he said and would agree to his mother's remarriage.