595 Guidance and discipline
Sometimes the children like to be reckless, and sometimes the little ones seem to like to get some praise for their hard work. Give these little ones some tasks, and they will do their best and do their best.
For example, Baby and Enoch are good and obedient children who like to take on more tasks. They are not like Xiaobai, Xiaobai, this child is the type who doesn't like to take responsibility, this child likes to be in a state of 'nothing to do'.
"Enoch, you must carry your bag. Holding Enoch's little hand, the baby still said uneasily, "The bag is full of coffee and spices, if you lose the bag, we won't be able to eat barbecue, and Xiaobai can't drink coffee." ”
Enoch was full of confidence and said with a serious face, "Sister, I know, I don't lose my bag." ”
That's good, it's gratifying to see the little guy in such a state. It seems that the naughty Enoch is not just naughty, this child will still work hard to complete the tasks assigned to him, and will work hard to complete his work.
Catherine felt that the children were still young, so she wanted to hold the children's little hands. Although she had only just entered the mountain, she was worried that the road would be a little rough, that the children would fall, and of course she had all kinds of worries.
Clearly, however, neither the baby nor Enoch thought so, and they probably knew that it was their grandmother who cared about them, but the two little ones did not intend to appreciate it, because both little ones thought they could walk on their own and did not need their grandmother to lead them.
"Grandma, I can walk on my own. The baby retracted his little hand and said with some dissatisfaction, "I'm not a child anymore, I can walk by myself." I can still hold Enoch, and I won't let Enoch fall. ”
Enoch shook his hand even more, and shouted in a dissatisfied voice, "I don't want Grandma to hold me, my sister to hold my little hand." ”
Looking at the attitude of the children, what else is Catherine to say. Such a scene is also somewhat familiar, Melissa and Joshua when they were young, sometimes they don't appreciate it, and they will also want to prove their strength and level.
"Mom, they can take care of this, David and I often take the kids into the mountains to play. Melissa laughed and explained, "The kids are good, they're used to it. I can guarantee that we don't need to care too much about them, whether it's on the ranch or in the mountains. ”
Catherine watched the baby and Enoch 'move forward', watching the two little ones happily run hand in hand, she thought it was a little funny, and she also felt that the children were really no stranger to such things as entering the mountains, and they even seemed to have a lot of experience.
"Enoch is the most athletic kid I've ever met, and even though he's not very old, I think he looks stronger and stronger than a baby. I would have been worried that he was too small, but now I think I'm overthinking it. ”
Hearing Catherine say this, Melissa laughed proudly, for it was true, that Enoch was really strong, and that the boy's athletic talent was incomparably great. That is, he is small, otherwise this little guy will definitely be able to better deal with some of the current situations, such as jumping over a small dirt slope and the like.
Xiaobai's child is more adapted to this, this child is indomitable, although it doesn't like to carry a bag or something, it does like to travel light. But as a pioneer, Xiaobai assumes the role of opening the way.
This is preparing to open roads in the mountains and build bridges in the water, which is not difficult for Xiaobai at all, and this is also Xiaobai's task.
In fact, Xiaobai's responsibility also includes the task of deterring Xiaobai, who is running in front. It didn't want any wild beasts to threaten the safety of the baby and Enoch, and even the rabbits and pheasants hiding in the bushes had to be driven away by Xiaobai.
Naturally, I was worried that those guys would suddenly jump out of the shadows and scare the children, so I had to clean it up in advance.
These are also very familiar dramas for Xiaobai, and there is nothing to worry about for Xiaobai at all. It itself is an occasional play in the mountains, and the experience is naturally rich. Going into the mountains with Zhang Dawei is naturally a different style of play, and going into the mountains with Pooh to mess around is naturally another style.
But now with the children, of course, there are some other ways to deal with it, but it doesn't matter, because Xiaobai can handle these well, and Xiaobai really doesn't need to worry about these. It's a piece of cake for it.
This is also one of the reasons why Zhang Dawei and Melissa seem to be confident and good-looking, in addition to Zhang Dawei's excellent ability, as well as the fact that he is well prepared and experienced in entering the mountain this time. This is the reason why Zhang Dawei and Melissa are full of confidence, they don't think that it is dangerous to take their children into the mountains and camp, they can handle all this.
Naturally, it is also because of the existence of Xiaobai, although Xiaobai has a lot of history, Xiaobai is indeed playful. But you must not underestimate Xiaobai's powerful ability, and never think that Xiaobai is just stubborn, and it will not drop the chain at critical moments.
Joshua was carrying a big backpack and said with some complaints, "Guys, I don't think we're going camping, we look more like we're moving." I can guarantee that no one camping would have prepared so much. ”
Zhang Dawei, who was carrying a larger backpack, glanced back at Joshua and replied with a smile, "If you choose to sleep in the wild, you need a tent and a sleeping bag." Of course, I don't think you need that, you just need to be in front of the campfire all night. ”
Joshua gave him a blank look, although he wanted to complain about carrying a big bag, but even then he was a little tired. However, Joshua also knew that in order to have a better camp, it was necessary to prepare, and it was absolutely not too hard to be tired.
Otherwise, camping is a nightmare, and for the sake of comfort and stability, he can not go into the mountains at all, and no one will force him!
Melissa is in a good mood because her family is around, and because she is camping in the mountains, she enjoys being close to nature. Even if you usually live in a pasture, there is still a slight difference between being in a pasture and going into the mountains and forests.
"Xiaobai, you should learn to climb trees!" Melissa teased Xiaobai, "Your ability is strong, I think as long as you work hard, you don't have skills that you can't learn." Trust me, as long as you learn to climb trees, you can chase away those squirrels!"
Xiaobai turned back angrily, it can now be said that he despises Melissa in various ways, after all, Xiaobai is not a stupid roe deer. It is obedient and listens, it knows which ones are praise and which ones are teasing, Xiaobai is not so easy to fool.
Melissa didn't care about any of this at all and continued to quip, "Use the time you spend playing every day to study, and you can be the most powerful dog." Of course, if you put your mind to trying to cheat snacks into studying, I believe you can achieve even more great things, you are very talented, you are very strong!"
The white ran away, not intending to scare the little squirrels in the trees, and in order to get a clear ear, he didn't bother with Melissa, who was chattering more and more. I didn't feel like this before, but now Xiaobai feels that Melissa is too nagging, and sometimes Xiaobai feels unbearable.
This is not a manifestation of the rebellious period, Xiaobai's behavior is the same as many children, in fact, this is the case, children will avoid it for the sake of the quietness of their ears, so as not to be nagged by their parents again and again......
Seeing Xiaobai's slightly embarrassed, of course, he also unabashedly expressed his disgust, Melissa didn't care.
Melissa's attitude is also normal to say, and the children in the family show some 'rebellion' from time to time. Sometimes, children often want to avoid the control of their parents, and there is no need to worry about such things at all, but it is something that every family needs to go through, which is a very common scene in the relationship between parents and children.
Zhang Dawei was also in a happy mood, looked at Melissa and smiled, "My dear, you have seen Xiaobai's performance." I think you need to be gentle, our little white is in a rebellious period now, he is an adolescent lad now. ”
"I know it's an adolescent lad, and I know it has some ideas of its own right now. Melissa laughed and said eloquently, "But because it's adolescence now, I need to pay more attention to its growth." My dear, we are now at a critical stage of Xiaobai's growth, and we must pay attention to its growth at this time. ”
Zhang Dawei was speechless, because what Melissa is saying now seems to be the truth.
So Zhang Dawei expressed sympathy, it seems that whether it is Baobao, Enoch or Xiaobai, in the process of their growth, there must be a mountain that cannot be bypassed. Obviously, Melissa is the only absolute 'ruler' of the children's growth, and although she respects the children, she still has a word in many things.
However, in this matter, Zhang Dawei must still support Melissa, even if he is a little 'sympathetic' to the children, he feels that the children's growth process may have some 'shadows'. But at the end of the day, children are still young, and their cognition is sometimes limited, and they may have some cognitive biases.
In such a situation, it is better to let parents become a better guide, they have more experience and knowledge. So even if there is some nagging, it may make the children a little uncomfortable, but for the sake of the children's better growth, it is better to make the children uncomfortable, at least not to let the children's growth be affected too much.
This is Zhang Dawei's decision, this is also Melissa's idea, and the opinions of the two people are actually extremely resolute.
Talking and laughing, this is the atmosphere of camping, and this is the root of a family coming out to camp.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa can ignore some of Xiaobai's current grievances, seeing Xiaobai's appearance, Paul and Catherine also find it very interesting; as for Joshua, he may feel sympathy, because he is also such a managed character.
Children sometimes have no human rights like this, this is the reality, and it is natural to respect children, but sometimes there is really no way to fully respect children.
Children have the role of children, and parents naturally have the responsibility and cognition of parents, so do their own job, this is the reality, and this is also the mode of getting along with countless families.
"Xiaobai, come back quickly!" Zhang Dawei suddenly felt that something was wrong, and greeted Xiaobai loudly, "You're not lazy, are you?"
The little white fart ran back, but this little guy looked up at Zhang Dawei with his head up, and he still looked very cute, and he also pretended to be innocent.
In the final analysis, Zhang Dawei knows Xiaobai too well, and seeing Xiaobai's attitude, Zhang Dawei knows that Xiaobai must be pretending. This naturally means that Zhang Dawei's previous worries must exist, which naturally means that Xiaobai, the bastard, does have a little reservation, and this guy may be really a little lazy.
Zhang Dawei gritted his teeth, hugged Xiaobai, stared at it and said, "We are taking children with us, if there are some animals hiding in the dark, what about the safety of the children? Although you are smart, you can't make your own decisions, even if you make a judgment, you should tell me, let's make a decision together, right?"
Xiao Bai still continued to look innocent, Xiao Bai continued to look like he didn't know what Zhang Dawei was talking about, it seemed that this was also a stubborn look, and he still looked like he was doing his own thing.
Speaking of which, Xiaobai made his own decision, although this guy is considerate, but sometimes, it doesn't seem to be going to change.
Looking at Xiaobai's posture, Zhang Dawei was left with nothing to do; in the final analysis, Xiaobai's child has really grown up, and this child has its opinions. Although sometimes it will be obedient, but the child also has his own decisions. If you want Xiaobai to be obedient, this matter is obviously not so simple.
Forget it, although I think Xiaobai's bastard does have reservations, I think Xiaobai's guy is a little uneasy. But Zhang Dawei can also be regarded as understanding Xiaobai, although Xiaobai is quite a bastard, but in principle, Xiaobai basically understands, so this is not a big deal, and it can only be decided by Xiaobai.
This is the reality, children are small, children need to be disciplined and guided, but there are some things, absolutely not everything needs parents to decide. Children can sometimes judge some things by themselves, and such decisions are not necessarily wrong, but they still need to give children some trust.
Keep going, because this is just the beginning, the fun of camping is just beginning, and there will be more interesting things to come, and that's for sure!
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