646 Simple, happy
Xiaobai was warmly welcomed, and Zhang Dawei looked a little neglected and ignored, which is the situation of Zhang Dawei and Xiaobai going home after staying outside for a week.
It's just that Zhang Dawei doesn't care about this kind of treatment at all, although he is a little disappointed, but he knows that the children just can't express it well. When the children see their good friends, they almost forget their dad.
Zhang Dawei is also relatively familiar with such a thing, this kind of thing will not happen for the first time, Zhang Dawei believes that such a thing will definitely not be the last time, he can be said to have been mentally prepared.
Although the children did not welcome Zhang Dawei, Melissa did not, and Melissa seemed to be the happiest person to see Zhang Dawei come home. didn't feel numb, she naturally hugged Zhang Dawei and gave a hot kiss.
Zhang Dawei was happy, this is the treatment he deserves, he feels that he deserves such a warm welcome!
"Dad, do you miss me?" Find snacks for Xiaobai, the baby immediately ran to Zhang Dawei, looked up and asked expectantly, "Dad, you will definitely miss the baby, right?"
picked up the baby and kissed the baby's little face fiercely, "Of course, what I think about most is you and Enoch, if I didn't want to take a break with Xiaobai, I would have gone home a long time ago." I don't feel solid when I don't see you. ”
The baby was very satisfied with such an answer, so the little girl put her arms around Zhang Dawei's neck and kissed her father with a small mouth.
Dad misses the baby, the baby actually misses the dad too, and now that the dad comes home, the baby is of course very, very happy.
Enoch also ran over and asked in a milky voice, "Daddy, did you miss me?"
Zhang Dawei instantly burst into tears and mixed feelings, he felt that he should be away from home for a long time. Because once separated for a long time, Enoch's child will naturally express his true feelings, and this little guy will show his dependence and longing for his father at such a moment.
Of course, this kind of thing is just thinking about it, Zhang Dawei still prefers to be with the children, he doesn't want to miss every important stage of the children's growth. The most important thing is that Zhang Dawei understands that companionship is really important for children!
"Of course, of course I want Enoch. Picking up the chubby little guy, Zhang Dawei was extremely proud, "Once I am not at home, what I think about most is you and the baby." ”
A pair of lovely children, two little guys are now sitting on Zhang Dawei's lap; for Zhang Dawei, this is all he has, this is his life, this is his happiness!
Zhang Dawei felt very happy, the baby and Enoch were also very happy, and they didn't see their father for several days, and the two little ones were naturally very worried. Even though Dad calls every day during the week he's out, the kids still miss their dad in their hearts.
In fact, whether it is the baby or Enoch, they are used to being together as a family; even if Zhang Dawei used to leave home temporarily when he went out to work, but he rarely did not go home for a week, and the children were naturally very accustomed to the life of their parents by their side.
The children are accustomed to their parents being around, Zhang Dawei and Melissa are not used to the baby and Enoch being around; for this family, neatly together, this is their living state, this is their favorite and most natural life.
Being away from home for a week naturally means that there will be a lot going on at home, at least for the baby and Enoch, who now have a lot to say to their dad, and they have a lot of things to share with dad.
For example, Baby, this little guy is talking a lot about school, her classmates, or her life at school. There is also a baby who has recently been learning to dance seriously, and the baby who likes to dance is full of confidence that she has now learned another dance.
So there is no need for the baby to say more, Zhang Dawei said expectantly that he wanted to see the baby dance. This is a very proud and happy thing for Zhang Dawei, because his baby daughter has the talent of a little dancer, which is the baby's hobby, and this is the most wonderful dance Zhang Dawei has ever seen.
Enoch, who was leaning on Zhang Dawei's arms, also had a lot to say, because his father was not at home, so Enoch was doing it when he bathed Rudolph and Overlord, although his mother also helped a lot in the process, but Enoch thought that he had completed the task given to him by his father very well.
And when his father was not at home, Enoch was the last man in the family, so Enoch was very brave, he didn't cry, he didn't make trouble, he shouldered the heavy responsibility of protecting the women in the family, and accompanied his mother to pick up his sister to and from school every day.
Zhang Dawei is naturally very proud of Enoch's performance, and naturally he can't help but praise Enoch fiercely, because Enoch's performance is really good, because Zhang Dawei feels that Enoch's little guy is indeed a reliable little man!
The two little ones who were chattering shared almost everything they had experienced this week with Zhang Dawei, and the two little ones were very happy now, because Dad was not at home, so they had to talk to Dad well, and they knew that Dad would definitely want to know these things.
In fact, Zhang Dawei really feels very happy, he doesn't feel impatient at all, he is happy to communicate with the children, and he is also very serious in talking to the children.
Perfunctory, that's impossible, because the topics the children talk about are very interesting, and this is a topic that Zhang Dawei cares about. So he has to listen carefully, he will continue to put forward some of his own opinions, and he will express some of his emotions very well.
In Zhang Dawei's view, this kind of thing is a necessary thing, because he knows that children are very sensitive; if he shows a perfunctory attitude, the children will definitely be able to see it, and such a thing as damaging the children's enthusiasm must not be done, and Zhang Dawei does not want the children to be unwilling to talk to him.
What's more, Zhang Dawei is willing to talk to the children in his heart, he likes the feeling of family intimacy; if the children show some distance and estrangement, then Zhang Dawei will be really sad, and then Zhang Dawei will feel shocked.
"Mommy, tell Daddy, I was defeated by Pooh yesterday!" Enoch was anxious, and immediately urged, "We are boxers, but I was knocked down by Pooh all of a sudden, and Pooh has grown up, so its strength has also increased!"
Zhang Dawei glanced at Melissa, and Melissa shook her head with a smile; It's probably because Enoch was a little out of tune when he was playing, so this little guy found a reason, and that was that Pooh was growing up now.
There is no need to be surprised at all about such a thing, because Zhang Dawei knows that Enoch must have done it, and he knows that this is not the first time such a thing has been staged.
"It's not that Pooh has grown up, it's that you have underestimated the enemy. The baby squeezed Enoch away and said angrily, "You don't even know about the hug, so you were defeated at once." Enoch, you go and practice boxing, I'll talk to Dad. ”
Enoch, who was almost pushed out of his sister's way, was upset because he felt that his sister was questioning his boxing skills, "I was fighting, I hid, but I didn't dodge." ”
"Enoch, then you can put on a show. Holding the baby, Zhang Dawei felt that he could chat and play with the children at the same time, "I'll see if your hug has any special standards, and then we'll analyze why you were defeated by Pooh all of a sudden." ”
Enoch immediately jumped off Zhang Dawei's lap and raised two small fists.
The elbows are naturally vertical, and the elbows are pressed against the flanks. The height of the forehand is basically the same as that of the back hand, about a meter away from the chin. The chin is lowered and the elbows are reasonably spaced apart without exposing the center of the torso.
To be honest, Enoch's hugging is quite qualified, and for a child of Enoch's age, such a standing hug is absolutely fine. It's just that you can only look at the upper body, because the real hug frame is particular about the position of the footsteps.
But Enoch had a teacher who was not very good, and the little guy studied with his father.
Because Zhang Dawei's basic skills are very bad, his competition relies more on his physical condition, so many basic skills are plausible, and these basic skills are seriously not solid, and they seem to be full of loopholes. But Enoch didn't care, he studied with his father, and the problems were all the same!
Seeing Enoch's performance, Zhang Dawei didn't know whether to be proud or blame himself; because Enoch admired his father very much, and Enoch felt that his father was invincible, so he would learn and imitate his father in boxing and fighting training, and naturally learned some bad habits.
Zhang Dawei felt that Enoch was still young, so there was no need to require Enoch's posture to be absolutely accurate, and there was no need to deliberately adjust some of Enoch's basic skills. Just let Enoch have fun on his own, there is no need to think that Enoch has some talent and must be engaged in a certain industry.
In the final analysis, Enoch is young, and no one dares to guarantee what choice Enoch will make in the future; naturally there is no need to ask Enoch to seriously practice some basic skills, Enoch is to play and grow happily at this stage, and he does not need to take on too much responsibility, and he does not need to care about what profession is not professional.
Hobbies, Enoch now likes boxing, likes fighting, likes all kinds of sports, that's because Enoch likes these things, it's a hobby.
Whether it is Zhang Dawei or Melissa, in fact, they have not found that children have talent in some things to learn, they do not expect children to achieve extraordinary achievements in a certain field, etc. They just want their children to have a full and wonderful childhood, without any burden and pressure.
"Dad, Mommy help me find a dance class. The baby leaned on Zhang Dawei's arms and said in a tangled manner, "But there are two classes a week, and each class has an hour." If I go to dance class, I don't have time to play games with Xiaobai and Pooh. ”
Touching the baby's little head, Zhang Dawei said, "We can go to dance classes on weekends, it's only two hours, and it doesn't affect you and Xiaobai to play games together." Dancing is your hobby, and you love dancing, right?"
"Yes, but Mommy told me to do ballet, so I don't like it. The baby sighed, and the little one's little face was almost wrinkled together, "I want to do modern dance, Dad, you know what modern dance is, right?"
Of course, Zhang Dawei knows what modern dance is, and he now knows why the baby is so distressed.
Babies want to dance modernly, a school of dance that is the opposite of classical ballet, and their main aesthetic point of view is to oppose the formalist tendencies of classical ballet, which are conformist, detached from real life and simply pursue technique.
Melissa's tendency to ballet has a history of about 500 years. Although new genres have also developed, ballet in general is a strict system of technique.
Melissa shrugged helplessly, and she was a little angry, "I know she likes modern dance, and I don't think there's anything wrong with modern dance." But at her age, I wish she could learn some classical ballet, which is in line with what she should do at her age. ”
"Modern dance, there are also children who learn it. As soon as he finished speaking, Zhang Dawei regretted it a little, not because Zhang Dawei glared at him or something, but because what Melissa said was the truth, the baby's age is too young, and it is really early to learn modern dance now, even if it is just an interest class.
"She and I are now trying to find a balance and we are both trying to convince each other right now. Melissa looked at the baby and said angrily, "Honey, I think you also need to join the discussion on this topic, we need more suggestions and opinions, so that we can make a final judgment." ”
The baby leaning on Zhang Dawei's arms did not speak, and she was not yet sure whether she wanted to go to a dance class, but the baby still wanted to hear her father's opinion, and she hoped to be inspired by some of his father's views.
Zhang Dawei felt that this matter really needed serious consideration, and he felt that this matter really couldn't be a little sloppy. This matter needs to be considered in the long run, and it needs to be considered as comprehensively and thoughtfully as possible. And this, naturally, also means that decisions cannot be made arbitrarily, and everyone needs to communicate well before thinking.
So now Zhang Dawei is paying attention to Enoch, who is constantly punching and dodging, this little guy is practicing boxing seriously, he is showing his strength, hoping to get some evaluation from his father, hoping to let his father, who is the best boxer, help him analyze why he was knocked down by Pooh.
Zhang Dawei felt very happy and happy, because the two children were around, even if there were many seemingly trivial things. But it's just the little things that make Zhang Dawei feel the reality of life.
Such a plain, but warm, happy, happy!
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