Chapter 115: Dealing with the world, you can't wipe it, you can't forget it
When people reach middle age, they are already old when they fall in love, and they are used to seeing the night and night songs, and they have parted with their youth. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info has walked through the reunion, seen life and death, one step of the storm, one step of vicissitudes. I used to think that life was far away, if I didn't pay attention, people were old, my heart was old, the world of flowers was still the world of flowers, and the sea of people was still the sea of people. I don't want to say it, I feel that people's hearts are complicated, and I want to have the vigor of young people, but the day is not safe, like the twilight of the sunset.
If you don't do it, you feel that people are always ashamed of themselves when they are idle, sometimes think about it, life is still full of fun, you can fall in love, you can break through, and you can indulge in leisure for a few years, that era, I don't understand the times, what a beautiful mind. Sitting in front of people and talking, it always feels boring, maybe really old, a little confused, some people say that they are old, don't be busy, don't affect your health, don't delay your appreciation. It is only in middle age that people understand that the world is like a bureau, many changes, and the estimation of calculations still cannot escape the temper of time.
Two endless, never restless wife, never rest mentality, with the best warmth, pay the best beauty, to the family, to the children. Life into the drama, a resting life, the rhythm without a soul, delays one's future and affects one's destiny. When people reach middle age, they know that the former Mid-Autumn Festival and the former gala are all expected by themselves, and now they are waiting, resting, just listening to a word, warm words, and helping a kind person. I heard that when I was young, I had a break and cherished it, but I lost too many lives, and when I reached middle age, I didn't dare to rest.
Annoying time, locking away every effort of life, keeping the most true love yesterday, leaving the deepest dream today, it seems that tomorrow will have time to meet, but the past life is no longer staged. When I passed by, I knew that the wind and moon were strong, and I smiled, and I knew that Linyuan was envious of the fish, and in a moment, I passed by, and I was divided and combined. When people reach middle age, they always think about the time to annoy people and not get drunk and return, and when they reach middle age, they always think about the annoying waiting edge.
Annoying human affection, sometimes cold, sometimes warm, who wrote hate on the Sansheng stone, who painted love on the parting hook. A few words, it is difficult to warm the people who have parted, step by step is frightening, and they may not return to the previous reunion, perhaps, this is fate, destined, and cherished. Looking back on the past, a place withered, unwilling to endure, people are not bitter, they have to wait. When the heart is cold, when you walk, when you are helpless, when you break through, when your true feelings are revealed, you have been hurt, time has been abandoned, and you have worried.
If you stammer, you will be worried, you will be distant, and every drop of life will be less sincere and content. There are no high or low people, but there are shaking their heads and tails, there is no noble life, but there are perfunctory prayers, smart people do not stutter, do not please, respect themselves, treat conscience well, and be grateful to those who help others. Tie up, make people's minds scattered, unable to recognize the discerning eye, stammer, let the body and mind be greedy, with desire, lose self-confidence, forget their original intention, lose the hope of the beginning, wipe away the sunshine of the future.
If you hurt others, smart people never say it, after all, they will lower their personality and lose their self-cultivation. Hurting others is like hurting yourself, bullying others is like losing yourself, hurting others and losing what you lose is eloquence, what you gain is to make people guarded, and smart people see through it, so they refuse to make such a statement. Bullying others and harming others is like deceiving the sky, misleading people's children, delaying their own pattern, and losing their own style. A smart person has a long-term view so that he does not harm others, and a smart person has the ability to protect himself, so that he does not deceive others and does not disappoint himself.
If you say something high, smart people don't say it, they talk too much, they ask too much, they are afraid that they will refuse to let people hurt themselves, and they are afraid that they will say too much and let more people hurt themselves. Gao Feng's words are a kind of long-term thinking, what he says deeply, others don't understand, he is still blamed, he is shallow, others ask no beginning or end, and he is still complained. If you are at the peak, you can save people from the crisis, but you don't hurt people at hand, and you are smartly weighed up, step by step. Because of the height of the standing, the height is unbearable, because of the far, the talk is too much, the one who has not seen it, and those who have not walked will still laugh.
Poor words, smart people are the first not to say, poor words are crazy words, gossip, nonsense, complaint, poor words, chasing words, waiting words, lying words, hurtful words. Smart people would rather be lonely than approach the crowd, afraid of being jealous of others, would rather be silent than grab lines, afraid of annoying people, would rather smile than complain, afraid of annoying, would rather suffer losses than take advantage, because smart people are worried that hatred will take root in the hearts of others and sprout.
What is kindness, one is silent, two does not understand, and three does not want to. Kindness is easy to be deceived, the poor are easy to be trampled on, can endure, may not gain experience, can be angry, may not be lost. Kindness is a lamp, when it is lit, perfunctory comes, and when it is extinguished, someone begins to divide itself. When people live, they can see through the world and see through everything. Kindness and persistence are a kind of honesty and sincerity, and there will be opportunities for bad people to take advantage of the void, and there will be the taste of being remembered and damaged.
The words of the poor, the words of the peak, the road of the rich, the footsteps of kindness, so it is said that people who are poor cannot be kind, kindness is the way to go, not to be deceived. The kindness of the rich is charity, and the kindness of the poor is resting on their laurels, so for loneliness, wild talk, and lies, pressing on the poor, it is a kind of sadness, which is covered in the eyes of the rich, and it is just a write-off. People are poor, talk more, break more, don't take kindness seriously, suffer losses as soon as possible, otherwise the trouble will be painful, people are rich, say less, and some people praise themselves, after all, the situation has a background.
When people reach middle age, they can talk about kindness, educate kindness, and if they are young, if they are poor, don't always play white face, but also learn to sing black face. The poor are not rich, don't talk about kindness, and the rich are not poor, don't talk about the ups and downs. Smart people, regardless of wealth and poverty, look forward to their own spiritual world, although the reality is very withering, but if you want to sublimate your personality, you have to start from the poor. The rich are too kind to help those who change their help, and if they can't listen to what they should hear, they will also lower their status.
If you are high, let the rich say it, let the poor say it, praise it, don't let the good say it, let the ignorant say it. Poor people, if you do more kindness, you will gain less, and if you are rich, if you are too kind, you will have more troubles, so people can't be too kind, and helping valuable and promising people is kindness, and kindness may not be able to help those in need. People live, don't write kindness off the mark, people wait, don't bend the poor, people watch, don't listen to the rich.
If you are at the peak, you will say it when you are poor, and when you are at the bottom, you will say it when you are rich. Kindness is a wall, but also a river, passable, is a blessing, can not pass, is difficult, maybe people can not step by step, but must have self-confidence, work hard, when you should be stingy, don't delay, when you should be prepared, don't gather. When you are tired, don't tell others that you are poor and bitter, don't always be silent, learn to smile, even if you have no ability, even if you have no money, you have to be arrogant, sunny, and can't be kind.
Kindness is a kind of warmth, life is a bridge, see through, it is fate, and if you see it, it is conscience. People have hearts, every step of the way, people have intentions, and they have both wealth and luck. People can compete for fame and fortune, but they can also warm people's hearts, they are human beings, and they are also upright people. Have a grateful heart, be grateful for time, thank those who help you, and experience the warmest sunshine. What warms life is inspirational, low-key life, careful to speak, pay attention step by step, focus on your own personality, and protect your dignity.
A good mood is really good, quiet and comfortable, satisfied in life, and content. Time makes memories look back on the peak of the year, there is no second rehearsal in life, think more, ask more, count back and forth, people are middle-aged, enjoy and be content. Everything is yours and there are not, and when you can't explain it, maybe there's a chance to turn back and wait for your people. Forget it, wipe it off, sadness only brings a stay, and the five hundred times of looking back can't resist the dawn of waking up.
I'm waiting for you, you're waiting for others, this world, there is a cold heart, there is also a warm feeling, I used to think that loss was very simple, and later, everything was just a formality. Learn to take it on your own, learn to make others happy, you are the person in my heart, I am not your dream, thank you for appreciating. Read a person and see what time he spends correcting himself, look at a person and ask him what books he likes to read. The promised oath is an excuse, what cannot be forgotten is the past, and what cannot be erased is the future.
There is a certain road, you are gone, I am here, this is the rivers and lakes of life. There is such a heart, you came, I was hurt, I cried, you know to take care of me. I put down the bridge of life to accompany you in your last youth, you let go of your best youth and marry me for the rest of your life, this is the best blessing. Hope is a light and the most beautiful dream in life, so that the lonely will smile, and the injured will wait for the sunshine. One day, you miss me, I am your last attention, and for a year, I wait for you, which is my greatest insistence.
The wounded person's heart is the coldest, I am willing to pay, let you know hope, there is a lot of suffering in life, there are many lies, you treat me well, I treat you well, this is the most beautiful sunny day. Ten fingers bow, just for one to meet, one to accompany, only for one destined. Two words of fate, two words of life, you wait for me, I miss you, this is a lifetime, a journey, a life of deep and shallow fate.
People live, a sentence of time, how many landscapes are regretted. If you are tired, say hello, and if you are bitter, say a word and wait for you. People with deep and shallow edges, people with high peaks, let themselves know that they are poor, and people with low peaks let themselves know their circle of friends. There are people at the pinnacle of the world, there is love at the bottom of life, what is lost is destined not to be seen again, what is seen is destined not to be having, life is in the play, in a word, it is a turn, and I will not see you for a lifetime. Quiet and peaceful, gentle and compassionate, you have your other side, I have my world.
Three lives, how far is the three lives, is it a bridge, or the willingness of the next life, three days, how close are three days, is it a cape, or the vicissitudes of the sea. The wind, the loneliness of shuttling through the sea of people, the clouds, the arrogance of wandering and lonely, a period of wandering, a promise, the peace of this life, is the hope of the afterlife. A flower, the flower blooms and falls into this life dream, people are not young, love is broken, humble heart, adhere to the original quiet, warm and guarded city wall. Who is it that makes me dedicate sincerity, and who is it that writes about my deep and shallow fate.
On the first floor of WeChat, I saw the world clearly, and on the second floor of life, I understood the last feelings. It is the heart, the heart, the quiet view of the world, the insight into the fire, only to know that the legend of the moth fighting the fire is a kind of sleep. The heart is three lives, the people are three lives, the three lives ask the three lives, who is in the next life, who is in this life, those who are abandoned, those who are lost, those who come back, those who look down on them, those who can't be familiar with them, just the first floor is young. It's rare to be confused, life is long, people are lonely and self-appreciating, only to know that the years are ruthless, and there is no second reincarnation in life.
Human affection, I can't forget, in this life, I am grateful, it is fate, it is scattered, it is a dream, it is broken, I am content with the willingness of this life. With both hands, the inexhaustible love in this life, the ten fingers bow, and the passing of the next life is also in vain. Tenderness counts, a dream goes back and forth, and the time of this life still lingers in the best scenery. Singing and dancing, music for a living, life is the most beautiful, flowers are full moon, life is impermanent, you are the first familiar, you are the last stranger, and the most intimate warmth.
I'm here, not in your heart, you wait, early into my dream, I am willing to use this life to wait for you to turn back. At two o'clock in the morning, I remembered yesterday, not today's meeting, and the future I missed was not the first time I met. When you look down, you know that the world is surrounded by the sea, and when you look up, you are sober and you are revolving around others. There is a kind of trauma, called scraping bones to cure poison, and there is a kind of tragedy, called life if it is like this, and then it is written off, and the east wind is mighty, washing away the willingness of this life.
Read more books, let yourself learn to think, learn to study the routines of life, be happier, and let yourself know that hope is right in front of you. Walk around more, let yourself see the scenery differently, let go of yesterday, and afford today, in order to support your own tomorrow. Think about it more, what are the details of failure, where is the misunderstanding, where is the support point of life, where is the powerlessness, find experience with your heart, dig your own time with your heart, and you have to squeeze time in life, look at the attitude, and find the pattern.
When people are poor, don't be cold, when people are bitter, don't be sad, and when people are tired, don't fight. No matter how poor you are, you must have backbone, no matter how you lose, you must have endurance, no matter how you fail, you must also have a backbone, no matter how stupid you are, you can't be without your own opinions. When people are poor, don't tell lies, it's easy to make others laugh, people are poor, don't talk big, it's easy to let others gossip, people are poor, don't talk badly, it's easy to affect their own thinking and considerations. Only those who are not afraid of poverty can have success, those who are not afraid of hardship have perseverance, and those who are not afraid of losing have courage and self-confidence.
People are poor, don't be too kind, it's easy to lose a lot, hide what should be hidden, forget what should be forgotten, and wipe what should be wiped. When people are poor, they don't have the courage to let go of yesterday, and they don't have the courage to have the best tomorrow. People are poor, they can distinguish who is good for themselves and who is bad for themselves, people are stupid, they can distinguish who can save themselves and who can harm themselves, people have one failure, they have ten experiences, and if they don't have three points of courage, there will be no seven points of victory. When people are poor, learn to guess people's hearts, and know who is familiar and unfamiliar.
When people are poor, seven points are clear in their hearts, and three points are confused, don't be bent on seeking good, don't be a moth to the fire. The avenue is inactive, self-cultivation is the main, heart cultivation is secondary, first nourish the mind, and then look at the feelings. When people are poor, don't say hard words, it is easy to attract too many rights and wrongs, affect their wings and fly high, let the ups and downs, experience wind and rain, and learn to recall every footstep.
People are poor and have three classes, one class, know hard work, know struggle, know to forget hatred, although no one else has, but do not forget to pay, learn, change, exercise. The poor of the second class take what they see to hurt others, they don't know how to save their eloquence, they can't distinguish between nobility and right and wrong, they can't see through the warmth and coldness and self-knowledge, they are the first to come out when they hurt others, they can't open roads when they encounter mountains, and they can't build bridges when they encounter water. The poor people of the third class are kind and sincere, don't say much, don't do much, see openly, think openly, don't say if they don't understand, and don't ask if they know it's useless.
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