487 Education (Page 1/1)

Zhang Dawei looked at his baby daughter and couldn't help laughing; this quirky little girl seems to be really determined and persevering, even if this child often fishes for three days and dries nets for two days, this little girl really doesn't have much enthusiasm for learning. But this kind of 'learning' refers more to natural sciences, mathematics or literature.

For the baby, the child actually prefers to learn what she is interested in, for example, she has been learning to dance, she is more enthusiastic about this, and she has always had a good attitude and is very hard-working.

And now this little girl is always working hard to learn to blow the whistle. Even though it didn't seem to have much progress or progress, it didn't affect the baby's self-confidence at all, nor did it dampen her enthusiasm. This little guy still hasn't given up, and she's looking forward to being able to blow a loud whistle so that Mulan, Overlord and Goldwing can hear it and come to play with her immediately.

The baby's enthusiasm for learning is very high, and this little girl is still working very hard. Of course, it can also be seen that the baby is leading by example, and the baby is now setting an example to Enoch, so that this playful bear child can learn to study hard.

Enoch really needs to study hard, and this bear kid now seems not only to be playful, but also to have no memory at all.

The little guy is young, and that's a good reason. It's just that in Zhang Dawei's opinion, it's okay to spoil children, but this is not an absolute reason for children to grow up, and it is not an excuse for the little guy to shirk.

Enoch did it again, and in the process of playing with Pooh, the little guy was probably too excited to start. So in such a situation, Zhang Dawei and Melissa naturally couldn't stand it.

The two of them are indeed very fond of the children, but the two of them are still very persistent in some principled things.

So the little guy is now obediently standing in the corner, of course, this child is also dishonest now, maybe he hasn't realized that he is being punished now. But the boy had to play on his own, and there was no one to play with him.

Many parents feel that their children are simply naughty, that their children are kind, just a little bear, and they can find a lot of excuses and reasons to think that their children must be fine. But in fact, if you always shirk the mistakes made by the child so lightly, it will definitely not be good for the child's growth.

Zhang Dawei knows this, and Melissa also knows this very well, so whether it is the baby or Enoch, whether the baby is smart and sensible, it can be more worry-free, or the bear child or is ignorant now.

It's just that this is not a reason, the little ones make mistakes, so naturally we must educate them slowly, let them slowly know how to correct their mistakes, and let these little ones know what it means not to take good and small, and not to do evil and do it.

"Daddy, Enoch is pitiful. The baby was in Zhang Dawei's arms and was interceding for Enoch, "I know he won't mean it, he likes Pooh very much, and he won't hurt Pooh on purpose." ”

Pinching the baby's little face, Zhang Dawei patiently explained, "Of course I know he won't hurt Pooh on purpose, but he shouldn't want to catch Pooh's eyes." Baby, Pooh loved Enoch very much, and Enoch loved Pooh too, and we all know that. But we can't just let it happen as if it didn't happen, and we can't make Enoch think it's a game. ”

"But Pooh isn't angry!" said the baby as he pouted as Enoch sat in the corner, "I'll have a good chat with Enoch, though he always doesn't listen to me and makes me angry." ”

Melissa was of course very happy to see that the baby would protect Enoch, but Melissa and Zhang Dawei agreed that the two really didn't think that the baby should protect everything. Enoch did make mistakes, so he should recognize these mistakes, and not easily expose them because the baby interceded, or Pooh was not angry.

"Sweetheart, Enoch was mischievous, and we know that he loves Vinnie. But we can't make him think that he can easily hurt others, we need to make him realize that he must pay attention to his actions while playing. He has a lot of strength, and if he plays with other children, he may hurt other children. ”

The baby has an idea again, and the baby said confidently, "Then I will take him to kindergarten, and he will like to be good friends with my friends." Vivien would also like Enoch, and Miles could take him along to play games. Enoch is so cute, he will be loved by all the children!"

For the baby has such a saying, Zhang Dawei and Melissa glanced at each other, and they didn't feel any surprise.

The reason, of course, is because Zhang Dawei and Melissa have long known, even if the baby will sometimes show some of the 'dislike' of Enoch, but such things can only be shown by the baby.

Your baby can dislike Enoch, but if someone else shows dislike for Enoch, your baby will be angry.

This can be regarded as Zhang Dawei and Melissa's style, of course, they are no strangers to such things as being criticized by their own families. However, this kind of criticism is basically just criticism from one's own family, and if it is an outsider's irresponsible remarks, then it will not work.

"Sweetheart, we don't think Enoch's strength is the problem, we think he doesn't know if this will hurt the others. Melissa is very patient, you have to be patient in teaching children such things, "Sweetheart, you see this bad boy acting, he only likes games and doesn't care about other people's feelings, that's not good." ”

This time the baby stopped talking, and it was obvious that the little guy was now a little shaken, and his position changed slightly.

As the protagonist of the event, as the center of the conversation, Enoch clearly did not have this awareness. The kid continues to sit happily in the corner, clutching a small plastic dinosaur and smashing it around, and he is now in a very happy state, happily playing his game. The so-called punishment seemed to have no effect on him at all.

It doesn't matter if you don't recognize the mistake for the time being, after all, this is just a small baby, and there is not so much clear understanding. However, it can let him grow up slowly, let him know more and more truths in the process of growing up, and let him know that there are some things that cannot be done.

Zhang Dawei and Melissa, in fact, are still relatively strict parents, and they still hope that Enoch can develop good morals.

Study, career, etc., that is not the most important thing in Zhang Dawei and Melissa's eyes, as long as the baby and Enoch are kind and happy, this is enough.

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