47: The sky is wide and there are many people
There is no shortage of blind people in China, how many people can be blocked by time, blocked by fate, in the unconscious time, cut off their own thinking, refuse, block too much thinking for water, block too much experience expression, every time we see the eyes, angles, direct points, some people just can't express, some people can't use their own turns to move others, some people can't use their own reasons to tell another beginning, every gap in the shortcomings can become a reason not to see next time, China is China, blind is blind. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info
Less family education will lead to children's closed thinking, less friends, will lead to their own ability to improve, less application change, will not be able to convey their own pattern, is because will not contact, will lead to failure, each of us will not be able to choose, can not judge, not because there is no gain, but hidden in the eyes can not be taken out, lazy to the heart can not speak, thinking blockage will affect their future, language can not linger, wisdom can not communicate, will directly cut off the life of the entry and rejection.
The dead person on the other side will never talk to you, which is equivalent to his lack of wisdom expression when he is alive, no chopsticks to grasp with his hands when eating, and no ability to refuse when waiting, the person we identify, or the thing we identify, many people refuse only one way, either with someone else's copy, or with their own worries, sometimes when they hear a news, they will veto a lot, all of them are summarized as many people who see shortcomings, advantages cannot outweigh disadvantages, the frequency of thinking will be contagious, and the appropriate hook will appear.
One person's way refuses, one person's way harvests, two people's will not be infected, the way of parting is very simple, the language of the conversation is not appropriate, sometimes we know that many people live for the sake of their children growing up to be immoral and incompetent, many people in order to raise a trouble, there must be many people who raise a person who can't speak, can't express, won't be too much, and in this society, there are few people who know how to live, and there are few masters who know how to use knowledge, which is equivalent to confused eyes and no extraordinary calculation mood.
Only eyes, people who can't act are blind, only eloquence, people who deceive friends are deaf, only actions, people who can't communicate are mute, on the other hand, there is only one special, equivalent to an individual is not an individual team, they are not their own life, or indulgent by other people's thinking control, in fact, every topic we discuss, or every angle of choice, if there is only one way to refuse, life is omitted, will let their life road not see the light, do not know the excitement of the night.
Rural thinking is popular, gathering four points, one, drinking and bragging, going to wait and not asking, driving children to work hard, not asking why they can't pass on experience, saying their worries, but can't say how to get into high-end thinking, two, like to show off, like to put on music, don't know the heart is high and low, don't know that the wind and snow are fast, miss more time, miss more opportunities, three, feel that you are not satisfied, you will say it, feel that you are at a loss and complain, resentful words, behind your back, jealous things, strong words, disgusted friends, strong criticism, fourth, look down on people who are stronger than yourself, avoid the poor, refuse to paint and communicate around everyone, some who see can't tell their experience, and some who know, can't influence the people around them.
A good daughter-in-law is not bought with money, a good friend is not a glass of wine can be a foregone conclusion, the beginning of a good story may not be satisfactory, you know, you don't see it thoroughly enough, what you lose is not only the experience accumulated over the years of survival, but also the hard work of parental education, for a person who will only accept, will not know the value of paying, for a person who will only ask, will not know how to respect and noble special, too many hooks are due to the fact that you will not use other people's thinking to change, and you will not use your own knowledge to enhance your cultivation.
No money is the biggest disadvantage, it will be because of a word, or because of people's offense, you can attract a lot, a lot of nonsense, not willing to spend money, but also attract other people's complaints, other people's ignorance, on the same front, if you don't have money, sometimes friends are afraid of you, relatives are worried about you, for this society, there are many people who need money, but there are very few people who will make money, in this society of the jungle, some people learn to give up their dignity, and some people learn to give up the education of their children.
In this era of social turmoil, there are still more employees who can not get satisfactory wages, not less wages, not less overtime, but can fish in troubled waters in a factory, in fact, there are very many, in an instant, some people can exploit loopholes, we can deny a lot, I have to admit that some people's excellence is to find out the weaknesses of others, and some people are spending interpersonal relationships.
Our appearance sometimes becomes the goblin of other people's lives, our birth does not seem to be worthy of the newborn Tang Seng, our youth may not be worthy of the ugliness of Zhu Bajie, maybe our expression does not have Sha Wujing's composure and calmness, let alone learn the ability like Sun Wukong, only to create a story, maybe the fate of many people is like Yan Ruyu in the Dream of Red Mansions, we have achieved the Taoyuan righteousness like the Three Kingdoms, but it is difficult for a lifetime, it is difficult to pay for righteousness like the Water Margin, after all, we do not have the temperature of tea in eloquence, and there is no cold refusal in action。
When you close your eyes and fall asleep, everyone is blind, open your eyes to avoid the crowd and sound reading all over the world, you are like a deaf person, you don't open your mouth for a long time, or you are still worried about saying the wrong thing, or you don't dare to admit that you have done wrong, and you will be made dumb by others, in this turbulent world, when you have to be blind, I will be deaf, you never know when I will become mute, so, don't believe, don't worry, you must know how to change the speed of the update, change the angle.
You treat others as blind, others may ignore you long ago, you treat others as poor, but can you fight like a poor man, can you squander like a rich man? You can't do it, and I can't do it, because when we live a luxurious life, someone has already divided us into boundaries, and experiments have proved that the poor can use their own struggle to get others forever, and the rich can use their family's efforts in exchange for what they want, and those, snobbish, irresponsible gossip, people who make up right and wrong, who dare not say what they dare not do, and who dare not think about it, may only gossip all their lives, will not work hard, will only be picky, and do not understand warmth.
The last way to reject others is to let others refuse, complaining that they are not as good as the breadth and reading of life, and whether time gives them a better way to survive or live, and choose for themselves. The way to treat others well is to refuse or to express oneself, maybe because of gaps, disagreements, interpersonal differences, and communication disagreements, they will go further and further. Don't think that your requirements are not high, after all, there are few people who are willing to talk to you, and there are few people who do what you ask, and you must know how to change your views and adapt to the social environment.
Now the sentence shouted, "Hello teacher", makes it impossible for the classmates who accompany him to stand together. Every dawn that I flip through now, I may not find the textbook that went to school again, and I may not find the homework that the teacher gave me yesterday. The current father is very hard-working, and the child may not know how to treat others well, a present, the future of two people, the father cannot give the child a future, and the child may not be honored for the father. The world is a comic word, you fall into that pit, that pit will be responsible for you for a lifetime, you walk into that person, you may not have to pay too much for that person, too much.
You don't go out, but you have to count the serial people outside, the serial events, you don't go home, you have to understand the time of your parents' sweat, the place of tears, you don't study, you have to know that when others need it, your avoidance is to keep others away from you, you are you, and not you, live for yourself, and you are acting for others, maybe your pay is very low, but the depth of your life is very high, those who see through will learn your skills, and those who can't see through will damage your name, you live for others, and others live to remind you.
If you have an advantage, you can choose, you have a disadvantage, you can only be chosen, giving up and gaining are not proportional, taking and gaining are relative. There is a difference between whether we can live better with money or make everyone happy because they don't have money. If you say a repetitive routine to someone who thinks fast enough, it will become a failure. If you want to win a place in language, you must have enough thinking speed, enough calculation methods, calculate what you can calculate, ask what you can ask, in order to achieve better results when speaking.
Connections will allow you to prepare money, background, wealth, time, life, and export chapters, and without one, the gaps in connections may be broken at any time. What money gives you, what you can't give to your family, or what you pay can't be exchanged for the suffering of your parents, for us, sometimes pursuit, greed, and desire will become the door to prevent us from improving our own value. It is easy to fail without preparation, communication without words is easy to annoy, and the habit of not having routines will make more people gossip, just because there is none, it cannot be obtained.
The sky is high, and there are many times when the words are not wide, when the thinking is not wide, when the expression is high, when the strategy is high, and when the rejection speed is fast. The land is wide, so that children have less time to hone their minds, less time to exercise their thinking and reading, less time to grow and cultivate, less time to make judgments, less time for communication to establish direction, and less time for life to change perspectives. There are many people, and if the planning is uneven, it will collapse, the family will not match, and it will be easy to cause gossip if there is a linkage, and the combination will not match, because of money, because of ideas, because of the way of looking at people, because of the way of expression, it will go further and further.
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