559 Some worries
Zhang Dawei is in a good mood because his baby daughter is very smart and caring, and because his baby son is very cute and lively. This is the happiness that belongs to Zhang Dawei, and this is Zhang Dawei's hope.
What's more, Zhang Dawei has a beautiful and gentle wife, and the children will grow up one day. Zhang Dawei knows very well that if nothing else, Melissa will be the one who accompanies him to the end, this is the reality.
"Honey, I need to get some more exercise and exercise, I don't want to look like a middle-aged woman with a fortune. Melissa is worried, it is natural for women to love beauty, "I feel the fat in my lower abdomen, I feel that I am now in a midlife crisis, my body is starting to lose shape, this is a real disaster!"
Zhang Dawei was stunned for a moment, and then couldn't cry or laugh, "Are you sure you're not joking?
Melissa is so realistic, she is so worried, she pinched her lower abdomen, more and more she felt that her subcutaneous fat was a little thick, she was very worried about her body out of shape, worried that she was starting to gain weight......
"I feel like I need to pay more attention to my balanced nutrition, I feel like I need to work out more, I need to go to the gym more. Melissa continued to be worried, and she looked very serious, "Honey, maybe you can give me some good advice. You're not a hard worker, but you've got a lot of accomplishments and you know some common sense. ”
Zhang Dawei turned over, looked at Melissa and said, "I don't think you need to worry about this at all, you're not fat at all, you have a good figure." I can guarantee that if you go shopping now, there will definitely be a lot of people looking at you. If you don't have kids with you, there will be some men who will want to get your phone number!"
Melissa still doesn't trust Zhang Dawei, and her current mentality is actually very understandable.
In fact, this is a bit of a 'persecution paranoia', Melissa thinks that her current figure is a little out of shape, and she thinks that she is now getting rich. She felt fat in her lower abdomen, and felt that her fitness was starting to deteriorate a little......
All of this looks like what Melissa thinks is a 'midlife crisis', and she seems to have more and more evidence. So there was nothing to say at all, anyway, Melissa convinced herself that it was even more and more convinced that it was true.
Of course, Zhang Dawei has nothing to say, but he also knows that Melissa's thoughts are even relatively normal.
In the final analysis, it is because many people are a little stubborn, and the human psychology is also very subtle and mysterious, and there is no way to understand it at all. Especially when some people think that they understand the truth, the facts, it is even more difficult to convince them.
Melissa is like this now, she just thinks she's out of shape now, so she's constantly looking for some evidence, and she's constantly looking for some evidence to support her in recognizing reality. Of course, it can also be said to be evidence that she scared herself, and even some evidence that makes people laugh and cry in Zhang Dawei's opinion.
Melissa thought she had crow's feet, so she felt that her skin was no longer firm and began to sag. Melissa thinks that the proof of the deterioration of her skin seems to be due to the presence of some spots on her body......
Zhang Dawei really didn't know what to say, he felt that Melissa was worrying about nothing, but Zhang Dawei also knew very well that some things could not be avoided, and some things might just be a little unacceptable.
Speaking of which, it is true that Caucasians are sometimes more susceptible to 'aging', and this is also a reality. In addition to makeup or PS, race or some cultural customs are also some important influencing factors.
For example, Melissa thinks that there are spots on her body, which is actually because Melissa loves sunbathing.
Europe and the United States really like sunbathing, regardless of men and women, full of yearning and anticipation for the beach. When you're in the sun, it's basically a little less to wear, so wear a little less. And Orientals, Asians, even on the beach, want to wear a face kini, showing only their eyes and mouth......
The more you love the sun, the more damage your skin will be, and the more you will age. What's more, the genetic problems of the human race are also obvious, relatively speaking, some skin of Westerners is more difficult to secrete relevant hormones to repair the damage of the years, which will lead to more fragile skin in the long run, and it is more difficult to resist wrinkles, sagging and other aging problems.
Zhang Dawei knows such a reality, and he also feels that many things are such a reality.
For example, some people in Europe and the United States, fifteen or sixteen, seem to be very mature. Naturally, there are also popular cultures in Europe and the United States that seem to be more mature, but I have to admit that these people are mature and developed relatively early.
And fifteen or sixteen, many Asian talents have just developed for a long time, and it is normal for half-grown children to look like children.
Zhang Dawei thinks that Melissa's biggest problem now is not that she is starting to look old, Zhang Dawei thinks that Melissa's biggest problem now is actually psychological problems, which is the biggest problem that Zhang Dawei thinks.
In the final analysis, Melissa has long been accustomed to her identity and role, which also affects Melissa's mentality to some extent.
For example, just graduated from college, Melissa immediately entered the role of a housewife, and the love between her and Zhang Dawei is even a little different from the normal relationship trend of most people, because they have children, and then understand each other and fall in love under the premise of having children, and this is how they started to fall in love and get married as a matter of course.
Melissa has long been accustomed to this, accustomed to having a cute and intelligent daughter, and while other classmates are still worried about work and busy with love, Melissa is used to taking her children to play games and teach her daughter to play the piano.
To really say that such a life does not have the slightest impact on Melissa is the most unrealistic thing, that is the most unreasonable. In the final analysis, Melissa had children early and started married life early, so all this naturally made her psychology a little different from some of her peers.
At least Melissa still has a lot of classmates and friends, and she doesn't even have a partner at this time, let alone get married and have children. Even if she has a family, she will not have two children like her, and even one of them has long been dominating in kindergarten.
Zhang Dawei knows all this very well, and Zhang Dawei doesn't plan to say anything, because this is life, this is experience.
What's more, why is Zhang Dawei not like this, compared to his peers, Zhang Dawei can be regarded as a relatively old mentality, which can be regarded as a sign that Zhang Dawei is more mature. At least in terms of family, Zhang Dawei is a more mature type than his peers.
Therefore, Zhang Dawei is also relatively 'old', and he does not seem to be as energetic as some of his peers. Zhang Dawei's more energy and time is actually in his family, and what he cares about and cares about is actually his family.
Although Zhang Dawei felt that Melissa was thinking too much now, he didn't take it too seriously. At the end of the day, it's harmless, and everyone has their own thoughts and thoughts. Melissa is thinking a lot now, in fact, because she cares about some things, so she seems to be so sensitive.
Don't talk about Melissa, even if it is Zhang Dawei, sometimes there will be some thoughts that make Melissa feel crying and laughing. The most obvious thing is that Zhang Dawei is always worried about the future of his children and has always been worried.
For example, Zhang Dawei is always worried about the baby's growth, and always hopes that the baby should grow up more slowly, and even gives Melissa the feeling that Zhang Dawei doesn't seem to want the baby to grow up at all. In this way, maybe Zhang Dawei can always be by his baby daughter's side, so that no one will snatch his baby daughter.
Such things and such worries are indeed Zhang Dawei's thoughts, and this is also real.
This is one aspect of Melissa that can't laugh or cry, of course, she also understands Zhang Dawei's thoughts, and Melissa also knows very well that many 'old fathers' have this mentality. They are proud to have a smart, cute baby daughter, but they are also extremely worried that one day such a cute little sweetheart will leave them.
Zhang Dawei's worries are not only about the baby, but also about Zhang Dawei's lively and active little Enoch.
Zhang Dawei was really worried about Enoch, because Enoch was very active and had outstanding athletic talent. Therefore, Zhang Dawei will worry that Enoch will be coaxed by some people, Zhang Dawei will worry that Enoch will make some bad friends, and worry that Enoch will learn badly......
All this is naturally some of Zhang Dawei's worries, and all this is Zhang Dawei's always worried. Maybe she thinks that Zhang Dawei is really thinking too much, but she also understands that this is Zhang Dawei's concern for the children, and this is Zhang Dawei's love for the children.
Zhang Dawei fell asleep, Melissa was still tossing and turning, she really couldn't sleep now, she was very worried.
Time seems to be the fairest, one minute and sixty seconds for all, but time is also cruel, some people can enjoy the beauty of 90 years, and some people may only get the gift of 30 years. Some people look like they are twenty years old even if they are forty years old, while others are only twenty years old, but time has carved forty years of vicissitudes on their faces......
Zhang Dawei can ignore some of Melissa's worries now, he is now enjoying his beauty with peace of mind. What's more, Zhang Dawei also knows very well that Melissa is now looking like 'menopause' is coming early. But Zhang Dawei knew very well that maybe it was just a wake-up sleep, and Melissa had long forgotten such a thing.
This is normal, Zhang Dawei feels that all this is normal, and such worries are only temporary in Zhang Dawei's opinion.
Zhang Dawei, who was humming a song, got up slowly, pushed open the door of the baby's bedroom, and saw the baby get up together. The little girl was obediently wearing socks on herself, and when she saw her father, the baby was very well-behaved and very intimately laughed, and gave a flying kiss.
Zhang Dawei was in a good mood, feeling that this was his precious daughter, and he felt that this was God's greatest gift to him.
When Enoch's door was opened, he couldn't laugh or cry, and Enoch woke up, but the bear boy was now bored with his feet raised high, as if looking at his fat little short legs.
It was impossible to wear socks by himself, and dressing himself was even more incapable of Enoch, so Enoch was waiting now, whether it was his father or his mother, Enoch didn't care, he wouldn't wear his own clothes anyway.
Zhang Dawei is naturally accustomed to these, and he naturally feels that this matter must be his responsibility and should be deserved.
"Enoch, do you love your father?" Helping little Enoch get dressed, Zhang Dawei also confirmed again, "I love you very much?"
With his little feet crossed, Enoch said seemingly perfunctorily, "Daddy, I love you!"
Although he felt that Enoch's tone was a little perfunctory, Zhang Dawei was not the slightest unhappy, and even felt very happy. Because Zhang Dawei knows very well, he knows that his baby son will definitely not lie, he knows that this is Enoch's heart, which is naturally Zhang Dawei's pride, and Zhang Dawei will of course be very happy and happy.
Subtle, this is definitely not necessary, Zhang Dawei will definitely not be subtle in front of the children.
Zhang Dawei always clearly expresses his love and feelings to the children again and again. And the children, naturally, also understand a lot of things, even if sometimes the children can not express their feelings well, but Zhang Dawei can be sure, that is, in the minds of the children, his status is very special.
This is Zhang Dawei's pride, this is Zhang Dawei's happiness, and it is also the good time Zhang Dawei enjoys.
Walking out of the room with Enoch in his arms, Xiaobai and Pooh had already gotten up, and these little guys didn't need to worry about Zhang Dawei at all. They were already running into the living room to play, and they didn't need to wait for them to get up, they weren't as small as Enoch, and they didn't need to be washed like Enoch.
So the little whites are just playing happily now, this is their good morning time, playing happily. This is the character and life of Xiaobai, which can also be said to be almost Xiaobai's daily life.
"Enoch, brush your teeth yourself, you have to learn to brush your teeth!" The baby's angry voice came from the bathroom, and the baby entered the state of a good sister again, "If you don't brush your teeth, your teeth will be eaten by insects tomorrow!"
What Enoch's reaction was, Zhang Dawei hasn't noticed yet. Because Zhang Dawei noticed, Melissa now looks serious, just look at the breakfast she prepared!(https:)
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