Chapter 1085 A talented woman has many ups and downs, and her face is thin and thin
Seeing Jiang Chen ask, Lin Xiaonan smiled and nodded, "I have studied in Laomei for a few years. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info"
And Zhu Lao next to him smiled at Jiang Chen and said: "Xiao Jiang, don't be deceived by this little girl's appearance, this little girl has obtained a double master's degree in computer technology and microelectronics technology from Lao Meima * University of Technology." After returning to China, she studied for a doctorate under Lao Ma, and now she has completed her doctorate, in everyone's words, this little girl is now a postdoctorate. ”
Oh, Jiang Chen's eyes lit up after hearing this: "It turns out that Sister Lin is deeply hidden, I didn't expect to achieve such a great achievement at such a young age, it's really amazing." ”
"Hehe, Mr. Jiang smiled. Lin Xiaonan said with a smile: "Compared with Mr. Jiang who founded such a big enterprise at such a young age, my achievements are not worth mentioning at all." ”
"Haha, you're too modest. Jiang Chen asked with a smile: "Then according to your grades, you can stay in Laomei to continue your studies, or stay in Laomei, why did you come back again?" You know, many people are trying their best to go abroad, saying that the moon abroad is rounder than at home. ”
Lin Xiaonan smiled and shook his head: "No matter how good it is abroad, it is not home after all." I didn't feel like I belonged there, so I came back. And you know, although the relationship between our two countries is good now, in terms of core areas, Lao Mei is still very wary and repulsive of us international students, especially our international students. There are a lot of things, a lot of opportunities or research, people can enter freely, but we can't unless we change our nationality. Many of my classmates and friends persevered for a long time, but eventually chose to stay, but I didn't want to, so I went back to China. Of course, there are also some personal issues, which are complicated anyway, and I can't explain them for a while. ”
Seeing that Lin Xiaonan's face was a little ugly, he was reluctant to say anything further, and Jiang Chen was also interested in not asking anymore. Afterwards, Jiang Chen learned that Lin Xiaonan was also born in a cadre family, so he had the conditions to go out to study. Of course, most families in our country have such a concept, that is, girls should get married as soon as possible, preferably before twenty-five, and after twenty-five, they will be old girls, and basically the family is crazy. Of course, Lin Xiaonan's family is not satisfied with this Lin Xiaonan, who has gone to college for four years and went to study, naturally has a headache. In addition to urging her to go abroad, it is to smoke her life events. Originally, Lin Xiaonan had a boyfriend in Laomei, who was also Chinese, but he was just an ABC, and there were still cultural differences between the two sides, so they didn't come together in the end. Lin Xiaonan, who was out of love, graduated with a master's degree, so she did not agree to her supervisor's invitation to continue her doctoral studies, but chose to return to China.
After returning to China, Lin Xiaonan was not satisfied with her current situation, and wanted to further research on computers. So she refused the relevant job assignment, but was admitted to Ma Lao's doctoral student and conducted research in the field of computer science with Ma Lao. However, the conditions in China during this period are well known, and there is simply no sufficient research funding. Even in the end, there was basically no guarantee, and their related research was in trouble for a while.
It was also at this time, after the introduction of her family, that she fell in love with a young man who was also a cadre family, and gradually established a relationship. And then, the two also got married under the management of both families, and the life after marriage was not bad, and soon she had a child, a lovely little daughter. Just when she thought that she was like this in her life, fate played a joke on her again. Her husband, relying on her father-in-law's relationship, began to resell related goods, saying that he was doing business, but in fact he was using her father-in-law's relationship to make a profit. And because of the relationship between going to the sea to 'do business' or foolishness, her husband's temperament changed, and he began to live a life of greed and drunkenness. and soon had an affair, which also made their relationship between husband and wife take a sharp turn for the worse, even to the verge of breaking.
Subsequently, the state has strengthened its supervision of business and severely cracked down on "speculation" and "official reversal". As a result, a large number of relevant personnel were severely punished, including her husband and her father-in-law. Because the amount involved is relatively large, the nature is relatively bad, the impact is relatively bad, and the crackdown is severe, this result can be imagined. Because of this incident, her father-in-law can be said to be in it for retirement, and his husband has other things besides this matter. At this time, whether he did it or not, they all pushed it on his head anyway, so he ate the 'gun'.
And in this way, this marriage naturally cannot be carried out. As a woman in the new era who returned from studying abroad, she decisively applied to the court for divorce and drew a line with it. In this regard, her husband's family is naturally reluctant, because in our traditional thinking, when a man dies, a woman must be widowed, and even if she wants to remarry, she must obtain the consent of the man's family. What's more, she has to fight for the man's only remaining blood and blood, her daughter. So the two sides went to court on this aspect, and for the law, it doesn't matter what tradition is not traditional. In accordance with the principle of freedom of marriage, both parties are free to marry, and in the case of the man, the woman naturally has the right to dissolve the marriage that no longer exists. As for the custody of daughters, the law also explains very clearly, that is, in line with the principle of healthy physical and mental growth of children, the custody of divorced children between men and women should first consider the woman. In the case of the man, it is naturally awarded to the woman, and the man's family naturally has no right to fight for custody.
After the divorce, she lived alone with her children. It was also because of this incident that her relationship with her father was not good. Our people pay attention to human feelings, and our country has long been a human society. So her father thinks that she has done a little ruthless in this matter, even if she wants to leave, she will have to wait for a while, and she can't bring it up soon after the man's death, this is not adding fuel to the fire. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is the difference in concepts between the two sides. Therefore, she not only moved out of the man's house, but also moved out of her parents' house, but took her daughter to live in the research institute by herself.
It was also at this time that they got the news that Jiang Chen was going to develop a mainframe computer, which made them all very excited. In particular, Jiang Chen's promise to guarantee the research and development funds gave hope to those who had been troubled by funds for a long time. When she saw her teacher happily returning and preparing to quit her job here, she invited her to work in Nanshan. She is actually a little hesitant, on the one hand, because her home is here, although she has a little awkward trouble with her father, but family affection is family affection after all. And more importantly, her youngest daughter, she has to think about her youngest daughter's education. I don't know what Nanshan is like, in case I go, if the educational resources can't keep up, this won't delay my daughter's growth. At this time, the relevant contacts of Jiang Chen's company played an important role, and after learning about the situation, the relevant staff decisively asked her to go to Nanshan District to inspect before making a decision.
So, after a careful investigation, she was surprised by all the things here in Nanshan, but she was also completely relieved, and soon took her daughter to Nanshan. And Jiang Chen did not treat her badly, considering her actual situation, they not only allocated her a house of more than 100 square meters according to the standard of outstanding technical talents, but also arranged for her daughter to enter the kindergarten. She had been to that kindergarten, and she had nothing to say about the teachers or the infrastructure. What's more, the kindergarten is only open to the children of their employees, and all the expenses are borne by the company. Children can not only learn knowledge here, but also grow up healthy and happy. And the children's three meals a day are in charge of the kindergarten, not only can they eat and drink well, but also have a professional nutritionist to make a reasonable match, so she doesn't have to worry about it at all. This allowed her to completely solve her worries, so that she could devote herself to the scientific research work she loved.