Li Guilan told Jiang Mei that less than a month after her divorce from Zhang Xiaojun, Zhang Xiaojun got involved with Yu Xiaoqiong's "widow" in the big market, and with the help of Yu Xiaoqiong's stall in the big market, he returned to his old business and resold horizontal ducks.

At present, the business of the two is okay, they were hot-headed at the beginning, and the tens of thousands of yuan borrowed from the east and west to open a rice noodle shop have been repaid in recent years, and the family's living standard has almost returned to the way it was four years ago. Just last year, the Jialing 70 at the head of the house was replaced by 125, and the manpower tricycle was also replaced by a volcanic wheel with oil.

Moreover, the two seem to be planning to have a second child. When they were invited to a reunion dinner for the Chinese New Year last year, Zhang Xiaojun's mother, Xie Decui, was still knocking on the side in front of her, the women's captain, to inquire about the news, and asked if they would be fined if they had a second child in the case of their house.

"What, Zhang Xiaojun and Yu Xiaoqiong want to ...... Do they ......want to have a second child? Didn't they both have children? already had two dolls, and ...... Do you want to be born?" Jiang Mei was startled, and instinctively began to worry about Zhang Ke.

"That's what I persuaded at the time? There are two dolls in the house, and you still want to give birth? Do you want to be a superborn guerrilla? But I don't think my persuasion will be useful. How can I say it? Whether it is Zhang Ke or Yu Xiaoqiong, the doll brought over by Yu Xiaoqiong is not biological to the other party, there is a kind of diaphragm, no matter how good it is, it cannot be as good as its own child. And when the two got married, the dolls on both sides were several years old, and they lacked common life experience.

"In the past few years, it has not been once or twice that the two have fought over each other's dolls. If the two have a second child and have a common crystallization, it is estimated that they will think that this kind of family dispute that worries about the other party's favoritism will be much less.

"But this kind of thing, who can say clearly? Maybe if there is another one, both of them will have to love their children, and the current two dolls may be even more evil. Li Guilan sighed and said that when she mentioned Xie Decui and Zhang Xiaojun's family, she also had a headache.

The worry on Jiang Mei's face was even worse, and the life experiences related to her son that she had buried or forgotten intentionally or unintentionally suddenly resurfaced in her mind. She took Li Guilan's hand, almost instinctively, and said without thinking:

"Li Xian, since Zhang Xiaojun and Yu Xiaoqiong still want to have a second child, and since Yu Xiaoqiong can't treat Zhang Ke as her own biological child, I ...... I want to talk to Zhang Xiaojun and Yu Xiaoqiong, so that ...... Let them give me custody of Zhang Ke, you ...... Do you think it's done?"

"Do you want to get back Zhang Ke's custody?" Li Guilan was taken aback, her face changed suddenly, and she immediately said unceremoniously, "Meimei, I think you care about it, even if Zhang Xiaojun and Xie Decui are willing to let go, for the sake of your own family harmony and your happiness in the rest of your life, you can't pick up Zhang Ke!"

"Let's put it this way, if you take Zhang Ke over, what will your man think? Do you want to have another person in the future? If you have another child, how will the man treat Zhang Ke and his own child? Relatives are different, if you see your man treating Zhang Ke differently and looking at him differently, will you be sad and sad? Will the two of you have conflicts over this kind of thing in the future? Or even fight like Zhang Xiaojun and Yu Xiaoqiong?

"So, what is it to ask for custody of Zhang Ke, think about it, just say it in front of me, don't be stupid and really do it.

"Since you are living happily now, then cherish it, maintain it well, don't think about it, you have nothing to do! As the captain of the women's team, you Li Xian have seen too much of this kind of family that makes the stepfather and stepmother restless because of their own health. ”

Jiang Mei was stunned, and Li Guilan's words were like an enlightenment, which suddenly woke her up from her anxiety about Zhang Ke.

Yes, even if Zhang Xiaojun and Xie Decui are willing to give up their precious son and grandson, who are like life, will she be able to take Zhang Ke over and raise him as she wishes? In that case, what should Wang Bo do? He is only 21 years old this year? He is a big child himself, should he be a father now?

And it's also a stepfather?

Jiang Mei only felt a chill!

At the same time, she also thought of Wang Bo's father Wang Jichang, when mentioning Xie Decui and Zhang Xiaojun's mother and son, they all gritted their teeth, scolded, scolded each other for being ungrateful, not human, not as good as pigs and dogs, and between words, there were many derogatory reprimands for her son Zhang Ke, saying that that the kid would be a copy of Xie Decui and Zhang Xiaojun in the future!

Her son Zhang Ke is indeed a little bit unreasonable, too spoiled by Xie Decui, so that since he was a child, he has developed a lazy, perverse, nostrils to the sky, squinting at people, and crying, making trouble and hanging himself at every turn! Jiang Mei felt that the child was too doting, and he was angry and often hit Zhang Ke's fart, Zhang Ke ran to Xie Decui and his old man to complain every time, every time, the two mothers would count her down with a black mouth and black face, saying that she couldn't educate her children like this, how could such a young child beat? Xie Decui also pointed out Sang scolding Huai's sarcasm and said that some people are used to being taught by their parents when they are young, don't bring this stinky temper to my Zhang family's house!

However, Xie Decui turned a blind eye to her son's beating and scolding herself, and said behind her back that she beat well, this kind of mother-in-law who ignores the overall situation and does not give face to men is not repaired!

After a few more times, Jiang Mei didn't dare to discipline Zhang Ke. Xie Decui didn't let her care, saying that she wouldn't take care of the children, let alone educate the children, she just had to make money outside with her man all day long, and she didn't have to worry about the house and educating Zhang Ke.

Because of this, Zhang Ke was carried by her mother-in-law Xie Decui to sleep on her bed after weaning. Zhang Xiaojun wished that there was no child to disturb him, he could rest assured and bold and love his wife without scruples.

Jiang Mei sometimes thinks sadly, Zhang Ke is not so much her son as her mother-in-law's son. is disciplining Zhang Ke, teaching Zhang Ke how to behave, how to be sensible, and even what Zhang Ke eats and wears in a day, and all the details, she can't worry about it, and she can't worry about it.

Probably because of these reasons, because Zhang Ke is closer to his grandmother, and his father is not close to her mother, Jiang Mei after divorcing Zhang Xiaojun, in the first half of the year, she missed her children very much, and her heart hurts, but half a year later, as Wang Bo is getting better and better for her, in life, work, and emotionally, including physical and mental all-round care for her, take care of her, and give her unprecedented comfort, I hope that her love for her son based on blood relationship will become weaker and weaker, more and more vague, until the last year or two, she has rarely thought of Zhang Ke。

Sometimes, especially on the street, I see mothers who lead their children and hold hands with their children happily, but she is immersed in her own happiness and joy, and she is also a mother, but she often forgets her son to the clouds, and feels ashamed and ashamed, feeling that she is really not a good mother, a good mother!

If someone forces her to do a multiple-choice question now, asking her to choose between her son Zhang Ke and Wang Bo, she will definitely choose the man who saved her life, gave herself a new life, lifted the dark clouds hanging over her head with her own hands, and then gave herself a bright and clear sky!

But it is this kind of "no hesitation", this kind of "don't think about it", which makes her fall into a kind of moral self-blame and guilt from time to time!

"Woooooooooo......oo I'm sorry Zhang Ke...... I'm not a competent mother......" Jiang Mei bent over to cover her face and cried "woo woo".

In the face of Jiang Mei's crying, as a woman, Li Guilan can naturally understand Jiang Mei's difficulties and pain as a mother.

If she wants to get Zhang Ke, she will inevitably block the current man, or even lose the current man, and with her own happiness and family harmony as considerations, she can only cut off Zhang Ke and ignore it.

Li Guilan walked up to Jiang Mei, hugged the woman who was crying in her arms, patted the other party's back, and comforted her softly:

"Meimei, it's not your fault, it's all about making people. Even if you want to blame it, you can only blame Zhang Xiaojun and Xie Decui, the blind mother and son! It is this two mothers and sons who bully the soft and fear evil that can't tolerate you, bully you, and forcibly deprive you of your rights and obligations as a mother!

Therefore, even if Zhang Ke learns badly in the future and becomes a talent, no matter how strange he is, he can't blame you! Because you are also a victim of this family tragedy.

"However, fortunately, the sky has eyes, so that a good person like Meimei, you will finally have a good reward and regain the happiness of your life.

"In the past, whether it is sad or happy, let it all pass. Only by looking forward, learning to accept reality, learning to look forward to the future, and learning to cherish the people around them can people get long-term happiness.

"You and Zhang Ke have no fate in this life. Xie Decui and Zhang Xiaojun can't tolerate you and their son, and their grandson will continue to have anything to do with and provoke. They have expressed this meaning many times in front of me.

"Meimei, you can dedicate the mother's love in your heart to your future child. The one who has not yet been born is the one who is more worthy of your wholehearted cherishing and care. ”