Chapter 530: Emotional Intelligence High and Low
And ah, this kind of unhappiness is more unfamiliar than if you got 20th, 15th, and 10th place, and it's a lot more unpleasant.
Because the so-called fourth, 15th, and 20th places also sound very powerful, but in fact, when everyone mentions it in the end, it is just one sentence, others.
In the end, what can really be remembered by everyone in this competition is that only the first place you have reached the point of being the runner-up, which means that you and the first place. It's a very big mandarin duck, and you almost got it.
There used to be a very hot question on the Internet.
That is. In the end, it is more regrettable not to be together, or never to be together.
In the end, 85% of the answers were not together in the end.
The so-called never been together, it means that you have never intersected, but there is nothing regretful or regretful, not gained, not lost.
But the so-called not being together in the end means that the two of you used to be boyfriend and girlfriend, which means that the two of you were in a hurry. Explain your many, many questions.
It's this kind of feeling that you have to walk together to get a white head and grow old together, and then you can't get together in the end, which is the most heart-wrenching and regrettable.
They are clearly sympathetic to those who are about to get married. But it was because of the obstruction of my parents that I couldn't get together in the end.
They are really sad. There is no way. Parents' orders. It's not good after all, it's too much to disobey.
However, Tang Benming also has to persuade those so-called parents.
Especially the style of some girls, according to Tang Benyun's observation, he found that for a long time, most of the boyfriends and girlfriends were about to get married, but they were not married. In the end, the reason for the failure was a girl's parents.
Because they want a high bride price, and the amount of this bride price is really scary. Tang Benming found that it was impossible for those boys to take it out. That's an astronomical number.
The thoughts of many girls' parents, Tang Benming is really unable to communicate and understand. They feel that if they ask for less bride price, then the woman and the man may not be very good to their children, and don't remember that the daughter is not good, and this kind of girl will be unhappy because of this. Lying flat again, I really can't understand how this so-called thinking came about.
Do you think that you can make your daughter happy by asking for a high bride price, like selling your daughter? The product name doesn't think so.
Well, what's even more strange is that many of the woman's parents do think this is right.
Tang Benming has always felt that the so-called marriage is actually a certain stage of love, this kind of stage. It's not related to anything else, it's about love. And then the actual situation now, they are. I found that I couldn't do anything at all, because now this society is equivalent to selling my daughter, generally looking for a high-priced bride price, a house and a car, no matter what the daughter is capable of, how she looks, or what other aspects don't matter, as long as it's a woman.
And then the men wanted it. Give them field work. If you don't, the end result is that they call you a scumbag. Why do many men like to be scumbags now, and they don't like to be real. Pursue a girl from time to time. Because if you really go after a girl, you will be able to help him with all kinds of food, and the answer you will get in the end is that you are a licking dog.
The word money dog is really sad. I'm so good to you. The last thing I get. Indeed, I'm a licking dog, hahahaha, the field dog is really good. I don't know who invented it, I don't know what he went through. Why was such a word invented?
Be kind to others, and be called a field dog by others. Bad for others. He is called a straight man by others. What do women love? Eat those so-called scumbags. It seems that a scumbag is especially liked by girls. If a society becomes like this, then this society is really scary. His real name is unimaginable. When it became like this, where would people's values go?
Tang Weiming is a person. I always like to think about it. It's a very complicated social relationship, and it obviously has nothing to do with her. He likes to study and think.
For example, he is one now. There is a wife. People who live happily ever after. For him, pursuing girls is not bad for money. There were no other burdens, but he just liked to think about similar problems, and then look at the other brothers, their lives or what, and he obviously sympathized with those brothers, because he remembered who he used to be.
used to be so poor and white, and I used to like many girls, but these girls didn't choose him in the end, because he was too poor.
Of course, many girls will not say to Tang Meiling so bluntly, you are too poor, so we are not suitable, their statement is very satisfying, that is, your emotional intelligence is too low, I am not suitable.
In fact, everyone is not stupid, everyone understands everything, and the so-called low emotional intelligence is actually that you are too poor. If a person does not have money, then he does not dare to think about problems with big thinking after all. Because if he thinks about problems with a big vision, he needs to spend money. And then without money, he can't do that, and he can't fix it. It's smashed into a class. happiness, so it gives people the impression that he has low emotional intelligence.
Let's say you're in a person with no money from the side of the road. Picking a bouquet of flowers and giving it to a girl is called low emotional intelligence.
For example, if a rich man buys a large bouquet of roses from a flower shop and gives it to a girl, it is called romance.
The so-called romance and low emotional intelligence, in fact, in Tang Benming's view, is just rich and not rich. If you have money, then you have high emotional intelligence. If you don't have money, then you have low emotional intelligence.
It's really good to have money. If you don't have money, someone else will spin the plate while you eat. Move the dish you want to add elsewhere.
And if you have money, who will dare to make money on the plate when you go to add vegetables? They will even turn the food you eat back to stand in front of you if it is somewhere else.
Why do people work hard? Why should people have money, not only happiness, but also the happiness of parents. The happiness of your daughter, the happiness of your wife.
If I have money. How my parents are treated, you dare to embarrass them, I want to be here or not. You don't dare to embarrass him.
And if I don't have any money, then I can only guarantee that you won't dare to embarrass my parents while I'm here, because if you embarrass my parents, I'll go straight to help you knock them down.