Chen Yuyue heard sadness in Zhao Weitong's voice, that sadness was something she wanted to deliberately hide, but she couldn't hide her emotions.

Chen Yuyue can understand this sadness, how Zhao Weitong spent his childhood, although he has not witnessed it with his own eyes or experienced it, he can guess it.

Not to mention the Zhao family, a famous family born in Yanjing, one of the four major families in Yanjing, even if it is a child of an ordinary family, there are very few people who have a carefree childhood.

"All parents think that they would rather their children's childhood be harder, and they would rather become ruthless tiger parents and wolf parents, but also let their children learn more things, learn all kinds ......of talents, and desperately want their children to study in prestigious schools," Chen Yuyue said lightly.

This is not something that makes no sense, because only in this way will you grow up with dignity.

Childhood is just a carefree play, it will be a kind of plaything, this kind of child is unproductive when he grows up, and when the child grows up, he has no ability, this kind of child grows up without dignity, and has no foothold in society.

There is no way, China has a large population and limited resources, if the child does not have a super family to pave the way, the only way is to work hard, work hard, work hard and work hard.

Children whose family conditions are already good are sent to learn all kinds of talents, but what about ordinary people whose family conditions are average? If they are not allowed to learn, will it not be even more ...... in the future? This vicious cycle is what parents fear.

It is because of this kind of overthinking that your children embark on never-ending learning, and at a very young age, these children have the phenomenon of overthinking.

Parents may think that their children have any overthinking at all, but this kind of learning will indeed affect physical health, and a bunch of messy learning will only make children lose their direction, and people who lose their direction are terrible.

It's not the fault of the parents, and it's not the fault of the children, because all people are victims of this era.

This is really frightening, unsettling, and full of desire, and even makes this never-ending desire become a huge invisible pressure, overwhelming people, whether it is an adult or a child, everyone lives in desire and pressure.

This is the sadness of this era.

"In fact, no matter how many books you read, no matter how high-end education you get, no matter how many things you learn, if you only stay at the level of knowledge, just knowledge and skills, it still won't help anyone's life. Zhao Weitong's heart is quite calm.

"There is poetry and books in the belly. Chen Yuyue shrugged his shoulders: "It's still good to read more." ”

"There are too many kinds of things to study, dance with musical instruments, kung fu with fists and feet, and a person's life is very short, and it is very good to be proficient in one. Zhao Weitong said: "But most parents will let their children learn a lot, and two or three special classes are nothing at all." ”

"Because adults are confused about the current education, they can only go with the flow. He believes that only by receiving mainstream education can he be responsible for his children. ”

Zhao Weitong smiled a little contemptuously: "In fact, parents look at their children like looking in the mirror, and the feeling of being parents is that today's children are too worrying, and they feel that their children are not angry, and they don't become dragons and styles, but they don't look in the mirror to see themselves...... Those anxieties and fears are actually brought to me. ”

After a pause, Zhao Weitong added: "Very ignorant. ”

"Yes, in fact, the happiness of people when they grow up is the amplification and continuation of the happiness of childhood, a truly happy heart, only the warmth from the heart, you can still bear the coldness of reality. Chen Yu jumped up and went to the kitchen to get two bottles of canned beer, came back and opened it and handed Zhao Weitong a can.

Zhao Weitong was not polite, and touched Chen Yuyue and drank.

"It seems that you were also raised by your parents when you were a child. Chen Yu said.

"Actually, my father was very good to me, he didn't ask me, it was my mother who forced me to learn a lot of things. Zhao Weitong said: "I think my father's concept is very good. ”

"Regardless of you?"

"No, parents have a regular daily life, children must eat modestly, parents are relaxed, and children are bound to be physically and mentally exhausted. Zhao Weitong said: "If it weren't for my father always taking me to see the sunrise and sunset, to see those flowers, grass and trees, to feel the changes of the four seasons, I am afraid it would be really difficult for me to relax my body and mind." ”

Chen Yuyue didn't speak again.

If Zhao Weitong didn't have such an enlightened father, if Zhao Weitong's father and her mother were the same person, then her childhood would have been a tragedy.

"Taking on something that doesn't match your age hurts not only your mind, but also your physical health. ”

Chen Yuyue suddenly thought of what his grandfather had said to him.

The heart is the slaughter of the body, the spleen is the mother of all things, and the heart and spleen are the most important things. The heart is the main blood, and the blood is not the first to nourish the heart. The heart is not nourished, but more depressed and thoughtful, more doubtful and worried, what is the benefit of the bait medicine of the day?

This is what Grandpa used to say to him when he was young.

But grandpa always said that, but never did that, he was completely forced out when he was a child, every day was afraid and uneasy, and his body and mind never relaxed......

This old man is really funny.

Chen Yuyue hadn't remembered the old guy for a long time, but he didn't expect to be recalled by Zhao Weitong.

"When you were a child, were you happy?" Zhao Weitong looked at Chen Yuyue curiously.

"Guess. Chen Yuyue took a sip of beer, with only a calm smile on his face.

"If you had a good time as a kid, you wouldn't be what you are now...... So I think you may have been more miserable than me when you were a child, and I at least had a father who helped me relieve my stress, what about you?" Zhao Weitong said lightly.

She wasn't mistaken.

Chen Yuyue really didn't even have a person to help him relieve his pressure, he could only relieve himself. Although the old man has been saying those reasonable words, but after those reasonable words, he will add a "but", this number "but" is very simple - but, you are the seed of the Chen family, you must bear these things that others do not need to bear, because your surname is Chen, because you are my grandson, you are your father's son, you can't be like other children, because you are destined to do different things from other people from birth, so you are not qualified to complain.

How much Chen Yuyue hated hearing these words, every time he heard these words, he would feel that he would collapse, and every time he heard these words, he wanted to get rid of the old man's beard!

But the old man told him these things over and over again, instilling in them over and over again that the "Chen family" was special. In the end, the old man succeeded and successfully brainwashed Chen Yuyue, making Chen Yuyue realize that he was different from other ordinary children.

Since Chen Yuyue was successfully brainwashed by the old man, he has become very active, let go of fear, let go of resentment, and his body and mind have become much more relaxed, and he has begun to slowly accept those things that he once did not want to touch.

Thinking back from the past, Chen Yuyue just smiled faintly: "Hehe." ”