It still depends on the individual's thoughts, and in general, loneliness does not necessarily mean very lonely. Before I met Luo Tong, Sheng Qiwu had also lived more than 20 years with such a pure heart, and he didn't come over the same?

It's just that some people are good at finding pleasure in life and trying not to let themselves be idle, so emotions such as loneliness, loneliness, emptiness, and so on will no longer appear.

Many times, a lot of people's negative emotions are idle, you are busy all day tired, you come home and fall asleep, where is the rest of the mind to be sad?

So in the final analysis, it depends on whether the individual has the ability to regulate their mood. Some people have good self-regulation ability, so they can adapt to it everywhere, and some people have weak psychological control ability, so it is inevitable that there will be more such emotions.

In fact, in the final analysis, this empty nest youth refers to a state of life, which does not mean that people are pitiful or anything, it is just that everyone looks at this state from an outsider's point of view. ”

Sheng Qiwu finally concluded: "Just like Zhuangzi said, Zi is not a fish, how can you know the joy of fish?

Luo Tong nodded, "I think this is an exaggeration of this, since you have chosen a distant place, then you must bear other things that you bring by choosing a distant place, such as celibacy, such as being away from your parents and so on." ”

"So it's all their choice, since they have chosen, then they have to keep going, and don't regret it halfway. By the way, I just heard you say another word, widowed marriage?"

Skipping the word empty nest youth, Sheng Qiwu suddenly changed the topic, Luo Tong was overly led astray by him, she smiled and raised her mobile phone: "Yes, there are a lot of descriptions of widowed marriages in the official account recently, I just read a few, and I am still very emotional." ”

Sheng Qiwu took the mobile phone and looked at it a few times, the statement about widowed marriage on the Internet is like this, widowed marriage, a description of life, married to a spouse, but one thing is that their marriage is generally not very good. Generally refers to the indifference of one spouse to the family and disregard for family obligations.

Sheng Qiwu handed the phone to Luo Tong, still lazily resting on Luo Tong's lap.

"In my impression, there has never been such a widowed marriage around me, except for Chen Yan and Mu Qing in the past, but they have been divorced for several years. ”

In Sheng Qiwu's surroundings, this kind of situation where having a partner is equal to not having a partner does not exist, whether it is his parents or other elders, everyone gets along very well and is happy.

"There's a saying here that's quite interesting, it says why more and more girls resist marriage now? It's because some marriages are not as good as widowhood, and you don't give me love and care, and you only have a * when you get married. ”

Sheng Qiwu wrapped his arms around Luo Tong's waist and smiled: "It is absolutely impossible for us to have this situation, you see that we are together all the time, I can't wait to take you with me wherever I go." ”

Luo Tong patted him on the cheek: "So I think I'm really happy compared to these topics on the Internet." ”

For a man, there is nothing more rewarding than the person you love the most, feeling in front of you that life is happy. Sheng Qiwu's cheek rubbed against Luo Tong's lower abdomen, obviously amused by Luo Tong's words.

Luo Tong suddenly sighed, "Why do you say that more and more people are resisting marriage now? If you meet someone you like, then get married, why hesitate?"

Sheng Qiwu pulled back his heart, silly girl, not everyone is so lucky to be able to find someone who is in love with each other to spend the rest of their lives with.

He muttered, "Have you ever heard of such a phrase?"

"What's that?" Luo Tong wondered, why did he suddenly say something else?

"Motherhood, nanny, widowhood, widowhood and widowhood. These words that sounded desolate came out of Sheng Qiwu's mouth, and Luo Tong felt uncomfortable in his heart when he heard it.

"I've only heard of widowed marriages, and I haven't heard anything about it. ”

"Didn't I go to bring relatives today?" Sheng Qiwu suddenly changed the topic, and Luo Tong didn't bother him, she knew that Sheng Qiwu wouldn't talk about other things for no reason.

"When I came back, I happened to pass by a clothing store with a very large window and I could see all the scenes inside. ”

Sheng Qiwu was obviously still recalling the scene he saw this morning, "Outside the fitting room, there were three young girls standing outside at the same time waiting for the people inside to come out, and it turned out to be a boy. ”

"And then? Is there anything strange about that? If I go shopping with you, I'll be waiting for you outside. Luo Tong thinks this is normal, how happy is it to be able to dress up for his boyfriend?

But the boy didn't think so, he was very impatient, and I didn't hear the girl's advice, but I could imagine it just by seeing his expression. ”

Three girls are dressed as a boy, and the other two you can imagine should be friends, but they don't give their girlfriends face at all in front of their friends, how dissatisfied is their girlfriends?

"What are you trying to say? Actually, I don't understand much. ”

Luo Tong blinked, Sheng Qiwu said that she really didn't understand, what did he want to express?

"What we're talking about now is a nanny-style wife and mother-style mate selection, and that girl not only has to take care of her boyfriend's food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also has to endure his bad temper, which I think is quite sad. ”

Sheng Qiwu played with Luo Tong's fingers: "Some men are like sons in front of their partners, they never think about themselves, regardless of the feelings of others, and there is always only themselves in his world." This kind of man, who only knows how to papa, doesn't know what to do, the promises he made have never been fulfilled, and there is no word romance in his dictionary at all. ”

"This kind of man, all kinds of naivety, all kinds of willfulness, bad mood and coaxing, often because of all kinds of inexplicable reasons to lose his temper. When you encounter a problem in communication, you never treat it positively, never think about solving it, and always choose to escape. ”

"Every now and then, he will make something make you angry, and every now and then he will make you angry at his immature words and deeds. You live carefully, he lives unrestrained. ”

Sheng Qiwu also had a feeling, it was rare to discuss this topic with Luo Tong today, and he also wanted to share his views.