331 Proximity, distance
Sending the baby to the kindergarten, naturally it is indispensable to get tired of crookedness, kiss the little face, kiss the forehead, so that the baby will run to the kindergarten and continue to play with her friends, her life in the kindergarten is still very fulfilling.
As for Zhang Dawei and Melissa, they naturally have a lot to learn, and their studies are also very intense.
In the final analysis, Zhang Dawei and Melissa may have a little experience in taking care of babies. But both are also very clear that they still have a lot to learn, a lot of things to learn.
For Zhang Dawei and Melissa, the nursery teacher also admired, knowing that Zhang Dawei and Melissa already have a four-year-old child, but this is almost just a novice parent. Neither of them are familiar with changing diapers, and they don't know anything about the others.
So I really admire Zhang Dawei and Melissa, and I admire Zhang Dawei and Melissa's children even more, they have all grown up healthy!
"David, I think you should learn more, I don't understand how you took care of the baby in the first place. Don't you know that you can't feed your baby too much when you're breastfeeding, and aren't you worried about her spitting up?"
In the face of Melissa's criticism, Zhang Dawei's heart became empty. He did know not to overfeed the little one.
"She has a big appetite, so we don't have to worry about that at all. Of course, Zhang Dawei knew that he still had to study hard, and as for the previous things, there was no way, "My dear, I believe that we will definitely perform better and better." ”
Melissa is also full of confidence, maybe she was not a qualified mother before. But Melissa has every reason to believe that she is now a good mom. In the future, she will become an even better mother.
Taking care of the children is not a burden for Melissa, she enjoys taking care of the children, and for her, being with her children is the happiest thing.
There may be some pressure, but this kind of pressure is not at the same level compared to the satisfaction and happiness obtained. For her, she has long been happy in it, and she is also full of expectations, looking forward to a sweeter and better life in the future.
The baby is now in kindergarten, she is more and more accustomed to kindergarten life, and has found the joy of kindergarten life. The little guy thinks that kindergarten is very fun, and he doesn't feel that kindergarten will be scary and boring at all.
This can be regarded as a need to experience it for yourself to have a voice, for the baby. She used to just hear that kindergarten was boring, but now she has 'turned the tables' in kindergarten, she knows that there are many games in kindergarten, and she knows that kindergarten has many friends.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa also feel this way, of course they know how challenging it is to take care of babies and children, and they also feel that this matter is quite tricky. Before learning these parenting skills, the two of them felt their scalps tingle just thinking about something, and thought that they might not be able to take on such a heavy responsibility at all.
But looking at it now, it doesn't seem to be as difficult as it seems. For them, it doesn't seem to be that difficult to learn these things if they really learn them. Of course, this is also because of the experience brought by such a 'test subject' as a baby, so I will make up for the lessons I owe before, and I naturally feel a lot more relaxed.
There are many things that do need to be learned, so that we can better deal with the things that may be encountered next.
"David, do you think I still need to continue to improve my physical skills?" Joshua was a little anxious and in a bad mood, "I can't get a chance to play right now, I'm not a match for those sophomores and juniors. ”
Zhang Dawei leaned back on the sofa and said absentmindedly, "You know the NCAA better than I do, and I know that many players don't have much chance of monetizing in their freshman year. Man, you're a great player, but you're not the most talented player. You need to keep learning, you need to build, and I'm sure you'll succeed one day. ”
Joshua, don't look at the kid who is driving a sports car to school now, don't look at the fact that he got into the school football team with a full scholarship. But this kid also has enough sense of urgency, college football and high school football are completely different things. Understandably, there is a huge difference between college football and professional football.
Even if many players do well in college, that doesn't mean they can become professional athletes.
It was a great challenge for Joshua, and it was a pressure for him. But what can be done, even talented athletes need to train, not to mention that although Joshua is talented, he is not the most talented, and he naturally needs to practice harder.
Melissa was a little lost, she felt that Joshua, the bear child, had completely 'changed her mind', and it would be false to say that she was not lost.
Even if Melissa did bully Joshua sometimes, it is estimated that Joshua grew up in Melissa's shadow when he was a child. But overall, Melissa is still an excellent older sister, and she still cares about and takes care of Joshua.
But now, Joshua had almost forgotten that he had an older sister. For Joshua, he and Melissa don't have much in common. Even if he calls occasionally, he basically talks to Zhang Dawei about competitions and training, so that Zhang Dawei can give some experience to this successful athlete.
But it's basically useless, and if Zhang Dawei comes to impart experience, it will definitely go the wrong way. But even if he knew about these things, Joshua would still ask Zhang Dawei for some advice. Because in Joshua's view, even if Zhang Dawei is lazy, he can become an excellent athlete, and there must be merit.
Sometimes the reality is like this, after growing up slowly, even if it was once intimate, it will slowly produce some distance. Because a new life and a new family will indeed slowly produce some distance.
But it can be comforting that blood kinship can never be parted, even if some people will have some resentment when they grow up. But family affection is the most unreasonable, and it will always make people worry.
The baby came back bouncing, followed by Pooh, who was shaking his fat body, and Rudolph, who was very docile. As for Xiaobai, the bastard rushed into the house at once, and jumped on the table with a jump...... This guy thinks this is an opportunity, and it looks like everyone hasn't noticed Xiaobai, so he feels like rushing over to grab some chocolate to eat!
This is Xiaobai, this little guy sometimes has no eyesight and will be a light bulb, but this little guy is really smart for gluttony or playing games!