The baby was full of confidence, and the proud little girl showed off and said, "Dad, I have long legs, so I can ride a horse." I don't need a children's saddle now, I can step on the stirrup. ”

Although the baby's statement is a little exaggerated, the baby does not need a children's saddle now, but to really say that the baby can step directly on the stirrup, it must be an exaggeration. Even if the baby thinks she has long legs, but she really can't do this, she still needs to continue to grow, her 'long legs' are just stinky and beautiful, and she thinks she is just that.

Although it was an exaggeration, Zhang Dawei nodded with a smile and said, "Indeed, my baby does have long legs." ”

Enoch, who was sitting on the bear's back, hurriedly said, "Dad, I'm not long-legged, I'm short-legged!"

Seeing Enoch's proud appearance, Zhang Dawei smiled and praised. Enoch liked chubby little short legs, so let Enoch like little short legs. This little guy doesn't know stinky beauty yet, and his aesthetic needs to be improved and continue to improve.

Melissa thought it was funny and smiled and asked, "Enoch, don't you like to have long legs? If you can run faster in the ring like your dad, you can hope to win when you race against Xiaobai." ”

"Mommy, Dad can't outrun Xiaobai, Xiaobai is the first!" Enoch took a correct position and hurriedly said, "Mommy, the longest long legs can't outrun Xiaobai, Xiaobai is the most powerful, and Dad is the least powerful!"

Zhang Dawei didn't want to say anything at all, because he knew that it was useless to say it. In Enoch's mind, his father belongs to the one who can be abandoned at any time, and in Enoch's mind, his father is not important at all; In Enoch's mind, his father was the epitome of the negative image.

So Zhang Dawei has long been dead, if he can occasionally get some affirmation and praise in the baby, although the baby's position is sometimes a little biased, but it will not be particularly exaggerated. But here at Enoch, Zhang Dawei doesn't have to expect any affirmation at all, as long as he compares with Xiaobai, Zhang Dawei will definitely lose.

"Mommy, I don't want to be like Daddy either. The baby was not willing to be lonely, and the little girl immediately said, "Dad's legs are all muscles, and they are not good-looking at all." Mommy, I'm growing up like you, okay? If I'm like Dad, I can't wear a dress. ”

Zhang Dawei looked down at his 'long legs', and felt that the baby's words were basically correct.

In the final analysis, Zhang Dawei's leg muscles are quite developed, and because men and women are still a little different in aesthetics. If you look at women according to men's standards, it will definitely not work, so Zhang Dawei basically agrees with the baby's statement.

It's just that Zhang Dawei also thinks that the baby is still not mature enough, and this little girl must also grow more. For example, the little guy is a little naïve, really naïve.

Did she really think she could look like whoever she wanted?

Does this little guy really think that she has the ability to 'pick and choose', that she can pick and choose good genes from her parents and ignore those small shortcomings?

This is simply impossible, Zhang Dawei believes that such a beautiful expectation of the baby has long been proved unrealistic.

The reason is naturally that many parents have actually experienced this, and they will carefully study and discuss their children's appearance. Think that the child's nose is like the father, think that the child's chin is like the mother, think that it would be good if the child's eyes were not like the father, and think that the child's nose would be more upright like the mother......

It's naturally normal to have these good expectations, but whether you can get your wish or not is completely different.

The stinky baby sat on horseback, pointed ahead and shouted, "Enoch, you and Pooh run faster!"

"Sister, don't you see the rabbit?" Enoch said, turning around and patting Winnie on the head, "If you run fast, Daddy won't be able to see me, and Daddy will be worried." ”

To be honest, Zhang Dawei is really not worried at all, and he doesn't think there is anything to worry about.

Just look at Enoch's performance, the little guy sat on Pooh's back and didn't need to worry about him falling off at all. And Pooh knew Enoch too well, so as soon as Enoch patted it on the head, Pooh immediately ran to Mulan.

The reason, of course, was that Enoch was going to talk to his sister, so of course Pooh had to run over.

This tacit understanding is not a joke, and with such a tacit understanding, there is naturally not much to worry about.

Enoch didn't think there was a rabbit ahead of him, and he hadn't seen the snake all the time, so he didn't think it was necessary to run too far. Although Enoch was usually playful and lawless, this little guy was also very 'timid' at times.

Enoch liked to have fun outside, but basically at the door of the house, and basically never left the sight of his parents. Even if he occasionally leaves the sight of his parents, he is probably hiding and seeking, or he is fooled away by Xiaobai......

Enoch really didn't have to make up his mind to be a pioneer now, he was worried that he would run too far and his parents would worry about it, he was worried that he would run too far and couldn't find his way home, he had so much to worry about.

But the baby got Enoch done it in a few words, and let Enoch and Pooh patrol in front of him, to find out all the places where the rabbits might be hiding, and to find all the ditches and ditches, so that Mulan would not fall in the air......

Don't run too far, as long as you can see your mom and dad, so you don't have to worry.

Enoch was naturally happy at this time, and he ran away with Pooh with a shout, and ran away with him, and Rudolph. Rudolph definitely didn't run away on his own initiative, but mainly when he heard Enoch's call, Rudolph immediately followed.

When he saw Enoch running away, the baby said, "Daddy, Mommy, you must teach Enoch to read." He's getting more and more playful now, and he doesn't like reading at all right now. I'm his age, and I can read books on my own, but Enoch can't count them. ”

Zhang Dawei thought it was funny, but he didn't care too much, "Baby, you also know that Enoch may not be as smart as you." But we can't judge a person by whether they are smart or not or whether they can read, we also need to look at Enoch's character sometimes, he is very kind, very obedient, and he is also very cheerful. ”

But Enoch needed to read so that he would understand a lot of truth. The baby immediately retorted, and this was her point, "Dad, Enoch only liked to play at home, he didn't like to go out." That's not going to work, I also hope that Enoch has other good friends, and he can't just play games with Pooh and Xiaobai. ”

Although it seems that the baby is 'talking back', Zhang Dawei is not unhappy, but feels more relieved, which can be said to be a situation he is happy to see.

Such a thing as a word and a word is not what Zhang Dawei wants to see. He doesn't care about parental authority, he believes in the argument that the more the reasoning becomes clearer, he believes that constant discussion can lead to some clear answers.

In fact, there are often some discussions at home, and many things are family members sitting together to communicate well, and carefully discuss an answer that satisfies everyone.

"Dad, I used to be smart and I'm smart now. But after going to school, I learned a lot of knowledge, and I understood a lot of truths. "If I was at home, I wouldn't know this, I like to learn new things from the teacher." ”

Zhang Dawei immediately dismantled the stage and hurriedly said, "Since you like to study very much, then you need to be serious." You know I went to school with your mom and some of your teachers always told us things like you weren't very enthusiastic about learning, you were always half-hearted and not focused enough. ”

"But I've got that knowledge so I can do my own thing!" the baby was anxious and immediately explained, "I only learn to play games, I don't stop learning!"

Zhang Dawei and Melissa suddenly cried and laughed, because the baby's statement still seemed to have some truth. But they also know very well that some of the baby's truths are really some crooked reasons.

The baby's meaning is obvious, that is, she can keep up with the learning progress, and she has mastered the knowledge that is why she will desert. In the baby's opinion, the other students do not have that knowledge, so they need to listen carefully. Your baby has that knowledge so she can do what she loves.

Of course, Zhang Dawei and Melissa know that the baby has a strong learning ability, and this little girl is indeed very smart, but they also know that the baby is indeed a little half-hearted, and this little girl with a strong opinion does not think that she should be more 'excellent'.

For example, she never wanted to sign up for a special class or something, she just followed the same learning progress as her classmates. So in such a situation, I often see the baby this little girl deserting in class, because she thinks she has mastered the knowledge, so she is qualified to desert.

The baby was a little dissatisfied, and the little girl said in distress, "Mommy, Mr. Hansen and Ms. Louis always hope that I can go to the genius class, they always talk to me, and hope that I can go to the class in my spare time." ”

Yes, there are some 'specialty classes' in the U.S. education system. Some schools are like this, and when facing these students with better learning ability, they will give them a small stove. This is especially common in some private schools.

The concept of wishing for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is not unique to Chinese parents, and almost all parents around the world have this idea. Some interest classes and specialty classes in the United States are blooming everywhere, and many students have a lot of extracurricular tutoring or interest classes in addition to classroom education.

It is okay to say that the parents are completely herding sheep or do not pay attention to these, but in some middle-class families, this situation is very common. And people like Zhang Dawei and Melissa are actually a bit 'abnormal', because they really don't seem to attach much importance to children's education.

Zhang Dawei and Melissa are seriously discussing the issue of education with the baby, they naturally attach great importance to these things, and it is naturally impossible to be really sloppy in such things, this is the reality.

But Zhang Dawei and Melissa's point of view is also very clear, they do not force children to achieve anything, they want children to have a happy childhood, they do not want learning to become a burden for children, they believe that they have the ability to create a good environment for children to grow up.

Regarding Enoch's education, Zhang Dawei and Melissa's attitude is naturally very clear, they know that Enoch is not really a 'little fool', they know that Enoch just doesn't like learning very much. They hoped that Enoch would grow up and enjoy learning, and that Enoch would not just play sports.

In the final analysis, it is still to teach according to aptitude, Enoch has athletic talent, and he likes these, so Zhang Dawei and Melissa naturally support Enoch in terms of sports.

The baby is very smart, but Zhang Dawei and Melissa did not require the baby to become a little genius and a primary school bully, they hope that the baby will grow up happily in happy learning, which is what Zhang Dawei and Melissa attach the most importance to.

Enoch continued to run happily at the front, and the little guy obviously didn't know that there were many topics going on around him. This may be a playful little guy who has no heart and lungs, this is a little guy who just wants to grow up carefree and happy at home.

"Dad, if Enoch doesn't like to read in the future, it must be because of you!" The pouting baby was very unhappy because her point of view was not adopted, "We need to develop a lot of good habits from an early age, but if you look at Enoch, he has no habit of studying at all, so it must be bad!"

Zhang Dawei was helpless, he looked at the baby and said, "Baby, of course I know this, I even suspect that you will complain about me when you grow up." But I want you and Enoch to be able to do certain things at a certain age, and you're very young now, so you can learn, play, and not think about anything else. ”

Melissa followed suit, "Yes, sweetheart, that's what your dad and I were looking forward to. Of course, we know that our education is not perfect, but you also know that there are many things that are not absolutely right, and many things that we are not sure are absolutely right. So you should think about these things for yourself, you can make your own ideas, it's your life. ”

Some topics seem to be a bit early to talk to the baby now, and some truths may not be really understandable by the current baby; Zhang Dawei and Melissa naturally know this truth, but they are still willing to seriously discuss such topics with the baby.

In the final analysis, education is not achieved overnight, so slowly communicate and discuss, maybe the baby will slowly understand and understand such things, although it may take a little time.

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