Ding Qi was a little worried, whether this child was curious after reading the recent news, so he deliberately registered to make an appointment, the purpose was to "meet" Ding Qi himself, so this consultation could not be done. But when Gao Xiaofei walked in, Ding Qi's heart was half relieved, and the other party came to ask for help from a psychological counselor, not to meet him, a "Jinghu celebrity".

Without saying a word, a judgment can be made with just one eye contact. Gao Xiaofei looked a little nervous when he entered the room, and lowered his head after making eye contact with Ding Qi, he was very curious about everything in the psychological counseling room, which was a normal response of a help-seeker. For Ding Qi, the counselor, he did not reveal any intention of comparing with the impressions he already had in his heart.

This shows that this high school student either hasn't heard of the recent "Jinghu City Ankang Hospital Incident", or he doesn't care much when he hears about it, and he doesn't have any impression of Ding Qi at all. It seems that not everyone is paying attention to this incident, and many people don't deliberately remember him Ding Qi even if they hear about it.

The sixteen-year-old boy is close to 1.8 meters tall, about the same size as Ding Qi, and the current children are better nourished than in the past, and they generally develop early, but their bodies are still a little thin.

Ding Qi stood up and smiled gently, "Xiao Gao, please take a seat, may I have anything to help you?" He poured Gao Xiaofei a glass of water and sat down at the same time as the other party.

After Gao Xiaofei sat down, he was nervous and a little shy, and he straightened his hair and said, "Teacher, have you noticed anything wrong with me?"

In fact, as soon as he entered the door, Ding Qi found that there was a band-aid on the back of his left hand, but Ding Qi did not break it, and he did not deliberately look at his left hand when he spoke, but said: "I haven't found anything abnormal about you, whether it is your appearance, posture, expression, and tone, all kinds of characteristics reflected are normal."

The psychological problem of your registration is emotional anxiety, there are many kinds of emotional anxiety, and the reasons are different, can you tell me yourself?"

Gao Xiaofei's reaction was not disappointment, but a sigh of relief, raised his left hand and said, "Teacher, I have a scab on the back of my hand." As he spoke, he removed the band-aid, revealing a soybean-sized scumbag.

Ding Qi nodded and said, "I see, is it this madman who has caused your psychological distress? Can you tell me more about how you feel?"

The scab on the back of Gao Xiaofei's left hand grew two months ago, and according to his own observations, the situation has been very stable in the past month, and the filth has not grown any bigger. He felt ugly, and the thought of this scab made him feel uncomfortable, and he even had some trouble sleeping. He vaguely felt as if he had become different, and he was very worried, but he didn't know what he was worried about.

After listening to the self-report of the help-seeker, Ding Qi held back a smile and showed a very concerned expression. This is indeed a psychological problem, and it is a typical adolescent psychological problem. If you are an elderly person, you may worry about your health, and even wonder if there is a possibility of cancer, etc., but the focus of this child is not on these things.

Ding Qi asked again, "Why don't you go to the hospital to have a look?" It's just a soybean-sized lump of soybeans, and going to the hospital for treatment is only a small surgical operation. Gao Xiaofei came to pay 600 for a psychological consultation, which was enough for him to deal with this madman.

Gao Xiaofei replied: "I also checked, and it was said that the child will get better after a while, but there is no way to prevent it, and maybe it will grow." I also found that it is difficult to remove the roots with liquid nitrogen and laser surgery, and it can also leave scars or pigmentation. The other way is to take medicine, but I feel that it is definitely not good to take medicine."

In fact, Ding Qi had already thought of surgical excision just now, although he was only a psychiatrist, not a surgeon, but this was really a small operation, as long as there were simple instruments and sterilization equipment, he himself could have removed this scab now, and the mental health center also had a surgical first aid kit.

But this is a psychological counseling room, not a surgical treatment room, he stopped this idea, but asked with a smile: "These are all checked on Baidu Encyclopedia, Xiao Gao, do you have to look in the mirror many times a day?"

Gao Xiaofei was stunned: "How do you know?"

Ding Qi: "The trouble you encounter is indeed psychological, and many adolescent teenagers do this. You are dissatisfied with your image because you have a stump on the back of your hand, and this is not simply a matter of a scab, but you feel distressed and don't know how to be your satisfied image."

What followed was a chat-style conversation. Many people, especially men, look in the mirror more often than any other period in their lives combined, without a realistic necessity. Adolescence has a high degree of self-attention, which is an inevitable phenomenon that accompanies the development of self-consciousness and gradually matures.

Strong self-esteem but often lack self-confidence correspond to the physical and mental state that they often think they have grown up, but in fact they are not really adults. There is a very prominent psychological phenomenon in adolescence called "imaginary audience", that is, to create an audience that may not exist, and at the same time pay attention to yourself, you also think that others are paying attention to him or her.

When you praise yourself, you think everyone will praise you, and when you are disappointed, you think everyone will be disappointed in you. Such repeated mood swings often lead to inner anxiety.

The psychological trait of "imaginary audience" still exists in adulthood, but it is not as prominent as in adolescence. When people look in the mirror when they don't have to, they are actually imagining the audience, and this mentality is not just as simple as looking in the mirror.

Adults who are stimulated in some way can also reawaken a strong "imaginary audience" mentality and amplify various emotional experiences. For example, Ding Qi himself, he has indeed become a celebrity in Jinghu recently, but in reality, how many people really know him? After the hot spot subsides, most people really remember not Ding Qi himself, but a certain role he played in this incident, and no irrelevant people will stare at him every day.

But when ordinary people encounter such a thing, they often feel that they are the center of public attention, and their every move seems to be monitored, so they feel pressured.

It won't be long before Tincey will be forgotten by the public, and no one will take it seriously unless it is deliberately mentioned on a special occasion, unless it is someone directly related to him or the matter. Ding Qi is just a small psychological counselor, not the kind of public figure that the public is familiar with.

Facing such a sixteen-year-old boy in the counseling room today, Ding Qi is adjusting his mentality while doing psychological counseling.

Ding Qi and Gao Xiaofei talked about the various psychological characteristics of adolescence, as well as the essence of the distress Gao Xiaofei felt, and finally said: "I will send you another sentence with poetry and books. ”

Gao Xiaofei smiled, looked at the back of his hand and said, "But I still have to treat this madman, but I'm quite afraid to go to the hospital." ”

Dingzi: "You told your parents that your parents didn't take it seriously, did they?"

Gao Xiaofei frowned again: "Indeed, it's impossible to communicate!"

Ding Qi tried to downplay it as much as possible: "It's really not a thing, it's just a little, your problem is puberty trouble." The 600 yuan you spent for psychological counseling this time is also the pocket money you usually save, right? It seems that you still attach a lot of importance to yourself!"

Gao Xiaofei: "My parents are busy with work, but they usually give a lot of pocket money, and last year's New Year's money added up to several thousand, and I can still afford to spend 600 yuan." ”

This consultation is over, and there is no need for another one. Before Gao Xiaofei left, Ding Qi said: "Give you a personal advice, not the advice of a psychological counselor." I also had a lot of goofs when I was a child, and I was told to use white vinegar of nine degrees to light a little bit every day, and then it fell off on its own. You can try it when you go back, if it doesn't work, you should go to the hospital for a minor operation, it's very simple. ”

When Ding Qi stood up and said this, he was actually out of the working state of a psychological counselor. It felt good to be back focused on his work, and Ding Qi felt like he had found his familiar self again, but he also knew in his heart that this was probably the last time he would have a psychological consultation at the school's mental health center.

When Gao Xiaofei left, Ding Qi did not go out to the office, but just stood behind the door and waited, he wanted to confirm his certain judgment. As expected, within two minutes, there was a knock on the door, and Ding Qi immediately opened the door. The door opened so quickly, but it startled Zhong Dafang, who knocked on the door.

Although Ding Qi guessed that this scene might happen, when it really happened, he was also sighing in his heart, with a disappointment that he couldn't hide, and said expressionlessly: "Senior Brother Dafang, do you have something to do with me?"

When Ding Qi came to work at the mental health center for the first time, he saw Zhong Dayi and called Director Zhong. But Zhong Dafang shook his head very exaggeratedly and told him not to call him that, and he must be called Senior Brother Dafang in the future. This senior brother is also very generous and takes care of him on weekdays, just like his name.

A lot of information can be reflected from the title, for example, many graduate students now call their supervisors bosses, but Liu Feng refuses this title and keeps asking students to call him mentors. Even though Ding Qi has confirmed his relationship with Jiajia, this habit has never changed, whether in public or in private.

Hearing Ding Qi call out Dafang Senior Brother again, Zhong Dafang's expression was slightly embarrassed, and he hurriedly said in a concerned tone: "Xiao Ding, I didn't expect that there would be a help-seeker to make an appointment with you today, I thought you wouldn't come." ”

Ding Qi replied nonchalantly: "Since my sign has been hung out, someone has to turn it over! I am also famous now, even if it is out of curiosity, someone will turn over my brand." But today is a bit unfortunate, the person who made the appointment just now has never heard of the incident at Jinghu Ankang Hospital, and he doesn't know who I am. ”

Zhong Dafang: "Senior Brother Xiaoding, you seem to have misunderstood." You didn't take any leave on Monday, and it was normal to put your name on the appointment list. ”

Ding Qi: "Senior brother, you don't have to beat around the bush, it's all professional, who can't see through that little bit of caution, if you want me to take the initiative to leave, just say it, you don't need to make such a big detour!"

Zhong Dafang seemed to have suffered some grievances, and said in a complaining tone: "Senior Brother Xiaoding, where did you start with this?"

Ding Qi looked into his eyes and said, "Aren't you here to persuade me to leave?" lest you find another reason to fire me." ”

Zhong Dafang's expression was a little withdrawn, but he still said: "What is there to dispel or not, your labor and personnel relations were originally at Jinghu University, and the school's mental health center was only a labor cooperation. ”

The corners of Ding Qi's mouth showed a hint of mockery: "I'm still right!"

Zhong Dafang said a little hesitantly: "Actually, there is a help-seeker who complained about you, saying that the advice you gave was actually to let a woman who was no longer able to have another child, which caused her a lot of irritation and harm. ”

Ding Qi: "You just said that Hong Guirong got it, why hide it." Senior brother, you are also Tian Qi's appraiser, have you had private contact with Tian Xianglong and Hong Guirong?"

Zhong Dafang looked slightly startled, and then changed the topic and said, "Xiaoding, can we go in and sit down." ”

Ding Qi replied very dryly: "No, just stand here and say it, or don't say it!"

Zhong Dafang looked at the corridor and saw that there was no one else, and then lowered his voice and said, "Xiaoding, I know you have emotions. However, as you may have heard of yesterday's meeting, the school leadership team specifically pointed out that the center should make its own decision on the handling of the center according to the school's opinions on how to deal with you

Before he could finish speaking, Ding Qi interrupted: "The mentor is still here, when did Senior Brother Dafang become the head of this center?"

The Mental Health Center is a separate hospital from the university's affiliated hospital, and although it is administratively subordinate to Jingko University, it is managed independently. In terms of personnel, Jingko University is only responsible for appointing the leadership team of the center, and the appointment of doctors and nurses is the center's autonomy.

It is impossible for the school leaders to directly hire the center's counselors and psychiatrists, partly because the center is an independent institution, and partly because the profession is so strong that laymen really can't get involved.

Therefore, Jinghu University can directly expel Ding Qi from the teaching team and expel him from the school, but it cannot directly dismiss him from the mental health center. Procedurally, this should be a decision made by the mental health center itself. It is said that the school leaders have already given instructions at the meeting, and it is inevitable that Ding Qi will be dismissed, but there is no need to be in such a hurry, let alone Zhong Dafang to jump out.

Ding Qi obviously didn't want to have a good chat, but Zhong Dafang didn't get angry, but continued to explain in a low voice: "Our tutor is a rare good tutor, he has always taken care of students so much, how can he pull his face down to do this kind of thing?

I know that the tutor is difficult to do, and I can't let the tutor offend the school leaders, nor can I let the tutor pull down his face and expel his students, so I can only be the villain. After being taught and cared for by the mentor for so many years, we should also share his worries."

Ding Qi sneered and interrupted: "Should I call you a good senior brother in China? Before the tutor has time to do the instructions of the school leaders, you rush to do them, and you will really share the worries of the leaders! But you are not taking responsibility, you are clearly falling into the ground." I thought that only Tian Xianglong and Hong Guirong were the only ones who fell into the ground, but I didn't expect it to be you, Senior Brother Dafang. How can you say hello, praise you for being a good leader, a good student, or a good subordinate?"

This is already equivalent to pointing at his nose and scolding, Zhong Dafang's psychological quality is really good, as if he didn't care about Ding Qi at all, or he was just a two-skinned face, and still whispered: "Even from a purely professional point of view, the mental health center is not suitable for hiring you again, I think you understand the reason"

Zhong Dafang explained for a long time, and Ding Qi only sighed in his heart. In fact, he knew that he would be fired by the center, but only when and in what way. Even if Tutor Liu Feng didn't speak, if Zhong Dafang found him in person in a few days and talked about it, Ding Qi would not embarrass the mentor, and he would leave.

Moreover, his labor and personnel relationship is not in the mental health center, as long as the center no longer arranges his appointment registration, he can not come to work in the future, and this employment relationship will naturally be terminated, and no one will have to be embarrassed. But Zhong Dafang was too anxious and took the initiative to jump out to take this matter, on the one hand, it may be to please the school leaders, and on the other hand, the reason is probably not easy to say.

Even if he is a psychologist, Ding Qi will not think about everyone around him when he is fine, how tired he is. It wasn't until today that he understood that this generous senior brother didn't like him, and I was afraid that from the very beginning, he was rejected in his heart, and this mentality had been suppressed for several years unconsciously.

Zhong Dafang is the earliest batch of doctors led by Liu Feng, and now he is the second-in-command of the mental health center, and is also regarded as Liu Feng's professional successor. But such a position difference is a world of difference, Liu Feng also occupies the position of director of the center, as long as he does not give up his seat, Zhong Dafang seems to have no room for improvement.

Liu Feng is like a mountain, no matter from which angle, Zhong Dafang feels that he can't be pressed down. In the same situation, different people feel differently, for example, Ding Qi will feel that he is protected by Liu Feng's big tree, while Zhong Dafang will feel that he is always living in the shadow of Liu Feng, and it will not be his turn to show his face in the first place.

Liu Feng's promotion and cultivation of Ding Qi also significantly surpassed Zhong Dafang. There is such a mountain as Liu Feng in front of him, and Ding Qi is catching up in the back, and one day he will be squeezed aside, which may be Zhong Dafang's mentality. So Ding Qi can only sigh, is it that if he is rusty in a certain system, he can only see such a little thing in front of him?

Ding Qi is not suspicious and sensitive, but he is very sensitive, and the things he didn't expect were often just because he hadn't thought much about it before.

Yesterday, he suddenly received a notice from Zhong Dafang in the WeChat work group, and Ding Qi figured out that something was wrong. After the psychological counseling ended today, he wanted to verify his judgment, and Zhong Dafangguo couldn't wait to find the counseling room. In the conversation just now, Zhong Dafang mentioned Hong Guirong's "complaint" again, and Ding Qi completely verified some of his speculations.