Encounter
There have never been encounters for no reason, and those encounters are all to dilute the bitterness of life!
Before I left school, I thought that there were schools in the world, and then life is a process of learning all the time!
After leaving school and stepping into society, I realized that the learning time in school is the purest and happiest time!
Because life is more than what you seem!
Some people say that the sadness of adults is always unexpected; Especially at the age of thirty, there are old and young, and there is no one around you who can rely on them, even if there are one or two!
When I first left the campus, I was lucky to meet the fourth uncle's family; Through them, I met Yin's mother, Wang Jie, and Xiaoli......
They are wonderful people!
Since childhood, the fourth uncle has treated us very well, as a man, he does not lose to any woman in needlework, and I have the impression that I have worn the socks he knitted, and the socks knitted in many colors are used!
But such a "virtuous" uncle also left us early!
Or once in 16 years, the fourth uncle went to Jiangmen on a business trip, knew that I was here, and deliberately went around half the city to have a meal together; This meal was the first time I had with my fourth uncle since I left Tongzhou, but it was also the last.
In my memory, the fourth uncle always had to drink a lot of alcohol because of work and entertainment; When I was still at Yin's mother's place, he was always drunk when I saw him......
This time we had dinner together, and I proposed that my uncle and nephew clink glasses; The fourth uncle said that drinking alcohol hurts the body, and it is recommended to drink drinks.
Later, when I talked to the fourth aunt on the phone, she said that the fourth uncle had many physical indicators because he drank too much, and he was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment three times because of high blood pressure......
I never thought that less than half a month after the fourth uncle returned from Jiangmen, he heard the bad news that his acute cerebral hemorrhage could not be treated!
He collapsed at his desk during work hours, and his colleagues thought he was just taking a nap......
This year, the fourth uncle was forty-six years old, and his cousin Ji Xinku had just entered his first year of college.
When I went home to attend the funeral of the fourth uncle, I saw the fourth aunt, she was still as gentle and virtuous as before, even at such a sad moment, she still carefully greeted all the guests who came to mourn the fourth uncle.
The fourth uncle is one of the few in his father's generation who has been assigned to work by a secondary school, and I heard my mother say that the marriage between the fourth uncle and the fourth aunt is "the words of the matchmaker of the parents", and the fourth uncle has not gone out to study before it is booked, and the fourth uncle is responsible and dedicated; The fourth aunt only has a few years of primary school education, but she has a good heart and a business mind; followed the fourth uncle from scratch, not to mention the love, but he also respected each other and never made a big noise.
After the mourning, I was quite worried that the fourth aunt would not be able to face the home without the fourth uncle; is a family of three, her younger brother is studying outside, and the fourth uncle will never come back, she will be sad alone.
I proposed to let the fourth aunt and I go back to Shenzhen for a while to relax; She said no, the dead are gone, and the living still have to live well, after all, there are seventy or eighty-year-old parents and young children......
The fourth aunt is sensible, maybe the fourth uncle has already talked to her; Even if one day, one of the two people leaves first, the one who stays should be well, and live the part that leaves the person together.
Later, when I got married, my fourth aunt came to Shenzhen; The care given to me by the fourth aunt is second only to my mother!
This time, the fourth aunt and I talked about Yin's mother, the second year after I left Tongzhou for Guangdong, Yin's mother's restaurant closed; Yin's mother returned to her hometown and separated from Aunt Guo.
The fourth aunt said that Yin's mother found a man to remarry and gave birth to a son; Life is good!
said that Wang Jie also successfully studied in college, took the national examination after graduation, and successfully participated in the work; As my peers, she is all right except for the fact that her parents are not in harmony and divorced!
There is no news of Xiaoli, but I think about it, she is such a kind person, fate will not be unfair to her; Even if there are unsatisfactory times, she can still spend it with a smile!
The fate in this world is coincidental, at that time, the same dormitory ganged up, and when I returned to Jijia Village, we all reconciled again, and we also got married!
Wu Haiqiao married Ji Xinle's eldest brother Ji Xinhe and became our sister-in-law; After three years of marriage, she gave birth to two daughters, and the appearance of her little niece inherited from Sister Hai Qiao, who has dark skin but is very cute!
Wu Haiyan married Shi Yuanjiao's brother, and the living conditions after marriage were quite good, but the two have never had children.
Wu Haiye and Shi Yuanjiao married two brothers and became concubines; Life after marriage is a mess, and they always have bumps and bumps.
After Ji Xinran and Ji Xinle returned to the village, they didn't get so good, and they couldn't say why.
Ji Xinle married a young family in the same village, and he had a daughter before he got married; After three or five years of marriage, they were noisy, divorced and remarried five or six times; During this period, she left her family and everything to work in Jiangsu for two years, and then remarried and gave birth to a son; She also got a job as a village cadre in the village studio, which also relied on the computer typing she secretly learned back then, which can be regarded as putting what she learned into practice; Now that life is stable, it will continue to be good!
Ji Xinran married a little far, from the city next door; She doesn't like to talk about her life, so she doesn't know how she's doing; It's just that it looks very good, she has both children and daughters, her husband is a carpenter, and she lives by handicraft, so she takes care of her children wholeheartedly and accompanies them to study.
Ji Xintong and Wu Haiche are both married and live a stable life.
There is also Haiping, Haiqiu......
When people reach the age of 30 or so, they will be judged by getting married and having children, cars and houses, but in fact, there is a model for happiness!
Yang Song, the big brother who used to take special care of me; I haven't seen him since I left Jingjing Factory, and I have no way of knowing anything about him.
In fact, my heart is still very soft, and I still hope that all the people I know will have a good life!
I hope that the news without news is all good news, so let's assume that everyone is happy!
Zhong Mingming, Lai Junwei, Luo Jun, Yao Guanqing, Ni Haitao, Teng Xiaomei, Liu Ou, Leiwanwan...... Even Si Jinghong, I think they are all happy or unhappy!
After all, everyone's life is different, and every step they take is different, but it is undeniable that everyone will live seriously and pursue the life they like.
Xia Minglin is considered an unmarried, and he has always been seen going to various tourist attractions to check in recently; I asked him why he didn't find someone to marry and live with, and he said that some people missed it and never met again; The feeling of wanting to live with someone is gone!
He said that maybe in another ten or twenty years, he would find someone to talk to and live with!
Who can explain clearly the people they meet and the things they meet!
So you should be happy every day, work, eat, sleep, because tomorrow and accidents don't know who will come first!