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Tu Zhi lost consciousness, and for Ding Qi, he couldn't feel anything, but he was still awake and focused. It was a very scary experience that is simply indescribable. Ding Qi is in Tu Zhi's spiritual world, you can imagine that nothing exists in this world, nothing can be felt, everything is completely empty.

Even the self is gone, but the senses are still there, but the senses don't feel any information. Entering the spiritual world of others is sometimes dangerous, such as in this case, Tintzi is very easy to lose himself, or be frightened and stimulated by accidents. But fortunately, he was still awake, or rather clear, and immediately withdrew from Tu Zhi's spiritual world.

"Doctor Ding, did you see her?" was the first thing Tu Zhi said after Ding Qi asked Tu Zhi to open his eyes and told him that he could speak.

Ding Qi: "I saw her, a very beautiful girl, eighteen or nineteen years old, wearing a long blue dress, barefoot and very white skin, without any other ornaments on her body. ”

Tu Zhi: "Yes, it's her." ”

Finally someone really saw what he saw in his dream, Tu Zhi should be very surprised and excited, but his reaction now is a little wrong, to be precise, a little too calm. In fact, although Tu Zhi opened his eyes and was talking, he was still in a hypnotic state, and Ding Qi did not really wake him up completely.

A smart hypnotist can make the sleeper switch between deep hypnosis and shallow hypnosis, so that the hypnotized person can open his eyes and speak, and he can also do all kinds of actions. This is the case with Tu Zhi in front of him, or in a state of "post-hypnosis". However, Ding Qi himself has been completely awake from the state of deep self-hypnosis, and is observing and analyzing Tu Zhi.

Ding Qi asked again: "My mentor Liu Feng once gave you a hypnosis and made you see a girl, is it also her?"

Tu Zhi: "It's her, it's her, it's her." ”

Tintzy: "Did you have those continuous dreams first, or were you hypnotized by my mentor and saw the girl first?"

Tu Zhi: "It was a dream I had first, but then I forgot it." It wasn't until Uncle Liu hypnotized me that I saw her sitting at the table in the living room. The night after the hypnosis ended, I suddenly remembered that I had several consecutive dreams, as if I had awakened memories. ”

Tu Zhi's self-reported experience is quite bizarre, he first had those serial-like dreams. The dream was divided into three times, the first time was to that place, the second time was to that place, but it went deeper and farther, and the third time was to meet a girl there. Then he forgot about it, as people do in many dreams.

It wasn't until Liu Feng gave him that hypnosis and made a little joke that he "saw the girl again" that he suddenly woke up a certain memory afterwards, he recalled that he had had such a dream and had already seen her in his dream.

If he hadn't had the experience of entering the other party's spiritual world just now, Ding Qi might have judged that it was because of the influence of Liu Feng's joke that Tu Zhi's memory had been wrong, but in fact, he hadn't had that kind of dream, but he thought he had it. This is also the result of natural "brain supplementation", and the human brain can sometimes supplement all kinds of fragmented information into complete impressions on its own.

But at this moment, Ding Qi had another judgment, that is, Tu Zhi had really been to that place, and it was likely that he had really seen that girl. Strangely, this memory of his was forgotten for a while, as if it had been "deleted" in a state of deep hypnosis.

In a state of deep hypnosis, it is indeed possible to delete a specific memory, but that is only possible, and it is not really deleted, but it is no longer touched or remembered in the subconscious. In the presence of certain relevant stimuli, this memory will regain and may become extraordinarily clear.

Ding Qi judged from a professional point of view that this may be the case with Tu Zhi, then the problem is even more complicated. His so-called dream is not actually a dream, but a real experience, but this experience is forgotten and recalled, and then it is regarded as a dream in the cognition of the brain. He'd been to that place before, and three times.

But Ding Qi couldn't tell Tu Zhi directly, because this judgment was only a speculation of possibility. What's more, Ding Qi didn't know what place it was, who the girl was, and why did the memory of Tu Zhi disappear again?

One of the principles of psychological counseling and psychotherapy is sincerity, but sincerity does not mean that you have to tell the truth completely, but that when you make a certain judgment and guide a certain behavior, you must face the true and sincere heart. Some things can be left unsaid, and some things must be said in order to know how to say them, because it is necessary to foresee the consequences of words and actions.

If he told Tu Zhi his judgment, Tu Zhi would probably fall into a heart disease from now on, and there was no psychological problem that might lead to psychological problems. If you can't find that place, that person, you may always be troubled by it.

Ding Qi stood up, walked over and said, "Let's do a little test now, I put your arm here, it can't move, and it can't move if you want to." ”

As he spoke, Ding Qi gently raised Tu Zhi's right arm, which hung there, as if floating in the air and no longer under Tu Zhi's control. Ding Qi said again: "Now that I count from five to one, your whole body and mind will recover, hypnosis will be lifted, you will regain your lucidity and comfort, and your sleep quality will be better in the future five, four, three, two, one!"

Hearing a soft sound of "pop", Tu Zhi's right arm suddenly drooped down, and his hand slapped on his thigh. The arm stiffness test, which can be used at any stage of hypnosis, is very simple and common, and can be used to determine whether the hypnosis has been successful or whether the hypnotic state has actually been removed.

Tu Zhi blinked, sat up straight from the sofa and stretched his arms, and let out a long breath: "Teacher Ding, you are really amazing, in fact, I know what happened just now, but what is going on with my arm, I can't move even if I want to just now?"

Ding Qi smiled: "It's the arm stiffness test in hypnosis, in fact, not only the arm, but also the whole body, you can treat it as a legendary fixation technique." ”

Tu Zhi: "If this is on the battlefield, it will be powerful! When the enemy rushes over, he shouts that he will be fixed, and then the other party will be frozen." ”

Ding Qi laughed: "Your idea is really creative, but it can be programmed into the game program and used as a skill." But if you really get to the battlefield, who can honestly sit there and hypnotize you, how many times have you been hacked to death!"

Tu Zhi nodded very seriously: "That's the same." ”

Ding Qi: "You still remember what happened just now, what we said, right?"

Tu Zhi replied excitedly: "I remember, Mr. Ding, I want to thank you!"

Dingzi: "Thank you for letting you see that girl again?"

Tu Zhi: "Not only that, but more importantly, you let me know that there are others who can see her." From your description of her, I know you're not lying to me. ”

Ding Qi: "You want me to help, is this a favor?"

Tu Zhi sighed and said, "Yes, that's it." ”

His request was as simple as that. Ding Qi looked at Tu Zhi, this person actually has no mental abnormality, in fact, there is no serious psychological problem, insomnia is more caused by work pressure and living habits, and the memories of that series of dreams are only because of a real experience.

After ending the hypnotic state, Tu Zhi first joked with Ding Qi and talked about "fixation", which also shows that his mentality is very normal. Dantinzi had learned more about Tu Zhi from his mentor, and knew that since the hypnosis experience, this person was reluctant to fall in love on a blind date, because he already had an ideal object in mind.

Mentor Liu Feng did not tell Ding Qi that Tu Zhi still had such a thing as a "continuous dream". At that time, Liu Feng just wanted to remind Ding Qi that he must be cautious when using hypnotic suggestion, and had no intention of talking about Tu Zhi's personal affairs.

Tu Zhi is not psychotic, more like unrequited love. If you have a correct and sober concept and understanding of marriage and love, unrequited love is not a psychological problem, and Tu Zhi just can't find the other party to confess.

People spend money to find a psychiatrist to solve their confusion, and although Tu Zhi did not make further requests, Ding Qi also has to do his duty. But what should he do in this situation, what advice can Ding Qi give him, and what should Ding Qi do if he "sets a small goal first"?

After pondering for a moment, Ding Qi took the initiative to say: "Mr. Tu, I don't comment on your situation. But according to my judgment and diagnosis, you have no mental abnormality, except for difficulty falling asleep due to work pressure and lifestyle habits, there are no serious psychological problems. ”

Tu Zhi: "I know, Uncle Liu said the same thing." ”

Ding Qi: "I'll tell you a story, I saw it in one" Ye Xing recommended a book to Ding Qi a year ago, which was a network called Earth Master. There is a story in the book, which is suitable for Tu Zhi at this time.

There is a young man named Fang Yue, who occasionally got an "ancient painting", the style is a bit like Tang Yin's autumn wind holding a fan, there is a moon door in the painting, and a beautiful girl stands next to the flowers in front of the door. After getting this ancient painting, Fang Yue not only broke up with the object introduced by the family, but also was no longer willing to fall in love with the object.

Of course, the parents are anxious, and the relatives and friends are also very strange, and some people think that this young man is bent, but he is also not interested in finding a boyfriend. Once when he was drinking with friends, Fang Yue accidentally said that he had drunk too much, and everyone knew that he had been "in love" during this time, and the object was the girl in the painting.

Fang Yue is not only in love with the person in the painting, but also really in love with the person in the painting, he can see her, just like a real existence in reality. But others couldn't see it, thinking that he was stunned, and his parents even wanted to burn this one. Later, the painting was retained, and the parents had nothing to do about it

This story completely aroused Tu Zhi's curiosity, and when he heard this, he couldn't help but ask, "What happened later?"

Ding Qi smiled unhurriedly and said, "Later, it's also very interesting." Fang Yue didn't want to be talked about by the people around him, so he moved to a place to live. It was in the neighborhood that he met a girl named Meng Meng, and he felt that she was the person in the painting, and then the two of them got along. ”

The ending of this story was a little too abrupt, and Tu Zhi was a little stunned and said, "It's that simple!

Dingzi: "Of course not, I recently read it in a book. ”

Tu Zhi: "Teacher Ding has read a lot of books, are they ancient books such as Tang Legend and Taiping Guangji?"

Ding Qi: "It's really not an ancient book, it's just a network, a modern urban theme." ”

Tu Zhi: "What kind of book, I'll look for it too." ”

Ding Qi told Tu Zhi the title and author of the book, and advised: "The book is quite long, there are there, there are physical books, a total of 360 chapters, almost 1.8 million words, and the story I tell is only a small part of it." You don't have to rush to finish reading it in a few days, just relax and don't affect your rest.

Don't forget what I said last time, don't read in bed, go to bed is sleep, don't do anything in bed that has nothing to do with sleep, anything other than that, otherwise it will form a bad autosuggestion, always feel like you have to do something to fall asleep. ”

Tu Zhi: "Don't worry, I will follow the doctor's instructions." ”

When Tu finished this psychotherapy and left, it was almost exactly three hours, and he still carried the Jingwen stone with him. For Tu Zhi, the effect of this psychotherapy is very good, and there is even a sense of relief. But Ding Qi, who is a psychiatrist, instead added to his mind and sat there in meditation for a long time.

Why Ding Qi told Tu Zhi such a story is actually a hint to guide him to adjust his behavior and focus on the real life around him. Even if his mentality is to look for the woman he saw in his dreams, this is also an unconscious emotional release, because the story has such an ending.

Of course, on the other hand, Ding Qi also thought of another possibility. If that place and that girl really exist, in case Tu Zhi really finds it one day, then it will still be that result, which is in line with realistic psychological expectations. From the perspective of the routines of the rivers and lakes, this is called "two-end blocking", which Ding Qi just learned from a book recently.

Why was Ding Qi sure that that place was real, and Tian Qi and Tu Zhi had both been there? When he entered the spiritual world of others, Ding Qi was equivalent to a judgment directly reached in his subconscious, and at this moment, he began to carefully analyze the logical reasoning process contained in this judgment.

From a psychoanalytic point of view, it is possible that Tian Qi and Tu Zhi read the same book, and it is more likely that they have watched the same movie or TV series, and there are scenes like that in them, which happen to leave a deep impression on them, and even stimulate their spirits. But this theoretical possibility was quickly denied by Ding Qi.

The spiritual world reflects everyone's state of mind, but if you ignore the difference between Tian Qi and Tu Zhi's state of mind, the scenes shown in their spiritual world are almost identical.

The possibility of having read the same book is ruled out in the first place, which is not what a literal description can achieve. One person can show an imaginary scene because of his understanding of words, but it is impossible for two people to show exactly the same.

The possibility of having seen the same film and television work was then ruled out. Because Ding Qi has entered the spiritual world of two people one after another, although they have arrived at the same place, the routes they walk and the perspectives of the scenery are different. 3 It is also impossible to make a scene like that in a film just by set or computer design, unless it is shot on location.

But if it is filmed on the spot, it means that the place is real, whether it is a scene in a film and television drama is meaningless, it is somewhere in reality. Tian Qi is a mentally ill person, he has never been far away since he was a child, he lives in Jinghu City, and Tu Zhi's parents' family also lives in Jinghu City, so this place should be in Jinghu City.

However, as far as Ding Qi knows, there is no such place in Jinghu City, and although the scene is very similar to Xiaochishan Park, it is definitely not Xiaochishan Park. The city is huge, including urban and suburban villages, and it is impossible for Ding Qi to walk through all the places, maybe it really exists somewhere, and Ding Qi is eager to find it.

At this moment, someone pushed the door in and asked in surprise, "Teacher Ding, why are you still here?"

Ding Qi looked at his watch, it turned out that he had been sitting alone for almost an hour unconsciously, this psychological consultation room was shared by everyone, and then another psychiatrist had an appointment. He quickly got up and said, "I'm thinking about something, I didn't pay attention to the time." ”

After Ding Qi left Boci Medical, he drove directly to Xiaochishan Park by the river. He walked around the park for a long time, and the scenery was so familiar, but it was not a place that he had seen in the spiritual world of Tian Qi or Tu Zhi. Standing by the river and looking into the distance, there seems to be no place to compare with the impression, surrounded by large high-rise buildings.

If you go back 20 or 30 years, Xiaochishan Park, including the nearby area of Jinghu University, would already be on the edge of the city, and the other side of the river would be an undeveloped rural area, but now the appearance has completely changed.