Actually, this thing is very simple to say, just now I said that you want to magnify your own advantages This thing is not wrong, and just now this lady, what he said is not wrong, why are these two sentences not wrong, now I will tell you, what do you think are the advantages of our women, what kind of women can attract men enough?

Of course, it is a woman in our new era, and now this feeling in the new era can attract men, if we just don't follow the rules to be a good wife and mother, I estimate that no matter what man will go on in time, he will gradually lose his passion, lose his feeling, and he will snub us, and at that time we have always been just relying on men, will definitely lose their sense of security, when the time comes, we will make trouble and noisy, and will definitely make men upset, he will be even more disgusted with us! Therefore, what I mean by this is to let all you women be self-reliant, rely on your own efforts, be able to have your own backers, and let yourself no longer rely on men, so that you can live your own life and make yourself self-reliant.

Mrs. Mu, I understand what you mean, do you want all of us to run our own business like you, develop our own business, and have our own business, so that we will have a backer, a back, and we will not be afraid of nothing after the man abandons it, right?

Yes, that's it, I mean that our women now have to be self-reliant, most of the women now go out to work, and we, after marrying into a wealthy family, if we just blindly be the wife of a wealthy family, don't care about anything, if this man wants to divorce us, then we will still have nothing in the future, even compared to those professional women who go to work, so we must not abandon ourselves, can not waste ourselves, we must spend our energy and time on creating ourselves, more consolidate and perfect ourselves such things, only we consolidate ourselves more perfectlyA self-reliant woman is the most attractive, don't you think? A woman is only the most beautiful when she is confident.

That's right, Mrs. Mu, what you said is not wrong at all, we see you, so confident and self-reliant, I really think you are perfect, in our eyes we really envy you, you are like this because you have your own business, right? It's like we are all housewives at home, although we are the wives of wealthy families, and we don't have to do any work, but it's boring to stay at home, and all the time we can only think about what our husbands are doing and what our children are doing, so over time, we will be suspicious, suspicious of this and that, and then the suspicious husband will be annoyed, and he will not be too lazy to take care of us.

Yes, yes, that's right, it's because we don't have anything to do at home, so we always go to cranky, and we also bother our husbands all day long, just want us to let him love us a little more and care more about us, but even more so, they are even more annoying to us!

Yes, ladies, you're right, men are like this, liking the new and hating the old is actually everyone's personality, but some people are a little bigger, some people are just a little bit, but almost everyone has it, so we have to consolidate ourselves more, make ourselves more women in the new era, more dazzling and bright, so that we can attract the attention of others enough, the same, we also want men to have a sense of crisis, what is a sense of crisis? Like the lady said, we can't revolve around a man, right? Let him feel that it is impossible for us to leave him, we are too tired if we are like that, and the whole world is full of people who revolve around this one man, why should they be like this, they are not just revolving around us, so we have to make them feel a sense of crisis, we must let them know that we can leave him if they are self-reliant, we can leave him behind, if they treat us badly to us, we will leave him without fear, and then they will know that they care about you!

So that's the case, Mrs. Mu, we almost understand what you mean, you mean you want us to be self-reliant, let us also be a strong woman like you, right?

That's right, ladies, what I want you to understand is this truth, women only become strong by themselves, and they will not suffer from gains and losses if they don't rely on anyone, and they won't think about relying on others to live, so they are not afraid of losing anyone, you have such good conditions, compared to those girls from poor families, they have to go out and think about how to go to work, how to save money to do business, and you don't need it, you see that you have such good resources now, such good capital, why don't you use it as soon as possibleYour husband has such capital to supply you, you have to take advantage of this opportunity, seize this opportunity to be your own boss, you have a good experience of making money, don't you think this is very good, when the time comes, you use your husband's strength, to get your own business, so that you don't have to be afraid of them abandoning you in the future, will make you have nothing, you don't have to be afraid of anything in the future, and you are idle at home so you will be cranky, and when you start a career and make money yourself, you will be full of self-confidence and busyYou will not put all your thoughts on your husbands, and you will not bother them.

When the time comes, with this sense of distance, it will make those men turn around and be very surprised, why don't you pester them, at least they will have some curiosity about you, if this man is curious about women, it is very scary, they will want to know more and more about what you are doing, in this way, you will experience that your man will be more and more interested in himself, they will be more and more curious about themselves, and their minds will be full of you all day long, and when the time comes, you will not worry about being like me, just like my family Yuntian all day around me all day long is me in my heart。

It turns out that Mrs. Mu is using this method to tie Mr. Mu's heart firmly, no wonder Mr. Mu he pesters you all day long, and he is so jealous, I heard that he spoils you so much, we thought you were very good-looking, so he was so fascinated, I didn't expect you to use such a method, not to mention, this method I sound good, it is really good, to be a strong woman, both self-confidence, and not afraid of being abandoned and having nothing, but also to let her husband regain interest in herself, it is really a good idea。

Madam, no matter how good-looking this woman is, even if she looks like a fairy, so if she and this man say that they live for a lifetime, needless to say a lifetime, it is just but very short but a long period of time for a pair of men, if she comes, she will also lose her freshness, there are some cheating men, and even his cheating lover is not as good-looking as his wife compared to his wife, but they are just interested in those people, this is not the so-called wild flowers are more fragrant than home flowers, this kind of truth, in fact, because there is no freshness to their wives, too familiar, so it also forms aesthetic fatigue, whether you are too beautiful, and can't arouse his interest, that's why he will go outside to find other women, re-raise his interest, his passion, and we just want to use the personality of men: you tie them up well, don't they want to be fresh? Then we will do ourselves and be those self-reliant women, don't take those people in our eyes, don't put those thoughts on them, they can do whatever they want? At that time, it is estimated that it will not be us who will stick to the man upside down, but the man will turn his head and chase you. Hibiscus said to them.

Mrs. Mu, what you said is really a good idea, now think about it, if this is really the case, I will also open a company in the future, and run it by myself, in this way, I will also have something to do, and I don't have to think about it, even if my husband is still not interested in me at that time, I think it is also a very good thing, after all, I have my own business, I have my own way to make money, even if it is in case the two of us divorce, or if I am taken by those shameless vixens, I am not afraid that I will be alone and have nothing。

That's right, madam, it is this truth, only if we are self-reliant and self-reliant, we will not be afraid of anyone's abandonment, and when we are not afraid of others' abandonment, our own charm will also exude, and confident women are the most beautiful.

But Mrs. Mu, you said that after we graduated from college, we have followed our husband to be the wife of a wealthy family at home, then, we don't know what kind of business model the outside world is now, and we have long been like isolated, in the past few years, we have only been interested in those brand-name bags, as well as those etiquette, as well as those aristocratic things, as well as those jewelry, and other things, we don't even know at all, so what kind of business we have to do to be able to do wellIf we don't do well and lose money, won't our husbands laugh at us? Won't we laugh at us for not being able and unreliable?