Text Text_007, a strange acquaintance

Ding Qi lived in an eight-person dormitory when he was an undergraduate, he was the seventh, and the second eldest in the dormitory was named Tian Rongping, a student in the suburbs of Jiangbei in Jinghu City, with average family conditions, and a very good relationship with Ding Qi in private.

The second child and Ding Qi said one thing, after he received the admission letter from Jinghu University and before the report, he received a bonus or financial aid from the Jiangbei Tian Clan Association.

Most of the various clan associations have appeared in recent years, and the earliest ones are often for raising funds to revise the score, and later there are more activities, and several leading figures take the initiative to stand up and be responsible for organizing and liaison. The Jiangbei Tian Clan Friendship Association was founded by Tian Xianglong, and he naturally became the president.

Tian Xianglong was born in the countryside of Jiangbei suburbs, and many people in that area have the surname Tian and belong to the same clan since ancient times. He made a lot of money in business, so he funded the revision of the score and established the Jiangbei Tian Clan Association, and his most influential charity was in the name of the Tian Clan Association, and he personally funded and rewarded the Tian students.

For example, in the year when Tian Rongping took the college entrance examination, the students registered on the Tian family tree received a subsidy of 2,000 yuan as long as they obtained a copy recognized by the state. Two thousand yuan may not be too much for some people, but it is not too little for Tian Rongping, and it is a windfall. Tian Rongping wanted to buy a passable smartphone when he went to college, but he was embarrassed to ask his parents for it, and he ended up using the money.

What kind of kinship is the second child and Tian Xianglong, I'm afraid it's difficult to figure out, it's almost a distant relative, but in short, it belongs to the same clan of the Jiangbei Tian clan. Tian Rongping also told Ding Qi a lot of things about Tian Xianglong, including some unverified gossip.

What is certain is that Tian Xianglong started in the construction of the Jiangbei New Area in Jinghu City, and he first contracted the government's village relocation and land leveling projects, accumulated the first pot of gold, and later began to do real estate projects. Now the company has begun to transform, and its main business focuses on building materials, decoration, building decoration, and information design.

Twenty years ago, Tian Xianglong led his team to bulldoze many villages in Jiangbei, and also demolished many ancestral halls that were very historical, but were not rated as cultural relics protection units.

There is also a gossip. It is said that after Tian Xianglong made a fortune, he once went to the temple to burn incense, and it was the first pillar incense on the first day of the Lunar New Year, and he was stopped by an old monk after going out. The old monk said that he was rich and blessed, but he was afraid that it would be difficult to be rich and noble for a long time, especially the wealth of future generations.

The old monk also told him many things about Tian Xianglong, which were very accurate, so that Tian Xianglong had to believe it, so he asked him how to resolve it? The old monk told him to do more good deeds in order to accumulate merits, so that he could keep his descendants rich and rich. After Tian Xianglong returned from the temple, he founded the Jiangbei Tian Clan Association, and began to fund the revision of the genealogy, and then funded the Tian family's students.

This also made Tian Xianglong win a lot of social praise, and he himself became a member of the CPPCC of Jiangbei District and Jinghu City, which can be regarded as an affirmation of social status and social influence. What kind of person is Tian Xianglong, I'm afraid you can't use just one thing to make a conclusion, human nature is complicated, isn't it?

From the professional perspective of forensic identification, Tian Xianglong's identity and background have nothing to do with whether Tian Qi had the capacity for criminal responsibility at the time of committing the crime, so only one name was mentioned in the materials, and no other introduction was made. Unless Tian Qi has a family history of mental illness, there is no need for Ding Qi to know more about Tian Xianglong.

However, Ding Qi had heard of Tian Xianglong and knew a lot of things about him, so he would inevitably think of many other questions. Don't forget, Ding Qi also taught social psychology at the university! Psychiatric evaluation does not need to consider other factors, only the mental state of the person, whereas social psychology requires the study of the wide range of effects of the same event on various social groups.

Tian Xianglong is rich and powerful, and has huge social resources, so he has the conditions to exonerate his son Tian Qi through various means, which will also have an impact on relevant personnel. But on the other hand, because of this, if the case is disseminated and fermented through the media, it will put him in a disadvantageous position in public opinion.

If the court makes a verdict in favor of Tian Qi's exoneration, the basis that the judge can cite is probably the conclusion of the forensic psychiatric evaluation, then the expert will also bear tremendous pressure, and this pressure will not come from professional judgment but from public opinion. Looking beyond the professional point of view, this appraisal is actually not easy to do.

The time of the case on the materials was the day before yesterday, and within 48 hours, the materials had been placed in front of the case of Ding Qi, one of the three experts. This shows that Tian Xianglong applied for judicial appraisal for Tian Qi at the first time, and the relevant departments quickly arranged the appraisal work, and the efficiency is not amazing, which also shows some problems.

Ding Qi subconsciously turned on the computer and searched for Tian Xianglong's information on the Internet. At this moment, the ringing of the mobile phone woke up Ding Qi who was in deep thought, and when he picked it up, he saw that it was his girlfriend Jiajia> Jiajia is in the first year of her master's degree at Peking University, and she is in two places with her boyfriend, of course, there is no need to rent a house off campus, and she lives in a three-room dormitory. They would be in touch every night around eleven o'clock to whisper a few intimate words, or make a phone call in a low voice, or a video call at a convenient time.

Jiajia asked him why there was no news today, was there something at night but didn't say it in advance, or was he already asleep? Ding Qi looked up and saw that it was almost twelve o'clock, and hurriedly replied, he had just read the information too seriously and forgot the time.

Jiajia: "I got a new hairstyle today, do you want to see it?"

Ding Qi: "I want to see it, I want to see it...... Is there no one in your dorm now?"

Jiajia: "The two of them are out for something, I am the only one left tonight, the opportunity is rare, but you didn't contact me just now!"

Ding Qi hurriedly turned on the video call, and the next thing was the interaction between lovers, greasy, praise, **, etc., as she spoke, Jiajia suddenly asked: "What's wrong with you today?" I made so many cute expressions, but your reaction was not excited at all, is there something wrong?"

Ding Qi has tried his best to switch and adjust his mood, this time of day is his happiest time, but there is still a little difference between his performance on weekdays after all, and he was noticed by Jiajia, she is really a very sensitive girl. Ding Qi had to explain, mainly because the material he just read affected his mood, but he didn't talk about the specific details of the case.

Jiajia pouted and said, "You are a major, you will always be exposed to so much negative information, but fortunately I shine on you so sunshine and cuteness...... Dad is also for your good, you just need to do your job seriously, don't think too much!"

After the video call with Jiajia, Ding Qi's mood has completely adjusted. He lay on the bed adjusting his breathing, slowly filtered out all kinds of emotions, entered a state of empty mind and relaxed body, and gradually fell asleep, ending this extremely fulfilling and slightly tested, but full of happy expectations.

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When he saw the name Hong Guirong, Ding Qi didn't have any special impressions and feelings. This is a client today, and the problem he encountered was insomnia, which is very common in psychological counseling work, and the specific cause needs to be understood through ingestion talks.

There were two people who walked into the consultation room, but Ding Qi was immediately taken aback. Hong Guirong's age filled in the reservation information is thirty-seven years old, but she is well maintained, her skin and figure are very good, her body is slightly plump and has a mature and sexy charm, and she looks cold and says that she is twenty-seven years old, which is estimated to be believed. But that's not the point, the point is that another person comes in with her.

In the course of counselling, sometimes a third party is present, usually a family member of the client, which requires the consent of the counsellor and the client, provided that the third party present does not adversely interfere with the counselling process and helps to understand the client's situation.

Ding Qi hadn't seen this person, but he recognized it at a glance, he had just searched for his photo on the Internet the night before, it was Tian Xianglong!

Tian Xianglong's height is not too tall, the visual inspection will be more than one meter seven, although he is middle-aged, but his physique is still strong, and he can also see that his body should be great when he is young, and his foundation is very good.

Tian Xianglong suddenly appeared here, and Ding Qi realized that the other party should not be here for psychological counseling. But as a counselor, his profession requires him to integrate into the role in the consulting room, Ding Qi smiled politely: "Please sit down, you two! This is Ms. Hong Guirong, right? Who is this gentleman of yours, and what can I do to help you?"

Hong Guirong: "This is my husband, can he sit here with me?"

Dingzi: "If you ask for it and think it will help you solve your psychological problems, of course you can. If there is any problem that needs to be avoided during the psychological counseling process, we can ask him to avoid it temporarily. ”

There is a coffee table and two sofas in the consultation room, the single sofa at one end of the coffee table is Ding Qi's seat, and the couch on the side of the coffee table is the seat of the helper. The reason for this arrangement is that Ding Qi needs to grasp the psychological distance between him and the person seeking help at any time.

On the couch, some people will sit closer to him, while others will stay away from him, which can also reflect the corresponding personality traits and attitude towards the counselor. Sometimes, by observing the change in the position of the help-seeker sitting on the couch, Ding Qi can also judge the change in the psychological distance and trust relationship between the other party and him, or the change in the sensitivity of the topic.

Other times, there was an extra person to sit on the couch, as is the case today. Both of them wanted to sit on the side close to Ding Qi, Tian Xianglong hesitated slightly, and he had already been grabbed by Hong Guirong. She was the nominal helper, and it was right to sit here, Ding Qi didn't say anything, just took out two paper cups and poured water for them.

After Tian Xianglong sat down, his eyes wandered, constantly looking at the furnishings in the room, even the corners of the ceiling were not missing, and suddenly asked: "Doctor Ding, there is no audio and video here, right?"

Ding Qi smiled and explained, "Although you call me Dr. Ding, I still want to emphasize that our relationship is not that of a doctor and a patient, or that of a counselor and a client. The help-seeker may be in psychological distress, but usually not the patient. There is no audio or video recording equipment here, and we will keep the content of the meeting confidential, and I will not take live notes unless you agree to it. ”

Hong Guirong glanced at her husband and said, "I have inquired a long time ago, no audio or video recording can be made here, and it must be kept secret." ”

Ding Qi asked again: "I don't know if I have any place to help you?" Ms. Hong Guirong, looking at your appointment registration information, the problem you need to ask for help is insomnia?"

After finishing speaking, Ding Qi was waiting for Hong Guirong's answer. Hong Guirong leaned forward, as if he had suddenly made a decision, and blurted out: "Doctor Ding, I heard that you are going to do a psychiatric evaluation for a patient named Tian Qi? Tian Qi is my son!"

Ding Qi was taken aback, this was too direct, too anxious, and too naked. What was more surprised than Ding Qi was Tian Xianglong, he obviously didn't expect his daughter-in-law to say this directly in the first sentence, his expression was very stunned, this was different from what he had discussed in advance, he grabbed Hong Guirong's arm, and it was too late to stop anything.

Ding Qi tried his best to remain calm and replied very professionally: "Ms. Hong, I think you have a misunderstanding about psychological counseling work. Our mission is to help clients solve psychological problems, relieve psychological stress, and establish correct cognitive and behavioral models, rather than helping clients solve specific problems in real life. ”

Hong Guirong said eagerly: "I know all this, Doctor Ding, we finally found out about you, you are going to give our family Tian Qi an appraisal next week? Many people in society have opinions about my family Lao Tian, but my family Tian Qi is indeed mentally ill, as long as it can be fairly evaluated, no matter what ...... you need?"

"Okay, don't say it!" It was Tian Xianglong who interrupted her, this Boss Tian looked very embarrassed and a little annoyed, and smiled at Ding Qi, "Doctor Ding, I'm really sorry, my daughter-in-law is a little too anxious, and she doesn't speak in tune, please don't take it to heart." We did come for counseling, but I didn't expect her to say this as soon as she opened her mouth.

I know the rules and can't interfere with your work, so we absolutely didn't mean to interfere with you. But since I have already talked about this situation, then I will make a statement to you, if you need help in the future, you don't need to take the initiative to come to me, I will definitely arrange it to your satisfaction.

I'm talking about the future, not the present, and it has nothing to do with today's incident, and it has nothing to do with the appraisal you made for my family Tian Qi, please don't misunderstand......"

As an excellent psychologist, although Ding Qi does not dare to say that he can always see through people's hearts, he can also keenly capture the mental activities of the other party. Tian Xianglong didn't know how to find out that he was the appraiser who did the appraisal for Tian Qi, and the purpose of coming here was to do his job.

From the perspective of a third party, Tian Xianglong is obviously violating the rules by doing this, but if he must do this, maybe he can change to a smarter way. Since Ding Qi is a listed psychological counselor, Tian Xianglong came to do psychological counseling, and he should pretend not to know about it.

As long as Tian Xianglong doesn't say it, under the requirements of the appraiser's professional discipline, Ding Qi can't take the initiative to say it.

Tian Xianglong introduced his situation through the conversation, mentioned what happened to his son, and emphasized the authenticity of Tian Qi's illness and the distress and distress he suffered, which would be very sympathetic. On this occasion, Ding Qi, as a consultant, can't take the initiative to break it, in fact, everyone knows it.

Tian Xianglong can express his appreciation for Ding Qi, implying that he can exert influence in return for him in his own capacity.

Of course, this is also illegal, but from a third-party point of view, it is a smarter strategy. Ding Qi didn't know whether Tian Xianglong had this kind of plan before he came, but if Tian Xianglong really had this kind of thought, Hong Guirong had already destroyed this possibility as soon as he opened his mouth just now.

Obviously, the couple had discussed it before they came, but what actually happened was different from what they had discussed beforehand. Hong Guirong heard that the talks here were confidential, and he was sure that there were no audio and video records, so he wanted to buy Ding Qi directly. This kind of person tends to think very simply, do what she thinks is most effective, and are not willing to take into account the situation and feelings of others.

And Tian Xianglong was much smarter or more shrewd than his wife, and immediately tried to reverse and make up for the situation. Even if you want to buy an appraiser, you can't behave so directly, especially if you can't have a direct causal relationship with the appraisal work.

If Ding Qi identifies a satisfactory result, it is possible to do so after the fact that the young scholar can be funded, sponsored, or helped by other means to show his gratitude and appreciation. For example, in terms of applying for scientific research funds, producing academic results, and participating in seminars and exchanges, there are actually many articles to be done for a young scholar, which is more hidden and ingenious.

In Ding Qi's view, although Tian Xianglong is smarter than his wife, he is also limited in his skill, and he still extends his own habits of dealing with fish people in shopping malls and politics to other fields.

Tian Xianglong thinks he is smart, and in some respects he may indeed be shrewd and capable, otherwise how could he make a fortune? But in other aspects, he may also be just a self-righteous and even self-inflated half-tone, otherwise how could he do such a thing as coming directly to Ding Qi?

Ding Qi shook his head helplessly and said: "Mr. Tian and Ms. Hong, if you have an attempt to bribe, or interfere with the appraiser in advance, and exert influence and pressure on the appraisal work, even if I don't take a penny from you, even if I make an appraisal that is favorable to Tian Qi, the appraisal conclusion in court can be questioned as invalid because the procedure is not legal."

You should not have private contact with the evaluators, and I, as a counselor, should not have a stake in you outside of the counseling room, which violates both rules. If Ms. Hong still has psychological problems and needs help, it is no longer appropriate to continue to consult with me, and I can refer you to another counselor. ”