First of all, you must think that you have a happy marriage.

Yes, you think about getting married, before you get married, you definitely need to find a girlfriend, you definitely need to fall in love with this girlfriend, when your relationship is enough, when your relationship is getting better and better, it is obvious that you start talking about marriage, you start to prepare for marriage. You want your marriage to be happy, you want your married life to be stable, you want your married life to be happy and stable. But sometimes you can't really let yourself get a stable and happy life, because obviously, sometimes you can't really understand a person, sometimes you can't really understand a person, sometimes, you can't really clearly understand what kind of person the other party is, whether the other party really wants to live such a life like you, whether the other party also wants to live such a life like you, whether the other party is also the same as you is pursuing such a stable and happy life.

If you can perceive that the other person is not such a stable person before you get married, then obviously you should not let yourself marry him, obviously you should not let yourself and him enter the palace of marriage, but not everyone is so clear that they can know the dreams of another person, or even if you ask others, others may not tell you so clearly.

After getting married, slowly the two of you will begin to understand each other, and slowly the two of you will already know each other's thoughts. Yes, at this time he may be a person who wants to live a stable life, and at this time of course the two of you will live a very happy life, because the two of you are the same kind of people, because the two of you have the same dreams, because the two of you have the same values, at this time, you are unlikely to quarrel over some very important things! At this time, you will not part ways with each other because of some so-called dreams. Of course, you may also quarrel, but the content of your quarrel will definitely not involve these major issues, you may just quarrel over a little trivial matter in life, this kind of quarrel does not actually affect the relationship, this kind of quarrel may even enhance the relationship.

Of course, even if the two of you are like-minded people, even if the two of you have a common pursuit of life, even if the two of you have common requirements for life, it is obvious that you should not take it lightly. Yes. You should still allow yourself to really care about others, you should still let yourself really care about others, you should still allow yourself to really treat others well. Because only in this way will others be really willing to follow you with all their hearts, because only in this way can the two of you become a happy couple, because only in this way will the two of you live happily.

In fact, in ordinary life, you often find such people, that is to say, their lives are not very good, that is to say, there may be such neighbors around you, that is to say, the neighbors around you may not have a good life of their own, but they don't care about their own lives at all, they care about the lives of the people next to them, they care about the lives of their neighbors, it is possible that they care about your life, yes, although they themselves are not doing well, but they don't think about the reason at all, they don't think about why they are not doing wellThey didn't think about why they had a bad relationship with their families, why their work didn't go well, why they didn't think about why they were living so depraved, they didn't think about how they could improve their quality of life, and they didn't think about how they should make their lives better. Or they can't think about it at all, or they can't think about it at all, because obviously, their life is already like this, their life can't have any changes, they feel that their life can't have any other more and bigger changes, so they just accept their fate, so they feel like they live their lives like this. Yes, at this time it is clear that they have nothing else to pursue, they have nothing else to do, and of course they are starting to think about some other things at this time.

At this time, of course, they will endlessly focus on some other people's things. If something happens to your family, it is obvious that your neighbor who has nothing to do already knows, and your neighbor will start discussing your matter, and your neighbor will even ask you about it, and your neighbor will even ask you how you plan to deal with it, and your neighbor will even ask you how you think about it, and your neighbor will even criticize you for saying that what you are doing is wrong, and your neighbor will even criticize you for saying that you should not do it at all, and they can speak any language, and they will not feel that their language is inappropriate, and they do not feel that their behavior is inappropriateThey don't feel like they shouldn't say, they don't feel like they shouldn't ask, they feel as if they can say everything, they feel as if they can ask about other people's lives, they feel like they should be like this, they feel like they can live a little more comfortably only in this way.

Yes, because they have nothing to do at all, because they simply don't care about anything else. But they always have to do things, they always have to talk, and if they don't care about themselves, if they don't do things that are relevant to themselves, then obviously they need to care about others, or they need to do things related to others. Of course, such people are very annoying, or everyone has such people around them, and it is obvious that such people are not liked by everyone, or that all people do not like such people very much.

He has friends, and she has her own very good friends and ordinary friends.

Yes, a person's life must not only be himself, your life must not only be your relatives, your life will definitely not only be your wife and your own son, there will definitely be other people in your life, if you only have people around you in your life, it is obvious that your life will not be particularly rich, or your life will definitely be very monotonous, only if you know more people, only if you have a lot of friends, your life will be enriched, your life will become richer, and you will feel that your life will not be so boring。

Yes, if you only have relatives around you in your life, obviously, your life will not be particularly interesting, that is, there may be things that you need to say to your relatives, if there are things, you may need to say to your friends, if there are, you need to say to your close friends, obviously, there are some things that you can't say to your relatives, obviously there are some things you can't say to your sons and daughters, some things you can only say to your friends, some things you can only talk to your friends, some topics you have to talk about between friends, some topics you have to talk about with good friends。

Of course, all your friends are not necessarily good friends, your friends may not understand you, your friends may reprimand you, your friends may compliment you, your friends may do something with you that you like, and your friends may do something with you that you don't like. All in all, you will have all kinds of friends, you will have some friends who are relatively shallow, these friends may not have much affection between the two of you, maybe the two of you have not done a lot of things together, maybe the relationship between the two of you is wine and meat feelings, maybe the two of you just have a meal together, that is, you do a certain thing together, and then the two of you know each other, and then the two of you don't hate each other.

At this time, the two of you have become ordinary friends. Obviously, there are some topics that you can't talk about with ordinary friends, some things you won't talk about with ordinary friends, and some things you won't do with ordinary friends, but obviously, if one day you meet him by chance, if you meet him by chance on a certain occasion, the two of you will definitely sit down and talk about each other's lives, talk about topics that you think are interesting to each other, of course you can't talk about deep feelings, of course you can't talk deeply. But after all, the two of you are still friends, after all, the two of you are not strangers, and after all, the two of you can sit down and chat slowly.