Some people say that seeing is believing and hearing is false, but this is not quite true.

Do not believe what your ears hear, and do not believe what your eyes see, not because your ears or eyes will deceive you, nor because others will deceive your ears and eyes.

It's because, from the moment you choose to start believing, you form a cognition, and if this cognition is not thought, if it does not go through the brain, all that remains is dirt, and in the end it can only be the mind.

It's like the discussion in the dormitory at this time, a big discussion that pollutes the soul.

When Xu Wei returned to the dormitory, the discussion was already halfway through, as if he was afraid that he would be alone, or maybe it was just to have one more person to discuss it more lively, so he rushed to introduce him to the previous situation.

Before Yan Yingjun came back, he told a story, because he didn't know whether it was true or not, and it didn't matter if it was true or not, so let's call it a story, the protagonist of the story is his cousin and girlfriend, a pair of golden boys and girls, from college love to work, sprinkled dog food on people around him for seven years, and died this year, not buried in the grave, but broke up, the reason is that the girl is vain and loves gold, and finds a richer third party.

This kind of story, elementary school students can make up seven paragraphs for you in a minute, and there are no duplicates, and even the gossip aunt doesn't want to listen to it, it's boring.

But the story that Yan Yingjun tells is richer and more exciting. What do you say at the beginning, the girl was vain and scheming, and asked his cousin to buy bags, clothes, and mobile phones, but in fact, he secretly began to hook up with other boys, and finally after breaking up, he asked his cousin for a breakup fee.

Of course, the roommate's three views are not crooked, and they unanimously condemn the girl, which is nothing to argue, they are arguing about the topic of extension, and there are many extensions.

If you find out that your girlfriend is more vain, will you dump her right away?

How vain is a woman, and you will get rid of her immediately?

If you become very good in the future, and a woman says she likes you, does she think that you make her vain, or does she really love you?

If there is a better person than you next to your girlfriend, although your girlfriend is still with you, if there is a chance, guess your girlfriend will choose a better person again?

These questions seem simple, but if you have a little life, you will find that these problems are really disgusting, as if your girlfriend will pretend to be a better person in her heart at any time, and she will be mentally cheating at any time.

For example, the eldest and the second, originally they were determined to say that it was nothing for women to be vain, but when the last two questions were thrown, they felt a little disgusting.

In fact, is there still real love on campus?

People are looking forward to the love on campus, and they are looking forward to the innocent relationship between each other when they go to school, they seem to feel that their feelings are innocent on campus, but in fact, there is no more.

The campus is not pure or pure at all, after all, the information in this era is developed, and everyone in this era has accepted a lot of complex concepts, these concepts are too powerful, these concepts are pervasive, these concepts are deeply rooted in your mind, even the students do not let go.

In Xu Wei's view, in fact, there is no real love on campus, so there is no need to talk about real love.

True love may be mixed with a little distraction, but is it possible not to be mixed with a little distraction? Surely it is impossible, you say that you like a girl, you like her beauty, you like her beauty, this is a kind of distraction, shouldn't you like her heart? Or shouldn't you like her when you hear her voice, or even when you see her herself, you should like him?

In fact, real love is just an illusion, so let's not talk about love.

The boss was a little disinterested.

"Why let this handsome kid say, I feel a little embarrassed, then you say that if I look for a girlfriend in the future, I can't find someone who praises me for being excellent, because praising me is not really loving me, but loving my advantages, and then I will fall in love with other better people?"

The second Cao Yong also felt disgusted.

"You can't find someone who finds fault with me all day long, right? Well, I find fault with me all day long and scold me but is still willing to be my girlfriend, is this the legendary true love?"

Lao Sihuafeng is the most honest, and his face is full of entanglement.

"I don't dare to find a girlfriend anymore, I feel like my girlfriend is going to leave anytime and anywhere, and even if she doesn't leave, she seems to be thinking about others all the time, which is too uncomfortable. ”

Yes, the pure fourth child's concept of love was temporarily ruined by Yan Yingjun, who provoked the topic.

Yan Yingjun obviously went further than them on emotional issues, but it was just an idle egg, so it was all ridicule.

"Boss and second, I said you two don't worry, because you don't even have a girlfriend. ”

After getting the scolding of the eldest and the second child, he smiled proudly, and continued: "Actually, you have to empathize with this matter, do you think about whether you choose a girlfriend because you also fancy the advantages of others, so if there is a girl who is better than her, do you also want to change your girlfriend?

The boss suddenly realized.

"Oh, probably so, like me, I will definitely not abandon my girlfriend, and I will definitely not think about other girls all day long, it's not that I brag about my own quality, I just feel that I definitely won't. ”

But some people's brain circuits are really different from ordinary people, such as hadrons.

"A woman's heart, a needle under the sea, wants me to say that thinking about this is too complicated, and my motto is: just have it, don't last forever. ”

Yes, of course, this is also the perception of some people.

It seems that you never know what a woman is thinking, but in fact, you don't care what a woman is thinking, the more you think about it, the more you may be wrong.

In fact, you should think about what a woman really needs, if a woman may need a man to be handsome, then you can go for plastic surgery, if you really feel that you need a more handsome man.

Some women may love money more, so they will work hard to make money, and when your funds meet the requirements of women, then the so-called love may come.

Some women may need stability, so you give her a stable life, and the so-called love may come.

A woman may just need to accompany her through this lonely journey, then you don't need to think about it anymore, you just need to accompany her through this journey.

No matter what kind of woman she is, she definitely has a need, all you have to do is find out what she really needs.

If she needs money and you give her stability, obviously, you're on the wrong track.

A person like Hadron is a more rational person, of course, you can also say that he is a playboy, but he actually invests his mind and feelings in every relationship, but this relationship may not last long.

Xu Wei thinks about the previous relationship of this product, it seems that it is really a bit free and bearish, and he can quickly and sincerely invest in a relationship, and he can also free and detach when the relationship is gone, which is probably a talent.

Hua Feng still didn't come out a little and looked at Xu Wei.

"Brother Xu, tell me what you want to feel better. ”

Xu Wei really didn't want to ruin this child's good love wishes.

"Don't take it seriously, what you discussed just now is actually very empty, and these topics have a premise, that is, to admit the evil in human nature first, so it is considered to be digging a pit, you start from the evil of human nature, no matter how you discuss it, it is all despair, in reality, as the boss said just now, as long as the quality of the person is good, you can naturally suppress the evil, after all, everyone yearns for beauty. ”

After Xu Wei finished speaking, Yan Yingjun had a grudge on his face, the story was made up by him, and it was purely idle and boring.

Everyone else suddenly realized, and then denounced the third lady as hateful, almost ruining their fantasy of love.

In fact, what Xu Wei wants to say most is to look at fate, when you should have a sense of happiness in your life, you will have it, and if you don't have it in your life, even if God puts it in front of you, you will miss it, just like he used to.

Of course, you can also say that it is a character or a choice.

But, what is unchangeable, or what you are aware of but does not change, can be attributed to fate.

On Monday morning, he was woken up by Qiangzi, looking at the time, it was not yet six o'clock, he turned off the alarm clock, and when he got up, he found that Qiangzi was dressed very energetically, and he could roughly guess what this thing was going to do.

This product will definitely not learn, so he may only go to tease the girl, except for the possibility, he really can't think of what this thing is going back to.

After thinking about it, I want to make fun of this product, after all, life is quite boring, and it is natural to have some fun if you have fun, so he said sarcastically, of course, it is not a real mockery, between friends, there is no need, it is naturally more interesting to tease him, but Qiangzi seems to have noticed it, and he seems to be proud.

Xu Weihehe, it's really thick-skinned.

"Go to school early, be diligent enough?" he said in a mocking tone.

"Well, from today onwards, change your mind and be a new person. Hadron replied without any weakness.

"You talked in your sleep again last night. ”

"I said...... What did I say?"

"Wake up early tomorrow to see my sister, Han Yuya, don't blame me, I'm just playing. ”

"I ...... I...... It couldn't be ......."

Qiangzi is really about to doubt life, what the is this called, it's Han Yuya again.

He was sure that he had never said that he liked Han Yuya in reality, but he wasn't sure if he was talking in his dreams. So I really like Han Yuya, and I feel guilty in my dreams?

Can you still see a good girl?

Separated from Xu Wei at the door of the dormitory, in the end he decided to meet his sister-in-law, as for Han Yuya, she is not a girlfriend, and she has never said that she likes each other, so let's put her aside for the time being.