"He did have a certain relationship with me back then, after all, he met me outside, and the two of us also fell in love first and then returned to this party, so we are not like other people who live here, just find a random laborer to raise children at home to work, his father was also in love with me back then, so we will get married and come to this place, but I didn't expect that after coming to this place, his father also changed dramatically because of these customs and habits in this place.

When I was outside, the two of us fell in love first, and at that time I thought that this man was honest and responsible, and he was strong enough to support his family, and he was very gentle with me, and I felt that he was the man I should marry. ”

"But I didn't expect that after coming here, his father was so good to me when he was outside, but this village is not allowed, and the people of those tribes, especially men, saw her father treating me like that, they were dissatisfied, and felt that his father was violating the rules here, so they collectively taught him, educated his father, and made his father kneel in the ancestral hall, I still remember that day when his father came out of the ancestral hall, he has never been kind to me again, and just like their men treat women, beating and scolding, calling and drinking, and always treating me like a labor force, and at that time, I was already pregnant with Nie Qing, even if I wanted to leave, I was reluctant. ”

"I've been here ever since, but it's been more than 20 years, and it's kind of ridiculous to think about it now. I was blind to the wrong person, and mistakenly regarded a man who only knew how to eat and be lazy, and only knew how to beat and scold women, as the best destination, knowing that these men were placed outside of us, and even the worst and worst men were inferior. ”

"Auntie, don't be too sad, after all, this thing has become what it is now, even if you complain about it before, it's useless, but Auntie, I don't think my uncle really has no affection for you, you see he let you go to the table to eat, in fact, this is the only point that a woman and man can express her love for his wife, in other things, he may not be able to violate the ancestral teachings, and he can't violate these rules, but no one can control eating at home alone, he didn't let you just eat some leftovers in the kitchen like that woman, and let you eat whatever you want, I think this shows that your uncle still has feelings and righteousness for you, maybe it is because of the influence of the environment here that he has to do that. ”

"But he did the same, and it's unforgivable, but you think about it! Actually, because you blocked Nie Qing's return, maybe the people in the clan wanted to put you to death, right? But uncle, he beat you up and made an appearance to show them, in fact, it was also to save your life. ”

"And the reason why he wants to save your life shows that he is not like those men to other women, and I find that those men treat the lives of their own women like ants, and they don't care about them at all, and he cares about your life, which means that he has feelings for you. ”

"What if I have feelings? These things he did really made me so sad and sad, I had already lost all my affection for him with the devastation of the years, and I had no feelings for him at all. ”

"Auntie, I think just now you said that if even you leave, your uncle will definitely go out to chase you, and you will also be brought back at that time, I don't think this means that if you leave, uncle will go crazy, he will be very impulsive, does this mean that uncle he cares about you very much?"

"Actually, I think that if even me leaves, he will be left with a man here, I'm afraid he will be alone, and he has no other children, if he wants to suffer such a big humiliation, such a big humiliation, he will definitely be impulsive, and he also threatened me that if I dare to run, he will definitely go out and bring back both our mother and daughter, and then let Nie Qing marry the man here, so I didn't even think about going out. ”

"So that's the case, Auntie, I think maybe we can change our minds about this matter, maybe he just can't bear you, you are her only relative, if even you are gone, he will definitely be impulsive, but if we go out with him, and the outside environment is different from here, maybe he will be like when you first met, so good to you." ”

"What are you kidding, how is this possible? If I really have the opportunity to go out, then I will definitely not take him out, and I will not be with him, the biggest mistake in my life is to choose such a man, and I don't think he will go out with me, he might as well do this kind of feudal and backward emperor-like life in this place, where the position of a man is so high, even if he is a poor scum, he is willing to be admired and respected here. ”

I have to say that what Nie Qing's mother said is also reasonable, Mu Hibiscus thought about it slightly, she also felt that maybe her guess was also a little wrong, and what her aunt said also made some sense, even if this place is too poor, but these men all have a high status here, and they have someone to serve them and don't have to do anything, he thinks they must not be willing to go out.

"Okay, then Auntie, let's not talk about this matter for now, let's talk about something else first! The main purpose of our visit this time is to take you out, and the second is that I want to change the living situation here, and I want to save all the women here, but this is also the second thing that can only be done under the premise of completing the first one, if we have limited ability and we can't do it, we will take you out as much as possible, and the rest of the things will be done slowly." ”

"Have you really decided to take me out of this place? Don't you know Nie Qing? Aren't you very good friends? Can you guarantee that Nie Qing will not be found by them and brought back by them? If you can't guarantee it, then I will definitely not go out. ”

"Don't worry, Auntie, with the strength of this village, if they want to go out of our world and fight against us people, it will be simply vulnerable, you may not know, because you don't know what kind of situation we are outside, this group of people we came, everyone is very powerful, so you don't have to worry about Nie Qing's safety, not only Nie Qing, but even you and we will safely protect the safety of your mother and daughter for a lifetime." ”

"Okay, then since you can say this, I will believe you, but if you want me to really believe that you go out with you, then you have to show me, let me see your strength, so that I can follow you out with peace of mind. ”

"Don't worry, Auntie, as long as you can decide by yourself, as long as you are determined to agree to go out with us to cooperate with our plan, I will definitely not let you down, and I also told you just now, I have already told the wife of the patriarch's family, and he also has a certain weight in talking among you women, because she is the wife of the patriarch, so the big guy will unconsciously follow him in some things, so I persuaded her, and she came to help me persuade other women, do you think this matter is reliable?"

"Listening to you say this, it's okay, the women of the patriarch's family do have a slightly higher status among women in this place, and everyone will follow him no matter what they do, if he can help you convince all the women, then this matter may really be easier to do, but what are you trying to convince these women to do? Do you want to take him out? I think this is a bit unreliable. ”

"No, how can I take all of them out? It's just that I want to change your living environment here, I find that this place is very suitable for tourism, and you can understand these words, after all, you also understand these outside, and if once the tourism industry is opened, then it will also bring a lot of income to this place, I found that they are very fond of money, so I think this is very easy to do, it will definitely be able to convince them, and if once the tourism industry is carried out, there will be a large number of outsiders entering here, no matter how they stick to their own rules, so many outsiders they will definitely follow their own living habits outsideWhen the time comes, it will unconsciously affect the people here, and it will also change their minds unconsciously. ”

"What the hell do you want to start tourism here? It's not a trivial matter to start a war tourism, but it costs a lot of money, but it seems that when I first look at you, I feel that your whole temperament is not ordinary, do you still have money?"

"We can't say that we are very rich, but we are businessmen, we make money with money, we invest, but we also have to have returns, so if we don't invest, how can we make money, so we don't have to be afraid to invest. Running a tourism industry is the most profitable way for a businessman, and you know how profitable the tourism industry is for us, so I think it's very good for us and for the people in this village. ”