Talking about Mu Qing and Lu Zhengfeng, the two entered the flower garden, Mu Qing went to the strawberry field familiarly, and Lu Zhengfeng followed behind Mu Qing with a small basket.

Because he came out to relax, in fact, he was on vacation, Mu Qing wore a very casual coat, a camel-colored tweed jacket, thick leggings, and a pair of flat-soled boots, and the whole person was dressed very neatly.

Seeing Mu Qing wearing light-colored clothes, Lu Zhengfeng followed behind and touched his chin, he still felt that Mu Qing looked better in bright colors.

Mu Qing originally belonged to that kind of bright beauty, but now wearing these plain clothes, Mu Qing's color has faded a little for no reason.

Picking strawberries with Mu Qing together, Lu Zhengfeng enjoyed this state of staying alone with Mu Qing and doing things together, even if it was a small matter like picking strawberries, Lu Zhengfeng would find it very interesting.

The two hundred strawberries planted by Luo Tong are quite abundant, obviously they have picked a basket yesterday, and they came back with a full load today. After picking strawberries, which is not considered labor, Mu Qing's face is a little red.

Sensing that Mu Qing's breath was a little unstable, Lu Zhengfeng appropriately filled his pace to match Mu Qing's footsteps. It's just that I'm sighing in my heart, I've only walked such a little way, Mu Qing is like this, it seems that the foundation of his body is indeed very empty.

Feeling that Lu Zhengfeng had slowed down, Mu Qing's breath gradually calmed down. She couldn't help but smile bitterly, if in the past, she could be like this Sister Lin?

Just picking some strawberries and walking a few steps, she felt a little out of breath. Not to mention that the strawberries picked were still being picked by Lu Zhengfeng, and she didn't take anything.

Thinking about it this way, Mu Qing also felt that her body was weak, for the sake of her own health, she would still drink medicine on time honestly in the future, and take supplements carefully, she couldn't compare to her mother's body.

Grandma Mu has traveled all over the world this year, and Mu Qing feels that if she comes in her current physical state, she will be the kind who will lie down after walking two stops.

Lu Zhengfeng is a person who is very good at finding topics, of course, this is also because Mu Qing is now his sweetheart, so he can rack his brains to find topics, if he changes to someone else, hehe!

Mu Qing is not a cold person, although he was out of touch with society a lot before, but after two years of working life, Mu Qing's horizons have also broadened a lot.

She was able to pick up many of the topics raised by Lu Zhengfeng, and Lu Zhengfeng was surprised to find that many of Mu Qing's ideas coincided with him, which showed that the two of them still looked at the problem from the same angle.

Mu Qing listened to Lu Zhengfeng very seriously, Lu Zhengfeng was discharged from the special forces before, and he naturally went to many places in the north and south of the sea that day. He picked it up and told him some of what he had seen and heard on the way to the mission, and Mu Qing was particularly fascinated when he heard it.

Now we are talking about the Mosuo marriage customs, when they happened to be on a mission around there. After the mission, they had a few days off, and a few of them had a round trip around Lijiang.

"At that time, we were on the shores of Lugu Lake, where the Mosuo people lived," Lu Zhengfeng recounted leisurely, his eyes a little misty, apparently lost in his memories.

"I've heard of the Mosuo clan, it seems to be a matrilineal clan, right?"

Mu Qing usually reads books, so he has naturally heard of such a nation, which is said to be quite mysterious.

"That's right, that's the only matrilineal clan that has survived in our country so far, and they are mainly distributed in Xianshui River and Lugu Lake. This so-called walking marriage is also exquisite, and many people are very shallow to regard this walking marriage as a one-night stand, but it is not. ”

Seeing that Mu Qing was interested in listening, Lu Zhengfeng naturally spoke eloquently.

Walking marriage is a unique marriage method of the Mosuo people, which is called "Sese" in the Mosuo language, which means "walking around", which vividly shows that walking marriage is an emotional relationship between night and morning. ”

"Men and women are not married, and only at night the man goes to the woman's house to live and during the day he still lives and works in his own home. At night, the man knocks on the woman's door with a unique code. ”

"Men and women who get married, the element of maintaining the relationship is feelings, once the relationship fades or the personality is incompatible, the relationship can be cut off at any time, so the degree of emotional freedom is higher, and the woman occupies the main position in the first aspect, once the woman no longer opens the door for the man, the marriage relationship will be over. ”

Mu Qing had heard of the custom of walking marriage, but he hadn't learned about it in detail, and now he was very curious when he heard Lu Zhengfeng say this.

"In that case, what if you have a child?"

"The child follows the woman, once the relationship between the man and the woman does not exist, the child naturally follows the woman's family, and also follows the woman's surname. ”

Mu Qing sighed: "Only rely on feelings, so what if there are no feelings?"

"If the relationship is gone, it will be broken up in two, and there will never be an entangled scene. In fact, to put it bluntly, marriage means that both men and women are financially independent, you don't rely on me to support, I don't rely on you to live, everyone works for their own family to make money. ”

"Are they free to marry, can they get married?"

Mu Qing has always heard about monogamy, although she thinks that marriage is very novel, but in her heart, she feels that she can't accept it, maybe because she has not been influenced by this culture.

"Many Mosuo people will not get married, because in the Mosuo people, if you want to get married, the price you pay is very large, and it is very difficult to enter the woman's family, so many Mosuo men will choose to get married. ”

"This institution of marriage has been around for a long time, and it still exists. ”

"Is this kind of emotional relationship stable? Won't there be frequent substitutions?" Mu Qing was puzzled, is it a bit hasty for both men and women to see each other in their daily interactions, and they can get married at night?

"Marriage is actually a process of understanding each other between men and women, and it may be found that the two people do not agree with each other and have inconsistent thoughts after coming and going, so naturally the marriage will end, and everyone will look for the next relationship. ”

"As for the matter of whether the relationship is stable, we played there for a few days, and found that before there were no children, the Mosuo people changed Ah Xia and Ah Zhu a lot, Ah Xia is the name of a married man to a woman, and Ah Zhu is the name of a married woman to a man. ”

Worried that Mu Qing didn't understand what Ah Xia and Ah Zhu meant, Lu Zhengfeng specially explained. 2k reading web