"Well, she's really just a girl. ”

On the set of "500 Days with Shamo" on the streets of San Francisco, in the performance area where the camera is focused, listening to Wang Yang's words, Natalie, who is holding the script, nods calmly, but there are ripples in her heart, obviously Shamo is a combination of Helen and Natalie, why is he so obsessed with Helen? And Natalie is only ambiguous or indifferent? Because he has a girlfriend? She glanced at Jessica, who was sitting in the director's chair reading magazines, everyone was just a girl.

But Tom doesn't think so, he thinks Shamo is a perfect goddess. Wang Yang turned his head to look at Joseph Gordon Levitt, Tom was wearing a plaid sweater vest, looking like a big boy next door, and he was full of literary and sunny atmosphere. Wang Yang continued: "I think every boy has a goddess in his mind, and when he is in love, he worships her as a god, is obsessed with her aspects that you like, and intentionally or unintentionally ignores her aspects that you don't like. ”

This is also the beloved's eyes, as well as the love of the house and Wu. Wang Yang said: "At this time, you have several choices, first, to find explanations for all her behaviors, and to do everything possible to protect her for others, and for a reason, she is still a goddess; second, to convince yourself, take the initiative to change and cater to her, and like all of her; third, change her. All the options have one thing in common, and that is to adjust her to a state that is most ideal for you and that allows you to revel in it to the fullest. But ......"

Helen and he are both the third choice of love, Wang Yang paused, and said with a smile: "She is just an ordinary girl, no one is a goddess." ”

Joseph Gordon Levitt nodded in understanding, it wasn't that he hadn't been in love, and it wasn't that he didn't understand what a goddess was, this was a big mentality of Tom in this relationship, he was in love with a goddess, so he was cautious and extremely intoxicated. In his eyes, Shamo has no shortcomings, he and Shamo are destined to be a natural pair, so he can't see that Shamo doesn't actually care about "Thunderbolt Ranger", in fact, he likes "Graduate" very much, and he doesn't listen to the music album he sent at all, he often chooses to explain to Shamo, maybe she just didn't pay attention, maybe it's just ...... Not like that anyway. Because of this, he doesn't even see Shamo being disappointed, changing his mind, and reminding him with a sudden kiss that "you have to do something, confess to me!!", but Tom keeps explaining that he believes in Shamo, these are her coolness and personality, and sometimes he also wants to choose to change her, change their relationship, and get angry about this quarrel and lose his temper with the goddess, but he doesn't take the last step, the most important step, because he thinks "this is Shamo".

Tom's love for Shamo is not only Aishamo as a person, but also his own ideal pursuit of love status and love partner. ”

Wang Yang glanced at Natalie, she was a little inexplicable, he smiled: "This is the imagination space provided by fate + love at first sight, Tom decided that Shamo is that person, the most perfect partner in his life." In fact, he and Shamo are indeed a very compatible couple, and it is not that Shamo doesn't love him enough to play badly, nor is Shamo not good enough, but Shamo is a real person, they are a real couple, and sadly, Tom didn't keep up with the rhythm. ”

When the passion of love that can cover up all problems has passed, you suddenly find that the other party has shortcomings, there are things that make you dissatisfied, and you can't explain it, and it's worse to do it three times or twice! Both sides often think not of accommodation, tolerance, and running-in, but to change the other party's control of each other in order to achieve the state they want. This leads to fights like this between couples, and often escalates to the death, and no one is willing to throw in the towel.

Tom and Shamo's tug-of-war in love is a war with the wrong rhythm, and in the end Shamo loses and Tom loses.

After a period of sweetness in the same rhythm between the two, when Tom is still intoxicated with the atmosphere of love, his heart is excited about the future, and the more mature Samo has reached the next stage, she is no longer satisfied with those sweetness or romance, when she has caring, she is afraid of losing, she wants security and stability, she wants a romantic relationship and marriage, and she wants a brave and down-to-earth man. Tom felt that the relationship between the two was quite OK, on the one hand, he was very nervous, whenever Shamo was hot and cold, he was easy to go crazy, and on the other hand, he was very comfortable, enjoying the sweet excitement of the ambiguous relationship.

Shamo's personality has a repressive side, although she likes someone and is quickly attracted to them, but then she quickly begins to look at the other person calmly, which does not mean that she does not like him. While Tom still thinks that Sammer is good, Sammo has already begun to examine his shortcomings and thinks that "Tom is a disappointment", especially when another good man appears, and Sammer struggles very much, she still gives Tom a lot of opportunities, but he doesn't take them.

In fact, Tom is not a cowardly person, he dares to punch the hook-up flirter in a bar, he is not without the courage to confess, he just worships Shamo as a goddess.

If Tom doesn't have the courage, Shamo also doesn't have the courage, but she is more courageous than Tom because she takes the initiative in the stage of this relationship, but the woman's reserved and attitude towards love prevents her from taking the initiative to confess, she thinks that this step can't be taken by a girl, otherwise what's the point of this relationship? That's not what she wants. When Tom couldn't give it to her, she left.

"I'm ......" Wang Yang said a lot, looking at Natalie's face, suddenly a little speechless. When Helen called to scold him, he didn't call back, because he took the initiative to interpret Helen's call as a cool curse, and he always felt that it was over. Helen didn't fight the second one, she wouldn't play the second one, that's not what she wanted, and then Jessica waited for him for a while until her Thanksgiving dinner invitation, but she wouldn't confess, she wanted a guy to confess, because "love dating is like that".

In fact, these are communication problems, if both parties sit down and explain their thoughts calmly, and everything is simply solved, will this be the case? How many people can do it?** Simple, love is complicated.

"In the next set of shots, I need you to see Sha Mo as a muse, and the smile on your face is more obvious!" patted Joseph on the shoulder, Wang Yang instructed Natalie again: "But you are already one rhythm ahead, and you feel a little dissatisfied with him, understand?" He said and walked in the direction of the camera, picked up the microphone on his waist and shouted to everyone: "Everyone is ready, take 3 more shots and get off work to have lunch, start starting!"

The muse, Sammer, did inspire Tom to explode, and he became the star of the greeting card company. Natalie handed the script to the assistant and walked to the camera, was she once Jan's goddess? The era of "This Killer Is Not Too Cold"? Natalie suddenly understood that whether she was in the past or not, she did not have any "goddess image", she took the initiative to confess and pursue it, and lost too much to Helen from the beginning...... Funny mistake acquaintance time.

"What are you going to eat this weekend?" Hearing a familiar ACTION, seeing the film crew not far away, Jessica smiled slightly, and continued to look down at the food magazine in her hand.

Sometimes there is no way to want love to be simple, never praise a woman as a goddess, and never believe all the words of a woman, the problem is that if a woman is not like this, what is said clearly between lovers, every love will blossom?

One of the important factors in Tom's infatuation with Sammer is that she is a goddess, cool, elusive, keeps a certain distance, has no necessarily sense of security, is challenging, and is the envy of others...... These all provide the sweet and sour feeling of love for this love, if Sha Mo is more active and clear, not in line with the image of the goddess, the sweet and sour will be reduced to the stage of "Sha Mo disappoints", and there is a difference between positive and negative entering this stage, which affects the patience and tolerance to deal with these disappointments.

What is certain is that without these goddess senses, Tom would not like her so much, which is a habit of men.

Wang Yang is naturally the same, there is a degree in this, if you go too far, you will really not feel it, the smarter and more mature a woman is, the more she knows how to control this degree, so that men are willing to take the bait, of course, everyone's degree is different in what position. And not only the charm exuded by the woman herself plays a role, the heartbeat, passion, romance and so on in the process of two people in love produce sweetness, suspicion, quarrels, etc. produce sweet and sour feelings, and the combination of positive and negative is love, and they all provide nutrients for love.

However, the sweet and sour feeling of love is only wonderful when it is within a safe range, Wang Yang feels that it is a very intriguing emotion, obviously feeling heartache, but in the blink of an eye, it can make people have endless aftertaste. If the sweetness and sourness are too much, there will be exhaustion, and the mesmerizing heartache will turn into a headache, and he thinks about it because of serious disagreements such as college choices, and he and Helen tossed and turned at all without any wonderful feelings, but often scratches the heart, mania, and anger, which can already be called torture, is that still love?

But if you don't even have a little sweet and sour, is it still called a lover? These sweet and sour pleasures that come and go are love, it is a bit like a sweet neutralizer, otherwise the latter will gradually become tired and dull. When a man lacks interest in teasing and joking with a woman, a woman from a man, and lacks interest in causing the other party's emotional ups and downs and physical ups and downs, their love is not far from the end of play, and even if they continue to maintain a relationship, they only rely on family affection and dependence.

The reason why Wang Yang loves and enjoys being with Jessica the most is that no matter what aspect, they are within the safe range and degree, they are born in a very ideal state, there is no distance and no fighting, the two hearts are close to each other, she is not a goddess, but a little woman. But how do you keep this perennial hot love? He never felt that they lacked sweetness, and the other side of his heart often made sweet and sour demands, so he thought that he would indeed find a chance to jerk off...... All within the safe reach, of course.

That's not intentional, it's the complex subconscious that will change his thoughts and reason, and push things forward, just like in an occasional quarrel, some words are said and regret and heartache, but the next quarrel will say that. There are wonderful sweet and sour and wonderful sweetness, he coaxes her to tease her to love her, she also coaxes him to tease him to love him, forming an incomparable feeling of love, and now the baby has brought another sweet and sour panic, very interesting.

This kind of love is not there when he pretended to be confused and played ambiguously with Rachel, nor is it something that he can enjoy with Helen, Wang Yang now thinks very clearly, he doesn't think that he will miss the love with Helen, he has always been a little unable to let go, and even went crazy back then, not only because he once loved Helen, not only because she said "win or lose", but also because of his pursuit of an ideal state...... In fact, it was a competition with himself, as if he would be despised and ridiculed by the other side of his heart if he didn't insist: "Now I see your plan?" He didn't let go of Helen, Tom didn't let go of Shamo, what they couldn't let go of the last thing was the architectural blueprint, the drawing drawn on her forearm, the unconsciously adjusted "Goddess Shamo", the default that she liked "Thunderbolt Ranger", and the default that she liked the band team he supported...... It is like the most peaceful and beautiful scenery for yourself.

It's as if without her, his love pursuit and ideals are completely denied, and things don't develop as planned!?

Tom thought he was with Shamo, why not? This was the fate of the arrangement! This was the skyscraper of life he was building! But the skyscraper collapsed, and he went crazy. Wang Yang thought that this was why he even had a terrible feeling that he was so disheartened that he wished the earth would explode, nothing mattered, and he hated that things would develop like this.

However, during the recovery period of the broken love, Tom will gradually re-recognize himself and re-recognize his relationship with Shamo: Shamo is not a goddess, she is not so cool and not so good, he enjoys the ambiguity, in fact, he is not so infatuated with Shamo, he is only obsessed with the lover & love blueprint given by himself, and obsessed with the feeling of watching it step by step towards reality...... Is there any bullshit that is predestined? Shamo told him, yes, only for encounters.

"CUT!!" As a shout came out of the microphone speaker, the atmosphere on the set of "500 Days with Shamo" suddenly became more relaxed.

Wang Yang told the main creators and leading actors of the crew at the beginning that in the end, the film should let the audience have the feeling of falling in love and experiencing a broken love within 2 hours, and the rhythm is switching between sweetness and sweet and sour.

No matter what "Titanic" is, the audience often can't experience the pain, unless there is a very strong personal resonance, but it is difficult to compare the effect of believers watching "The Passion of the Christ". Of course, few viewers walked into the cinema in pain, and even if the heartache provided by romance films reached the point of crying, it was also a type of enjoyment emotion, an unforgettable sweet and sour, so Tom on the big screen was in great pain, and the audience in front of the big screen watched him go crazy, and maybe it was funny.

Wang Yang remembered the time when he went crazy, and there was only great pain in his heart, when he received the phone call from Helen, he directly picked up a chair and smashed it wildly, pain, pain, pain! Fuck, what's sweet and sour?

However, in the process of watching the movie, the audience will follow Tom Shamo and be happy, sweet, sweet and sour, and sad...... But always enjoying, one of the key points is because they know to be watching a movie, a Hollywood romance/drama/comedy. This will give them a sense of security in their minds, that the story will end well, that it may be the most happy comedy, and that now these sweets and sours are just twists and turns.

In fact, this is the default blueprint of the audience, which is to firmly cover the ending of the film, so that they can maintain the fun of anticipation, knowing that it is unlikely, but still looking forward to it; and even brighten up hope halfway, and arrange for Tom and Shamer to meet again after a breakup, and seem to be going to get back together, and then bring a bigger sweet and sour, and then what if Shamo gets engaged? The audience who stands in Tom's camp will hope that he will complete the feat of marriage snatching like Benjamin of "The Graduate".

Wang Yang already understands why he likes to play with bad tastes and excitement to seek sweetness and sweetness, because deep down he feels that he knows that the ending will be good, he can control it, and automatically adjust her thoughts to "support", and she can make progress in her work and career, and she can get different happiness in life...... Fortunately, he still knows what a safe range is, but he doesn't think he will look for love in such a way in the future.

Tom Sammer hadn't come this far, he and Summer definitely couldn't talk about this level of flirting, and it was unknown how he and Autumn were.

In 1998-1999, when filming "Youth Musical", Wang Yang didn't think about it so much, although he experienced love with Helen, he would not remember Rachel's dazed voice at that time: "Yang, what do you want? A good female friend who can confide in each other and talk about hobbies?" He knew that he was selfish, thinking that he could maintain a happy confidant relationship, but he was just apologizing...... When he filmed "Juno" in 2000, he didn't think about it that much, Natalie said disdainfully: "I can imagine what love is, but I can't imagine two people being together forever, that's terrifying, it's unlikely, forever? I don't believe it." ”…… Is he a jerk? Maybe, maybe not, he's not a cool guy, he's just a normal boy.

"Haha! What?" It was already night in San Francisco, and on the big bed of the hotel's senior suite, the two looked at each other without blinking for a long time, Jessica finally smiled crisply, and Wang Yang raised his eyebrows with a smile: "It's nothing, it's just that I like you more and more." Jessica pretended to be surprised and opened her mouth wide: "What happened before that? Isn't it 100%?" She stretched out her left hand with a wedding ring and shook it quickly on his face, Wang Yang closed her eyes: "Oh, I'm going to faint, I'm going to faint......"

"Don't faint! "I mean no one knows where the limit is, it's like a black hole that keeps devouring and just swallowing another solar system. "Not fair! I just swallowed a galaxy. "Haha!" ......

(To be continued)