Long Years (161)

Lin Yutong put away his mobile phone, and didn't care whether Ma Xiaoting was real or fake, he went over and carried the person back to his seat. Strictly close, across the diagonal front of an aisle. He took two quick steps, and as soon as the man pressed into the chair, he knocked the man unconscious with a sharp knife.

Then there was silence in the carriage.

Lin Yutong looked Yan Yan up and down and smiled: "You take Qingning to sit in the front, I will sit in the back with your father, and the child will stay for us." ”

Strictly responded, stretched out his hand and dragged Qingning to the front, and said to Lao Wu when he passed by: "It's just that I'm dizzy, I'll wake up after fainting, and there's no big deal." ”

Lao Wu nodded again and again: "It's good, it's good!" "Ghosts are not afraid of people, but they are afraid of murderers and evil people." He felt that strictness should belong to the murderer.

Qingning turned her face from time to time to look at Ma Xiaoting, and then looked at the child sleeping in her father's arms: "It's also weird......"

Flattering!

Lin Yutong asked Qingping to sit behind and stretched out his hand to pick up Qiming. The fourth master waved his hand: "You are busy with yours." ”

Lin Yutong sat next to him, holding his mobile phone in his hand and constantly editing text messages, but his mouth was not idle, and he whispered to the fourth master about it: "...... Today, the death toll has risen to 10 on one side alone...... There are also things that we don't know about...... After the truck collided with the three wheels, it hit a bus heading from Shayuan to the provincial capital, causing the vehicle to overturn in a drainage canal nearly two meters deep on the side of the road...... How many died, how many wounded, no data yet......"

The earliest bus from the township to the provincial capital is at 4:40. You can enter the provincial capital at dawn.

As long as you go to the provincial capital to do errands, and want to go back on the same day, you love to take this trip without delay.

So we generally know the situation of this kind of car, running on a country road, mostly overloaded. In addition, the people who went to the county seat or city with them on the way, they felt that there were not many roads, so they stood at one stop and squeezed to arrive. There are also buses that are stuffed with maza underneath. It is convenient for people who are standing to take it out and sit down in the aisle. Occasionally, if you encounter an inspection, you will first call the overloaded one to get out of the car, and then drive over to call the inspection. After passing the inspection post, wait for those who got off the bus just now to come up again. In the middle, it is only a road of seven or eight hundred meters and one thousand meters. This kind of thing, for all kinds of reasons that can be said and cannot be said, most of them will turn a blind eye.

If this is the case, it is another bus, and another canal has been overturned. Will the casualties be a small number?

Now it only depends on whether it is a major traffic accident or a major traffic accident.

How to divide the responsibilities here is not their business. But among the people who died was the eldest brother of the fourth master, and what Lin Yutong and the fourth master were worried about was that they were afraid that someone would expand the situation.

It is only legal means, not political means, that should be involved.

What if someone excludes dissidents in the name of 'valuation'?

Lin Yutong said: "How many people have you asked to have tea together, and the time is set for tomorrow morning?"

I sent the people back today, and I was so settled that I rushed to the provincial capital overnight.

If you don't go back, you can't do it, Jin Mancheng's funeral must be done quickly. It's best to bury people in three days. As soon as this incident comes out, if they do not receive appropriate compensation, these family members will not be able to hold funerals.

It is not uncommon to carry the body to the door of the driver's house, to the door of the traffic police team of the Public Security Bureau, to the highway to block the road and deliberately make a big deal to get attention, and to get compensation as soon as possible.

But can you get things to go in that direction?

If the fourth master doesn't come back, he really asks people to run around with Jin Mancheng's corpse. It couldn't be easier. In fact, if you are buried early, will it have an impact on the compensation? Knowing that there is a deep stake involved, you will not be tired of playing tricks on it. Asking Li Xian'er to follow others is really a bad thing.

They came back to put what was supposed to be done onto the original track. They can't be treated 'special' just because their families are involved.

There are many examples of unscrupulous attacks on political opponents, but they do not want to be knives in the hands of others. If you sneeze at the top, you have to be in a storm below, and this kind of thing must be put an end to!

Lin Yutong said: "I didn't see it on the spot, judging from the information I heard, there are not a few responsible departments." "The direct responsibility, of course, is the driver who caused the accident. However, indirect responsibility, such as the highway department, whether the road surface is up to standard, the roadside guardrail warning slogans, etc., are not matched to keep up. And if there is an overload of the bus, then the traffic police department is also very responsible.

There is also the question of whether the vehicle is a manufacturer or not, which is pending forensic investigation.

Whether it is a major traffic accident or a major traffic accident, because it involves the executive deputy department of the organization department with many official hats, this matter will be treated 'very seriously'.

And the result of this is often that many related and irrelevant people are involved in a big or small way because of various reasons that cannot be put on the table.

In this way, what is the benefit to the fourth master and Lin Yutong?

What a big majesty! Is the spectrum in my hometown a bit big?

A lot of things are bad for small people and small things, and as a person, I may not know it. Therefore, be cautious at all times.

Lin Yutong said, took Qiming over, and the fourth master walked around humbly.

When they arrived at the county seat, Qingping Xu Qiang and Yan Qingning picked up their children respectively and got off from here.

Qingping and Xu Qiang must have gone home first, and Xu Tian must have been waiting at home. The child was put on by Grandpa, and it was fine.

Qingning and strict went straight to the hotel, the Jin family had a funeral, Shi Ke wanted to take a salute, and he had to take care of the children, so he didn't have to go to the capital, so he changed the route directly and returned to the county seat. The house was being cleaned by someone, so I settled down at the hotel first.

I was very distressed when I saw the child, but the extra sentence of "Look at our poor ......" is not easy to say, I am afraid that Qingning will be too careful. She checked the child first to make sure that her baby grandson, who slept like a pig, was fine, so that she had time to take care of her son and daughter-in-law.

I was dissatisfied, so I didn't say it directly, but I said euphemistically: "I also said that it would be good to put the child in the capital and ask the confinement lady to follow you to your uncle's house." You don't worry about your aunt, and you don't worry about your aunt?"

The eldest aunt refers to the eldest aunt of the Yan family, the mother of the harsh winter. Aunt is Qiao Guohong.

Strictly said: "Gao Jie's father...... It's not going to work anymore, it's just a day or two. I went to see Qingning once before......"

Shi Ke was taken aback: "You said this thing is in a hurry......" The wake up of the vegetative person is indeed a miracle only in the TV series.

Strictly said to my aunt again: "...... My aunt is accompanying Sister Nannan......"

Qiao Nan has not had children since she got married, and now she is discussing whether to do IVF or not. Who's family doesn't have anything to worry about, compared to their own side, of course, my aunt is more distressed about her niece.

Shi Ke wanted to say: If Qingning doesn't come back, people won't bury people anymore?

Where didn't Qingning know that her mother-in-law was dissatisfied?

She smiled bitterly: "Mom, this matter is complicated." When Qingyuan called, he only said that the person was gone. I thought that the people were probably all cleaned up, and they couldn't enter the village, so they were in a hurry to urge me......"

Seeing that Shi Ke was puzzled, he explained: "People who die outside are particular. This filial son and filial daughter have to go to the entrance of the village, and no one less will work. There is a shortage of people, but bad luck is still there. People don't call it. A shack had to be erected at the entrance of the village to stop the spirit, and the coffin had been sealed for 7749 days before it was allowed to be buried in a cemetery specially reserved for those who had died. In fact, when it is buried, I don't think it matters, people die like lights out. But if my uncle is not buried, other people's families will not be buried. I was thinking about making trouble and losing money, but I didn't bury people here, and I thought that my parents would support me. What will this turn out of? I have to come back! I thought that it would be a little more difficult on the way back, and the child would just hand it over to you when I got to the place. But who knows...... My uncle's leg seemed to be the most seriously injured, but in fact, when I checked it, I realized that my head fell even harder...... is brain dead, and he is reluctant to take off the ventilator immediately, so he maintains it. By the time we arrived, we had just breathed......"

Strictly said: "I brought another one with me in the car this time, and I still had a breathing ...... when I got in the car."

Shi Ke was uncomfortable to hear, so he simply waved his hand. Yes, a mess that anyone could have predicted was just right?

And she said, "What about now?

Qing Ning is not in a hurry, "The whole world is looking for Qing Shu and Yang Meili." When the time comes, Qingyuan will call me. "Who knew that these two people hadn't shown up until now?

Strictly asked Qingning to wash, "How much milk is there, can you squeeze it?"

Qing Ning nodded: "It's rising." You scalded the bottle......"

Squeeze it out and put it in the refrigerator, and it should be hot when feeding the child. It is especially inconvenient in the hotel.

Shi Ke was anxious: "Why don't you go home first." Everything is readily available at home. Even if you only clean out one room, you can live in it. She hurriedly picked up the child gently, and said, "If you don't forget it, feed the milk powder for two days......

He picks his mouth. Strictly turned around and looked at his son gently, "Eat milk powder too, unless you are hungry and eat a little...... I went to my mother for a postpartum follow-up, how long does it take to go to the hospital, I was crying, taking milk powder was like taking medicine......"

Shi Ke nodded his grandson's nose: "It's all habitual." He pretended to be angry again, "It's good to be hungry for two meals......" After speaking, he was happy at his grandson's little face, "Grandma's own grandson, grandma is reluctant to starve our baby, isn't it......?

When Qingning came out, she saw her mother-in-law holding the child and talking to herself, so listen to what she said......

What are they?

got in the car and went all the way home, and when he was on the way, Shi Kecai discussed with Qingning: "I have to prepare this salute...... You're busy, I'll call a few acquaintances I knew before to help......"

Qingning said, "No, I'll discuss it with my sister and buy it together." At the latest, he was buried at 12 o'clock at noon the day after tomorrow. I'm going to send my uncle back today. Before and after, that is, two or three hours. Ming'er went to sweep the tomb in the morning, and Ming'er welcomed the ancestors in the evening. It's all over in an hour. I'll be right back. The day after tomorrow, let's go early in the morning, ask the child to pass a brazier, and ask the child to send you and the child back...... ”

The child passed a brazier, and he went to filial piety. The red hanging on the body means that all evils will not invade, and filial piety will not oppress the body.

"If you don't enter the gate, you usually put the brazier at the mouth of the alley. Qing Ning explained again.

Oh! That's fine.

It's a warm day in the morning. It only took an hour to come and go, and she went to take a stick of incense by the way, took a salute, and brought the child back.

While he was talking, Qingyuan's phone came and called over.

Shi Kedu was surprised: "Really blocking the way and not calling into the village?" This custom!

Met with Qingping and Xu Qiang, and found Xu Tian holding the child.

Humility is good, the child of the full moon does not recognize people, anyone can take it. But Qiming can't do it, this kid is more than a year old, and he has already recognized people. Xu Tianzai is his own grandfather, but he doesn't often see children, so he naturally doesn't kiss. It's not okay to cry. Mom and Dad are all in front of me, and it's okay for Grandpa to hold it. Mom and Dad are not in front of me, so they will cry. What should I do? Grandpa hugged him, and then followed.

Qingping also said in the car: "I still don't understand the rules on our side, and my grandmother was ...... Isn't it also considered a horizontal death...... "It seems that there was no such set at that time.

Xu Tian said: "It was in the village, not outside. ”

He listened a lot, so he explained to a few children: "In your town, there are two rows of houses along the road, you do the math, whether every family has a young man in his twenties or thirties who has disappeared for various reasons. The old do not die, and the women do not see any accidents, but only the young men in their twenties and thirties who are in their prime......"

Qingping had heard it in one or two ears, but Qingning didn't know about it at all.

Xu Tian explained: "Whose family is the easternmost head, my son died on the construction site, and when he pulled it back, he was afraid of being stopped, so no one told him." I secretly pulled it back in the middle of the night. Started that year, and on that road, a young man died in a year...... How many years have it been, counting on my fingers, now the family has not been spared......"

Qing Ning didn't believe any of these at all.

Of course, if you want to talk about coincidences, then you have to be convinced that it is a coincidence. @无限好文, all in Jinjiang Literature City

There was already this exquisiteness, but in the past few years, young people have died one after another accidentally, and some people say that it must have been a good thing done by the old man's eight calves.

Whether it is true or not, everyone feels that they would rather believe it and do it according to the rules, and everyone is at ease with each other. Everyone is afraid that something will happen in the future, and the main family is also afraid that something will happen and be blamed. Then everyone follows this rule.

It's not a one-family business. You say you don't believe it, you say superstition. Then explain why the young man died in the houses on both sides of the road. If you can't explain it, if you can't explain it, then what's wrong with you just following the rules?

Don't call the police if you don't say anything, if you can solve some problems in the rural areas by calling the police, you won't keep saying that the problems at the grassroots level are complicated. @无限好文, all in Jinjiang Literature City

When they arrived, Qingshu and Yang Meili were there. Old Yang Tou brought his daughter back. He knew where his daughter was, and he also knew that her daughter was with another one, and her life was not bad. It's been so long, and they have raised their granddaughter, and they haven't called her back. It's just that after thinking about it for a long time, the Jin family gave up. Tell the girl to get the certificate with the person over there and live a good life. But isn't it impossible now? If this kind of thing happens, if the girl is not asked to come back, Jin Mancheng will have to stay at the entrance of the village for forty-nine days. People are resting in coffins, but everyone knows that corpses will rot. Thinking that their relatives can't be buried in peace...... The dead are the greatest, and it doesn't matter if they are alive or not, and whether the living are embarrassed or not, they come back and bury the people first, and then talk about it.

He called his daughter back and brought his granddaughter with him.

Yang Meili was obviously pregnant, pregnant with the man's child, but she still came.

With Qingning, they arrived before and after, as well as Huahua's parents and the child Qirui who they brought back.

Lao Yang kicked Yang Meimei, "Tidy up for your dad, just say you're back, ask your dad to follow you home......"

Qingshou saw Yang Meili so hateful and wanted to strangle her, but at this time, she was also stopped by Qingfeng. If you can come back and send your dad into the house, all the grievances are over!

Over there, even Wu Da and Wu Shuang came with their daughters-in-law and children, for fear that some people would deliberately embarrass people.

There was an old man in the village who loved to take care of things, so he came to see it. looked at the juniors of the Jin family kneeling at the entrance of the village one by one, and someone over there reminded: "This...... is the son-in-law of the second family...... That's the daughter-in-law of the third family...... This is the son-in-law of the fourth family...... What about the daughter-in-law of the fourth family?"

Qingyuan said, "Grandpa, I'm not married yet." ”

"Are you engaged?" asked again.

Qingyuan shook his head: "No!"

I don't know who shouted again: "How did I hear that the daughter of the third family is engaged......"

The third child was angry, "Who did you listen to?"

There are really people who have noses and eyes.

Some people say no, "You're engaged, why don't you come?" If this is a bit unlucky, if something happens in the future, who is it?"

If you don't say yes, you can't do it.

Someone saw Xu Tian hugging Qiming, and asked, "Didn't the fourth family have added a grandson?" ”

Someone shouted: "Don't look for it, it's okay if the two children don't come...... The niece has done her filial piety to the uncle...... It was these two nieces who freshened up ......."

The man shut up. also explained to the person next to him, "I'm not afraid of offending people." I'm more afraid of things happening than I am of offending people. ”

You have to take the main road to go back, and the main road will pass the door of the two rows of people who had the accident. The family has all died of sons and grandchildren, and they are very serious.

The one who pulls and pulls it back and forth thinks that the son-in-law who is clear and tricky can get it.

Stimulated Qingjuan, but it didn't end in the end, Liancheng came. It was sent by his grandfather himself. Knowing the rules here, I called my grandson. Then hurry up, it's still too late.

The young man was beautiful, and he was looked at by so many people, and he bowed his head in embarrassment. Then quietly stood by Qingjuan's side.

Qingjuan was angry again for breaking the rules, and happy that Liancheng could come. She whispered, "How did you get here?"

"Drove back. He whispered, "Is it just waiting for me?"

When the people arrived, everyone knelt down. There must be a lot of people. The big and the small, Xu Tian hugged Qiming and hid to the side.

And the kneeling filial sons and daughters are burning paper and setting off firecrackers to get rid of bad luck. Then kowtow and throw money, which is regarded as buying a road with various gods. Finally, he gave one of the white lanterns he bought from the paper shop and lit them. One for each person, guiding the way home of the dead. Yan Yan and Xu Qiang both took two, one big and one small. I took it for the two children. Lao Yang took it for Qifu, the daughter of the Qing family, and Huahua's father helped Qirui take it.

Throw money all the way, shout people all the way.

The junior couldn't open his mouth, and the people in the village who accompanied him said, "If you don't shout, stop, wait for your uncle...... Otherwise, who will harm if you leave a little soul!"

Qingjuan took Qingyue by the hand: "How my sister shouts, you just shout ......"

It's like a trick here, there are so many people watching, and the monkey show is not like this.

Qingyue was about to cry.

Or Liancheng has a way, squatting down and not knowing what to muttered to Qingyue, and then the baby shouted loudly. Liancheng, who thought he was particularly shy, shouted with a clear eye and was particularly rhythmic.

Later, Qingjuan asked, and he said. His father died on the operating table. He also died outside. At that time, the place where my grandparents lived was not considered a county seat, but only a suburb of the county. At the age of four, he also called his father the same. I'm afraid I won't be able to bring my dad home.

Even if he hasn't seen this uncle now, he still does it very religiously.

Just walked all the way and shouted all the way. Only then did the 'people' come into the house.

Then it was firecrackers to burn paper and kowtow, thanking the gods for opening the way to protect their loved ones home.

At this point, Qingping and Qingning felt that they were not there for the time being, and it was okay. I lit a brazier at the mouth of the alley, and stepped over the brazier, and the business of the day was over.

Qingping took the child back to the house in the town, Qingning and Yan returned to the county seat, and the child still had to be breastfed.

Yao Siyun took Qingyue and Qingjuan to send Liancheng away, and followed Qingping back to the second child's house.

When he got home, Qingjuan scolded: "What is this." What age is it, and it's still here. And my dad's uncle, as if he was sick, why did he tell his niece to go. My dad and my second uncle are too...... I don't say it's in the way...... and my second uncle, and asked my eldest sister to ......" and then asked Qingping: "The eldest sister is still bold and not afraid at all." Hmph! If it's me, I'll let him go to the ball! My son and daughter-in-law won't go, why should I go! I just go in, I can't move, I have the ability to bite me?" @无限好文, it's all in Jinjiang Literature City

Qingping said: "In the past, I always heard people say, 'Men rely on foreign families, and women rely on their mothers'. I never understood the meaning of this sentence emphasized by the old man. This time, I really knew. ”

There has always been a saying in my hometown, the post-90s generation may not know it, but as a group of post-80s, I still know some of it.

The phrase is 'men rely on outsiders, women rely on their mothers'.

She doesn't understand why men should rely on their families, but they simply think that women rely on their mother's family to mean that women are bullied at their husband's house and must rely on their mother's family to support them.

In fact, this understanding is particularly one-sided.

That's not the way it is.

Why did Uncle Meng over there, so old, appear in the hospital in the provincial capital as soon as possible. Why did he point fingers at the funeral, but no one refuted it. Even his own father listened.

Now when I think about the funerals in my family or village in the past, I will find that if the family dies it is the male owner. Then the first person to be called over must be the man's uncle's family. If your uncle is gone, so can your cousin. Neither do cousins and cousins, nor do cousins and nephews. If there are no relatives in the uncle's direct family, then the uncle's family has to have a person. If it is really a foreigner, people will say that it is really pitiful. If it is the hostess, it must be the brother of the mother's family and the nephew of the mother's family. If no one from her mother's house comes, she will also be labeled as pitiful. At the beginning, Yingzi and Lin Yutong were a little coerced to recognize the Lin family, and Aunt Jin said, "Women rely on their mother's family." Even if there is a brother, but the brother's surname is Guo and not Lin! ”

Why are you pitiful? Why do you say you have to take care of it?

The man died, and someone from his uncle's family came. The woman died, and her mother's family came. What are you here for?

Come to oversee! Come to examine! Come to see if there is anything unfilial and bad in this.

It is impossible to know when this rule was handed down. But the original intention of formulating this rule should be for the word 'filial piety'. Supervise the filial piety of their children.

For example, the old man in the family died. It's either a foreign family or a maiden family. When someone comes, they will appoint someone to the old man to freshen up. At that time, there was not one son, some families had daughters, and some families did not have daughters. If you have a girl, you will usually point to the girl to groom the elderly. Why? The girl will not hide it for her daughter-in-law. For example, whether the elderly died unnatural deaths, whether the elderly were abused and had scars on their bodies. The old man has been sick in bed for a long time, and he is not careful to serve, which can also be seen from the body. If the son and daughter-in-law did not wait for someone from someone outside the family or her mother's family to dress them directly, would no one know? In the past, He Xiaowan's mother's family had a case of a son and daughter-in-law strangling their own mother, but it was not discovered by the married daughter. Why did I dress my mom before I arrived? This doesn't fit the procedure, so it's naturally a bit boring.

If you don't have a daughter, you either go to the niece who is married, or you go to another daughter-in-law who doesn't often live in the same yard as the elderly. The purpose is the same, that is, in the name of grooming, to check whether there is anything wrong with the elderly. If you are more particular, someone from a foreign family or a mother's family, you have to watch the whole time.

There are also special cases, such as three relatives and six children, or the kind of special death, the clothes on the body are not easy to take off, and the shroud is not easy to put on, and the special person in the village who can wear it will be asked to wear it. Then give people a red seal.

But it's like being in a hospital, and there are no people in the village to help except for their own family. What's more, this is still the person personally appointed by Jin Mancheng's uncle.

Why don't you dare to shirk it casually when you point it out in person?

The rules should be good in the first place. After such a set of processes, everyone knows that the elderly are abused, and if the elderly are not treated well, no one will find out when the elderly are alive, and they will definitely not be able to hide it after death. Once this is exposed to unfilial piety, whether it is in the past or now, as long as you want to be cheeky, you really can't stand the accusations of thousands of people. Some elderly people can't stand the pain and don't dare to commit suicide. Why? I am afraid that when I go out of the funeral, I will let people know that death is uneasy. I am afraid that my children's descendants will be criticized by others. There is that kind in the village, when my mother's leg hurts, the pain can't stand it, and the conditions in those years are simply not possible. The old man hanged himself. Then the son was poked in the back, and he was ousted from office when he ran for the village head. Why are you not filial to your mother, but you still serve the villagers? Serve your grandmother's legs!

Everyone gets old one day, doesn't they?

With this rule, there is really one who is not filial, and he has to weigh whether he dares to go too far.

But no one knows when this rule has been passed down for many years. But after so many years, there must have been an evolution in between. After all, nothing is set in stone. What's more, the implementation of the rules also varies from person to person. Just look at what kind of people are in the uncle's family or mother's family, or whether the relationship between the two families is good, which has a direct impact on the implementation.

Originally, the function of these people was to supervise, but later it evolved into pointing fingers at funerals.

Whether the shroud prepared is good, whether the coffin is good, and whether the cover is covered can be seen in the past. If you can't look past it, then you can't stop it! If you are not satisfied, these people will not appear at the funeral.

Those who don't know will say, love comes not love!

But you just can't do it.

In the past, that kind of supervision was not a normal death, whether the elderly had been abused. If there is a bad situation, the family will not come. If you don't come, it's a big deal. No one in the village dared to help bury people. What if I get involved in a lawsuit? Can I still be an accomplice?

So, these people did not show up and did not speak. Then no one in the cemetery will beat it, and no one will dare to carry the coffin. There were almost no people in the family who came to help.

No entry into the cemetery!

Who can carry their parents to the field on their backs, dig a pit and bury it themselves?

This kind of constraint does not dare to be unfilial when you are idle.

But as it evolves, it seems to have changed a little. For example, he is picky about the coffin preparation, and he is picky about the shroud if it doesn't fit. If you don't do what he says, he won't come. You can't be buried. People who don't know think how unfilial you are.

So, you're just vomiting blood in anger, and you have to do what he says.

But most people are more reasonable, not that mother, and they don't want to offend people. People are dead, what are you doing with all those things?

Of course, there are also some things that are reasonable, such as Aunt Jin's coffin was too short back then, didn't the fourth master put on a coffin? People just need to ensure that the aunt and grandmother of the Meng family are buried decently.

There are also people who are more troublesome in themselves, or people who have a lot of dislikes in the middle of getting along with relatives. He deliberately spoiled you and stinked your reputation when doing things.

Between cousins, there is a saying that threatens people, just say: You wait. Let's wait for your dad to die, and we'll see. It's strange to see that I don't clean up, you call it Ye.

This threat is quite deterrent.

It's not just the reputation that stinks, the key is that as a child, you can't let your old man stink in the coffin because of this.

Uncle Meng is not only Jin Mancheng's uncle, but also the uncle of so many brothers in the Jin family. If you offend him, you will offend the Meng family. And then what did you say, in the future, the remaining four brothers will be gone, and the younger generations will have to invite the Meng family.

And then wait for the Meng family to come again to disgust these children?

Although this is all for later, there will indeed be considerations in this regard.

Don't talk about the far, isn't the near one right in front of you?

For example, this time:

Okay, if you don't listen to what I say, then I'll go back now. What should I do with your funeral?

The fourth master and Lin Yutong came back because they wanted to facilitate it as soon as possible, handle the funeral, and don't make any extraneous branches. I was afraid that Li Xian'er would follow others and carry the corpse and make trouble with others. Can I delay because of this?

What's more, local customs believe that the person who is pointed to groom the old man is a filial person. It is not bad luck that is contaminated, but blessing.

This is called the exhaustion of great filial piety. Virtue must shelter future generations.

Therefore, the children of Qingping and Qingning don't have to go to the village when they are at the entrance of the village!

When people talk about funerals, they will also say: Whoever is gone, who is gone, who is who groomed. This man has groomed several old people...... She's a blessed man!

Qingjuan said, "...... Huahua doesn't understand the rules here, Qingfeng doesn't understand?"

Qingping explained: "You didn't come to the front, and you were injured like that...... I can't feel it when I see it......" She felt that anyone who saw her biological father become like that would not be able to stand it.

While he was talking, the leaves also came.

Yao Siyun asked, "What's going on over there?

Ye Zi nodded: "It's set." Qinghui and Qingyuan went to buy a coffin. Called overnight to send it. ”

Qing Juan smiled shamefully: "How much money was given?"

Ye stretched out two fingers: "Two thousand." ”

Two thousand, in the countryside, is not too much, nor is it a little.

Qingjuan said: "Why didn't his uncle pick Qingfeng and Qingcheng to collect? Two thousand yuan, didn't say that the coffin was cheap......?"

Where is the preference for your uncle?

It's just that your second uncle and your father offended others as uncles.

"Your fourth uncle and fourth aunt have become such big officials. Yao Siyun snorted, "The Meng family, my uncle's family, I haven't touched a dime cheap." I have found your second uncle, and I have also found your father, saying that I want to find a job for this son, and I want to stuff that grandchild's to college. It was all blocked by the two of them. How old is his uncle, how old is he this year? What can you do with him? What can you do with him? It is on purpose, what can you do? When you were in the provincial capital, your father said, just call one of his cousins over. Who knew people were coming. It was inconvenient at that time, but now that he is back, he must not be offended. If it doesn't work, go to the Meng family. If you can't do it anymore, just take the money and talk. The juniors below are not all like this uncle. After speaking, he said Qingping, "I was afraid of your temper, so I scared your father back at that time......"

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The author has something to say: say a few points:

First: the reader said that the funeral is a dragon. I've never seen anyone do such a funeral. Not to mention that the timeline is more than a decade ago.

My father and I have two children, my brother is not married, and I am responsible for my father's funeral. If I had heard about this, if I had dared to bring it up at the time, I would not have been scolded, I would have broken my leg by my uncle who was still alive, and others would have to applaud. It's not a question of understanding or not, it's just existing. You are surprised, just as I am surprised and incomprehensible when I hear about some customs. Some readers left a message with me and said that if they can't cry, they can find someone who specializes in crying. Six hundred and eight hundred hired men to weep. This sounds unbelievable to me. Then you will be surprised that there is such a custom. If it were really a one-by-one count, I would estimate that we would be able to produce a large set of books just for funeral customs. When you read the story, you should know the people and things you don't know. Nowadays, although it has been advocating the simplification of funerals. But advocacy is one thing, whether it can be done is another. After advocating, it is still very cumbersome, let alone more than ten years ago. Of course, I believe that the world will slowly disappear in the near future. While it was still alive, I recorded this custom in this way. Maybe when my child grows up, he will be surprised when he looks at it, and it turns out that the customs of the past turned out to be like this!

Second: about the child's funeral.

Let me begin by stating that, like most readers, I am very much against children appearing on such occasions.

When the chapter came out yesterday, I thought everyone would feel uncomfortable. Someone else told me that this chapter must be explained.

I didn't sleep well last night, and I thought, what am I going to explain?

My father didn't eat or drink for six days before he died, and he didn't eat or drink for the seventh day. My two cousins, after knowing that my father had not eaten or drunk for two days, rushed back. Both of them are actually out of town. One child was forty-six days old, and the other was not out of confinement, and it was only twenty-five days after giving birth. My mother said, "Just get your heart." Don't call for guarding. But the two of them lived in my house with their children from before the death of the person to the first seven years after the death of the person. before taking the child away. The funeral was messy, and I stayed at my house all the time. I think it's very noisy, it will disturb the child, it will scare the child. But more people in the customs believe that if the child is not in front of him, the child will be pressed with filial piety. Children will love to get sick and so on and so forth. They have also graduated from college, and their families do not love them or their children? But some of them are deeply ingrained and engraved on people's bodies like imprints. I was always worried that something would happen to my child, but my child was fine. But my children feel that they are affected by some things, such as playing some sad music. My son now shuts down when he hears similar sad music, and he says he feels very uncomfortable when he hears it. It can only be said that his relatives died, and after attending the funeral completely, he left a memory in his heart. As soon as I heard the song, I remembered how uncomfortable it was at that time. So, I suggest that no matter what the custom is, don't take your children when you can.

Thirdly: about the grooming of the dead.

I've talked about some of the chapters, and I'll give you one more example I've seen. An older sister in an alley, after getting married, her uncle, who had a bad relationship with his family, died. My uncle had a son but no daughter, and then my uncle and grandfather said that I would ask my niece to wash. She didn't do it at the time, just raised her leg and left. In the end, the uncle and grandfather of the family did not go, and her uncle stayed at home for more than half a month. In the end, it was her father, who knelt in front of her uncle's house all night, and it was still snowing heavily. That's when I invited them back. Talent is buried. This was probably seven or eight years ago. The memory is particularly deep.

Young juniors, including me. It's a bit of a thing to accept, can't be.

But then my dad was gone, and my uncle wasn't so embarrassed, so he said, you can wash it. I know that you are serving well. My mother didn't ask people to groom my dad, because she felt that people had to go with dignity. Don't let people fiddle with it. I and my mom and my brother freshened up. We put on our own clothes. My cousins were handing out water and towels right at the door.

I don't know the age of some of the readers, but I would say that from my own experience, as an adult, I feel like I've grown up twice. Once I went through life and had a child, I think it's a little different whether it's thinking or something else. Once again, he experienced the death of his loved one, and he handled it with his own hands, making him embarrassed in the ground. I feel as if I've sensed a lot of things.

There's nothing dirty in it. The old man can't move, he can't take care of himself, and he doesn't know who you are. Scrub every day, and all kinds of disinfection are afraid of bedsores. Parents have the day when they get old, and every child has to go through these things when they reach a certain age. Before going through this, maybe there are still many young readers who can't understand this. I sincerely hope that every reader's parents will live a long and healthy life, but if one day, you have to do this for your parents. When you don't realize the slightest embarrassment and take it for granted, you may understand.

Another: Someone asked where 'humility' came from. I remember where I saw a couplet in the Xiangshan Temple in Luoyang. It is the sentence 'ascending to humility', which is quoted here and is hereby explained!

See you tomorrow!

Another: To add a few words, some readers have been saying that the character collapsed, I'm sorry, I haven't figured out how it collapsed after thinking about it for a day and a night? I don't know if everyone is always sane and always right in everything they say and do. And it has to be flawless! I have to think about it, it's very important to write a character!

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