Chapter 1919: Invitation
Obviously, no one is willing to invite someone easily. Yes, even if you are an ordinary person, even if you are a very ordinary person, even if you have no power at all, even if you do simple work, even if you sit and have no special meaning. Even if you are a small leader, even if you are a person whose status is not very high. You won't invite someone easily, and you won't invite someone to your private party.
Because if you don't value a person, obviously you can't have some private activities with him, you don't want to have too much contact with this person, you don't want to have too much contact with this person, once one person invites another person, then obviously this person has special care for the other person. This person has a special affection for another person, and this person has a special value for another person. Only if you like someone will you invite him, and only if you like someone, you will want to have more contact with him, have more communication, and have more intersections.
Or when you invite someone, in fact, you have already thought about it in your heart, that is to say, you have thought about it in your heart, everyone understands what kind of people they want to contact with, everyone understands what they want, everyone understands what kind of future they want, everyone understands what kind of people they want to contact with, everyone understands what kind of people they need to contact with, everyone understands what kind of people they need to make friends with, everyone understands what they want, everyone understands what they want if they want to get this thing, what do you need to give, what kind of people do you need to associate with, and what kind of people do you need to make friends with.
If you are a person who wants to be successful, it is obvious that you can't make friends with those people with low status, if you are a person who wants to be successful, obviously you can't make friends with those ordinary people, because those friends can't help you with anything, those ordinary people don't have any resources in their hands, you make friends with ordinary people, you can't get some successful materials from them, you can't get any successful ideas from them, you can't get anything beneficial from them, you can't get anything helpful from them at all。 If you are a person who wants to be successful, obviously you need to make friends with people who are helpful to you, you need to do something with people who are helpful to you, you need to talk to people who are helpful to you, you need to do something with people who are helpful to you.
Obviously, in the minds of ordinary people, they know that they need to make friends with people who are helpful to them. Such a person is not necessarily a person with a higher status than him, and such a person is not necessarily a person who is richer than them, but such a person must taste that such a person must have characteristics. Such a person may be a person who is very powerful in a certain field, and such a person may be a person with deep thoughts
Anyway, in any case, such a person may be a person who helps them financially, such a person may be a person who inspires them intellectually, such a person may be someone who helps them in the professional field, and such a person may be someone who helps them in other aspects. Ordinary people understand the truth, so obviously, the rich also understand this truth. Obviously, the rich also need to make friends, and the rich also need to have intersections with some people.
But the rich make friends, and it is clear that they do not make friends with the poor. Or that they won't make friends with the simple poor.
What is a simple poor man? That is, he relies on strength to make himself poor. Some people are poor, but they are rich. Some people are poor, they just really poor. Why are some people poor, but they are rich?
Because some people are very poor, just poor in money, but in terms of ideas they are rich, in terms of ideas they will think of a lot of things, in terms of ideas they will have many ways to solve troubles, in terms of ideas they are a giant, in terms of ideas they will provide you with a lot of referential opinions, in terms of ideas, they can inspire you a lot of ideas, in terms of ideas, they can help you think better, in terms of ideas, they can help you think of more and better ideas, in terms of ideas they can even help you think of some methods that you can't usually imagine, in terms of ideas, they can help you become a real thinking personIdeologically, they can help you become a real person with depth of thought.
What is called the real poor. The real poor person means that this person is poor in money and poor in thought, that is to say, this person has no thoughts at all, this person only knows how to work, this person only knows how to work according to other people's orders, this person only knows how to do things according to other people's instructions, he has no thoughts of his own at all, he has no opinions of his own, he cannot have his own thoughts at all, and he cannot have his own opinions at all. Or that such a person does not think at all, or that such a person cannot think at all, or that such a person does not want to think, that such a person does not want to make himself think, that such a person does not want to make himself tired at all, or that such a person does not make himself tired at all.
All in all, such a person simply cannot be a successful person. Such a person simply cannot succeed, and such a person will not be a friend of the rich at all.
Rich people don't make friends with such people at all.
The current situation is that a very powerful rich man wants to make friends with his boss, and the current situation is that a very powerful rich man invites the boss to a rich man's private party, what does this mean? This can only show that his boss has strengths, this can only show that the rich man values his boss very much, and this can only show that his boss is also a person who is about to succeed.
Yes, that's what he thinks, he thinks he's not wrong at all, or that he trusts his judgment, he trusts what he sees. Yes. Everyone should have their own judgment, or everyone should trust their own judgment, because if even you don't believe your own judgment, if you don't even believe what you see, then obviously no one will believe you, then obviously you are not a person worthy of being believed, then obviously you should not be a successful person either. Because on the road to success you will encounter a lot of situations, because on the road to success you will encounter a lot of problems, because on the road to success you will encounter endless troubles, you will encounter a variety of options. When you should make a choice, when you should firmly believe in your choice, when you should really strive towards your choice without hesitation.
You doubt, you hesitate, you don't really believe in yourself, you don't really believe in your choices, then how can you succeed? So how can you be a successful person? So how can you get the life you want?
Yes, you can't get the life you want at allYes, you can't be a successful person at all, and you shouldn't be a successful person at all. You should allow yourself to truly believe in yourself. In other words, even if your decision is wrong, you should believe in yourself, because only if you believe in yourself, only if you truly believe in yourself, can you struggle wholeheartedly and go on wholeheartedly.
And there is no real right or wrong in this world.
If you are on a wrong path and really stick to your heart, really stick to your judgment, really stick to your thoughts, then obviously. Though you are wrong, though your path is wrong, although you have chosen wrong, although your thinking is wrong. But after all, you still have a persistence that others praise, and after all, you still carry forward your strong quality. After all, you are still a person with the qualities to succeed.
It's only because you chose the wrong path, it's only because you chose the wrong direction that you failed, but in the days to come, it's clear that you'll have more choices, you'll encounter more situations, you'll have more opportunities that will make you successful, as long as you choose the right direction once, as long as you choose the right opportunity, then obviously, you'll succeed. Because you have the quality to be successful, because you have the quality to believe in yourself, because you have the quality that a successful person should have.
Of course, everyone's heart is not very firm, that is to say, when you make a decision, when you answer a question from others, when you feel that you are right, obviously, at other times, when you doubt yourself, when you hesitate, when you feel that you are not very right, it is obvious that you doubt, it is obvious that you are not sure whether your answer is right, you are not sure whether your ideal is correct, you are not sure whether the path you have chosen is right, you are not sure whether the direction you are working towards is not right。