Chapter 113: Why is Gui Mei crying?
No one guessed Guimei's gift, which was a pair of kissing porcelain dolls, a man and a woman.
After praising the gift for being funny, Wenwen asked Gui Mei why she bought this gift, and Gui Mei didn't explain much, just said "it's fun".
Wenwen handed the little guy to me, and she and Xinya lay on the mat together to sort out the toys waiting for the child to grab, and it could be seen that they all hoped that the child could catch according to their expectations, for example, Xinya put the pen and the villain book in the front position, and Wenwen put the mouse in a place that was easy to find and easy to grab.
"Baby, look at all the fun things here, it's all yours, you can pick up whichever you like the most?" After Xinya and Wenwen made room, I put the little one in front of a pile of toys and sat down.
Maybe he had never seen so many fun things in front of his eyes at the same time, the little guy looked at the toy in front of him, and then looked back at the onlookers, especially at Wenwen.
"Baby, don't be afraid, which one you like the most, go get it quickly. Wenwen gently encouraged the child.
I don't really believe that catching a week can have any benefits, it's just a long-standing custom, and it is more of a reflection of the wishes of adults than a predictor of the direction of a child's future growth.
It seems that in the face of too many choices, everyone will be a little at a loss.
The little guy looked at the pile of these toys, and first stretched out his hand to the pair of porcelain dolls that Gui Mei bought, but when he was about to get it, he hesitated, returned to the same seat, and after thinking again, he resolutely crossed the toy in front of him and grabbed the toy mobile phone at the far end.
A little disappointed, but after all, it's just a game, and haha a fun is over.
I think this kid is really a bit like himself, he likes things that are already familiar, and he has the desire and urge to try new things, but he is still not bold enough.
The reason why I think so is that I believe that today's children, like pens, abacus, and even RMB, have rarely had the opportunity to see, and most of the things are not familiar to the little guys, only the toy mobile phone may be familiar, because I often see Wenwen using the mobile phone to make calls, and maybe often take it to play, so I naturally grabbed it with ease.
You don't need to ask Wenwen about this, the little guy can know the action of poking a few times on the keyboard after getting the mobile phone, and then raising it to his ear to answer.
With the little guy as a living treasure, the atmosphere of the meal was also relaxed and lively, and even Guimei, who was not in a high mood, couldn't help laughing several times.
The joy of growing up with a new life is really irresistible.
It's just that Xinya went out of body a few times in the middle of the way, and I was interrupted in time.
But the impact of such a first birthday on me was something I didn't expect, and the happy days with my wife and daughter in the past were clearly reproduced in my mind, especially when my daughter was young, which brought me and my wife infinite happiness and fulfillment, and it was a good time that nothing could be exchanged for it.
I began to waver a little whether I should really let go of my obsession with my wife and start a new family.
But the statements I learned later made me more and more unable to get out of the psychological shackles of being ashamed of my wife.
Some people say that there is no question of death at all, but they just move to another time and space to continue living; some people say that when people die, they only lose their physical functions, and their consciousness still exists, just like a computer without a mouse and keyboard, and they cannot communicate and communicate; even a great scientist like Albert Einstein said several decades ago that when a person dies, consciousness becomes a mass of electromagnetic waves that leaves the original human body and enters the universe.
All these things made it impossible for me to leave my wife and ignore her existence.
If you are really reincarnated, you can forget all the memories of the past and start a new life, which can be regarded as a complete rebirth. The problem is that there is no record of the reincarnation of a wife in the list of reincarnations in the underworld.
When I think of my wife's hard life now, I don't know where in the underworld she is, and I can't be at peace, and I don't have the heart to think about marrying another woman to live a new life.
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Another Halloween festival on July 15 is just around the corner.
Ever since I realized that my soul can break through walls, and that door locks and guardrails are not obstacles, I have understood that Xinya's absence from home can no longer stop me from going to another world in the middle of the night. The reason why I haven't gone down for a long time is because I am afraid that if I sleepwalk in Xinya's heart-wrenching and tearful appearance again, and the accident last time still makes people feel palpitations.
I haven't gone down for so long, and I don't know if Meng Po's body is good or bad. I thought that if Meng Po was gone one day, I was afraid that the way to find his deceased wife would be completely cut off.
On a big holiday like July 15th, I think I'll have to go down anyway and go to see my wife, even if it's still in vain.
On July 15th, I prepared a lot of things, in addition to those for my wife, there were also Meng Po, Uncle Niu, Old Ghost and Xiaomeng.
"Why do you buy so much? Your wife doesn't drink or smoke, what kind of tobacco and alcohol do you buy?" asked Xinya as she was preparing these things.
"You don't have to care, some of them are for relatives who have passed away in their hometown, and some are for if their wives want to ask someone to do something and give a gift or something. ”
"Yo Yo, give a gift!"
I didn't bother to answer Xinya's kind ridicule.
When burning, of course, it is divided into several plots of land, one by one, and you have to keep chanting the other party's name, otherwise it means that there is no receiving address, the other party can't receive it, and the burning is also in vain.
But Xinya is a trouble to follow, and she will definitely not agree if she is not allowed to follow.
Finally, I had a plan, and after I bought something, I bought a lot of additional coins.
When she was about to go out at night, Gui Mei ran to make trouble. When you hear what we're going to do, you have to follow along.
On the night of July 15, there were fires everywhere, especially at sparsely populated intersections, or near downtown construction sites, like bonfires.
I drove to a construction site, chose an open space, picked up a stick, drew a few circles on the ground, lit something for my wife and burned it in one of the circles, and left the banknote at the end as planned.
At about the same time, I said to Xinya and Guimei: "There are a lot of these banknotes, you help me burn them one by one, I heard that if you burn them together, they will stick together, and when you get there, you can't identify the money, so it's useless." ”
"You're quite poisoned. Xinya laughed at me, and Gui Mei was silent and speechless.
I said, "I've just heard people say that since it's burned, burn it well." By the way, you two help me burn it slowly, and I'll burn the other things. ”
I think you're going to have to burn these bills for a while.
Without waiting for Xinya and Guimei to say anything, I had already gone to the car and took other things to give to Meng Po, Uncle Niu, Xiaomeng and the old ghost.
"Granny Meng, you don't know what's going on, I almost hurt you last time, this time I'll send you some simple daily necessities and a little food, I hope you recover soon, I'll see you again in two days, and I ask you to help me with my wife's affairs." "I was babbling as I burned something.
"Who is Xiaomeng? Sounds like it has a lot to do with you. "When it was the last turn to burn Xiaomeng, I didn't expect Xinya to be standing behind me, and Guimei was also watching me quietly.
I can only make up a lie temporarily: "A relative in my hometown committed suicide at a young age because he was abandoned by his boyfriend who had been in love for 7 years. ”
"Xiaomeng, I don't know how your situation is now. If you're a girl, don't run outside, it's not safe outside. ”
The reason why I continued to repeat that sentence was mainly because I thought that if Xinya asked who Xiaomeng was, I wouldn't talk about it immediately, she might think more.
Unexpectedly, when I stood up, Gui Mei was crying with pear blossoms, and the tears in her eyes and face reflected the dancing flames around her.
"Guimei, why are you crying?"
"Nope. Smoky. Gui Mei quickly wiped her eyes.