Chapter 1096: Dongzi's Love Strategy
Naturally, the whole meeting went very smoothly, and everyone achieved their goal. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info not only enjoyed a barbecue, but also discussed the matter of Dongzi. And in the spirit of confession, leniency, and strictness, Dongzi truthfully confessed his crime, no, the fact of love to the organization.
It turned out that when Jiang Chen and the others came to the computer center that day, Dongzi saw Lin Xiaonan in the crowd at a glance. At first, I just thought she was special, because among the crowd, there were only a few women. The other women are either too young, or they have already discussed their age, and she is more mature. And in the special dress, as well as the dusty temperament, always exude the charm of this young woman, no, it should be said that it is the breath of a woman, like lighting a bright lamp in the crowd. And Dongzi, who has accumulated male hormones for so many years and is about to explode, this simple scene naturally quickly paid attention to Lin Xiaonan, who was shining there. Then I was immediately attracted to it, just like a monkey seeing a banana, a tiger seeing a rabbit, and a bear seeing a bald head. In Dongzi's words, this is love at first sight.
In the subsequent inspection work, Dongzi didn't have the heart to listen carefully to Jiang Chen's conversation, but looked at Lin Xiaonan from time to time. And whenever Lin Xiaonan noticed something, he quickly turned his gaze away. It's like a schoolboy doing something bad. Maybe this is the attraction between the opposite sex, or love. Sometimes just one meeting, or one voice, decides that she will not go in this life. Of course, he didn't dare to take action, on the one hand, there were more people at that time, and everyone was there. On the other hand, he doesn't know whether they are married or not, and it is a little too abrupt to go directly to the past. Another thing is that he was a little scared. Of course, he is afraid not because he doesn't dare, but because he is afraid of refusal, so he is so hesitant and entangled.
Of course, Lin Xiaonan, as a woman, didn't she notice Dongzi's actions, this is definitely not. Women have always been more sensitive, especially when it comes to men, and it is still a woman who has been injured in the past. Therefore, Dongzi's gaze must not be able to avoid Lin Xiaonan. But she can't point out, on the one hand, it comes from the reserve of women. On the other hand, it is also a relationship between superiors and subordinates, after all, she will work under Dongzi for a long time in the future. If Ang Dongzi can't get off the stage, then getting along with each other at work in the future will be very embarrassing, and it will even affect her work. And as a mature woman, she still has this emotional intelligence.
Subsequently, Dongzi naturally had to take action, on the one hand, he wanted to inquire about Lin Xiaonan's situation, and on the other hand, he began to try to contact Lin Xiaonan. What makes him happy is that Lin Xiaonan is single, although he has been divorced and has a daughter, but these are not important, the important thing is that she is single, which means that Dongzi has this opportunity. And Dongzi also learned that this Lin Xiaonan is still in the window period, has not fallen in love, and has been in Nanshan for so long, and has not seen any gossip come out. It can be said that it is a godsend for him.
However, after Dongzi made some specific contact, he found that it was very difficult. On the one hand, Lin Xiaonan didn't feel much interest in him, and even rejected him a little. Every time I met him, I had a conversation in a business-like manner, so that Dongzi didn't have a chance. Even in private, he ate a lot of ashes in front of Lin Xiaonan. In Lin Xiaonan's words, it's okay to talk about business, but go away from talking about private matters, and she is not interested in little children. And Dongzi was half angry when he heard this. Although he wanted to refute it, but in the face of Lin Xiaonan's eyes that rejected people thousands of miles away, he swallowed the words that came to his mouth again.
These days, it's very painful to torture Dongzi. During the day, the food was tasteless, and at night he couldn't sleep, and after a while, he lost seven or eight pounds. Dongzi, who reacted, decided that he couldn't go on like this, otherwise his daughter-in-law didn't catch up, and he fell first. So he thought about it, and this matter could only be to ask Jiang Chen for help. Although he was a little embarrassed to say anything about Jiang Chen, who made love more expensive, so he still made up his mind to say it to Jiang Chen. Who would have thought that Jiang Chen had no choice, so he could only ask the big guy to come over and discuss it together.
After everyone's discussion, especially the in-depth analysis of the three women, everyone had a rough guess. There may be several reasons why Lin Xiaonan is not interested in Dongzi. On the one hand, because Dongzi is a leader and she is an employee, if she accepts it, it will be easy to be gossiped about by others. Especially a golden beetle son-in-law like Dongzi, many people are staring at it, she is new to the city, if she is really delusional, then I am afraid there is no place for her, especially for their orphans and widows.
On the other hand, there is the age gap. Judging from Wei Lingling's analysis, mature women, especially those who have had failed marriages and been injured, have a certain degree of resistance or fear about falling in love and getting married again. On the one hand, there is the fear of repeating the mistakes of the past, and on the other hand, there is a hesitation. In this matter, the domestic trend is still biased towards tradition, and the street still has some opinions about divorced women like her. If you fall in love and get married rashly, what will the people around you think, and what will relatives and friends think.
And because of this kind of psychology, even if you are looking for a partner, you have to find someone who is slightly mature and stable, the same age as her, not much younger than her. In her opinion, young boys are immature and irresponsible. And she also has her daughter with her, if she wants to find it, not only to find her a man with a sense of security, but also to find her daughter a good father who can teach her and accompany her to grow up healthily. So in this aspect of finding a partner, she will be extra cautious.
So after discussing and discussing, everyone still thinks that this entry point is placed on Lin Xiaonan's daughter. For Lin Xiaonan now, her daughter is the first place for her, and the second is the job she loves, and the third is her personal problem. If she can take down the most important daughter she sees, then the next thing will be much easier. And as long as its daughter can accept Dongzi, then it can also make Lin Xiaonan's attitude towards Dongzi better. And then at that time, take some appropriate strategies, and it's not easy to hold the beauty?
Just do it, with Jiang Chen's encouragement, or instigation, Dongzi mustered up the courage to start contacting Lin Xiaonan's youngest daughter. But what Dongzi didn't expect, or what Jiang Chen didn't expect, was that Dongzi actually suffered a lot next, even miserable.