798 Like and Love
It's easy to like this thing, a look, an action, an encounter, it is possible for two strangers to have so-called liking feelings, just like Li Shiyu at the beginning, because Qin Feiyang taught Zhou Xu a lesson, she fell in love with Qin Feiyang, and it was because of 'one thing' that she liked it.
Whether it is a man or a woman, they are always more impulsive when they like it, Li Shiyu is impulsive, Qin Feiyang is also impulsive, one is a female programmer who gathers in the pile of men all day long, and the other is a special soldier who talks about love with death all day long.
In the matter of feelings, the two of them are blank, Li Shiyu has also liked others, but Qin Feiyang has never had it, he has been in the military camp since he can remember, and he has undergone the harshest training and the most cruel whip.
Before that, he only had four things in his mind: comrades-in-arms, brothers, family and country, and responsibility, and aside from these four things, there was nothing else in his head, so even if he saw Tang Qinxue, the first beauty in Binhai City, he didn't have that beastly impulse at all, and he just appreciated it, and appreciated beautiful things.
After that, he knew that Tang Qinxue was his so-called fiancΓ©e, and he didn't care, he still decided to end the so-called marriage contract, without the slightest nostalgia, but Tang's father and Tang's mother's enthusiasm for him made him feel strange warmth, so he didn't speak so quickly.
Compared with Li Shiyu, Qin Feiyang's emotional world is even more blank.
As she said, as long as she speaks, let Qin Feiyang take off her military uniform, live in the city with her, find a job with a stable salary every month, pay off the mortgage and car loan, get married, have a baby, and raise a baby, Qin Feiyang will definitely agree, even if he doesn't want to, he will definitely do it.
And if you want to talk about the word 'love', Li Shiyu thinks that he can't reach this level, how long has he and Qin Feiyang been together? More time is separated, and the real relationship is just a little time.
For Li Shiyu, a hero like Qin Feiyang is suitable for being a boyfriend, but not for a husband, she is just a little woman, she wants a husband who can accompany her and care for her, not a man who carries a gun and hangs his head on his waist every day, which may make her a widow and then marry for the second time at any time.
Military wives are honored, but the pain in it is probably only the military wives who can understand, the feeling that the sky is going to fall and you have to bear it yourself when you encounter things, only those who have experienced it will know.
Women are very strong, but no matter how strong they are, there is a limit, obviously there is a husband, but this husband does not completely belong to himself, only a short period of time belongs to himself, and even in his heart, the country is greater than the family, the people are greater than the wife, such a husband, there are many women who can accept it, and there will be many women who can't accept it.
Li Shiyu is the one who can't accept it, and Tang Qinxue is the opposite of her.
Li Shiyu likes Qin Feiyang, likes it very much, but if she wants to say whether she loves Qin Feiyang or not, she can't answer it, and in the face of such a question, as long as she can't answer it, she doesn't love or can't meet the minimum standard of love.
likes to let two people be together, love sublimates the feelings of two people into family affection, and countless likes can converge into love.
The two girlfriends fell silent at the same time, sitting facing each other, and the food on the table did not move at all.
"Am I not right, Xiaoxue, you won't be like me, I hope he will take off his military uniform, put down his honor, throw away the gun in his hand, and then return to the mountains and forests or hide in the city with you to be an ordinary white-collar worker. You will support him in everything, guard the rear for him, and settle your little family. β
"I" Tang Qinxue was in a state of confusion at the moment, she didn't know how to answer Li Shiyu, because what she said was true, and she also understood what Li Shiyu meant.
For example, if Qin Feiyang sets off to a certain place to perform a mission, and may be seriously injured, she will go directly to the closest place to him, and if he comes back from injury, she will take care of him by herself and face it with him.
And Li Shiyu's words, maybe it won't be like this, she will be worried, she will be nervous, but she will not rush to the closest place to him, she will worry about him from afar.
This is the difference between the two, no one is wrong, it's just that the difference in personality causes the two to do things differently.
"I'm not like you, Xiaoxue, I want a warm home, I want me to come home and shout 'I'm back' and someone can respond to me saying 'I'm off work, come and sit and rest'. β
"I live alone now, I go home and order a takeout to eat, and then I just brush the drama and put on a mask to sleep, if I get married and life is still like this, to put it bluntly, I can't find anyone when I want to pop, what's the use of this husband?" Li Shiyu said with a wry smile.
Tang Qinxue was speechless, these problems Li Shiyu said were very realistic, she was not qualified to say that Li Shiyu's ideas were problematic, the two got married and started a family, that is to live together, living under the same roof will have the taste of life, otherwise why be bound by that little red book?
"You don't have to persuade me, your best friend and I are not stupid, otherwise I wouldn't have been admitted to Binhai University with more than 600 points, right? Li Shiyu looked serious: "Xiaoxue, I know very well what you think in your heart, but I hope you can understand that I am not suitable for Qin Feiyang, but you are very suitable, if Qin Feiyang is handed over to you, I am still more relieved." β
Tang Qinxue didn't expect that she was comforted by her best friend in the end, although what her best friend said was reasonable and well-founded, but she always felt a little weird in her heart.
"I'd better think about this, I'm going back to Quancheng to calm down. β
Li Shiyu nodded, she didn't expect her best friend to be able to see it all at once, that would be too unrealistic, as for herself, she had already seen it before she had a relationship with Qin Feiyang, this man is suitable for love and love, but if you want to talk about marriage, it is absolutely inappropriate, especially after knowing more things about Qin Feiyang, she can't accept that her future husband is a person who values the country and the people the most.
Only has the liking for Qin Feiyang in her heart, she can slowly fade away, she is a person who has no hope of getting married, although she looks delicate, but in terms of feelings, she is definitely a person who dares to fight.
treats feelings more straightforwardly, simply and simply than her best friend Tang Qinxue.
"Okay, it's all over, I'm so hungry, let's go!" After talking about the matter, Li Shiyu also began to stuff things in her stomach, she couldn't bear to ignore it for so long, she had to stuff it more as an apology.
After eating, Tang Qinxue took Li Shiyu back to the hospital, Qin Feiyang did not sleep in the hospital, he was also waiting for Li Shiyu to arrive, but the waiting time was a bit long.
Hearing the sound of the door being pushed open, Qin Feiyang smiled and said, "You're here." β
Li Shiyu nodded with a smile, and said with some distress in her eyes: "Xiaoxue told me, you like to be a hero so much." β
Qin Feiyang smiled bitterly: "That's my duty, after all, I'm a soldier." β
Li Shiyu raised her eyebrows when she heard this: "Soldiers, soldiers, aren't you also a person, you are not the only soldier in Huaxia, why do you have to go up?"
"That's not what I said" Qin Feiyang felt that Li Shiyu was not the same as before, but he couldn't say this difference.
"Okay, I know that you are a hero, what kind of totem captain, the first special forces in Huaxia, who are you not on?"
Qin Feiyang coughed dryly: "You know all these things?"
Li Shiyu knew that he was a soldier, but she didn't know that he was a totem, and now it seems that she already knows it.
"Nonsense, don't forget that the Tang Group has now been acquired by the Liang family, and the person who was sent to take over the Tang Group knows a lot of things about you, and I also learned a lot about you from him. β
"They would tell you?" Qin Feiyang said in some surprise.
"The person who came to take over the Tang Group has a very good personality, the atmosphere of the whole company is very harmonious, and we dare to ask some questions that have nothing to do with business. Li Shiyu responded.
Qin Feiyang nodded, and suddenly, there was a knock on the door, and the guard guarding the door said, "Captain Qinglong, Elder Liang of the Liang family is here, is it convenient for you to meet?"