In fact, if a person is stupid, it does not mean that this person is not smart in his mind, this kind of stupidity or stupidity in his feelings, in fact, it can only be said that this person is deceived by himself, yes, he is not deceived by others, but by himself.

If a man or a woman falls out of love, if a man or a woman says that he is stupid, if a man or woman says that someone else has cheated on him, that someone else has cheated on him in this relationship, then it is obvious that his thinking is wrong, or if he really wants to fall into this kind of thought, then it is obvious that he will never be able to recover from this state of grief, and he will not be able to really make himself faster, become optimistic again, and accept another relationship again, because all the things that you think are sad, because of all the things that you think others have caused you harmIn fact, it's all because of your own stupidity, and it's all because you deceived yourself.

Of course, there may be a hint of absoluteness in saying this, if someone else is just a simple stab. If someone else is really physically hurting you, then obviously this is not what you think, this is what you really have been hurt, this is what others have really hurt you, but if you are really in the world of feelings, if others are hurting you in the world of feelings, then it is obvious that you have hurt yourself, if you are a really smart person, then when he says that he loves you, you should be able to feel that in fact he does not love you. At this time, you should tell yourself that in fact, the feeling that he loves you is an illusion, in fact, this behavior of him loving you is also a kind of behavior that you think he loves you, so at this time you should tell yourself that it is you who deceived yourself, in fact, he has always been hypocritical. In fact, he has been deceiving you all the time, but only you think that he is loving you, and only you think that his love is right, so don't say that others have deceived you, but it is actually your stupidity that has deceived you, in fact, it is you who have deceived you. When he really chooses to leave, in fact, you shouldn't have so many thoughts, you should let yourself quickly recognize the face of others.

That is to say, when a man or a woman leaves you, then you should know that in fact, he has really given up, and when he really gives up on you, then you should understand, in fact, you feel that you should have a correct response to everything, that is to say, you should not fall into a sad or helpless situation at all, you should let yourself really start thinking about who it is, then obviously, it is actually your problem that you have not recognized that some others have deceived you, and you have not made some thoughts to make yourself sober, so since you are not soberThen now you should let yourself really come to your senses, let yourself really come to your senses, let yourself really realize that you are actually deceiving yourself. In fact, you should have some other ideas, then, only then can you really get yourself out of such an embarrassing situation and out of such an environment where you can continue to move forward.

In addition to this, he is even a slightly stupid person in terms of behavior or thinking. In fact, you may not be too clear about this kind of words, in fact, you can take some previous examples, or give an example that is not too appropriate, for example, if he is a waiter.

If he is a waiter, then obviously he may be to ensure the safety of the store or he may also have to ensure that some of the facilities in the store are complete, yes, if he is a waiter, then obviously he needs to make the customer feel satisfied first, then the first thing he needs is to serve, these God-like guests, but when the God-like guests start to get angry, then what does he need to do? He thought about it, and felt as if he couldn't even think about what else he should do, or how he could think about it if he was so stupid.

If a customer really makes trouble, or if he really encounters a customer who starts to want to destroy things in the store, then obviously he may even be able to resist these possible losses to the store at the cost of his own physical injuryYes, he is very likely to do this, if a customer brings out a knife, if the customer picks up a chair and wants to be ruthless, he can also throw this chair on the ground, he wants to break this chair, and then you find the anger in your heart, at this time he is likely to use his body to resist this。 The anger of the guestsYes, that's what a fool looks like. That's what he looks like stupidly. This is the person who is a little dull and stupid in his heart.

Of course, in fact, the real idea in his heart or the real reason in his heart is actually to protect these properties, because in his opinion, his service is one thing, then other responsibilities are also on the other, his responsibility is to protect the safety of the store's property, and his responsibility is actually to keep the store's property safety from suffering a little loss or harm. So he did it stupidly, or if he really encountered such a situation, or if he really encountered such a situation, or if he really encountered such a situation that made him physically injured, but the business of the store was not damaged, then it was obvious that he would really do this, so such a person is not a very smart person, so such a person is not a person who seems to be flexible, so forgive him Ken is obviously still influencing him now, so some of the original thoughts are still affecting some of his current judgments and behaviors are very flexible, so forgive him Ken is obviously still influencing him now, so some of the original thoughts are still influencing some of his judgments and behaviors now.

Of course, all the things that seem to be stupid, then obviously because you can't understand, if you can just see a person do this on the surface, you just see on the surface that a person uses his body to resist those injuries, stupidly use his body to get hurt for no reason, then obviously, this person is very stupid Obviously, you see such a person, you think this person is a very stupid person, but if you really understand his heart, if you really understand his behavior, if you really understand the purpose of his behavior this time, then obviously you should not say that he is stupid, you even feel that you should admire him a little, you should admire such a person, because he is such a person who makes people feel and is very loyal to his duties, so shouldn't a person who is loyal to his duties be admired by others?

Shouldn't a person who is devoted to his duties be praised by others? Although it is possible that you will not praise and although you may not really imitate this person, at least you should not laugh at him, although you may not agree with him in your heart. But there are many things in this world that you don't agree with, or there may be more people you can't agree with, but whether you agree with it or not, if he is right in theory, if he is right in morality, then obviously you should admire him, at least when you don't admire, you shouldn't ridicule the fact that this is the truth.

Of course, as long as he remains the same character, as long as his character does not change, or as long as his character does not change, as long as his thoughts do not change, then it is obvious that the things he does will not change at all. How he used to do things, how he used to think about how he used to think so obviously, now he still thinks like this, still thinks like this, or will do such things, that is to say, a person can actually change a lot, but if he doesn't really change his own concept, don't change his own ideas, then he will still do some things that make others feel very ridiculous.

Obviously, he is stupid to do these things, that is to say, others think he is stupid, in the eyes of ordinary people, he wants to take it for granted, as long as a person does things without thinking about himself, as long as a person does things without really thinking about his own interests, or a person does things, he does not really think about what he can get, in fact, he is stupid Of course, this is the case, because it is impossible for a person to take care of many people, or a person can also consider himself. Since he should think about himself, then he needs to think about himself in his real behavior. But I really want to do the things he did before, or the stupid things he did, without thinking about himself at all. Since you don't think about yourself, then of course others will say that you are stupid, since you don't think about yourself, of course others think that it is not very right, or that a normal person simply cannot do such a thing. A normal person wouldn't do things like that at all.

So in fact, other people's opinions about him are right, but no matter what other people think of you, you always need to have an opinion about yourself. Yes. That's the way it is, because everybody has an opinion of you, or how perfect you are, not how bad you are. Others will have an opinion of you, and others may be right about you, and others may be wrong about you. It may be a little biased in what others think of you, but in any case, that's how others think of you.