There are not many opportunities to be alone, there are three reasons, and two of the three reasons belong to macro factors, and these two macro factors can be regarded as a constraint on the depth of the relationship between the members of Girls' Generation, which cannot be said to be a constraint, and it can be regarded as a close elbow or an obstacle. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

To put it bluntly, these two macro factors, which can hardly and cannot be changed, directly affect or determine the 'relationship' between the members of Girls' Generation, more precisely, sisterhood.

Reason 1: Different rooms in the same house.

Eight members (now with Li Juli, it should be ten people, not counting 'Lin Yun'er' and Li Juli for the time being.) On these three reasons, Boss Lin only looks at and understands these problems with his own subjective or intuitive views, and does not substitute himself into them. Living in the same dormitory, but sharing four rooms, in a sense, is not much different from sharing a room.

What is the concept of shared housing? Presumably, viewers who have had experience in sharing housing should understand that since they understand, there is not much water on this issue.

Those four gates are actually equivalent to four barriers.

After all, it's not born by a mother, even if the so-called sister feelings are deep, they are also acquired, there is no foundation, and it is not strong, it can be said that in a specific environment, this kind of feeling will disappear immediately if you want to have it.

What's more, what about these four gates?

Because of these four doors, there are not many times when girls all get together to play and chat, and of course, you can also run around in each room, provided that the owners of that room don't bother with you.

In other words, under the mode of collective life, let alone a small dormitory of several tens of square meters, even a luxury villa of several thousand square meters will be like this, and there will be no room or door in the big villa?

On the other hand, the few days of living in Daoyan Village were the most rapid and obvious stage of the girls' sisters' affection, just because everyone slept in the same room at that time.

said that it is a collective life, living in a collective dormitory, this is a specific form, and it is impossible to change it at all, because this kind of 'tradition' or 'rules' is not invented by Boss Lam, in the Korean entertainment industry, the origin of the members of the artist group living in the collective dormitory can be traced back to the nineties of the last century, from many perspectives, this collective model is also scientific, not to mention particularly reasonable, but the effect is almost all positive.

The biggest purpose of living together is to bring the feelings of the members closer to each other and increase the tacit understanding between each other, it is undeniable that the effect is there, but it is by no means 100%, because people have selfishness, they have their own ideas, and many things that are hoped to appear are not said to be achieved under the same roof, and often need a lot of internal and external conditions to stimulate and promote, and the most important thing is to rely on people's efforts.

In this regard, Lin Lao Lian will not vomit, and he is unable to complain, since he can't change, he will try to adapt, which can be regarded as a kind of helplessness.

Reason two, circulars and circulars.

Circulars and circulars can also be said to be the interlacing of circulars and circulars.

It's not an individual, but a group, or a multi-person group, since it's a group, the announcement and itinerary will naturally not be distributed so evenly, which is also reasonable, and artist groups all over the world are like this.

Today the three of us will make an announcement, tomorrow I will make a notice myself, the day after tomorrow the five of them will make a notice, or a few of us will have a notice for several days in a row, and the others will not be announced for several days in a row... In this way, the resulting situation is that although they live in a dormitory, because of the staggered announcements and the uncertainty of the itinerary, many times, a certain person or a few people and others are not able to see each other, even if they can see each other in the dormitory, when they are about to go to work, they are mostly in a hurry to chat a few words or even just say hello, of course, it doesn't count if you see it in the announcement or program, it is work, and it is normal to see it, here it is said to be in the dormitory.

'Lin Yun'er' had been on (running) for three days before the notice (itinerary), three days down, the notice and the itinerary added up to more than ten, because there was too much work, I was picked up by the car just after dawn in the morning, at that time the members were all sleeping, and returned to the dormitory late at night, at that time the members were still sleeping, except for Taeyeon who often helped him guard the door and Yuri, who was in the same room, in those three days, 'Lin Yun'er' basically never saw the faces of other members in the dormitory.

In this way, not only are there four doors as a 'barrier', and the announcement and the announcement are also affecting the 'relationship', and the announcement and the announcement are real, and the cause of a certain 'mustard' is quite big: there are members who work more and some members work less or even no work, and everyone doesn't say it on their faces, but they must be in their hearts...

This can't be helped, artist groups, there is a 'focus', there is naturally a 'edge', there is a master, there is a second, there is a heavy, there is a light, and some states can never reach equilibrium.

It seems that they all live in the same dormitory, but in a sense, there is not much difference between those who live together, on the contrary, sometimes, there will be some hidden contradictions, and when this 'contradiction' accumulates to a certain extent, then if you want to explode, it may be a matter of one sentence, in this impetuous era, isn't it normal to fight if you don't agree?

Of course, for this reason, Boss Lin still won't complain, and he won't complain about anything, or those five words--- try to adapt.

Reason three, 'relationship'.

Why do you want to put this word in single quotation marks here? Boss Lin replied: Brother can add it if he wants to, and if he wants to, why not, if he is not convinced?

There is so much water, in fact, the most important and critical thing can also be said to determine the depth of the relationship, which is this 'relationship'.

The first two reasons will directly or indirectly have an impact on this 'relationship', but the strength of the impact is not large, that is to say, it doesn't matter whether the above two reasons exist or not, the main thing is to look at the 'relationship'.

Relationship is the relationship between girls and individuals, as well as between 'small groups' and 'small groups', to put it bluntly, it is intimacy, or distance and proximity.

This is normal, as long as there are people in the world, there will be this kind of 'small group', which is different from the boys' who are more pure, more direct and more enlightened, and the girls' 'small group' is more intricate, more complex and more entangled, often containing derogatory attributes, usually more realistic (impersonal) or even cruel (particularly impersonal).

mm, don't be convinced, there are people who say fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriends, but there is no such thing as fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-brother, right?

…… (To be continued.) )