Animals live in the environment, characters live in a state of mind, most people are changed by the local environment, short-sighted, eager for quick success, insulated from good things, some people are out of the sludge and not stained, destined to live to improve the environment.

Even if it is a daughter-in-law who marries in a different place, she is not related to them in the same township and no blood, and they are regarded as unreliable people with foreign surnames, with a huge psychological barrier and serious daily alienation, but in a broad sense, after all, it is a family, and the daughter-in-law is also a family member. Yuan Qiuhua watched them deviate from the right path, take detours, follow the crooked tendencies, and drill the left side of the camp, she was really anxious, she knew that it was wrong and didn't say it, it was my fault to protect herself, but she didn't listen to what she said, and the ghost who fell into the water didn't accept the rescue, so it had nothing to do with me.

Whether it is a society governed by the rule of law or a family governed by etiquette, the core is to travel all over the world with reason, and it is difficult to move an inch without reason. She once paid for a treat, fantasized about communication, through dialogue and exchange, peaceful negotiations, and resolved disputes in mutual respect for wine and food, not admitting that Bai Yang did not understand the darkness of the night, and the night moon did not understand the brightness of the day, but on the contrary, it added fuel to the fire.

Completely different backgrounds, growth and living environments, and educational experience and literacy lead to inconsistent outlooks on life, values, and morals. Yuan Qiuhua, who returned to remote villages from international cities, took some things for granted, such as the spirit of group cooperation, which is more important than individual ability, and collective honor, which is more important than personal interests, for example, respect for knowledge and professional talents, because of professional thresholds and academic barriers, non-life common sense and individual experience can be replaced, even geniuses must receive basic education, and the minimum talent and virtue also come from years of basic skill practice. From the perspective of historical lessons, looking at the long term, stressing the responsibility to the society, the value of contribution to the society, and the professional prestige and professional ability are better than engaging in interpersonal relationships.

The skills passed down through the ages, the heritage of places of interest and historic sites, have become the common intangible cultural wealth of mankind, and the professionalism of professionals is eternal. And those thieves and villains in that year, seeking official status, fame and fortune, exploring officialdom, engaging in academic circles, shrewdly weighing and playing clever, infighting, framing peers, and thieves and villains inside and outside the industry have long been nailed to the pillar of shame in history and will never be able to turn over.

Yuan Qiuhua is an ideological researcher, engaged in cultural work, and belongs to the professional. I think I can stand tall, see far, think thoroughly, and speak clearly, but when I see that their relatives are cruel, they are too anxious to fight each other, and the sea of suffering is boundless, so I want to save them and go ashore. Listen to me, it was her opening remarks, but not only did they not listen to her, but they also didn't let her speak properly, let alone listen to her opinions.

Mother-in-law leads the army, children charge, their usual trick is, do not listen to the point, only look at the attitude, look at the color and criticize, cry and make trouble, what to say disrespectful, no big or small, do not observe the key points, only fight for the skin, break the meaning of the word, blame, say what is not filial piety, cold-faced, shameless, disagree, either scolding or beating, and the public mouth, the group of attack, crying and abuse, angry, verbal criticism, evil, threatening and hijacking, fierce, pretending to be dead and intimidating, no more. So they were only allowed to speak, they could only listen to what they said, and they were only allowed to do what they said, and they were only allowed to set fire to their homes, smash and rob them, and they were not allowed to light lamps at the bedside of dissidents and read poetry and books at night.

In other words, the veterans are surrounded by horses, with only one purpose, to wave the big stick of "unfilial piety", beat all people and things, kill all right and wrong, destroy all good and bad, and "unfilial" As soon as the banner is unfurled, the heart is frightened, and it is as silent as a cicada, like a no-man's land; the filial piety stick is like a yamen killing stick, entering the palace gate and going to the lobby, regardless of whether it is reasonable or unreasonable, first kneeling down to receive three hundred, the stick is raised, the flesh and blood are flying, and the immortal is also disabled; the filial piety stick is equivalent to the camp military stick, doing its own thing, not obeying orders, the stick is moved, the military law is engaged, dragged out, tied up the gate, the pants are removed and the shirt is removed, the flogging is fifty, and half a life is gone; the filial piety stick is incarnated as a dog's head, the speech is disrespectful, the holy face is violated, the crime is unforgivable, arrested and brought to justice, if there is resistance, it is not to be killed, Qin this, as soon as the holy decree comes out, the suspect is cold sweat and wet his back, and the family is really quiet, like a morgue。

On the matter, reasonable, gentlemen are frank and unrestrained, telling them that they have done wrong, but kindness is regarded as malice, saving is regarded as robbery, doing good is regarded as hypocrisy, villains are often relatives, they are unwilling to correct, do not fall hard, fall to the head and bleed, and will not look back. They don't study, of course, they don't know etiquette and regulations, they don't abide by the law, they are full of only "old lady's method", they are ruthless and unreasonable, they don't understand etiquette, they are ignorant and ignorant of the world, they are the first in the world, they are cowering at home as demon kings, and they go out of the house to pretend to be grandchildren.

Yuan Qiuhua was helpless, speechless, moving forward step by step, experiencing many accidents, and slowly understanding that the sinister villain is the guide, **, and the transformation is not a humble gentleman. In the face of mediocre greed and filthy deception, the only thing a good person can do is to be alone, that is, not to be instigated by them, to be majestic for a while, to be evil by the church, to be replanted for a lifetime, to let the bad people turn themselves into bad people, to join them in the same stream, and even worse than them, to be more shameless, to do more evil, and to harm others.

The world is cold, people's hearts are unpredictable, life is full of infinite variables, how to be a human strategy, can be much more complicated than how to do things, there are rules to follow, but people's hearts are ever-changing, different laws.

Foolish insects are parents, but I am the only one, villains are helpers, fishing in troubled waters, cowards are soldiers, willing to be cannon fodder, all do not understand etiquette and ethics, do not pay attention to civilization and politeness, do not abide by the etiquette and law for the honor, to bully the weak for the great interest, the independent and special "alien" Yuan Qiuhua was besieged, the "demon" Yuan Qiuhua who dared to speak and dare to do was isolated, and the "madman" Yuan Qiuhua, who was not afraid of people's words, was insulted.

Even though her whole body was shot like a hedgehog, Yuan Qiuhua was always sure in her heart, calmly adapted, and treated with thousands of arrows piercing her heart, just letting her know that in the Xie family, she can be full of tricks, gambling and cool, and high-profile, and in her in-law's house, she can laugh three times a lot, temporarily compromise, never surrender, adapt, and never give in. She can only warn herself, the more your opponent forces you to make noise and wants to cut down indiscriminately, the more you must stay calm and sober like a bystander, if you don't understand that silence is golden, endure it at the right time, and endure the grind, you will lose fame and fortune, and you will die an ugly death.

In order to prevent them from embezzling property in disguise, Yuan Qiuhua withdrew 400,000 yuan and bought an insurance of 100,000 yuan for each of his two nieces, Xie Bitao, an orphan daughter of his mother-in-law, and his son Xie Hexi.

opened a breakfast shop, before Yuan Qiuhua had to bow down to everything, from morning to night, there was no time to spare, and there was no time to even read books. The ancients said: If you don't read for three days, your face is hateful. She spared no effort to hire two helpers to cook for her, applied for the business school by herself, and completed the required study hours on time.

During the long holidays, Yuan Qiuhua took his four children to travel, from Wuhan to Beijing, from Shanghai to Shenzhen, from Singapore, Malaysia and Thailand to Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan, and even participated in overseas travel, from Asia to Africa, from the Americas to Europe.

They bully the weak and are vicious, but they also bully the weak and fear the hard, and see the wind to steer the rudder. Yuan Qiuhua eats all of them, is healthy, Yuan Qiuhua plays with light, eye-opening, they are envious, jealous and hateful, but they are helpless, even if they have something to say, it is nothing more than "unfilial piety", which means that they did not take the elderly to travel together. Yuan Qiuhua went directly to them and replied, "If you are not filial, you are not filial, you have already said that I am not filial, and I am too many to count the sins of unfilial piety, so why do I care about this? I earn my own money and spend it myself, and I have not received the slightest favor from you, so I can spend it as I want, what does it matter to you? Filial piety, you can't get some rewards, and if you don't get filial piety, you don't get a little compensation, why bother to be filial? It's better to ask for someone than to ask for it, anyway, I rely on myself, and I am responsible for my own profits and losses! Besides, my daughter-in-law is a person with a foreign surname, and she is someone else's flesh and blood, and the old man has a large group of children and wants to travel? Xie Han's share, I'll pay for him, out!

Yuan Qiuhua is no longer the leader of the wrongs, aggressive, and will not give an inch. When it comes to issues of principle, she can't offend people, don't protect her rights and interests, can't give up, can't hide, can't dodge, can't dodge, and can't protect herself, she shows a tough posture of frustration and bravery, resisting death and not bowing her head, repeatedly defeating and fighting, and raising her head higher and higher, like a proud white swan, going in and out of various public places, all kinds of community organizations, joining specific clubs, participating in high-end forums, attending festival galas, preparing for social activities, convening literary salons, striving for the recognition and acceptance of others, managing social contacts, retaining circle popularity, and making like-minded friends, storing back-up forces。

In the face of facts, lies are disgusting, there is only one truth, and bullying is hateful, but Yuan Qiuhua disdains quarrels and fights, brakes with quietness, and patiently waits for the mystery hidden in time to be automatically revealed and revealed to the world. If it is just groundless, suspicious nonsense, and foul language, she will keep silent, do not explain, laugh at it, leave the "human words" behind, do what she should do, and do more good deeds at the same time, don't ask about the future, don't talk nonsense, let the facts speak, because what is recognized by the society is still comprehensive ability, and the final decision is the strength of the group.

Thankfully, thanks to the country's policy of equality between men and women, women can be outside the narrow family, but also in the era of reform and opening up, free movement in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, with the ability to break into a career, economic and spiritual independence, but also to join the inclusive and progressive society, classmates are the same, equal pay, enjoy a blue sky, so that the change of individual destiny, the improvement of life skills, have unlimited beautiful possibilities, can make unfortunate women, after saying goodbye to a bad marriage, can still live well, and even live more and more exciting.

Where there is life, there is hope. The dispute over the real estate certificate will be put on hold for the time being, waiting for the right time.