435 The second watch of that year (165).
The Year (165)
Sister Lin's words, no one refuted. That's right, the final decision has to be made by the child himself. Otherwise, you will be complained.
Everyone understands the subtext in these words.
The eldest brother-in-law's face became ugly, why does his wife have such thoughts, in the final analysis, she still has no ability, and she has no ability to make his wife and children live a good life. Therefore, the child went to an extreme, and the wife also felt that the family conditions were good, and she could save a lot of effort. Some people struggle all their lives, but they can't catch up with those who are born with a high starting point. This is the truth she has spent half her life pondering.
He slowly stood up, "Go back." It's not too early. ”
If you have anything to say, go back and close the door and say it yourself, don't be embarrassed in front of others here.
Sister Lin got up and pulled Dandan up roughly, "Go, follow me home." ”
Lin Yuting didn't get up, nor did he say anything about sending them back by the way. There are still buses now, just take the bus and go back.
He really didn't want to move.
"The eldest sister and brother-in-law will go first. Lin Yuting said, "I'll discuss some business matters with the third sister." ”
Sister Lin paused for a moment and choked up and said 'yes'.
waited for Lin Yutong to watch the family of three go out before turning back.
"This matter is for the eldest sister and mother to deal with, and they all have to come like this. Lin Yuting said softly, "It's useless to persuade anyone." ”
Mother Lin also felt that if she had stopped Sister Lin and found a family with slightly better family conditions, she would not have made her daughter live so hard. The point is, in their opinion, what can they do if they don't get married?
Lin Yutong didn't want to care about this matter a little.
She also thought that if Sister Lin agreed, she wanted to get the fetus in her belly off as soon as possible. If you're too embarrassed to go to the hospital, you can do it yourself. Make sure your child doesn't suffer much damage.
But looking at it now, Sister Lin obviously has other plans.
And this plan is confused and short-sighted, but there is no way to blame.
For Sister Lin, she relied on her own life experience for half of her life to plan for her daughter. What is her life experience?
Poor couples mourn!
The relationship between the two cannot be said to be bad, but no matter how good the relationship is, when facing difficulties, where is there any happiness at all?
Therefore, in the past, she felt that when she was looking for a partner, she should find someone who was responsible and in love. The hardships of such a lifetime let her know that no matter how good her relationship is, she can't get a good life. There are some things that cannot be replaced.
Feelings can be managed, but material, sometimes, makes people powerless.
Lin Yutong can't say that this idea is wrong. The elders always use her life experience to teach the younger ones.
In Sister Lin's view, a married life that only looks at feelings and does not look at material things is a deep pit. If she falls, she can't watch her fall again.
Perhaps, she didn't think about finding a good home for her daughter before. But suddenly another day, this is possible, will she give up?
Definitely not.
"This matter, it depends on what the eldest sister means. Lin Yutong said, "It is estimated that my parents will also compromise." ”
The old couple always wants to take more care of their bad children. Human.
"Let's take a look, but when it comes to negotiating with the Li family, the third sister won't come forward. Lin Yuting shook his head, "If you can't tear it off, it's really troublesome." ”
Lin Yutong thought the same way. It's always because of the things in my mother's family, trouble the Yin family, is it in the past?
Don't you have to be embarrassed?
This is also the time when the family marries the fourth master, which is the most difficult time for the Yin family. Otherwise, there will be opinions in anyone's heart.
I also have a sister-in-law and a concubine.
Lin Yuting also thought of this, and resolutely refused to let Lin Yutong come forward.
After Lin Yuting was sent away, the three children came out of it. The sound just now was not small, even if the door was closed, I could hear a little wind.
This kind of thing, after ten years, is probably rare. After 20 years, it will be slowly looked down on.
But now, getting pregnant out of wedlock can indeed ruin a child's life.
“…… Know how to protect yourself. Lin Yutong took Yusheng's hand, "This kind of thing, in the final analysis, is the girl's family who suffers." ”
But the fourth master still looked at Zhensheng and Yesheng, "If you can't pay the responsibility, don't mess around." ”
The three children immediately blushed and hurriedly agreed.
Today's children are still very pure.
What Lin Yutong didn't expect was that he was strongly opposed by Second Sister Lin.
She called Lin Yutong to complain, "I used to say that I was blinded by lard, but I think she is also blinded by lard now." The more I live now, the more I understand how she is getting more and more confused. Isn't this ruining the child? I accompanied her and Dandan to the police station yesterday and met the kid named Li Qiang. When I heard that Dandan was pregnant, the first thing I asked was, 'Is it mine?' Tell me, can such a person live? In addition, Dandan is not a child who understands, no matter how good the conditions are, can such a person be able to control it? I can't control it, I spend a penny, and I have to look at people's faces, what is the meaning of such a marriage? When we came out, we ran into Li Qiang's mother again, do you know what people say? Now Miss Xiaomi, you can sleep with anyone', listen, what are these words......"
"You didn't slap him?" Lin Yutong asked with the phone.
"Why didn't you call?" Second Sister Lin's voice on the phone became more and more high, "I just slapped it." However, the eldest sister was also angry enough, and took Dandan to the hospital today. ”
"Dandan is willing?" Lin Yutong frowned sourly as she took the orange petals that the fourth master fed her to her mouth.
"I see that kid has grown wise, and he is a little bit out of his mind. Follow me and scratch Li Qiang's mother with a full face. came back and cried, so I obediently listened to the arrangement. Second Sister Lin sighed, "Come back for dinner this weekend." I'll leave next Monday. This time, I plan to take Dandan with me. What if this child doesn't have the ability to make a living? I thought about it and took her to the United States to learn Western food and pastry. If you only learn West Point, it is estimated that you will be out of school in a year or two. Come back and set up a shop and open a dessert shop. Coffee, milk tea, cakes, plus flowers. Business is not bad. ”
That's a good idea.
If you open a store in a place with many office buildings, it will definitely be sought after by white-collar workers. The girl's family is also decent to do this.
Second Sister Lin sighed on the phone, "I haven't been at home all these years, and the family affairs are on my parents' side, thanks to the eldest sister taking care of me." Dandan, this child, she can't discipline it, I'll take care of it. I can pay for her tuition, but she has to work to earn her own living expenses. Not only do you have to earn enough money to work part-time, but you also have the capital to come back and open a store. It's all going to have to be earned. After a year or two of hardship, she learned to be obedient. Moreover, the United States is relatively open, and it is normal for girls to have sex and life in their teens. If she stays here for a while, she will have no inferiority complex in her heart......"
Lin Yutong understands that after the divorce of Second Sister Lin, it is estimated that there was a period of time when she felt inferior in her heart, and she always felt that others were pointing fingers behind her back. Therefore, she can understand Dandan's subtle changes in heart in such an environment.
Second Sister Lin sighed: "If she is in the United States, she can earn her living expenses by working, and she will be almost able to come back." No matter how bad it is, it won't be the same as it is now, if you don't have enough to eat, why can't you do it. ”
Yes, as long as you don't want to be ambitious, you can be self-reliant and have the ability to support yourself. How bad can it be?
"I just don't look at my eldest sister, I can't ignore my parents every day. Second Sister Lin said in a low voice, "This child's psychological problems are a dead knot that can't be untied in China." Coupled with the eldest sister's old ideas and old concepts, I am afraid that this child will be forced to be cowardly and cowardly and inferior. ”
Lin Yutong agreed with Second Sister Lin's idea, "It's better to even ask her to earn the rent herself." ”
Second Sister Lin was silent for a long time before she said, "Okay, I'll secretly rent the basement first when I go back, and then ask a friend in the United States to pretend to be the landlord once." When she returns home, the money will be returned to her. ”
The two of them were on the phone, and they decided to do it.
As for going to the United States, Sister Lin naturally will not object.
On Monday, Lin Yutong took a leave of absence and personally sent Second Sister Lin and Dandan to the airport. It was only a week after the child's abortion operation, and Lin Yutong brought her the pills he had made, "Eat on time, your body is your own." ”
Dandan was silent and didn't talk much all the way.
Sister Lin kept chattering: "You have to listen to your second aunt." ”
The eldest brother-in-law was very silent, and when he was about to check the ticket, he said: "No matter how good it is outside, it is not home." Study hard and come back early. ”
Dandan only nodded and didn't look up at people.
Lin Yutong felt that Second Sister Lin had saved the child once by taking the child out.
After watching the plane take off and flying to the other side of the ocean with her relatives, Sister Lin said: "This time I studied well, but this loss is a bit big!"
The eldest brother-in-law smiled bitterly, "Don't suffer, you won't grow up." ”
On the way back, Sister Lin said to Lin Yutong embarrassedly: "I think about it, I will resign too." The old man rented some land on the outskirts of the city, and the money in the hands of your brother-in-law and I was enough to rent a few acres. ”
"Growing vegetables?" Lin Yutong asked with an eyebrow.
"No! I want to plant flowers. Sister Lin's brows stretched slightly, "Planting flowers doesn't have to be expensive, it's common, and it's just festive." I looked at a pot of cacti outside, and they were all sold for a few dollars. The cost is not large. I asked her last time, and she said that the market is still very good. ”
Lin Yutong looked at Sister Lin in surprise, "Eldest sister, this is ......"
"Anyway, I'd like to give it a try. Sister Lin was ruthless, "If I had money, I wouldn't believe that woman would dare to say that...... Dandan."