Eat for nothing and live for nothing

Xie Han has always borne the living expenses of his parents, and the family's favorites, and he has to subsidize his second sister-in-law's family, and he has almost no money when he gets married, so he can only borrow debt. Gong Magpie was reluctant to take out even his own pigs and even his own food, and all the expenses of the entire marriage were bought by Xie Han with cash and borne by himself.

The reason for this kind of poverty is that they borrow money to get married, borrow money to have cubs, and increase the number of people who have more debts, Xie Han and his wife earn two dollars, and they have to pay off their debts and support their families, and the economy is naturally becoming more and more embarrassed. These hardships in life caused by poverty, poor couples begged for everything, and they both experienced it thoroughly.

Yuan Qiuhua went to Xie Hejia to rent land to plant and cultivate green seedlings, met Xie Han, and witnessed his own handling of Xie Wu's aftermath, and was greatly moved. Besides, she didn't see the second brother-in-law Shu Zhiqiang's family, thinking that the second sister Xie Jiayan, like other daughters in the family, married her husband and followed her husband, guarded a piece of the world of her husband's family, and lived her own small life in peace.

She thought, two old men, their bodies are quite tough, helping the housekeeper, helping the farmer, helping to take care of the little guy, it should be no problem, let yourself free up your hands to earn money, so that she can be completely responsible for the niece's expenses. The family's fields, rice planting, sparse vegetables, and food for eating and drinking in all seasons should not be worried. Xie Han has a craft, and the money he earns should be no problem to support his family.

The game is croaking, but the plan is not changing quickly. After getting married, originally his parents and Xie Bitao lived with Xie Han and Yuan Qiuhua, although they were poor, the family was still peaceful. Half a year later, Xie Qingquan was seriously ill and vomited blood, and was found to have liver cancer, and had to be hospitalized. Xie Han knows that her mother has always been in charge of the family's money, and her money has been lost to three cents, and she has secretly saved a sum of private money in the past few decades, and now her father is sick and needs money, just like he needs money to get married, she is still reluctant to take it out, so why keep it? If she is preparing for a pension, she will pay for her own medical expenses when she is sick, or sell coffins, buy clothes for corpses, and her own burial expenses, Xie Han admires her mother, but according to her usual style, nine times out of ten she will only subsidize Shu Zhiqiang behind her back.

Gong Magpie pushed the responsibility of treating her husband's illness to her sons, and Xie Han understood that his father's hospitalization expenses and medical expenses had to be paid for by himself, and the other brothers were destitute, and even the money of the favors had to be dealt with by borrowing money, and they were still in debt to get by, so where could they get the money? He ran to tell each other and asked his relatives and friends for help, but the relatives and friends either borrowed 1,000 yuan out of favors, or they were worried that he was poor, and they said some comforting words, and did not want to exchange real money for a white IOU. Money is the world, money is looking for money, wealth gathers wealth, the law of capital, money makes money, wealth prospers wealth, the poorer people are, the more urgent they are, the more they can't borrow money, the richer they are, the more they don't lack money, and the more money has to be sent to the door. Xie Han was anxious and at a loss, Yuan Qiuhua rented land to plant and cultivated green seedlings, and had to transfer them at a low price, so he could only open his eyes and watch others make money, and the transfer fee had to be subsidized for medical expenses and household use.

Unexpectedly, after the death of his father-in-law, the second brother-in-law Shu Zhiqiang's family came back to mourn, and they never left after staying. In the second half of 2005, to the first half of 2006, the two families ate and lived together, the second brother-in-law's family of five, Xie Han and his wife, mother-in-law and niece, ate the grain harvested in the autumn of that year, pork, chickens, ducks and poultry eggs were raised at home, and the cost of seeds, fertilizers and pesticides for farming, as well as the daily expenses of the family, and gifts were all borne by Xie Han and his wife, including family debts, the village medical office on Chinese New Year's Eve came to collect 1,000 old accounts, the village commissary came to collect 1,000 old accounts, and the 2,000 yuan sold by the sows and piglets at home, but the mother-in-law took them to buy coffin wood.

Filial piety comes first, the grace of nurturing is greater than the sky, it is good to take it for granted, it is okay to speak of righteousness, to feed children to prevent old age, and the younger generations to support their elders, Yuan Qiuhua has nothing to say. But my brother-in-law still needs to help my brother-in-law support the family, including food, housing and living expenses, no matter what, it is considered a cross-line, and it is also a foul.

If it is a divorced sister who lives in her mother's house temporarily, it is understandable. can be used as a second brother-in-law, as a dignified seven-foot man, Shu Zhiqiang took his wife and children like this, lived in the Xie family's cheeky room, ate and slept in the bed, purely to get by and live a mixed life, it can be said that he did not take the responsibility of supporting his family, at least he had no ambition, no interest, and even a lazy man playing a scoundrel.

Especially when the father-in-law died of illness and owed a lot of debts, and the mother-in-law also had to support her children, as the second son-in-law, not only failed to fulfill his filial piety, but on the contrary, he added trouble, increased burden, and increased expenses. Moreover, when Xie Han still had to raise his niece Xie Bitao, as the second uncle, not only failed to fulfill his obligation to support, but instead took advantage of the gap to calculate the family property, find a fox and fake tiger, and bully the orphan girl.