The environment changes people

A few days later, Yuan Qiuhua called Lan Xinyan: Come and pick up someone.

When Lan Xinyan came to the scene, she saw two women fighting together, and the woman in the white dress (the original partner) beat and scolded the woman in black (the junior), and kept saying: Let you pester my husband, you are young, what is not good, but you want to be a junior!

The original partner kept grabbing Xiao San's hair, and a pair of high heels kept kicking Xiao San's body, only to hear Xiao San's miserable screams.

Many people came to watch, and passers-by also learned from the beating and scolding of the original partner that it was her husband who cheated on her and came to find Sanfang.

Yuan Qiuhua said: A single slap doesn't make a sound, her husband cheats, why don't you settle accounts with your husband and come to clean up the mistress?

The original partner said: How can a woman beat a man? How can she see it? It's not a keychain, I can hang him on my belt.

A woman said: However, Xiao San is indeed hateful and destroys other people's families.

Lan Xinyan said: Husband and wife have one heart, love is stronger than gold, don't say that the junior, even if the seven fairies go down to earth, they can't insert their feet, and their homes can't be broken.

The original partner scolded the junior: You are a cheap B, let you find my husband, shameless thing.

After speaking, the original partner went to pick up the mistress's clothes.

The delicate and thin junior resisted desperately, but he couldn't match the "heavyweight" sumo wrestler with a thick waist and a round waist.

Passers-by felt that the original act of picking up Xiaosan's clothes was a bit excessive, so they stepped forward one after another to persuade and pull the rack.

The original partner was very surprised by the persuasion of passers-by: shouldn't the junior be beaten?

Passers-by were also very helpless when they heard the original partner say this: lightly start, don't kill people.

Yuan Qiuhua said: After fighting for so long, it's okay, let Xiao San go! If she doesn't scold back, she can't fight back, she also knows that she is wrong.

The original partner said to Yuan Qiuhua: I beat the junior, you come to persuade the fight, when the junior destroys other people's families, why did you go!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Flies don't bite seamless eggs. Xiao San is hateful, but your husband is the culprit, after all, he is married, he is old, he is powerful, and he has money, coercion and temptation, the little girl can't resist it!

Passers-by also echoed: This girl is younger than your daughter. If you know that you can change your mistakes, forget it. You teach it a lesson, and you can get it, and don't go too far.

Lan Xinyan saw that the original partner was obsessed and couldn't persuade him, so he reluctantly chose to call the police.

When the original partner heard the alarm, he also let go of Xiao San, and before leaving, he gave Xiao San a loud slap!

Yuan Qiuhua picked up Xiao San, entered the "taxi" called by Lan Xinyan, and came to the studio.

Xiaosan's surname is Shi, named Yuxiu, a rural person in Yongzhou, Hunan, with a college diploma, majoring in business management, not only looks average, but also very short, less than one meter and a half, but young is the capital, after all, a forty-year-old working woman, and a little girl in her early twenties, youthful vitality, physical appearance, open mind, and happy thoughts, can not be compared.

After the university does not include allocation, the phenomenon of fighting for parents, money, and relationships is rampant, and she can't fight for anything, only luck. does not have a good figure and outstanding appearance, and deducts a lot of points for her to find a job. In this society of "looking at faces" and rewarding, she can't even hire a front desk clerk when she enters the company, but she is just doing miscellaneous, typing, proofreading, copying, sending and receiving, statistics, running errands, anyone can call her, busier than anyone else, basically manual work. Marketing, advertising design, program planning, promotion and release, art technician mental work, she wants to learn, but no one wants to teach, willing to lead. The trunk is the trunk, the branches and leaves are the branches and leaves, and the seniority is the seniority, and the merit is rewarded. Every industry has know-how and technology, and professional fortresses, everyone is experience-oriented, comprehending and innovating is highly respected, teaching apprentices to starve to death masters, and leaving a hand to protect themselves in everything. Just kidding, every day I am tired like a dead dog, leaning back on the bed, snoring and sleeping, how can I have the time and energy?

Although Guangzhou is synonymous with "dream", the local roots are too deep, and almost all the outsiders who come here to work are at the bottom, they do not have much right to speak, and they do not have much sense of belonging, plus the locals have some xenophobic complexes, they will receive "special treatment", and the dream road is difficult, not only difficult to take root, but also suffer from the eyes of the locals. The people of Guangzhou look down on the mainlanders, but they are particularly friendly to the Japanese, Taiwanese, and Hong Kong people, attach too much importance to material conditions, and have too strong a desire for money. In addition, the city is developing rapidly, the pace of life is also very fast, people are mostly work-oriented, 9 to 5, and the communication between people is simple but not pure, and even relatively indifferent, so that outsiders feel that this city is impersonal.

Shi Yuxiu has no commission, no bonus, only a basic salary, no kickbacks, no outside water, which is lower than anyone else. The monthly salary is 1,080, which is only enough for food and clothing, and it is the moonlight family. One day, she was kicked out by her landlord, took her luggage to the office, and slept on the couch at night. Not only is everything inconvenient, but it also attracts criticism, and there are hair, toothbrushes, and towels in the public toilets, what do customers think when they see them? Quickly put them away! Dry the woman's clothes in the window, what does it look like? Move out as soon as possible!

Yuan Qiuhua saw that no one was in trouble, so she asked her to live with her and be a companion, the rent was paid, and if she didn't, forget it. Shi Yuxiu had no money, so she took the initiative to take care of the housework, and if she did, the nanny fee was used to cover the rent. The house is 90 square meters, with three bedrooms and one living room, one kitchen, one bathroom and one balcony, and Yuan Qiuhua spent more than 100,000 yuan on decoration alone. Shi Yuxiu lives in a guest room, living room, kitchen, bathroom, balcony shared by two people, and the electrical appliances are complete, the furniture is new, if it is really shared, at least more than 500, and the water and electricity bills are shared. Shi Yuxiu doesn't pay a penny, how much housework can Yuan Qiuhua have alone, and he suffers a secret loss.

The reason why the house is not rented out to the public is because Yuan Qiuhua loves to be quiet. Shi Yuxiu is good at activities, fellow villagers, relatives, and colleagues take turns to invite them to parties, eating, drinking, playing cards, and singing and dancing, which makes Yuan Qiuhua upset. is so inch-tight, I really treat other people's homes as my own, and I really take myself as the master, so I have no brains and can't be a man, but it's easy to please God, but it's hard to send God, and it's not good to openly ask her to leave. Yuan Qiuhua saw that she was wasted in her youth, that she was young and did not work hard, and that the boss was sad and sad, and she was very unaccustomed to it, so she persuaded her to apply for a training class, whether it was to study finance and accounting, or to learn IT programming, it was always better than doing chores. If your appearance is not good, you will practice internal skills, and you will be a talent in the future, only if you are excellent, can you attract more excellent men, and then be a good wife and mother, and your destination is no worse than a vase.

But Shi Yuxiu disagreed, and the colleagues around him did not take 5,000, but also 3,000, or even 8,000 to 10,000, and slowly became unbalanced in his heart, and gradually his mentality twisted and went on a crooked path. Maybe she was poor and afraid, or maybe she was stupid, she went to the bar at night to work as a wine girl. It is inevitable to be bumped into by colleagues, peers, and neighbors, and the impact is very bad. Yuan Qiuhua was also implicated, not only because of the blackening of the ink, but also because he was suspected of instigating, instigating, and coercing. Lifting a stone to shoot herself in the foot, Yuan Qiuhua cleared her luggage out and piled it out of the door, and stopped her at the door to prevent her from entering the room.

Shi Yuxiu is not annoyed or ashamed, now she is rich, she is not afraid of not being able to rent a house, muttering something "rich is an uncle", "laughing at poverty and not laughing at prostitution", when vice has become an unspoken rule, "Bing Qing Yujie" is "ugly people make a lot of trouble", "clean and self-conscious", that is, "do not know how to lift".

Yuan Qiuhua angrily reprimanded: You TM is cheap! Don't look at drinking and having fun, if you say it's good, it's a bar girl, and if it's ugly, it's a man's plaything. In fact, you are a J, and the man flatters you just to sleep with you!

Shi Yuxiu took out a thousand, stuffed it in Yuan Qiuhua's hand, and said with a smile: Sister Hua, thank you for rescuing, this is a gratuity, be careful, don't be respectful, hope and smile! Everyone has their own ambitions, one person does things and one person is responsible, so you don't have to worry about it!

Yuan Qiuhua said: The person who reaches out to you does not necessarily want to really help you. In today's society, people are unpredictable, and many people are simply what you can't guess, and you don't see everything!

Shi Yuxiu said: Sister Hua, it's not as complicated as you think. When I saw that the situation was not good, I ran away! Anyway, I had a way out, and I had a serious job, didn't I?

Yuan Qiuhua came to the advertising company, not for a high salary, she came to learn from experience, learn advanced management experience, and lay the foundation for her own business in the future. She pays attention everywhere, ponders everything, and humbly asks for advice. Through observation, she found that the employment mode of an excellent team: the first leader should be "stable", the second leader should be "able", the third leader should know how to "cooperate", and others should be able to "carry a sedan chair".

The number one is the boss, although he doesn't have any big skills, but the "backer" of the family is strong enough, appointed by the superiors, and the name is justified, and he can do it. Of course, the boss also has his own interests to consider, using constraints and balance to smooth out the relationship between his subordinates, his official morality is not bad, not good at drinking, not greedy for money, not lustful, and will play with power, control the use of those who have the ability, use them reasonably, and make the best use of those who are mediocre. The key to people is to use the right place, a wooden knife to cut down a tree, it is definitely useless, an iron block to be used as firewood, it must be waste. It is no exaggeration to say that the boss is born to be an official, sitting like a clock, standing like a pine, talking and behaving like a model for disciples, being kind and kind, dressed plainly, down-to-earth, and will eat wildly when he is hungry, and scold people when he is in a hurry.

The second-in-command is the vice president, who went abroad and mixed up a "foreign diploma". The family conditions are very good, the parents are in business, and the wife also runs a building materials store, with an annual salary of 100,000 yuan. Those who do business, no matter how much money they make, envy those who have power can play prestige. In the documents of various departments, all of them are only promised, honest and fearful, sometimes eating behind closed doors, and even more low, pretending to be deflated, and swallowing their anger. When you invite others to dinner, you have to look at their faces, spend your own money, and find ways to make others happy. As the so-called martial arts are high, they are afraid of kitchen knives, just like no matter how powerful the masters of the rivers and lakes are, they dare not go against the court. Guangzhou has been a commercial port since ancient times, heavy on money and light on literature, not pushing culture and knowledge, the young master is pampered, unwilling to endure hardships and study, and it is difficult to achieve outstanding results. After graduating from junior high school, his parents spent a lot of money to send him to the United States to study at an aristocratic college. When he returned from overseas, his parents spent a lot of money to plan a golden job for him and worked as a clerk in a provincial agency.

After returning from overseas, he relied on his own money and the network of connections built up by his money, despised his superiors and civil officials, refused to listen to dispatches, and refused to accept assignments, so he naturally did not go smoothly in promotion. However, the parents had money to dredge, and after bargaining, they got an official position at the "department level", but they were not satisfied, and they still couldn't work hard, waiting to see the jokes of the "bureau lord". Not only did he hate his colleagues at work, but he also began to die in life, and he actually staged "Hong Kong films" one after another. He has obeyed the arrangement of his parents since he was a child, and his wife was also appointed by his parents to marry him. If the family has money, he will flirt with him, and there will always be women who are in pairs with him, going in and out of various occasions, and ignoring the existence of marriage at all. He spent all day drinking outside, and his wife went to the unit to find him to tear up and cry. He is a typical playboy, who treats feelings as child's play, does not know the responsibilities and obligations of the family at all, and does not want to be responsible for any woman, he just feels that he will be together when he is fresh, and he will be separated if he is not stimulated, and the end of getting along with this kind of person is to be let down. The woman was unwilling, and she also went to the unit to find him to tear and cry.

The chief can't tolerate him, and he, who is the self-proclaimed "Great Sage of Joy", thinks that he has no real power and is depressed. After a few activities, he came to the advertising company as a vice president. Although public institutions are also service departments, only one-quarter of the salary of employees is paid by the finance (after the fiscal and taxation reform, it is completely separated from the finance), and the rest is borne by the department. Management is based on "earning ability" as the assessment center, and there are many capable people, and the salary is high if the ability is great. The performance of an advertising company is to advertise, the business is to pull advertising, and the customer is the entrepreneur, the president of the company, and the big boss. The vice president is a rich man, understands the psychology and habits of rich people, and has been mixed in the United States for more than ten years, and in the agency for more than ten years. He pulls advertisements, unscrupulous means, coaxes if he can, robs if he can, cheats if he can, and cheats if he can, this may be because he has been harmed by "money" since he was a child, what good things have he done in his previous life, so that he can stand up to such a pair of parents! He is like a fish in water, and he carries half of the advertising company by himself, and he is proud of the spring breeze, and he is complacent, and he seems to be "fluttering", and he often boasts in front of his employees, "I rely on my ability and connections!" When I can't help it, I can build momentum, and I will borrow strength!

The third-in-command is the head of each department, and his ability is a little unsatisfactory, but his brain is not stupid, his mouth can speak, and he also has a specialty, that is, he can actively supervise the "second-in-command". This advantage is irreplaceable by other external employees. They are not very capable, have the worst background, and are the "shrimp soldiers and crab generals" who have made mistakes, and they have been demoted, but they have good conduct, so that the "above" can rest assured.

As the old saying goes: it depends on the owner to beat the dog. The third-in-command ran up to mutter, building momentum? How much storm can the vice president set off alone? It's not that everyone gathers firewood and the flame is high! He doesn't touch his head and think about it, why is he like a turtle grandson in the original monomer? How much face can the vice president have? What kind of power can he borrow? What kind of behavior does he really have, why don't he start a company independently? What kind of behavior is this called, the fox is fake and the tiger is mighty, and it damages the image of the head and brain above! How is it like me, I am simple, obedient, and do it!

As soon as I asked, the boss was at the staff meeting, self-review: I know that my ability is still shallow, can not convince the public, these years I am walking on thin ice, just hope that through their own efforts, hard management, painstaking maintenance, I hope to bring a good life to everyone. If you think that what I have done is not good, inappropriate, or complacent, you must criticize me in time, let me change my ways, and always correct my mentality and position. If you find out that it is not appropriate and refuse to stop me and guide me in time, you are harming me and conniving at my mistakes, and the mistakes I make are bound to bring pain and disaster to everyone.

The vice president is always surrounded by flowers, and his wife always finds a unit to cry. The boss came forward on behalf of the company to do his wife's ideological work. His wife tossed and turned, just complaining, he didn't do anything at home, he didn't help me share anything, there was no difference between him and him. All day long, I either invite a group of fox friends and dog friends to eat, drink and play cards at home, or I am out with my sons and buddies to have fun. As soon as I persuaded him, he fought with me. He doesn't give me a penny, I do some small business to support my family, he has money, he doesn't come back, he has no money, he comes back to me. But for the sake of the child to have a complete home, I endured everything!

The boss went to the vice president to understand the situation, and the vice president also complained about grievances, don't I just like women, drink, play greedily and play cards? This is a habit that cannot be changed. You said that the wife of the family is always verbose in front of me, talking about my drinking and playing cards. Who doesn't want to eat well, drink well, and play well? It is not easy for anyone to persuade them. Isn't it just a little wine and a little money? What's the big deal, it's very annoying to me all day long. We always quarreled, and she didn't bother her, I was annoyed, and in the end I simply didn't go home, and I saw how she bothered me?

The vice president's wife came to him to make trouble, and the boss helped the vice president block the drive. The vice president's wife can't help but give the boss face, after all, the vice president was always kicked out of the original unit because of Yan Shi, if she was fired from the company again because she made trouble, without the control of the leader, if she went away with other women, she really had no way to take him.

The vice president is at ease in the company, and he doesn't want to be fired. At the annual meeting, he said: I chose the right team, there are people to help, teach, and lead along the way, and it is difficult to succeed.

Confused, ruthless, out-of-town, the boss took them in one by one, and entrusted them with important tasks, regardless of background, regardless of criminal record, the old gentleman in the selection of talents, unique tricks, indeed showed great tolerance. At this point, the vice president surrendered to the boss, the boss has the grace of helping him, and he is also loyal to the boss, not to mention that there is a "tight spell" in the hands of the boss, he can only go to the soup and fire, at any cost, and accompany the boss to participate in various social activities, add glory to the boss, but can not steal the limelight of the boss. But it's a bit cynical, not good at greeting, not patting sycophants, and always making the boss unhappy. Of course, this is still okay in the era of making money in business, but once you can't make money, it's hard to say.

The employees in the "editor" generally have a "way", naturally no one wants to do anything, a cup of tea, a few newspapers, and have to live a mixed life. The people who actually do things are all some "supernumerary" workers and working girls. Most of them are in their twenties, have no hukou, no relationship, no experience, no funds, and can only be cattle and horses, silently carrying the company forward.

The boss's employment strategy reflects meritocracy. The vice president is soft because the boss has "high means", and if he doesn't accept it, the boss recites the "tight mantra", and the vice president can't listen to it. The head of the deputy commander-in-chief department also relies on his own ability. Such a personnel arrangement has well balanced the interests of all forces, and everyone is happy.

Those who are incapable are the "boss", and those who are capable are the "little brothers". I don't have the ability to be the "boss", that's the biggest ability, playing both soft and hard, playing with heart and eye calculations, playing with human affection and righteousness, and playing emotional signs, if you don't accept it.

The night club hates the poor and loves the rich, is mercenary, looks at the background of the people, and pays the conditions. Even though Shi Yuxiu is good at stammering, loves to please, sharpens his head and squeezes into a better social circle, he finds that he is still so small, desperately squeezing in just to prove that he is indeed an outlier, and even flattering and flattering, no one can hear it. The consequence of opportunism is that stealing chickens does not make rice.

Shi Yuxiu withdrew, after all, she had mixed in the night market, and she had changed a lot, she was sleek and exquisite, and she was favored by the vice president and promoted her to assistant. The main reason is very funny, the vice president is very attentive, and has an ambiguous relationship with the young and beautiful female assistant, and was beaten away by his wife several times, thinking that Shi Yuxiu looks like this, his wife should rest assured. When his wife saw Shi Yuxiu, she was really relieved, so he continued to hunt for beauty behind his wife's back, and did not go on private dates with colleagues and customers. Women rely on intuition and smell, and men always think she is unaware. His wife found out the clue, and under questioning, he confessed that the "third party" was Shi Yuxiu.

The vice president is used to flirting with women, and Shi Yuxiu is by his side, so he naturally has to flirt. It made her messy, and she couldn't believe it, but there was often ambiguity, but she didn't agree to the date.

Shi Yuxiu discussed with Yuan Qiuhua if she had anything. Of course, Yuan Qiuhua objected to her going to the appointment.

Yuan Qiuhua said: He loves you? I can only tell you, don't dream, except in dreams, it is almost impossible in reality.

Shi Yuxiu said: He said he didn't love his wife.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Children have been born, and it is ridiculous to say that there is no love! Marriage is love when there are no children, and when there are children, it is responsibility. Irresponsible people are not well-intentioned and unworthy of love.

Shi Yuxiu said: He said to divorce his wife and then marry me.

Yuan Qiuhua said: You let him leave first, and if you don't leave, you won't go to the appointment!

Every few days, Shi Yuxiu came to Yuan Qiuhua with flowers to ask for ideas.

Yuan Qiuhua said: The braincase was caught by the door, so I went to be a junior. Woman: Never be a third party, a man can betray his wife, and if he is with you, he will definitely betray you because of other women. When the time comes, your situation will be worse than that of his wife.

Shi Yuxiu said: Are you afraid of betrayal when you reject Brother Lan?

Yuan Qiuhua said: If I want to do it, I will be the boss. Hostess, I'm not uncommon at all.

Shi Yuxiu said: There are also many juniors who have achieved positive results!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Do you think that the junior is so easy to be? If you really have something special, those rich men really won't necessarily take a fancy to you, and if you pick others, others will also pick you!

Shi Yuxiu said: What should I do? Give him back the flowers?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Go and throw him in the face! Find a man who is really good to you, and other materials can be worked together by the two of them.

The vice president's wife found Shi Yuxiu and scolded her. Shi Yuxiu was also weak-hearted, ambiguous and unclear, so he had to bow his head and bear it.

Shi Yuxiu was aggrieved and cried all the way.

Yuan Qiuhua said: In any case, everything is over and over.

Shi Yuxiu said: Can I do this job?

Yuan Qiuhua said: You are not stupid, you don't understand anything, take it and learn it.

Shi Yuxiu stayed in the studio and became a member of Lan Xinyan's command.

With a little guidance from Yuan Qiuhua, she started quickly and steadily, and after a few months, she was able to take charge of herself and support this stall.