Coincidentally, after the reform of state-owned enterprises, the chemical plant where Zhang Haichao worked suddenly declared bankruptcy and closed down, and he became a laid-off worker and became unemployed. Yuan Chunhua resigned to take care of his children at home, and he had no job and no monthly salary, so how could he support his family? Although there is a compensation of 10,000 yuan for buying out the length of service, it is enough to maintain a family of five for half a year.

As a daughter, Yuan Chunhua is reluctant to learn from Xiao Lin to lead her husband and children back to her parents' house to gnaw the elderly, and the tutor she received since she was a child is to solve her own affairs. She contacted the original factory and asked to come back to work, she used to be an old technician with an apprentice, and the factory director promised, "A master like you, a journeyman, I can't ask for it, the post is reserved for you, and you can come back to work anytime and anywhere."

If I go to work, what will happen to the children, who will take care of them, and who will take care of them?

Not to mention that according to customs, it is natural for grandma to take care of her grandson, but it is normal for her son to be laid off and not to earn money, and her daughter-in-law can go to work to earn money, and it is normal for her mother-in-law to replace her daughter-in-law to take over and take care of the children. In the face of decay and disease, nothing can be relied on, everything you get will be lost, and the only thing you can rely on is the gratitude of your children and grandchildren. If the children and grandchildren lack food and clothing, have no fixed place to live, and are hungry, what can they do to honor the elderly? Helping the children and grandchildren is helping themselves. The couple tried to knock on the side countless times, but Xiao Pearl blindly pretended to be deaf and dumb, but she didn't talk about it and didn't pick up the stubble. In the dead of night, Zhang Linlin asked for her suggestion in a consultative tone, but she just didn't make a clear statement.

dragged on for a month, and the factory urgently urged Yuan Chunhua to go to work, "Go up and go to work, just apportion the next batch of technical school students, and if you don't come, you won't be able to take a good position, so you can only be arranged to transfer to become an apprentice." Yuan Chunhua was anxious, so she changed Zhang Haichao to "Senior Brother", and suddenly asked with a smile, "Senior Brother, the master was captured by a monster, what should I do?" Suddenly said with joy, "Senior Brother, we are hungry, what food have you brought back?"

Xiao Lin couldn't get used to this gimmick, and couldn't help babbling and shouting: Oh, the senior brother is calling back and forth all day long, screaming and screaming, don't think I can't hear it, you are just satirizing that he is a monkey, jumping out of the crack in the stone, no father, no mother, no brother and no sister, in times of emergency, the six relatives have no support.

Yuan Chunhua said: Wear a high hat, if he is Sun Wukong, I still have to go to work?

Xiao Pearl said: Lin Nan, be good, shut up. The second senior brother is called senior brother, what does it matter to you? You are not Tang Seng, you can live forever by eating a piece of meat, and the demons and monsters are designed to frame you!

Xiao Lin said: The second senior brother is not a stone monkey, he is a fairy who fell from the sky, but he was reincarnated in the wrong place and became a pig demon, and he is lazy, slanderous and lustful.

Xiao Pearl said: Hey, Zhu Bajie really didn't pop out of the cracks in the stones? It turned out that I made a mistake and was deceived.

Zhang Linlin said: It's really no problem, please ask a nanny.

Zhang Haichao said: Do you subsidize it? You can borrow it, and I will repay you in the future. By all means!

Xiao Pearl said: Can a nanny be compared with her own mother?

Xiao Lin said: Dad, you have to be flat with a bowl of water!

Xiao Pearl said: Old man, you dare to hide my private money behind my back? I can't see it, I didn't expect it!

Zhang Linlin said: Nonsense, didn't I give you all my monthly salary?

Yuan Chunhua said: Huaiyin Tree, Huaiyin Tree, tell me quickly, after the Seven Fairies left their children and flew to the sky, how did Dong Yong raise the children?

has no job and no income, but the life has to go on, a few mouths waiting to eat and drink, Yuan Chunhua became more and more anxious, and the more she thought about it, the more panicked she became. She was heartbroken, entrusted the child to her husband to take care of, and went to work by herself.

Zhang Haichao is a careless rough man, washing the child's face and combing his hair, bathing and dressing, taking feces and urine, feeding and feeding, not only to be careful, patient and loving, to speak softly, to coax and care, to do things in an orderly manner, the family must be orderly, every day is in a hurry, tired and sore back, originally to catch the ducks on the shelf, reluctantly, has long been impatient, would rather be a porter, than play with the child, besides, he is used to freedom, locked up at home is equal to confinement, especially unbearable, the mood is getting worse and worse, the temper is getting bigger and bigger, beating and scolding the child, yelling and yelling at the wife, smashing the bowl and the basin and the chair at every turn, who persuaded to quarrel with whom。 He scolded, the children cried and cried, his wife choked with tears, and the family lost its former peace and tranquility. He was troubled, he couldn't sleep well, the weather was hot, an evil fire was rising, he had menstrual eye disease, his lips were blistered, his eyes were round with anger, his muscles were jumping, and he was yelling.

Everyone persuaded Yuan Chunhuazi to go to work, for a few stinky money, to force a man into a madman, it's not worth it. Yuan Chunhua was unwilling and went back to her parents' house to complain to her parents. Parents have jobs, but they can't help them, and it's not easy to pity their daughters, and then they want their children to be their own grandchildren, and it's too much to talk about if they stay out of the matter completely, and they don't become a system, how can they talk in front of their relatives in the future? The parents decided to subsidize their daughter 500 yuan a month, which was considered a small intention of the elders.

Yuan Chunhua quit her job again and went home to take care of the child.

When the basic life is guaranteed, Yuan Chunhua sees that many young couples entrust their children to the care of the elderly, and both go out to work to earn a lot of money, saving at least 30,000 yuan a year, and can build a few floors in three or five years. With the expansion of the construction of the new urban area, the relocation of the county government and county-level organs, and the growth of the industrial park, Fengchi, where Zhang's family is located, has gradually become an urban village. Many residents of Lao Cai have torn down the walls of the adjacent streets, installed aluminum doors, and either opened their own shops and do business, or rented out and received rent. There are also families in the village who have built new houses on the roofs and rented them out. If the couple goes out and works hard for a few years, and then comes back, the house on Xinjie is built into a building, the first floor is a shop, the second floor is a frame, the third floor is self-living, and the fourth floor is a rental house, and the whole family has no worries about food and clothing, and there is no need to worry about life in the second half of their lives.

Yuan Chunhua discussed with her husband and suggested going south to work with the trend: relying on water will dry up, relying on mountains and mountains will fall, relying on everyone will change, only by relying on their own hard-working hands can we ensure a better life in the future.

But it was strongly opposed by Xiao Zhuzhu: It's better to go away than to pick it up recently, son, it's better to go out than to stay at home, everyone lives hard days together, everyone fights together in poor days, son, parents are not far away, don't leave your father and mother alone, we don't have a few years to live, and when we are finished, it's not too late to leave!

Zhang Haichao once wanted to open a store to do business, but he had no capital, so he had to find odd jobs everywhere and work as a small worker at a construction site. He carried a mud bucket, moved bricks, lifted steel pipes, carried wooden planks, and carried them down for several months, his face was pale, his chest was thin, he wore broken overalls, stained mud, stained sand, and fell in a strange way, which made Yuan Chunhua's heart tingle, and he felt that no matter what, he could no longer stand by and watch, and he had to share the hardships of earning money to support his family.

For the future of the family, for the way out of life, the husband and wife quarrel constantly, the main contradiction is that Yuan Chunhua wants to go south to work to earn money, accumulate some family funds while she is young, and lay an economic foundation for building a house in the future. The secondary contradiction is that one still wants to give birth and the other does not want to give birth.

The matter is in front of the elders, and the opinion of the Yuan family's parents is that they are living in difficulty now, they have no stable financial resources, they are tailor-made, and they will not have children for the time being, and when the conditions improve, they can consider having another one.

The parents of the Zhang family attach great importance to it, and the meaning is very clear, to give birth, of course, to give birth to a boy.

Yuan Chunhua said: Why are you sure that you are pregnant with a son? It is entirely possible that she is still a daughter! In order to continue the incense of the Zhang family, do you have to ask me to give birth to eighty or ninety flowers?

Xiao Lin said: A wife and wife, marry a wife to have children, of course women have to have children, why do they marry wives if they don't have children?

Xiao Pearl said: While you are young, give birth as soon as possible until you give birth to a boy.

Yuan Chunhua said: Ten or eight children, I can give birth, you may not be able to support them?

Zhang Forest said: Only worry about not living, not worrying about not growing, as long as it is born, a grass and a scoop of water, you can naturally live.

Xiao Lin said: Xie Xiong is the eighth, and the brothers and sisters are not all living well!

Yuan Chunhua said: Neither of us has a job, so what do we have to raise? Eat and drink water! Just like parents raise animals, children cannot live a personal life.

Xiao Lin said: Ironically, we are inferior to people, you are superior to people, how many officials are high-ranking and wealthy?

Xiao Pearl said: Money-lending for profit, marrying a relative, not having a son, why do you marry you?

Zhang Forest said: You only care about giving birth, raising is a man's responsibility, why should you worry?

Yuan Chunhua said: I gave birth to three, you don't help me take a day, don't help me raise a day, and have a few more, the most suffering and sinful ones are not our mother and daughter!

Xiao Lin said: Mom feels sorry for me, what do you want to do? My eyes are red! I am jealous! Mom helps me take care of the child, do you have any opinions?

Xiao Pearl said: If you don't want to give birth, take your daughter and get out of my house!

Yuan Chunhua said: My daughter's surname is Zhang, so she should eat Zhang's family, live in Zhang's family, and die in Zhang's family. I don't have the surname Zhang, I'll go!

Xiao Pearl said: Hurry up! The farther away the better! Don't come back if you leave!

Yuan Chunhua was angry, she couldn't swallow this mouthful, so she went south in anger, left the child alone, and went to Dongguan to work.

For this reason, Xiao Pearl's evaluation of Yuan Chunhua is still acceptable, abandoning her husband and children, without a little wife and maternal love, leaving her relatives and betraying her family, and not doing a little self-sacrifice, which is what a good wife and mother do? Starting a family and starting a business, earning money to raise children, that is a man's responsibility, he has no rice to credit, no money he borrows, women only take care of the internal affairs of the family, marrying people and refusing to have children, what do you want to do when you get married? When a nun cultivates immortals, why do you want to come to harm my family? Picture relaxed, quiet, and enjoyable, don't be reincarnated as a man, and directly become a pig! Leaving the three young children behind, she walked comfortably, she fell off, and she fell lightly, and it was not difficult to remarry. Nowadays, the world only talks about money, and women are becoming more and more realistic, Zhang Haichao dragged children and daughters, which woman is willing to endure hardships and sins and be a stepmother? If she marries a person who drags her children and daughters, and the adults do not quarrel and fight, the children on both sides will compete and fight, and they will be poor and messy, how can they have a good life? I feel that the second son is really blind, suffered a big loss, and fell into a big fool. Women should be born dependent on men, should be delicate and weak daughters, gentle and obedient wives, virtuous and virtuous mothers, husbands and children always put first, respect husbands and children, take care of the family's food and clothing, self-denial, filial piety to in-laws, treat brothers and sisters well, family life is normal. But she admits death, the dog has horns on his head, he doesn't have a big idea, he is as stubborn as a donkey, as strong as a cow, with an iron neck, a cold and hard heart, a tendon to the end, and a hard heart!

In Xiao Lin's mouth, the sister-in-law is either a slasher, a miser, a scourge, or a demon, and has never had the slightest merit and strength, and has never admitted to receiving a little favor and care.

In front of neighbors, new relatives and old friends, Xiao Pearl cried and complained, took care of the children, cooked, and cursed the Yuan family.

Xiao Lin was beside her, and she also followed Shuluo, and said that Yuan Chunhua didn't want an old man, a child, a husband, just for her own enjoyment, ruthless and unjust, and only loved money, and the second brother married this kind of wife, which was really a blood mold for eight lifetimes.