In the evening, the three of them ate together.

Yuan philosophy chattered, like a matchmaker. Work and life are so stressful, everyone is busy making money, and there is no time to find a partner to develop a relationship. Introduce objects to girls, girls will generally inquire about the boy's family status, height and appearance, temperament and personality, after all, it is a lifelong thing, and it is related to reproduction, not only girls, but even the parents of girls will ask these questions clearly. The most important thing should be the boy's temperament and character, because this determines whether the two will get along together in the future.

Yuan Zhi said cautiously: You must pay attention. Dogs! They're bound to eat! No matter what kind of dog they are! When you go out to walk your dog, you must watch it.

Lan Xinyan said: Nonsense, watch Lao Tzu clean up your turtle son.

was frolicking, Lan Mu kicked open the door, broke in, and reached out to lift the table: The old lady is about to die of hunger, you have wine and meat, eat happily!

Yuan Zhizhi slipped away: You talk slowly. What's the matter, I still have something to do, let's go first!

Yuan Qiuhua also has to slip away: I have to go to work tomorrow, and I will also leave.

Lan Xinyan grabbed her: Mom, this is my girlfriend, I hope you accept her and treat her well!

Lan Mu gets straight to the point: What kind of work do you do? How much is your annual income of hundreds of thousands? How many apartments are there at home? Do you have a loan? Who is responsible for paying it back after getting married?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Brother Lan, look, you are laughing again, our relationship is so iron, I have always regarded you as a good buddy in my heart, go back and eat together to celebrate, it is not easy to have many good buddies in life, and it is not easy to be a good confidant. I see you as my elder, because from the realization to the present, Brother Lan, you have given me a lot of guidance, let me open up my thinking and learn some industry knowledge, I am very grateful, the past ten years, we have never known, I hope that in the next ten years, our friendship will be evergreen!

Lan Mu chased after her: Are you a virgin? How many people have you talked to? How many times have you had a miscarriage? How many times have you shaved the palace? Can you guarantee that you can give birth to a child? You must give birth to a boy!

In the middle of the night, Lan Xinyan drank at a roadside stall, and the wine bottles were all over the floor. The typhoon was approaching, the wind was blowing outside, and it was raining heavily, but he was crying and sitting on a chair in the open air, unwilling to take shelter from the rain, his clothes were soaked, and he was still covering his face in pain.

In Lan Xinyan's heart, her mother is a scourge, she can only spend money, she can't earn money, and she never understands the hardships and tiredness of men. This kind of country woman has no culture, no cultivation, and no quality. Speech is like nailing, every sentence is nailing, just don't treat people as people.

A woman with a bad brain and a bad heart, don't expect her to handle the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband and wife, and children. The most boring thing for a man in life is his wife's verbosity, one thing has to be said for a long time, and he keeps saying it, no matter when, he holds on to it, no matter what the occasion, he has to mention it if he touches it inadvertently, especially the wrong things that men do, in fact, men have blamed themselves and felt guilty, plus his wife has always said, has always said, add oil and vinegar, bend the truth, feel very wronged, and men are more and more faceless.

No matter how good you are to her, she is like a white-eyed wolf, never fed, never grateful, and even takes it for granted that everyone is good to her. Always regard himself as the center, and when he is slightly unsatisfied, he will scold others, scold people, scold his family, scold relatives, scold colleagues, and even bring innocent neighbors with him, scolding all the people in the world, hoping that this world will be destroyed, and let the good and bad people die together!

Every time there is a festival, the family is even more unpeaceful, people set off firecrackers to eat, she scolds people and says that they eat early and wait until they die, and when they eat late, she scolds others for eating rice! Whatever others do, in her eyes, is wrong! Yes, she doesn't do it. Hey, I'm speechless! She loves to eat, she eats alone, and if she doesn't like to eat, no one in the whole family can eat it! Selfishness is really annoying, everything is done in her own mood, when she is in a good mood, everything is fine, when she is in a bad mood, everyone, including her children, is a dispensable person in her heart.

The three views are different, and the mind is difficult to understand. Her father suffered from her all her life, and was scolded every day, feeling that he was blind at the beginning. As long as she is unhappy, she cries and cries at every turn, and she is suspicious at every turn, which makes men feel too noisy, headaches, too tired, angry, hateful, and helpless. It's not that I don't love her when I'm with her, but I can't love her! I don't even have the most basic smiling face, so what's the point of marriage with her? Everyone likes to listen to nice words.

She looks at men as if they would snatch them away at a glance. The more excellent the man, the more he will value a woman's IQ and EQ, no one wants to intrigue with his wife every day, he is tired half to death when he is busy with his career outside, and he has to accept all kinds of interrogations from his wife when he returns home: "Do you have a woman outside?" said no, she still didn't believe it, she was sad alone on the side, and it wasn't postpartum depression, if it was always like this, no one could stand it every day.

Fuss, panic, nothing to nag and chatter. These behaviors of women will only create tension, make people uneasy, and even irritable. Not only will she often torture herself enough, but she will also make those who live with her miserable.

The stupidest woman often has a cold war at home, without a word of warmth, and spends her whole life fighting with her husband! As a result, she destroys the tenderness of men and ruins her own happiness! Which man is willing to become a divorced man and give up the family that she has worked so hard to run! When a man's heart is cold, a woman can get out!

She is divorced, which is equivalent to the sky falling, she doesn't even have the ability to take care of herself, and she has to wait for another person to support her in order to live. Without economic resources and a home, it is as if returning to the pre-liberation period overnight is equivalent to a disaster, and I don't know what to do at all. Who would be able to raise you until old age in the face of such an indifferent face after suffering all kinds of humiliation? She scolded, cried, and made trouble, and the neighbors looked down on her, and her relatives and relatives were annoyed. Such a woman deserves to be dismissed, she doesn't have a little bit in her heart, and she keeps a low profile if she has no interest, which makes people feel disgusting!

But my father was steadfast. Not getting divorced is tantamount to chronic suicide. Day after day, year after year, we can never wait for the light and warmth. In this case, long pain is better than short pain. Divorce is not terrible, it is equivalent to waking up from a nightmare quickly. As for regret? I think that as long as I am liberated from this painful marriage, I will soon have to worship the Buddha, how can I still feel that this is wrong?

He said: Infamy, coming at me, I am a forty-year-old person, as long as I am worthy of my heart, I admit the notoriety of the outside world, everything does not matter.

The mother committed suicide by drinking medicine, and after being rescued, the father disappeared, which is equivalent to leaving the house and not returning home for several years.

After her father ran away from home, she continued to be lazy and lazy, forgetting her righteousness for the sake of profit, and saying that her children were not filial! Having a mother, without love, is more painful than not having a mother, and there is no happiness, no hope, and no future. He has always only said how much he cares, and when he encounters something, he retreats back, and he does not stand still, but pushes his children to his chest as a shield. Children have nothing to rely on, and when they want to look at it, they find that it is most practical to rely on themselves. After the incident, the mother began to say some caring things again, saying how much she paid and how much she sacrificed, which was very hypocritical and annoying, but when she met this kind of old man, she couldn't do anything.

When he heard him complain, Yuan Qiuhua's eyes suddenly turned red. It is heart-wrenching, distressed, and guilty, if you know him at a young age and can be by his side, he will not be sad alone, and he will bear so many things alone.

But it backfired, and it was really difficult to have a good relationship with Blue Mother, very difficult, especially difficult. Lan Mu hit her head and bled out, but she still didn't change her habits, especially scolding people, and scolding whoever she caught. is so unreasonable, Yuan Qiuhua is really angry, angry that she is not sophisticated, does not know how to be flexible, and does not know how to forbear.

Lan Xinyan said: If others don't understand you, they must not be able to communicate, and others are not you, and they don't know your true thoughts, how can they understand you if they don't communicate?

How to communicate with the cow playing the piano?

Don't pick and choose on my son, just your looks, plus this condition, you should be thankful to have him as your boyfriend.

The pants are so short, what's the difference between not wearing them and not wearing them, and you want to go out and hook up with wild men?

Wear shoes so high, aren't you afraid of breaking your feet?

With a good face, how can you make it a monkey ass?

Son, why did you buy her a dog leash?

When she met, she said something unpleasant to stimulate Yuan Qiuhua, but she didn't say anything as if she hadn't heard it, and did whatever she had to do.

Lan Mu made trouble and scolded.

Lan Xinyan persuaded Yuan Qiuhua: Self-cultivation is a way, harmony is precious, there is no wonder in the world, and patience is high.

Yuan Zhezhi was upset: Such a woman must not be married, and she has not yet entered the door, so she does not want to see your mother, can you expect her to honor your parents in the future? The best way is to dump her, marry your mother, and honor her personally.

Over time, Yuan Qiuhua's thoughts changed, and it turned out that he was the junior - the junior between the prospective husband and the prospective mother-in-law. You can't take her, what can I do? Either endure or escape!

Life is not easy, and everyone is moving forward with a heavy load. Mother-in-law is an uneducated, unqualified, uneducated citizen, shameless, muddy, treacherous and indifferent, her daughter-in-law has absolutely no good life, and if she doesn't do it well, it will affect her children and harm the next generation. It's scary to think about.

She was stubborn, she would rather bend than admit death, there was nothing big about the two of them, but the result was a temper tantrum and no communication, and finally developed into a cold war and broke up.

's mother was from a humble background, and she was very unpopular and unpopular, which caused Lan Xinyan to be excluded and disliked in the family, and even children laughed at him. This unfriendly environment has caused him to be sensitive, afraid of being damaged, and particularly weak, and needs a woman who loves him, loves him, trusts him, is sensible, understands the general situation, knows his warmth and coldness, understands his joys and sorrows, and makes him happy.

He cried: I don't ask for your forgiveness, blame me for only having the luck to meet you, but not the ability to keep you.