Marrying far away from a poor country
When a man is dragged home, he is naturally unconvinced, and he wants to have emotions with his wife, cause civil strife, and fight a cold war.
The reason why Blue Fire Lotus is willing to marry from the economically developed coastal areas to the inland provinces with a weak economic foundation is only because she can't accept the debauchery of local men, and she can't even be at least dedicated to women. The first condition for her to find her husband is that she is truly loyal, it doesn't matter if you have money or not, you can be diligent, I can fight with you, work together, and start from scratch; it doesn't matter if you have no power or position, you are healthy and healthy, I can bear hardships and stand hard work like you; it doesn't matter if you love me or not, as long as you are good to me, you can allow you to hide another woman in your heart, but you can only sleep next to me at night, hug me and sleep, and you can only be dedicated to me on the scene。
In the city of Guangzhou, not to mention that there are more men and fewer women, local women and non-local men talk about marriage, and there are very few people who can really be together. Xie Fanfang is an ordinary migrant worker from other provinces, no money, no factory, no diamond ring, no house, no car, no skills, and he can only marry an ordinary working girl. The Lan family lives in Shibei Village, opens a shopping mall in the city, sells electrical appliances, lives in small western-style buildings, and rents large apartments. Graduated from Huolian Technical School, he is a big accountant in the shopping mall, and he is a commuter car pick-up, and his work is easy and leisurely.
Xie Prosperity is a small security guard in a shopping mall, his job is simpler than that of a factory, and he can be lazy, hang out, mix time, and earn a lower salary than a worker. The skilled female workers in the factory look down on him, the female workers in the service industry, he can't look down on him, the poor ghost drags the poor ghost, double the poverty toss, it is better not to get married, one person has a better life, one person has a good life, it is better than two people who are poor and suffer hardships, and it is better than a family of three who are poor and suffer from poverty. Most of the young girls enter the factory, and the shopping guides and cashiers in the shopping malls are all aunts, and he wants to find a girl to pat and drag, and he doesn't even have a few years younger. The only unmarried girl is Blue Fire Lotus, but unfortunately she is five years older than him, and she is still black-skinned, short-skinned and fat, and she is a dwarf winter melon.
The employees of the shopping mall all greeted each other with a smile when they saw the fire lotus, and took the initiative to greet her, but Xie Rongrong ignored her, looked coldly and coldly, and complained behind his back: What is the great thing about being a boss, ten years ago he was a farmer, the provincial city effect area became an urban village, he started by reselling land, and he got rich by renting a house, but it is not the blessing of reform and opening up! If Lao Tzu were a local, the boss would be bigger than him, and the money would definitely be more than him!
The words reached Huo Lian's ears, attracting secret attention, deliberately sneering, stimulating face-to-face debate, not refuting or not acquaintance, she invited him into the office, poured fragrant tea, toasted cigarettes, humbly asked him for advice, the boss is the big way, and the mall is a way to make more money. Xie Prosperity took the cause of the economic crisis, talked about the zoning of luxury goods and necessities, the basic life ranked first, the pursuit of enjoyment ranked second, and then the ratio of the rich to the poor, the poor will always account for the majority, and then to the change in market demand, the number of foreigners has exceeded the original population, and finally suggested that the shopping mall change its business strategy, from selling electricity, taking into account daily necessities, to daily necessities, taking into account household appliances, and even taking the form of joining to open a supermarket chain.
Although the Lan family did not adopt Xie Prosperity's opinion, the big profit is big, the small profit is small, and there is no sideline, it is always easier to make money from the rich than to make money from the poor. The rich people's money comes easily, goes refreshingly, the poor have to sweat every penny, money is life, time is shit, compared to the fear of loss, running around to pick cheap, the time to run is not valuable, the rich talk about efficiency, time is money, save the time to run, you can earn more money. For example, if a certain product is promoted in Dongcheng, it is ten yuan cheaper than that in Xicheng, and the wage earner will take the bus to buy it, and it takes an hour to come and go, and the wage for his work is ten yuan an hour, and the ten yuan saved by shopping is equivalent to earning wages without working, and he thinks he earns it. But the boss is not interested in promotions, and he will definitely not waste an hour of his time in order to save ten yuan, because he can earn a thousand yuan an hour, he would rather buy it in Xicheng, even if it is ten yuan more expensive, he believes that he has earned it. In comparison, the difference between the wage earner and the boss is not in the amount of time, but in how to use the time, the same hour, the wage earner can only earn ten yuan, but the boss can earn a thousand yuan, in the final analysis, it is the difference between time and efficiency, the same hour, the wage earner can only create ten yuan of wealth, but the boss can create a thousand yuan of wealth, the root of which is how to make time more valuable. The current price is different, the wage is different, every day, every month, every year, people's worth is naturally different, the dynasty is like this, the years are like this, the whole life is like this, and people's status is of course different.
But Huo Lian looked at him with admiration, thinking that he was uneasy about the status quo, had ideas, had plans, and was not simple-minded, all he lacked was start-up capital, small profits but quick turnover, sales and accumulated profits, the shorter the capital turnover period, the more profitable, and a small business could also make a lot of money. There is no shortage of rich people in Huolian's social circle, and the home appliance supplier is also the boss, but she doesn't even pay attention to the favor of the rich, and the sisters summed up a sentence with sadness and blood and tears, nine out of ten rich men are bad, and one is not bad is Wang Ba. The Lan family is rich, she doesn't want to gamble with the rich about tomorrow with the rich, and she doesn't want to cry in a BMW, but would rather sit behind a bicycle and laugh. Real life, people's hearts are also realistic, riding a bicycle, of course, can only be a transitional period, sit for the time being, want her to sit for a lifetime, wind and rain to old age, is also unwilling, she looks at the long-term future, small western-style buildings will be, BMW cars will also have.
Xie Fanfang carried the blue fire lotus on his bicycle and walked around the city, conducting market research, inquiring about the import and export channels, understanding the flow of people in the store, and negotiating the rent. In order to test Xie Prosperity's ability to do business, Huo Lian first took out a sum of money, agreed that the two would run a joint venture, apply for a business license with his ID card, and open a supermarket in the streets of the industrial zone without hiding from the Lan family. Xie Wangfang quit his job and was busy, separating the kitchen and bathroom in the back aisle of the supermarket, and on the top of the back wall, separating the pavilion and making a bedroom.
There are more and more people working part-time, every worker has to buy daily necessities, the new arrivals have to buy daily necessities, and those who leave have to deal with daily necessities, Xie Prosperity buys and sells second-hand goods, every worker has to make a phone call, he adds a public telephone, and the worker loves to play billiards in his spare time, and he adds a billiard table. In the first year, the profit was 40,000. Huo Lian has a bottom in her heart, and the two of them are officially fine. For the sake of prudence, she did not disclose the news to her family, nor did she introduce it to her family, if they really met, but the family did not look down on them, the two of them would lose face, if there was a verbal conflict, or even a physical conflict, it would be an ambush that affected the factors of stability and unity, and the gains outweighed the losses. It wasn't until the supermarket made a profit and was able to confirm Xie Prosperity's ability to her family that she led him into the Lan family, but Lian's mother was still so angry that her face turned purple, Lian's father roared in the dark, and Brother Lian roared with a kitchen knife, threatening to kill the "heart thief".
The joy of the father-in-law and mother-in-law when they saw the new son-in-law for the first time, enthusiasm, excitement, not at all, Xie Fanfang thought that it was impossible for the two to get married, he had a premonition before, and he couldn't help but feel cold. Lan Huolian did not flinch, she ignored the opposition of her family and friends, resolutely lived with him, no longer went to the mall to be an accountant, and was at ease the owner of the supermarket, and often comforted him not to be discouraged, encouraging him to catch up.
Unexpectedly, Xie Rongfang borrowed her financial resources to run a supermarket to get rid of poverty, and he was a speculator. He started from the gangsters, came from the field, brocade clothes and jade food, beautiful wife and concubine, never touched, and now the outbreak of the wallet bulging, should have returned to his hometown, or invest in a factory, or expand the scale, but recalling that he has suffered a lot in the past, suffered all kinds of shocks, and seems not to go to the comfort nest to enjoy the enjoyment, experience the pride of spending money, not enough to soothe himself. From scolding the big guys in the past, hugging left and right, poor and extravagant, to now he has become like them, messing around with flowers and grass.
Xie Fanfang has become the kind of person that Lan Huolian dislikes the most, her oath has become a lie, she has condescended to become a scumbag, she does not cherish her family career, she turned her face ruthlessly and unjustly, she really broke her liver and intestines, and regretted her heart, but her husband was chosen by herself, and she is no wonder that others and the atmosphere are cultivated, and she has to admit it. Fortunately, she is still the boss, not just the boss, she holds the family income tightly in her hands, prompting Xie Prosperity to recognize the form, you are just a worker working in my store. Money is a man's courage, he is honest if he has no money, and the salary of a wage earner is naturally not enough to support him to enjoy it in advance and consume it in advance.
Running a supermarket, low-profit business, coupled with the economic recession in those years, the overall economic recession, overnight bankruptcy is not a rumor, Blue Fire Lotus then had the idea of retiring, in Guangzhou, a high-consumption city, if there is a financial turmoil, it is difficult to even support a family. As for Xie Prosperity's red and willow green, she chooses to forgive, not to blame the past, not to make an example, if there is a reciprocal offense, she will be severely punished. Although Guangzhou's economy is open, many of the local people have a talent for business, but the family concept is quite traditional and conservative, the patriarchal mentality is serious, the wife does not have children, the husband can take concubines, and the "second wife" borrows the womb to give birth to a child, the phenomenon starts from it, and requires the wife to marry a beggar and beggar, marry a suo and inherit the suo, from the beginning to the end, under the condition of giving "economic compensation", to shelter and raise the children of the "second wife".
The thousand-year-old emperor's calendar has been turned over and over, the old drama of the negative heart has been crossed from the beginning, the sweetheart and family must be maintained after all, and the blue fire lotus once again plays the role of standing up to the sky, although Xie Prosperity is already shameless, breaking into the family disaster, there are blessings and blessings, there is money to erode wealth, and there is no wealth to lose his life, only to beg his wife to jump out, shelter from the wind and rain, take care of the aftermath, defeat the wildflowers, clean up the mess, and support his face. made a mistake for a while, married a poor boy from other provinces, and the poor man became rich but contracted pity and pity, so he had to fly away and escape from the city of fireworks and wine. If you are an adult, you have a family, raise your children, and support your parents, you can't shirk your responsibilities. In order to save the capital and leave a way out, Lan Huolian transferred the supermarket and returned to Xie Hejia with her children and savings to build a house.
I thought that away from the bright lights of the city, returning to the simple and quiet primitive countryside, Xie Fanfang could also restore the original simplicity, but I didn't expect that today's countryside has also become a miniature version of the city, although there is no neon flash, it is not separated from the joy of broilers.
At the same time, the closed and backward rural life, the ignorant mouth of right and wrong, the dark and ugly family property dispute, the blue fire lotus took root in the countryside, transformed itself to adapt to the environment, civilization is not rude, noble is not vulgar, talent is not mediocre, elegance is not vulgar, and grievance is always inevitable. Busy and busy, changes and changes, family conflicts, and conflicts between husband and wife also made the quiet and friendly city girl unconsciously transformed into a fierce peasant woman.