Due to different cultural upbringing, different growth backgrounds, and different living habits, when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, Gong Magpie and Yuan Qiuhua can't help but quarrel and be angry, and then add all the reasons for discord, Gong Magpie didn't wait for Yuan Qiuhua's child to be half a year old, so he found an excuse to go to Shu Zhiqiang's house for dinner and officially formed a family with them.

Only then did Yuan Qiuhua understand that her mother-in-law was the one who only spoiled her daughter and ignored her daughter-in-law, and only took her grandson without her grandson, Xie Bitao's mother was originally driven away by them, but the fuse was that her mother-in-law did not do anything, which directly caused the death of the second sister-in-law's youngest daughter Xie Jinlian. The middle-aged widow is already a great misfortune, and the death of a daughter is even more unfortunate, but they have no compassion, no pity, no charcoal in the snow, but they make it worse, and they find fault and sweep the second sister-in-law out of the house.

The house where Shu Zhiqiang's family lives now, the fields they plant, the beds they sleep on, the bedding they cover, the cooking utensils they use, the furniture used by their mother-in-law in the ancestral house, including the large wardrobe, the cabinet of five drawers, the sewing machine and bicycle of Xie Ying's family, the bamboo bed and reclining chair of Xie Xiong's family, were all snatched from the second sister-in-law.

God, the earth, bullying orphans and widows, the weak eat the strong, wolves want to eat sheep, there will always be a reason, there is no room for negotiation. Huangtian wow, thick earth wow, what kind of behavior is this?

Sure enough, Gong Magpie didn't stretch out his hand to Yuan Qiuhua's son, her grandson, from birth to the age of six, didn't help wash clothes, and didn't lead him to sleep for a night, just like without this grandson. In 2007, Gong Magpie carried Xie Jiaxi's daughter out to play, and the little grandson twisted around on her back, she walked unsteadily, fell to the ground, broke her right arm, and injured her muscles and bones for 100 days, but Xie Han was ordered to bear the treatment costs of several thousand yuan.

Over the past few years, Xie Han and his wife have not only borne the expenses of Gong Magpie and Xie Bitao alone, but all the living expenses and personal contacts of the family have been pressed on their bodies, and Gong Magpie has to secretly change the money of his son's family into his son-in-law's family, and secretly change the things of his son's family into his son-in-law's family, so that the short-term contradictions and conflicts in the parents continue to escalate, and the internal tension is about to erupt.

As the saying goes, it is difficult for a good man to raise three people, and Xie Han has to support his old mother and his niece. With the birth of the child, Yuan Qiuhua had to take care of the child again, and he had to farm, and he was busy working hard, but he still couldn't make ends meet, and the old debts were not paid and new debts were added, pulling down the famine. And the great famine, Shu Zhiqiang's family can ignore it, and the palace magpie can not ask, only Xie Han's young couple can't shirk it, only stick out their heads and let others cut them, cut the flesh to others, and peel the skin to others. But everything that has been paid, in the final analysis, is just a good reputation.

Filial piety is the first, the grace of nurturing is greater than the sky, it is good to take it for granted, it is okay to speak of righteousness, to feed children to prevent old age, and the younger generation to support the elders, there is nothing to say. The fact that the past is ironclad is enough to show the seriousness of the problem, the filial piety task of filial piety and virtuous daughter-in-law promulgated by Gong Magpie, specific to the implementation content, not only to support the elderly, to raise nieces, but also to help Shu Zhiqiang's family, who can afford it?

Not to mention the brother-in-law's family, having to help the brother-in-law's family is a bit contrary to the righteousness of the world in any case, right? The key is that the bearer must have this ability, and the subjective wishes must also have objective conditions to match! Strength is closer to human affection than the preaching of filial piety, and filial piety regardless of actual ability is more severe than the life punishment borne by the crime of unfilial piety. Your ignorance, or ignorance, does not mean that the punishment does not exist, nor does it prove that the lessons of the punishment should not be learned, let alone that the recurrence of the tragedy should be avoided. Great filial piety, virtuous sage, who doesn't want to do it? With this ability, there is nothing to blame, there is so much money that there is nowhere to spend, how to spend it can not be spent, this heaven is high and thick human affection, this honor with Tianqi, fools know that being a good person has a good name, being kind and giving has a good reward, idiots know how to help others for fun, and Boone Boud leaves a lingering fragrance.

Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. Looking back on the family history, comparing the past efforts of the eldest brother and sister-in-law with the current gains, comparing the filial piety of the second brother and sister-in-law in the past, and the current fate, it is not difficult to find that the filial son and daughter-in-law of the palace magpie are nothing more than the flesh and skin and the bones, and the bones are smashed into the frying oil, and it is better to die than a dog.

In order to be filial to a person, sacrifice the rights and interests of the whole family, or in other words, no matter how expensive the price is, you must be a filial son who satisfies your mother. Yuan Qiuhua was extremely resentful of Xie Han's unprincipled, unright-wrong, unconditional, and boundless filial piety, and repeatedly asked: Do you still want to make mistakes again and again? You have to do what you can, tailor your clothes, and you have to ask yourself, do you have the ability?

Men, good faces, vanity, don't know who is who, sons, listen to their mothers, obedient and obedient, they are used to it. No matter how Yuan Qiuhua argues, Xie Han thinks that she is unwilling to be filial, does not want to support her mother-in-law, and wants to be a bad daughter-in-law, she is selfish, she wants to treat her brother-in-law's family lightly, she does not want to help, and she has to fall into the well.

Gong Magpie and Xie Han are not separated, she is the parent, the family property and income are in her hands, not only the money earned by Xie Han must be handed over in full, but the money earned by Yuan Qiuhua must also be handed over in full, there are expenses, take ** to reimburse, there are expenses, and then go to her to ask for money, buy shoes and socks, buy towels and diapers, and get her approval, buy oil, salt, fish and meat, buy cold medicine, and ask for her consent.

Previously, every money earned by Xie Han and his wife was handed over to Gong Magpie for safekeeping. At the end of the year, she said that she owed Wu 1,000 yuan, and said that she did not include the money to buy fish and meat for the New Year. Xie Han's hard-earned money for work, Yuan Qiuhua's manuscript fees and red envelopes, rough calculations are not 60,000 yuan, at least not less than 40,000 yuan, except for personal contacts and living expenses, there should be no balance in any case! How the money was spent, how it was used up, and who used it for what, the two of them could not get to the bottom of it. Money is too much money, if Gong Magpie secretly saves some private money in case of emergency, it is also forgivable, given her style of eating inside and out, there is no doubt that she is subsidizing Shu Zhiqiang's family.

Now Gong Magpie eats and lives with his second son-in-law, nominally without a separation from Xie Han, but in essence there is no difference from a separation.

Yuan Qiuhua discussed with Xie Han: You mother and son, since food and accommodation can be separated, and money can also be separated, they treat guests, we pay, and if they are sold, they will help the number of people sell their bodies for money, they are not fools, they are also stupid.

Xie Han ran to Xie Jiayan and said: I will pay my mother's alimony on a monthly basis, I don't want your family to spend a penny, you just need to take care of the daily life of the elderly. If you have a headache and brain fever, I will pay for the medical expenses, and I will never be in arrears, and the old man will not be able to do it in the future, so we will naturally come to take care of the aftermath.

When the palace magpie heard this, she cried and cried: The surname Yuan is disobedient and unfilial! If you are not obedient, you will not obey, and you will not obey, and you will not be obedient, and you will be afraid of your wife, and you will not be able to be the master of the family, and sooner or later the old lady will have to let this person with a foreign surname die of anger! What kind of evil was created in the previous life, God wants to release it, such a wicked family to torture me!

Xie Jiayan howled and scolded: What kind of wife did you marry, so ruthless and unjust, you can't tolerate my family! My family has not eaten idle food, for more than ten years, the husband and wife have endured their stomachs and worked hard to support their mother, not only did they not get contaminated with the slightest cheapness, but on the contrary, they were unlucky, they did not appreciate the merits, and they did not admit their hard work.

Shu Zhiqiang said: This bad brother and daughter-in-law, shameless, unreasonable as strength, and ugly people to make more blame, instigating you to separate the family from your mother, and completely treating your mother-in-law as an enemy, regardless of your mother's life or death, she doesn't want to pay for the elderly, and she doesn't want to contribute to the family.

Gong Magpie said: Alas, if the cub is not filial, it means that the daughter-in-law is not virtuous, and the younger brother is disrespectful, that is, the wife is not obedient. Phew, straight from this black-hearted right and wrong, marrying into the door, it will cause the whole family to be unpeaceful.

Xie Han is simple-minded, has no backbone, in front of his wife, it is his wife who is reasonable, in front of his mother, it is his wife who is reasonable, his sister scolds, his brother-in-law makes trouble, and then he becomes his sister scolding reasonably, and his brother-in-law is reasonable, and all the mistakes are his wife's fault. After being scolded by them, derogatory, complaining, stirring, pleading, and saying good things, he gave up his original proposition and agreed that everything would be the same.

Xie Han went home and said that Yuan Qiuhua was narrow-minded, had no stomach, did not tolerate people, and was not united: Before you came, everyone was harmonious and harmonious, why did you come and there was more entanglement of right and wrong?

Yuan Qiuhua said: You earn money, everyone spends, of course they are happy, they coax you to be happy, eat yours, drink yours, and have fun with you, everyone will naturally be affectionate. You marry me and have children, my mother and son will also spend your money, eat you, and drink yours, of course they are nervous about money, that is, nervous about you!

Xie Han said: You can earn so much money, and everyone will share it equally, why do you have to fight for more and less? It's not good to say!

Yuan Qiuhua said: My mother and son, your niece, plus your mother, these people have an average score, I have no opinion. But their family of five also has to be divided according to the number of people, why? You are a brother-in-law, not their father! You earn 10,000 yuan a month to feed everyone, and I don't let a single fart go, but you have tens of thousands of debts and you have to borrow money to support them, what do you want?

Xie Han said: I am the father of the child, and you are still the mother of the child. Now that you are short of money, you can take out some of the money you worked before marriage, and make a transition.

Yuan Qiuhua said: I'm wondering, what bad idea are they holding back? It turns out that they are calculating the money I used to work before marriage! When I got married, you didn't give the bride price, the dowry was bought with my money, your father was seriously ill, and the medical expenses were paid by me, and if you had a child, you couldn't pay for the operation, or did I pay the bill?

Xie Han said: But they all said that you have a huge sum of money to leave to your two nieces! Otherwise, you will sell the gold jewelry you wore when you got married?

Yuan Qiuhua said: I am a wage earner, I have not become a boss, they say that I can earn a huge amount of money by working, so they both work part-time, aren't they becoming multimillionaires? Why don't you ask them to take out the money to support you?

Xie Han said: My ability is limited, you are reluctant to sell gold jewelry, everyone can only live a hard life!

Yuan Qiuhua said: I bought gold jewelry before marriage, what does it have to do with you and them?

Xie Han said: You are all mine, your money is my money, and your jewelry is my jewelry. They are my relatives, your relatives.

Yuan Qiuhua said: I only married you as a wife, and I did not sell you as a slave! My pre-marital property is only my personal property until I die, and it has nothing to do with you or with them!

Xie Han said: You and I are husband and wife, how can we sever economic relations? How can you draw a clear line when you live with us? Scrooge, a miser, begging for food with a golden rice bowl, suffering hardships and galls, and suffering for himself.

Chickens and ducks speak, words are not speculative, there is no common desire, and they cannot speak together. Yuan Qiuhua saw that Xie Han was obsessed and refused to change his teachings, so she said: I said ugly things before, you have the ability to take on debts, you should try to repay the money. I will never admit this unjust debt, and I will not be able to help you pay it back. From now on, half of the money you earn will be given to me, and I can't go out to earn money when the child is small and no one takes it, so this money is my mother's living expenses. You give your half to whoever you want, I don't care.

Xie Han said: Whatever you do, you have a plan to turn over the river, I have a plan to reverse the sea, see who can play whom!

Although the words are ruthless, money is no different from divorce, but in terms of specific operation, there is still no difference from the past, because the money is in Xie Han's hands, he wants to give it to his mother, he doesn't want to give half to his wife, so he won't give half to his wife.

A husband and a wife are not of the same mind, and no matter how much the wife cries with him, it will not work. The economic foundation determines the construction of the upper class, and women must be economically independent in addition to spiritual independence. Only when they are financially independent can women change their fate of dependence on men and get rid of the confinement of the old-style feudal family.

The reason doesn't make sense, the economy is out of control, the situation can't be changed, for the sake of filial piety for the child, Yuan Qiuhua can't just leave, and he can't fly away. Even though it is clear that the importance of economic independence to a woman, although she was financially independent by virtue of her skills before marriage, and when her children grow up, she can still be financially independent by virtue of her skills, but now that the children are too young, she has to accept the humiliation of her mother-in-law's life as the master of the house, managing money and managing family affairs.

Mother-in-law eats inside and outside, and her husband eats inside and outside, Yuan Qiuhua is fortunate to have her own career sustenance, and she can also earn a life support money, and she is even more fortunate to have fields that she can cultivate by herself, and she can be self-sufficient in food and vegetables. If you rely on your husband alone, you will definitely live like a dead fish, unhappy and lifeless.