After Yuan Qiuhua declined the leader's matchmaking, Lan Xinyan smiled bitterly: I don't know what else I can do?

I don't know which master came up with a bad idea, and the editor-in-chief of the evening newspaper opened the back door and sang such a play of "beating the drum and singing grievances" for a male writer for a female writer, with the goal of having a lover eventually become a family member and achieve a good story.

A statement, for a time the whole city knew, public opinion was in an uproar, so the whole province knew about this "teacher-student love", in fact, in addition to bringing some entertainment value, what other benefits?

Before and after, these big men, no one mentioned it to Yuan Qiuhua, and they were bent on giving her a surprise, but in fact, they made her a frightened bird.

When encountering this kind of embarrassing thing that "damages a woman's chastity" and "a man's reputation is lost", both sides have no light on their faces, and they will try their best to cover it up, and this kind of thing is not clear, the more they argue, the darker they are, and the more they protect it, the more chaotic it becomes. Looking back carefully on this matter, you will find that Yuan Qiuhua and Lan Xinyan "lived together" for four years, as soon as Yuan Qiuhua moved away, Lan Xinyan published in the newspaper to refute the rumors, and the light between the lines obviously surpassed the "pure" teacher-student relationship, which is equivalent to making the matter of "unmarried cohabitation" known to everyone, as if telling everyone that the daughter of the Yuan family slept with the son of the Lan family for a few years, and then climbed the high branch and ran away, this matter must be explained to the Lan family.

Yuan Qiuhua was alone in a foreign land, and tasted the sadness under the fence, as well as the white eyes and ridicule of others. Gossip, gossip, she has long learned not to care, only silently working hard, and is willing to make herself better. In the face of doubts, she was frozen and thundered, silence was golden, and in the face of inquiry, she hid like a sea and laughed at it.

Love is not allowed, but it has become an obsession. I loved deeply, but I couldn't be together, my thoughts were not coordinated, a true regret, and a heart's silent crying. Love or not love is not only the mouth, there is love in the heart, there is affection in the pen, there is repentance in the heart, there is pain in the text, such feelings are sincere, a piece of infatuation, if it is not for the deep love, the bitter love, the pain of love, which fool will be humbled to the dust? If it is not unforgettable, who wants to put you in the heart of the thoughts, the pain is endless? If it is not for the love of you into the heart, into the bones, into the marrow, the man will not let you possess the body, possess the heart, possess the soul, like a ghost can not be driven away!

Insurmountable obstacles and gaps, mother and son quarreled as soon as they met, Lan Xinyan said: Give you money in the future, you can play by yourself!

Lan Mu said: I don't, if you eat well and live well, I will follow you!

Lan Xinyan couldn't bear it anymore: Mom, Xiao Yuan was angry with you and left, are you satisfied now?

Lan Mu said: Of course she is happy! She wants to leave by herself, and she doesn't blame me! Then again, she is a working girl in the countryside, and she is not worthy of you at all. You sell a painting for a million, so good, she left just in time, you can talk about another city!

Lan Xinyan said angrily: No matter how much I talk, I will be angry with you! It's not her problem, it's your problem at all. Why doesn't she deserve me?

Lan Mu said: If you are desperate, no matter how dislike you are, you will not leave.

Lan Xinyan said: The work she does, you come to do thio, buy vegetables and cook, wash and mop the floor, grind materials and mix colors, grind ink and play the piano, sell calligraphy and paintings, you go? We have been together for so many years, whether she is worthy of me, I know in my heart!

Lan Mu shouted: What did I do wrong? You want to criticize me like this? Didn't I just take a little money? Didn't I just vent my temper, did you?

Lan Xinyan said: The pen is for you, you will write the poem! The knife will be given to you, you will engrave! The piano will be given to you, you will play!

Lan Mu said: I don't even bother to take care of myself, and I still care about your affairs?

Lan Xinyan yelled angrily: Why don't you care? Drove all my people away! I can no longer hold a brush, I can no longer write a word, from now on, you will support me?

Lan Mu said: Why is there no interest? There is only one woman left and right. The old ones don't go, the new ones don't come, find another one.

Lan Xinyan said: You go and find one, find someone exactly like her!

No matter how Lan Xinyan begged, admitted his mistakes, and curried, Yuan Qiuhua refused to get back together. For the first time, this rich second generation discovered that some things money is not necessarily useful. However, he seemed to have nothing but money.

Lan Xinyan complained to an acquaintance: I want to make up for my mistakes, but she won't give me a chance, I feel so helpless.

It is said that the person who can't forget it must be the deep love of the past, the love that can't be let go, and there must be expectations. There is nothing wrong with this, otherwise, who wants to be entangled in the network of love and struggle? For the sake of true love, we must love if we are wrong, and we will not let go of pain, and we will not turn around when we cry, just because love has entered the heart and love has entered the marrow. Otherwise, who wants to find sin and suffer? Men suffer, men are tired, men can't shed tears, it's hard to give up, and they're entangled in pain! It's hard to forget, it's hard to give up, and it's even harder to forget! Missing is an indescribable bitterness, more bitter than Coptis chinensis! In addition to pain or pain, it's so tiring to really love only one person!

Yuan Qiuhua understands Lan Xinyan's feelings, he doesn't say it, he doesn't write, just use one look, she understands. A person who loves you to the bones, in everyone's life, there may be only one such person, and this person may only love like this once. Because of love, so the loss of love, it is too ironic, but the relationship is not a person to pay, burn, cherish, but two feelings to be happy, two people love, know each other, stay together, like a pas de deux, partner with each other, with each other's rhythm, you advance and I retreat, you come and go, in order to live a wonderful and happy life.

After breaking up, the distance was widened, and Yuan Qiuhua slept at night, tossing and turning. She carefully reviewed and sorted out, in this relationship, she felt that he was active on the surface, but in fact passive, pushed all the decisions and choices to her, and let her bear the leading consequences of the relationship between the two, some lies, so beautiful that she couldn't bear to expose them, how could the reality be so beautiful and good as he thought? He is not an ignorant teenager, and his love is just beginning! His heart is mixed with a rush for quick success, his wild passion, raging, and uncontrollable flames, not only scorched him, but also burned her. He wants to conquer, he wants to control, the more mysterious he is, the more he wants to chase it, the more he is itchy, the more he wants to have, so he worries about all kinds of things, meddles with things, and has no private space, not only makes her feel free, heavy, panicked, the more intense he behaves, the more anxious she is, the stronger he is, the more frightened she is, and she is surrounded by a sense of suffocation for a long time, she can't feel at ease, she is worried from the bottom of her heart, and there is a lot of pressure, which makes her anxious and exhausted, and slowly regards this relationship as a burden, and wants to escape from this relationship, so she finally chooses to break up。

Everything has a price, and it is also cause and effect for each other. When she didn't know it, she first gave her help and accepted his kindness, and then made all kinds of unreasonable demands, and then did things that hurt her, and it was difficult for her to refuse for a while. I'll eat you a chicken, and you're going to slaughter a cow for me! Because you don't get respect, you pretend you don't know. After finding out the details of him, she didn't break it, didn't explain, gave him face, maintained his dignity, and satisfied his vanity, but she knew it and was speechless, so helpless, and she was so confused! She was so frightened! She was so frightened! She was so frightened! Glory and wealth are very rare, but what is more rare than glory and wealth is actually peace of mind, comfort, and leisure. This kind of life cannot be bought by money, and if life is controlled by greed, it will become emaciated and miserable.

Yuan Qiuhua is not a kindergarten child, he also has a youthful youth, and he also has romantic youthful feelings. There are obvious differences between the love veteran and the young boy in some careful thinking. The boy only held her hand, his fingers clasped tightly, in a decent manner, without any other small movements. Lan Shao held her hand, but kept picking around the back of her hand with his fingers, teasing, probing, and the skills were too complicated and complicated, just thinking about getting her as soon as possible, wishing he could have her immediately. The pure man, his hand only dared to hold her waist, and he didn't dare to make other superfluous small movements, and even for fear of further causing her misunderstanding, he only dared to hold it for a few minutes, and quickly put his hand down, because the man only needs to prove that sweetness is enough. Lan Shao was hugging her waist, but he tried his best to move down, all he wanted was to upgrade with her quickly, and what the sweetness was didn't matter to him at all. Even if they kiss, simple men only dare to make some slight movements, touching with their lips, all of which are "dragonfly water" style, and then quickly separate, for fear that they will offend her, cause discomfort to their girlfriends, or be in an unhappy mood. True love will respect her from the heart, and a man who really wants to be with her forever, no matter how much he likes it, he just stays above the bottom line of a woman, and he will never dare to cross the thunder pool by half a step. When Lan Shao kissed her for the first time, his tongue moved, he was very hot, very excited, and even his hands were not honest, and he had been skillfully doing small movements to seduce.

The performance of these monkeys in a hurry, whether Lan Shao's love can last a long time really made Yuan Qiuhua very suspicious. He couldn't help it, she also pushed him away, whether it was true love or not, it still needs to be carefully observed. She just delayed time to observe, but he went out of the wall to show her, which confirmed his feelings about the rich love history.

Yuan Qiuhua misses the little plum more and more, the little boy, the head and the brain, stiff and hard, like a green and astringent peach, with a long layer of hair on it. He was an unfathomed stone, she longed for the joy of walking side by side, longing for the warmth of her fingers, sitting on the lawn with this sunny and handsome big boy, talking about youth dreams back to back. This process is very short, pure, soft, elegant, but the beautiful feeling she once had, made her miss a lifetime, the kind of joy, a little shy, a little happy, especially the two people just hand in hand, walking and chatting on the road The deer jumped, that kind of heartbeat, can't help it, so far looking back, I feel very wonderful!

No one knew that Yuan Qiuhua's full of sorrow, her forbearance, and her deep-seated feelings were all given to the young man who accompanied her to recuperate. In Shanghai, Xiao Lizi took a leave of absence, wanted to speculate in stocks, drove a taxi, and made money to treat her, she supported, "If you decide, you will do it, no need to worry about the future, no matter whether you succeed or fail, I will share life and death with you." He made money, and he gave it all to her. She accepts it, she wants to survive, she wants to make amends to him, and live a lifetime, no matter good or bad, no matter sweet or bitter, she is willing! She needs his care, love is full of imagination and poetry, with its own brilliance, as if opening a heart window in her closed heart. The big boy promised her eternal love, she believed that the person she loved could not be regarded as not in love, she believed that he had been standing in place, and when she was tired, when she stopped, she looked back by chance, and found that he was still there, all the time. In short, there is a kind of regret, called missing in the past, and there is a kind of fate, called meeting again.

Lan Xinyan is also pitiful, Yuan Qiuhua would rather be his student, be his brother and sister with a different surname, be his strong backing, and be his umbrella! No matter what he does, he will tolerate him, he has been wronged outside, she will comfort him and enlighten him, even if the whole world doesn't want him, she will not abandon him, no matter what he does wrong, she will forgive him, give him stability when he is most lost, and help him when he is cornered. The relationship is a private matter, Lan Xinyan made it public to the world, and told the public, Yuan Qiuhua wanted to be sloppy, and he wanted to help him cover it up, but he couldn't. Yuan Huanxuan learned the real situation from Yuan Qiuhua, the employment relationship, resigned if he was not happy, and moved away, it was clearly a job hop, but he was rendered as "disappointed", it was a female "Chen Shimei", and even a modern "Pan Jinlian", it was too much, he didn't like Lan Xinyan very much, and felt that this man was arrogant, pretentious, and very scheming. In the face of family interests, what is personal emotion?

Material life, intellectual exchange, emotional support, mental purpose, spiritual realm, Yuan Qiuhua understands Lan Xinyan 100%, he only understands her 60%, she is unwilling to compromise, and has no intention of being backward compatible. The Yuan family's official family, the scholarly family, the family of poetry, and his ancestors have no foundation, the potential stock of the student's background, relying on personal struggle and luck, the future is at the top, there is no big start, the family style and family education are not very good, and they are also affected and dragged down by the original family, Lan Xinyan is alone, she is a group attack, family responsibility, personal sense of achievement, whether it is the scale, property, status, and the Yuan family is not in the same class, rank, grade, she is considered to marry. In-laws are not only related to the education of future generations, but also to the entire Yuan family's social circle, network circle, and resources for their children's careers. Yi Lan Xinyan's temperament, ability level, his mate selection object, the general official businessman's family, or the woman of a good family in the market, it is best for the male to dominate the outside, the female protagonist to work hard, the man works hard outside, and everything in the inner house is thrown to the woman, the woman not only has to serve her husband at home, dress and eat, but also serve her in-laws, educate her children, communicate with people, and take care of the housework up and down.

When talking about marriage, it should be consensual, and everyone is happy. Lan Xinyan exploded "premarital cohabitation", implying that "three days and four evenings", borrowing the power of the elderly, leisurely mouth, and exerting influence, which is a provocation to the "orthodox order" and "mainstream concept", and a "great disrespect" and "insincerity" to the Yuan family. Who doesn't want to be faceless, who doesn't talk about decency, especially the big family, the three generations of the Yuan family are famous in the local area, the governor's master, the president of the university, the regional secretary general, the mayor of the province and the city, who doesn't know their name, the Lan family wants to be like this, and climb the big tree of the Yuan family with an unjustified name, it's shameless, don't say that there is no way, even the dog hole is blocked!

Illustrious background, social relations, light and dark rules, do not hang on the lips, do not rest assured, still strive for progress and not lazy, respectful and thrifty without losing majesty, polite and not arrogant, but when encountering people by appearance, people by things, people with their lives, only heavy clothes do not value people, recognize money and do not recognize people, love face does not comply, and do not account for comparison, just respect and stay away. Alas, do it in advance, people are right, do things, things are right. In the final analysis, it is still people's temperament, quality cultivation, and vision, which are not up to standard. Bole turned his head and left, too lazy to bother with his brains, let alone work harder, the inspection was over, the candidate qualifications were gone, the reserved seats were gone, the opportunities were flying, and countless possibilities were also flying. The dragon and phoenix list has strict requirements for employing people, and the backbone is obedient all his life, obedient, obedient, obedient, enduring, rich, and squinting. Accurate positioning, inheritance training, each subordinate, can be worth ten experts, is a first-class elite.

The dragon ring was also furious: I hold you, you are the cup, I let go, you are the glass slag.

Yuan Zhezhi withdrew, business and relationships withdrew, and the studio was disheartened, singing about the empty city plan.

The original purchased belongings were also moved, mainly antiques, focusing on Ming and Qing Huanghuali furniture, porcelain, calligraphy and painting. Although it was registered, Yuan Qiuhua didn't want to have a dispute afterwards, so he asked his grandparents to come to the scene to testify, and asked Lan Dad and Aunt Qiu to count and check one by one. In addition to leaving a calligraphy and painting case for Lan Shao, other cabinets, cabinets, tables, chairs, stools, pianos, chess, and stoves were pulled to Luo's ancient line. Lan Xinyan's things, don't take the book, don't want the gold needle, they are clearly and unambiguous. The calligraphy and painting pigments that were supplied for free before, even if they were needed, they had to find He Pengcheng to pay according to the line price, after all, the raw jade also had to be bought with money, and the price had risen unpredictably.

After a few years of feelings, hard work, and then went down, who to reason with?

In Yuan Qiuhua's heart, Lan Xinyan is just a teacher, in her proud bones, she still retains the reserve and bottom line of a traditional woman, she doesn't want to betray the world and break the rules because of anyone's love, and she will not become anyone's lover. She longs for love to bloom into a flower and grow into a big tree, which can shelter her from the wind and rain and leave a piece of coolness.

Lan Xinyan looked for Yuan Qiuhua's theory: If you go, it's okay, why do you still dig the foot of the wall?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Brother Lan, you are so boring, what does it matter to me! Yuan Zhizhi has spread his wings and become the boss of his own door, what's the matter?

Lan Xinyan said: I misjudged you. You're obviously a snail, you have to carry the shell of a turtle, it's seriously overloaded, you're not tired!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Ha, this is a joke. Your nonsense, be a fart. Love me, but want to destroy me, what kind of logic is this! If you can't get it, no one else can think about it, right?

Lan Xinyan said: I'm not innocent, but I'm not guilty, I just like you, that's all!

Yuan Qiuhua said: People are watching jokes, they must think that I am afraid of sin, but in fact, why am I afraid?

Lan Xinyan said: Feelings are completely a matter of your affection and mine, and you can't blame others, you can only blame yourself. I can only wait for your fate, my life is so miserable!

Yuan Qiuhua said: I suggest oh, you use money to test women, you think that money can bring women a sense of security, it's just wishful thinking, money can bring at most, material enjoyment, and economic stability, emotional security and comfort, it is difficult to achieve through money.

Lan Xinyan said: It's not buddy who said, romantic attack, lure commitment, the most bullish way to pick up girls, is to let the girl, upside down to bubble you. A girl who doesn't love money must be a good girl.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Hey, you listen to the little citizens! What level are they, what status are you? They are not at the same level at all, not in the same social circle. You think you understand me, they think they understand me, from beginning to end, you, they never really understand me, then of course, I have to reject you!

Lan Xinyan said: Splash monkey, it's not that you don't have a problem, I am sick and rushed to the doctor.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Oh, when you are a boss, you have to understand a common sense, why should employees follow you? The first is for money, but money is not everything. Being a soldier and eating food, getting promoted and getting rich is like raising a group of dogs, if you throw a bone, they will follow you, and if someone throws a bigger bone, they may betray you. Even if he is an emperor, how many bones can he throw away? It is not enough to be good at business, but it is also necessary to have a good character and ability to cultivate, but the essence is difficult to change. Second, to realize personal value, to stage, to authorize, and to employ people.

Lan Xinyan said: opening a company is not to engage in charity, the goal is to make profits, whether it is the boss or the employee, first consider their own interests, this is instinct.

Yuan Qiuhua said: The easiest way to reach a consensus on salary is for employees to put forward their needs, and the boss lets them know how to get it. Unfair interests are destined to be unsustainable, and affection can promote the cake to become bigger, but it will never replace interests - reducing the distribution of interests in the name of affection is tantamount to playing hooligan. Talk about interests when it's time to talk about love, talk about love when it's time to talk about interests, confused bosses, mediocre employees, all make similar mistakes.

Lan Xinyan said: Everyone is a human being, there are good and evil sides, long and short, you can't forget people's weaknesses because of showing kindness, but don't take precautions, and when you suffer, in addition to resenting that person, you should review yourself.

Yuan Qiuhua said: You have a cat and a fish at the same time, and the cat eats the fish, in addition to blaming the cat, you should blame yourself. If you are born in Huainan, you will be orange, and if you are born in Huaibei, you can blame each other, but others will suspect that your leadership ability and your company's operating mechanism are problematic.

Lan Xinyan said: If you explain the problem clearly, I will understand the reason, only the stupidest people will use the unfathomable to cover up their hypocrisy and incompetence.

Yuan Qiuhua said: As a boss and manager, if you want to be the boss of the team, you must listen to the voice of opposition and criticism. In fact, these people really want you to get better, while those who are obedient are insidious. Moreover, criticism is often right. Therefore, when being criticized, the focus should be on "where should I start to solve the problem", rather than asking about the attitude "whether it is good or not".

Lan Xinyan said: value creates each other, grace and righteousness achieve each other, obedience is for team cooperation, for the achievement of common goals, loyalty to the cause itself, and efforts for a common vision.

Yuan Qiuhua said: A wise and broad-minded person can always accommodate different opinions, and do not have to worry about this undermining your authority, on the contrary, this kind of humble demeanor will continue to increase your strength and leadership charisma, and gain the respect of everyone.

Lan Xinyan said: Thank you very much, I have been taught! In a word, we must win a win-win situation, not a lose-lose situation.

Yuan Qiuhua said: You tell the truth, do you manage other people's lives for the rest of your life? If you do, you will manage it to the end, so that lovers will not only be together, but also be together forever!

Lan Xinyan said: Are you kidding? How is this possible? What does it mean? Startle me!

Yuan Qiuhua said: The master is in the people, the hidden dragon and the crouching tiger, with secret skills, I am afraid that you will be clamped, I don't want you to be hurt. To put it bluntly, you have no way, no faction, no flow, don't ask why, believe me, listen to me, there is nothing wrong, I will not harm you! Whether it is work or emotion, do not admit it, do not deny it, vague and ambiguous, do not advance, do not retreat, maintain the status quo, in order to ensure that you are fine.

Lan Xinyan said: Why are you doing this? Don't take the initiative, don't refuse, and don't be responsible?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Yes, you don't mistake me, I won't harm you!

Lan Xinyan said: Can I go to play with you?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Go occasionally, welcome!