Yuan Qiuhua was also born in poverty, and her mother disciplined her strictly since she was a child, and she developed a diligent, self-reliant, and self-reliant character.

When she got married, her mother specially advised: To be a daughter-in-law in someone else's house is not as good as being a daughter in front of her mother, to be cautious in everything, to be diligent and duty-bound, to be obedient to the elders, to be careful and considerate, and to rely on her husband. Remember, the daughter-in-law is an eternal enemy and opponent to the mother-in-law, don't think that the elders hurt the foreign surname as much as they hurt the flesh and blood of the relatives. You have to know how to do things, you have to do things, you have to be patient, don't compete for the length of the thickness, three less and four shortage, attract the disgust of the mother-in-law's family, you are a person, they are a group of people, you can't win, you can't win, you can't win, forbearance first, ask for more blessings, take a step back to take care of it!

As the saying goes, the new daughter-in-law is not used to it, in fact, the mother-in-law is no exception, and the mother-in-law of the palace magpie has long been spoiled by her children, and the unprincipled protection of her children is imprinted in the bone marrow. She is full of joy to look at her own people's pampered eyes, amiable, gentle and obedient to her own people, looking at the smiling face of Bo Yan who is hypocritical and hypocritical to people with foreign surnames, domineering and domineering with foreign surnames, insidious and vicious, awkward or aggrieved, and she has no ability to reform, so she can only endure it.

At first, Yuan Qiuhua was also sad and sad, couldn't accept her mother-in-law's attitude, and complained to Xie Han, expecting him to say a fair word, but she didn't dream that he would blame her, her heart was narrow-minded, her strength was small, and she was not united: before you came, everyone was harmonious and harmonious, why did you come here with more right and wrong? The relationship became tense? It's not that you have a problem, but we still have a problem?

No matter how she justified, he still believed that truth and justice were in her mother's hands, she really had a hard time talking, and it was difficult to get out, so she had to hold it in her heart, and when she thought of it, her back was cold, and the wind was swishing around.

Yuan Qiuhua finally couldn't bear it anymore, so he told his mother.

The mother persuaded: You really shouldn't say this to your husband, the man will never correctly understand the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and will only think that you are sowing discord and wanting to destroy the family relationship between mother and son, brother and sister.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Their mother and son do not interact, their brothers do not speak, and their brothers and sisters do not recognize each other, so what does it have to do with their daughters-in-law? When she was a daughter-in-law, she caused a mess of things to be made between mother and son, her brothers did not speak, and her brothers and sisters did not recognize each other.

In the son's mind, there is only one mother, the wife can remarry, and the children can be reborn!

Yuan Qiuhua said: The son can't abandon his mother, but the husband can divorce the evil wife, no wonder everyone says that the father-in-law is a wreck, and when he rests, he will be disturbed, and it will really harm three generations.

The mother said, "The husband does not dare to divorce his wife, but the son must divorce his wife, and this is the great evil of evil."

Yuan Qiuhua said: The daughter-in-law must serve the elderly at her mother-in-law's house, and the daughter-in-law can't support the elderly and raise children at her mother-in-law's house, and stay in her mother's house to bully her brother and sister-in-law. The old scourge is dead, and there are still small scourges that continue to do evil, and the daughter-in-law can't survive in this life!

Mother said: You, the coming day is long, don't care about the momentary gains and losses, look at the prospects, be patient for a few years, and wait for the old man to leave a hundred years later, her family will naturally leave, can you still live in her mother's house for a lifetime?

Yuan Qiuhua said: If people are shameless, they will be invincible in the world, and if they are sensible and reasonable, they will not be like her mother, living a scourge and harming relatives.

Mother said: I can't afford to provoke it, let's hide, it's really not good, when the child goes to school, you can go out to work!

Yuan Qiuhua said: The word forbearance has a knife in his heart, it is a knife that kills people without seeing blood, it is a rusty blunt knife, and the torment will torture people to madness, so it is better to be suspended.

The mother said, "Why do you want to have a child?" If you are pregnant, you can not have a child! As long as you give birth, you must take the responsibility of being a mother and make sacrifices!

Yuan Qiuhua said: In the Xie family, even if I sacrifice everything, I will not be able to exchange my child's childhood for a carefree life! Why did Meng's mother move three times? The growth environment affects the life track of every child!

The mother said, "I am the grandmother of the child, and I also want the child to grow up healthily." Well, when your child can go to kindergarten, you can rent a shop in the city and start a small business, and I can help you out when I have time.

Yuan Qiuhua said: It's not a kiss, I don't care, thank you, Mom! Mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law, no matter how nice she says it, she is also bluffing, pretending, and deceiving her son.

Yuan Qiuhua learned of their idea of beating her premarital property, and she understood the meaning of her husband being innocent, being guilty, and having too much money to harm herself, and that the money should not be used, and if she died unexpectedly one day, wouldn't it be cheaper to be a traitorous villain? She listened to Xiao Lizi's suggestion, took out the money, and invested in the "Baijiafu" supermarket chain of Blue Fire Lotus, and agreed on the annual investment amount and dividend rate, with a total budget of more than one million. For the sake of confidentiality, Xiao Lizi will pay the annual rent directly from his private account to Lan Huolian's company account, and the investor in the investment agreement is also signed and sealed by Xiao Lizi. In this way, except for the three parties who knew it, anyone who checked the bank account number could not prove that the investment was related to Yuan Qiuhua.

Xiao Lizi opened a private account in his identity, and the money belonging to Yuan Qiuhua, whether it was rent or dividends, he helped her store it in this account, Yuan Qiuhua wanted to use the money, he went to withdraw the money, and then handed the cash to her, in order to prevent Xie Han from suspecting the source of funds, every time he took out a sum of money, Yuan Qiuhua wrote him an IOU. changed from investment income to borrowing money, which means that Yuan Qiuhua's investment income before and after marriage, Xie Han does not want to get a penny regardless of whether he divorces or not, but wants to share half of the debt.

Xie Han disappointed Yuan Qiuhua too much, she even suspected that his marriage to herself was a complete scam, everything was just to defraud her own money, and defrauding money was more important than reputation, marriage, and family affection. But he only made the beginning, but he couldn't guess his ending, and it was not up to him to decide how to be exposed. She is not a person who is greedy for pleasure, she is not interested in luxuries, she has almost no vanity, and as long as she has basic material guarantees in life, she will not use that money. If Xie Han continued to borrow money to support their family of five and let Yuan Qiuhua bear the debts of the husband and wife, then she would have to do something that was not good for her mother-in-law's help, even if she didn't use the money, she would write an IOU to Xiao Lizi, so that Xie Han would also bear the debts of the husband and wife.

No matter how poor the hard days are, they can endure it, Yuan Qiuhua can also endure it, and they make do with it every day, but while enduring it, she will start to improve the living conditions. Every night, after she cooks and washes and settles her two children to bed, it is often past ten o'clock before she can sit at her desk, turn on her computer, write novels for publishing houses, write essays for periodicals, and write current review columns for newspaper supplements. It is not easy for literati to earn a few dollars, as soon as they write, they reach two or three o'clock, they use their brains and physical exertion, they work hard to stay up late, they don't endure hardships, they don't need to work, they can't earn manuscript fees, and they can't make a living if they don't earn money.

She stayed up late at night, working hard for her livelihood, and during the day, she had to get up early as usual, run for food and clothing, cook and feed pigs, chop wood and herd cattle, and do farm work like other peasant women. If you don't farm, you won't have food to eat, and you won't have any money left over to buy grain to eat, and you'll be in debt, short of money, overstretched, lack of food and clothing, and lack of daily necessities. Women and women are different, hard-working, hard work is gained, hard work is meritorious, thrifty food and clothing, festival is beneficial, shrinkage is saving, there may be a way out, like the palace magpie loves to chat, like Xie Jiayan is good at playing mahjong, sitting on the bench feet, sitting on the empty mountain, there is definitely no hope. Regardless of the child, evading the responsibility of the mother and resuming the single life of the past, she can't do it, although there is enough money to ensure the basic life of the mother and son in the future, but now giving up the unbearable marriage, the harm to the children, especially the harm to the orphan girl Xie Bitao, to say that there is no at all, it is self-deception.

Xie Han has nothing, he is a poor boy, he is not active in work, and he is even more passive in farm work, although he is not lazy to eat, but he often has to get by, he has no plan for the future, he has no arrangement for the day, he steps on the watermelon skin, and slips away. The money he earns from work has never been handed over to Yuan Qiuhua for overall management, from the day Yuan Qiuhua discussed with him to separate the family with his mother-in-law, not even the household was given, not only the living expenses of his wife and children were not given, but his own living expenses were not given, and the daily expenses of the small family, including clothing and food, water and electricity bills, and the favor of the Yuan family, were all pushed to his wife.

Yuan Qiuhua said: What is the difference between you doing this and a divorced bachelor?

Xie Han said: If you are divorced, you will not have the opportunity to be angry with my mother, my sister, or me!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Like each other, divorced, your mother, your sister, you don't have a chance to be angry with me! If you want to drive me away, you want a divorce, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau immediately to go through the formalities, you don't have to quarrel with me, lose your people, and lose my face.

Xie Han said: If you don't want to leave, just talk good and treat them well.

Yuan Qiuhua said: I can't object to you raising them, and I want to raise them with you, just treat them well?

Xie Han said: Your opposition is invalid, except for offending people, you can't get any benefits, and now they don't even give you a good face and good words, and they deliberately anger you, no one is pitiful!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Benefits, I'm not rare, give gas, I don't mind, I don't look for them to eat and drink, money, salary, use to see the face?

Xie Han said: You don't ask them for it, but they ask for me, I can't help it!

Yuan Qiuhua said: You raise them, I raise the family, I raise the children, what is the difference between you and those who don't have a husband?

Xie Han said, "You live in my house and plant my field."

Yuan Qiuhua said: I live in your house, I have to pay rent? I plant your field, I have to pay rent? I don't give you rent, your living expenses, you don't give me, the two are offset, right?

Xie Han said: "If they say so, I will do it."

Yuan Qiuhua said: Come, reward you with a piece of candy, what an obedient and well-behaved child! If they don't help, why should I rescue them? They don't give favors, what should I repay? They don't do good, why should I be patient? I'm annoyed, I'm in a hurry, if I get serious, I'll do what the lawyer on the Internet tells me, except for supporting my mother-in-law, no one can take any responsibility, and the life or death of the family surnamed Shu has nothing to do with me at all.

Xie Han said: Implicate me, shrew killer--- crying, making trouble and hanging yourself, you are not afraid, but I am afraid of carrying notoriety!

Yuan Qiuhua said: There is more than one innocent person to die, and if you die well, you can change the provisions of the law as soon as you die? This is to defend rights according to law and do things according to the rules, and it is useless for my mother-in-law to seek death and life, even if there is a mistake, an accident, and she really dies, as long as I am not killed by my own hands, I do not have to bear any legal responsibility, and at most I will compensate for the funeral expenses out of a humanitarian standpoint.

Xie Han said: The law is your personal bodyguard, protecting you 24 hours a day? You still have to boast! They are jealous that you have read too many books, that you are well-informed and intelligent, that you understand computers, that your communication channels are all over the world, that you are shrewd and mellow, that you can see any problems at a glance, and that they hit the nail on the head when they speak, and that they will make you despise everything they do, and that they will make you ridicule you for everything they think in their hearts, and of course they will attack and suppress you, and isolate and ostracize you.

Yuan Qiuhua said: No one can suppress a person who is really powerful. The poor man, as soon as he is sympathized, shows his hateful feet, bullies the weak, bullies the weak and fears the hard. She hates people, people hate her, she doesn't love people, why do people love her?

Xie Han said: Sensei think about it to the extreme, it's just that there are more monks and less porridge, less pigs and arches in the trough, there are bone dogs in the bowl to bite the dog, and there are fights in the nest.

Yuan Qiuhua said: A thousand-year-old demon, married for 50 years, there are troubles every year, and I have been looking for death for half a century, and she is still alive and well, I have already seen through her.

Xie Han said: In the clear water pond, there are no fish and no shrimp, and there are no fish, so what is the use of the clear water in this pond? The fishermen also know that domestic fish and wild fish are mixed with each other!

Yuan Qiuhua said: What are you pretending to be sick, what are you playing fake death, shouting to force your mother-in-law to death, shouting that you can't live, you can't scare people at all!

Sheahan: It's great that you understand everything, but you don't do anything. Everyone is still worried, you will let them handle it in your life! However, they are born from the same root, so why be in a hurry to fry each other? For the sake of flesh and blood, it is not a last resort, and it is better to value harmony. Nine times out of ten, the family is not in harmony for money, but the brothers do not bully with the neighbors, and the neighbors do not bully with the villagers!

Yuan Qiuhua said: I know what you mean, money is like dung, benevolence and righteousness are worth a thousand gold, rest assured. Everyone also dissuaded me like this, let me endure it for a few years, and when my mother-in-law dies, you and I will get out of it!

Xie Han said: Relax your mind, be patient, grit your teeth, tolerate it for a few more years, and wait for your nephew to grow up.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Generally speaking, it is not reasonable, I have no extravagant hopes, as long as I do not endanger the lives of my mother and son, I will not engage in rights protection actions.