The Year (37)

The wedding was simple and warm. A handful of melon seeds, a handful of peanuts, two fruit candies, and a bowl of coarse tea. Fun for the same guests.

In this era, except for a few big cities, where three turns and one sound of thirty-six legs arose at the beginning, other places are really simple. Marriage costs almost nothing. Clothes just need to be clean. There is nothing to entertain, and no one will feel shabby if you give a guest a bowl of water. We don't compare, we don't compare. Envy is there, but it's not envy.

Sometimes don't look at the decency of the clothes, maybe all the clothes are borrowed. At that time, it was not a shame to go out and borrow clothes. Although there will also be people who like to take advantage of small advantages, they will borrow their clothes and do not plan to return them if they do not wear them for two months. But most people still can't save face.

Lin Yutong heard of an incident in the backer, a young man went out on a blind date and borrowed a pair of liberation shoes from someone else to wear. There are not many people who can wear liberation shoes. So, it's so easy to put it on, so you have to hurry up. In order to wear more borrowed shoes for a while, he does not take them off when he sleeps at night.

His mother said, "Why don't you take off your shoes when you sleep?"

The young man said in a sullen voice: "Look at what you said, these shoes will have to be returned to others tomorrow, and if you don't hurry up and wear them, it will be too late." ”

When Lin Yutong heard about it, he thought it was funny and sad.

The wedding starts from start to finish, and it is less than an hour. When I got back to the house, I started to see guests coming one after another. Porcelain basins, porcelain jars, and kettles, all of which belong to large pieces. The company commander, the instructor, and the regiment commander and political commissar called for people to send them, and these are the things. In addition, Lian Li gave me a frame, just to put the marriage certificate and wedding photo in. Others, everything is given, a pair of socks, a pair of gloves, two feet of cloth, all of which belong to people close to each other. If you are a little further away, you will send some homespun cloth, or a few eggs, and a bowl of cornmeal.

Lin Yutong had placed peanuts and melon seeds on the board of the hall in advance, half a bag in a noodle bag, and by the time the people had left in the evening, they had already finished eating. The two plates of candy have long been scraped clean by the children.

A few female intellectuals left late and helped Lin Yutong clean up the outside before leaving.

Originally, a few boys were going to make trouble in the cave room, but I don't know what the fourth master said, so they ran away again with a smile. At this time, the haunted cave room was not like some people in later generations who played excessively. At this time, the most outrageous way is to let the bride bite the candy cube with her teeth, and ask the groom to bite off half of the bride's mouth. And just like that, most people feel embarrassed. Especially the young man who has just become the groom's official does not dare to touch the bride's lips, and only gently bites a little skin outside. This is also considered a pass. There are many more people who are not even embarrassed to do so. Everyone pushes and pushes and pushes the newcomers together. As soon as the two touched their bodies, they blushed with each other, and as soon as their eyes met, they both bowed their heads shyly, and then the lightning separated.

A more normal haunting room is for the bride and groom to sing. If you don't want to sing, it's easy to do. Tell the bridegroom to carry the bride around the new house.

This is much more civilized than the behavior of those who took off the newcomer's clothes at every turn.

This is not only a civilization, but also a kind of etiquette, a kind of respect.

In fact, there are many good things that should be passed on. They are pure, noble, and detached from low tastes.

When people regard vulgarity as fun, and then look back, they will find how precious such a simple quality is.

Lin Yutong feels that she likes this generation, which is hard-working and optimistic. It is this experience that has made them the backbone of the country's rapid development in the future.

We should pay tribute to this generation.

When the guests leave, can the two newlyweds finally enter the cave room?

Old husband and wife, don't worry.

I've been hungry for a day, and my stomach is tight.

As soon as the red wedding dress was taken off, Lin Yutong began to roll up his sleeves. "What do you want to eat?"

The fourth master then took off his new clothes outside, "I'll light the fire for you, just noodles." ”

With eggs and noodles, I fried the meat dumplings, and one person had a large bowl of noodles, and the noodle soup was sucked into the mouth. This is the happiness of the wedding night.

"It's time to make a few dumplings. After eating, the fourth master said so.

Lin Yutong thinks of the wedding in the Qing Dynasty, and always asks the bride 'whether he is born or not', he regrets this.

Lin Yutong attached it to his ear and said softly: "Shengsheng!" After speaking, he looked at him, "Okay?"

The fourth master hugged the person in his arms, "I just said three." ”

Three a lot of pro!

Before the family planning, we can give birth to three, and we are remarkable.

The fourth master smiled, put his hand into the cotton clothes, unbuttoned it very skillfully, and said in her ear, "...... I thought about it, too. ”

The old husband and wife are gone, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Lin Yutong nodded very honestly, "...... Hurry up ......"

A new body brings a different kind of stimulation and warmth. The initial discomfort made her feel that it was good to be younger.

The young body, with the skills of the old driver, and the tacit understanding between each other, it feels great.

Hugging together, listening to the cold wind howling and the sound of the wind rolling snow on the window lattice, I felt very relieved.

“…… Yes...... Are you disappointed?" the fourth master's voice sounded in his ears.

Lin Yutong shook his head in a daze, "Great." ”

Immediately afterwards, I heard a slight sigh from the fourth master, and then a light laugh.

After a long time, when Lin Yutong felt that he must be asleep, he suddenly understood the meaning of the fourth master's question.

He wanted to ask, did he disappoint himself now?

has become a completely ordinary person, living an ordinary life. It's no longer the same as before. You can't be like before, you can hold everything you like in front of you in one sentence.

He was asking, did such an ordinary person disappoint himself?

Lin Yutong's heart ached. Arms wrapped around his waist, "Haven't you heard a word?"

The fourth master said 'um', with a bit of inquiry.

"Follow the official to be a lady, and follow the pig killer to turn the intestines. Lin Yutong laughed softly, "This is called a husband and a wife." ”

The fourth master hugged her to his body, and said softly, this time, it was peaceful with a little smile.

Lin Yutong closed his eyes and thought to himself, this 'husband and wife singing' will probably be criticized. I feel that women rely on men, and there is no self-reliance and self-improvement that modern women should have.

In fact, 'husband sings with the woman' and 'the woman sings with the husband' has nothing to do with it. Men and women were married, had children, and formed a small family. Then the two of them are like swallows nesting in the mud, all the hard work, all the tiredness, are for this small family. In order to live a beautiful life. No matter who it is, they are busy and hard for this family. The reason why home is warm is because we are at home, we will give in because of love, we will tolerate because of love, and we will choose sacrifice and fulfillment because of love.

We all have such a mother in our family. And we may become women who persevere and sacrifice for their children like mothers.

She thought that even if she was like the most ordinary and ordinary couple in the world, she was willing to eat it.

I slept very deeply, and when I opened my eyes, the curtains were about to be opened. A little chilly rushed in through the window. The fire in the stove is burning very strongly, and the fourth master must have gotten up to add firewood.

"I can't get out, it's snowing too much. The fourth master leaned on the kang and pulled the quilt tighter for Lin Yutong.

It turned out that it was still early, and the bright light outside was the light reflected by the snow.

Lin Yutong woke up in an instant, "Is our house okay?"

"Sleep in peace. The fourth master pressed her to get up, "Even the horse shed on Uncle Geng's side is very strong." Everyone knows what winter is like here. When building a house, it was all taken into account. Besides, this house is a new house that hasn't been around for a few years. Sturdy?"

Also!

It is said that Ruixue is a good year, and it seems that it is really a good harvest year. Within two days, the fourth master was in the company and received a call from Uncle Wang in the county seat. On the phone, he whispered something to the fourth master, that is, there was news from the labor reform farm, and Mr. Xu could obtain a certain amount of freedom within a certain range.

Although this freedom has a long list of restrictions that people do not understand, it is the best news that has been heard.

There seems to be a glimmer of light on the horizon.

"That's good news. The fourth master muttered.

If there is progress in Old Man Xu's problem, then Yin Changtian's problem is only a matter of time.

The young man in the company listened to the news around the tape recorder. Sometimes they whisper together, and sometimes they discuss something fiercely with each other.

The fourth master turned out the entire set of textbooks that he brought back from Lin Yuting when he returned to Beijing last time.

Lin Yutong was a little frightened, "...... ...... is this?"

"Didn't you listen to the radio?" the fourth master tapped on the tape recorder, "...... The educational work should also be rectified...... This is a seed of hope that, once planted, takes root and sprouts...... No matter how difficult it is, it can't stop this momentum. Talent Fault ...... In addition, 10 million educated youths have already moved to rural areas...... This is a powerful torrent that no one can resist...... Maybe the day when we go back won't be too far away......"

Yes, many people with vision have smelled a different opportunity from this comeback.

Like a seed buried deep in the soil, it has finally ushered in the watering of the sweet spring, it is accumulating strength, and it will one day break through the soil......

The author has something to say: thank you all for your support. Yesterday I lost control of my emotions, and now that I think about it, I still have a hard time.

At first, I wrote an essay that belonged to the play ticket. I have a stable job, and in the provincial capital, I have a moderate income. The days have passed. It's not too late for me to have a baby. That year, when my child was three or four years old, he came back from kindergarten and said that the teacher asked him what his dream was, and he said that he wanted to build a house, so that everybody could have their own house. I was shocked because in those days, we parents would often argue about buying a house in front of our children. So, he took it to heart. And he said to me, "Mom, do you think I can do it?" I was a little dumbfounded, and I couldn't tell my children that the whole galaxy might be separated from the ideal and the reality. I nodded and said, you can do it, just work hard, you can do it.

The kids asked me what my dream was, and I said I wanted to be a writer.

The child asked me again, "Are you a writer now?" and I said no, my mother is a writer at most.

The child encouraged me and said, "As long as you work hard, you can do it."

Then tell me that he will try his best.

I was stunned, and the child's expression seemed serious.

At that time, I suddenly felt that maybe I should do something for the sake of my children. Maybe I can't succeed, but I want my children to see my perseverance and my efforts.

Even if it doesn't work, I believe that God rewards hard work.

So, for the first time, I wanted to do it seriously. 'That time' was the inspiration I got from the gossip of the old people with my children. The neighborhood where I live used to belong to the military-industrial complex. Many of them were educated youths who were recruited back then. They are now retired and have their little grandchildren at home. Speaking of the events of the year, I am still so enthusiastic. Later, I did this outline. However, in the network environment at that time, I didn't dare to write about such a subject, so I was idle.

Later, I prepared the part of the piercing. At that time, there happened to be a particularly well-written Qing Piercing. Because the writing is so good, I don't dare to take it out.

Later, there were several tosses. I wanted to try new genres, and I came up with the idea of writing fanfiction.

That day, the child rummaged through the cabinet and accidentally turned out several outlines that he had prepared before, and asked me, "Are you done with this?"

I was dumbfounded. After a long time, I said that my mother would write next.

So,The same people added originality to it.。

It's weird, right, because it's already double-opened, and I can't do more.

When I saw the old notes, I realized that the children were much older and better, and my promise had not been fulfilled.

He can read a lot of words and use a dictionary. I'll also look through the comment section.

For a while, the books I finished were hacked. A string of negative scores, saying anything unpleasant.

The child cried when he saw it, and asked me if my aunt didn't think it was bad to lose two points for you.

I can't tell my kids that there's actually something called sunspots. All I could do was nod and say, yes. yes, it's mom who doesn't work hard enough. It's good to work hard.

Later, the child saw a lot of landmines in the comment area of the article, cried again, and asked me that those aunts didn't like their mother. They blew my mother away with mines.

I couldn't laugh or cry, and it took me a long time to explain before he understood that the mine was just like the little red flower the teacher gave him. It's a reward, it's a recognition.

Last time, because someone said that it was plagiarism, the child saw it and asked me, how can my mother do this?

I couldn't help it, so I found an editor. The editor checked it, and it was a new number that had just been registered. It's obvious that it's finding fault. If you say that you will find it again, you will be banned.

I was relieved to see this reply.

I can tell my child that mom didn't do anything like that.

School is in place, and the child has learned to sing the national anthem. The teacher told him what a slave was.

He had my phone in hand last night to call his dad. Swipe across the page, and that's half of the comment I saw last time.

He cried and told me that my mother was not that kind of person. She is talking nonsense.

I was furious. I told myself to control my emotions, and told myself that even if Dream of Red Mansions was a dream of Red Mansions, there were still many people who criticized it. Say something bad, what's wrong?

Besides, what people said was that they didn't criticize the author.

Just listen to the child, Mom, let's not write. They curse.

I didn't sleep all night. Drop off the child in the morning. I sat alone for a long time, but I still turned on the computer. Then, uninstall Jinjiang's app from your phone.

I don't want my child to watch it anymore.

And I, I have to continue.

Hard work and perseverance, no matter what the reason, cannot be stagnant.

This is what I want to tell my child.