David, who came back to his senses, looked at the little assistant's pitiful appearance, and kissed the little assistant with some pity, "I know you're joking, I'm not angry, I'm not such a cautious person." I silently added another sentence to the sentence just now, and I was careful that I was not human.

Seeing that David was not angry, the little assistant also breathed a sigh of relief, patted the headlights that were beginning to take shape, and said angrily, "Can the matter of going to Burning Man be decided?" There will be no time until the school starts, and by the way, if you agree to go, you will need to take a leave of absence, because the last few days are in September. ”

David nodded, indicating that he understood, and picked up the phone and called the old principal. As a celebrity, a national best-selling author, and the youngest billionaire, it's still very easy to take a leave of absence. The old principal was not a rigid person, and he gave David 10 days of vacation very happily.

It means that David will speak on behalf of the freshmen at the opening ceremony, and the rest will not matter. David also asked for leave for the assistant by the way, so that it was convenient for them to go out together. The call was made in front of the little assistant, so when he learned that David had taken a leave of absence to accompany him to Burning Man, the little assistant happily kissed David on the face, stood up and walked towards the house. "I'll inform the assistant that we need to prepare things now. ”

Looking at the figure of the little assistant jumping away, David felt a little emotion in his heart, it's good to be young! But when he thinks of his age, it seems that he is only 18 years old, and he is also a young man. I thought of my other little girlfriend, Taylor Swift, should I call her too? David took out his mobile phone and sent a text message to little Taylor, "Are you busy?" I'll call you, I miss you. ’

After putting down the phone, I waited for a reply from Taylor Jr. David thought that last night he was joined by assistants large and small to use the special skill Death Entanglement, and the effect was very significant, and he almost emptied David's ammunition depot. Fortunately, buddy is durable and strong enough, otherwise buddy would have been cool by now! Thinking of her little Taylor, she shared her life experience when she was 30 years old, "I learned to block out some outside sounds." ”

She turned off comments on social media so that she wouldn't be positive or negative because of people's comments.

"Being nice to everyone all the time will get you into trouble. ”

There may be people who are good, she said, but if that kindness is taken advantage of by others, it can cause bad regrets. So, be strong and fight back when necessary.

"Fail, try again, fail again, it's normal. ”

Taylor says that especially for people in their 20s, failure is a good thing because everyone is looking for it and trying to figure it out.

"I've learned to stop hating every ounce of fat on my body. ”

She is now trying to accept her body every day.

"I sensed that society was constantly sending a message to women that it was a very bad thing to show aging. ”

Staying young is an impossible "standard," Taylor said. And this strange standard is rarely seen in men.

"When hurting an important person, expressing a sincere apology is not a loss to you. ”

Don't say "I'm sorry, but ......" and don't make excuses for yourself, she proposed.

"When you hastily lock up a person, maybe, I don't know...... To get to know someone!"

Her advice is not to be fooled by a person's first impressions.

"Be aware of childhood traumas and try to repair them. ”

Taylor mentioned that she was not welcome at school and was often teased by her classmates. However, in her 20s, she became the girl everyone wanted to be friends with. She almost forgot that there were still people who were as lonely as she once was. Therefore, she needs to face up to her childhood trauma so that she does not re-inflict it on others.

"Mental games are played only in the process of pursuit. ”

In her opinion, in a real intimate relationship or friendship, you should tell the other person your true feelings and thoughts.

"Learn to distinguish between lifelong friendships and phased huddles. ”

"As sad as it sounds, sometimes, your growth takes you out of a friendship. Friendships have been put down, but you will continue to have those memories. ”

"I learned how to argue rationally with the person I love. ”

In her opinion, it is the conversation and communication that are important. Remember to calm your emotions so that you don't lose sight of the good things that two people have built up in an argument. "Winning most fights won't win you a prize, it will bring you a divorce settlement. ”

"I learned to deal with my family's illness. ”

Taylor's mother had cancer. "In the past, I was anxious about the ups and downs of my daily life. Now, I put all my worries, stresses, and wishes into confronting this problem. ”

"I realized that I needed to be able to forgive myself whether I made the wrong choice, trusted the wrong person, or stumbled in front of everyone. ”

Previously, when she felt that she had made a mistake, she would punish herself, such as self-isolation and locking herself in her room. And now, she has learned to let go of her mistakes and forgive herself.

These are just some of them,

From her 30-year-old life advice, you will find that she has been practicing without outside interference.

She also rarely loses control or control of her life. You don't get to see how devastated she looks.

Looking back at Taylor's resume, she did just that.

Taylor was born in Reading, Pennsylvania, and later moved with his family to the small town of Wyomising near Reading.

Because of her debut in singing country songs, people habitually imagine her as a "small town girl" from a mediocre family.

The fact is that Taylor's father was a financial advisor to Merrill Lynch, and three generations up are bank presidents. Her mother was also a foundation worker before she became a housewife, and her grandmother was an opera singer.

This family background allowed Taylor to travel to New York, 176 kilometers from the town, to receive vocal and acting training.

Initially, she was fascinated by opera and dreamed of performing on Broadway. However, "after auditioning in New York for several years without results, I decided to write a song. ”

Ken Ehrlich, the producer of the "Grammys," explains the secret to her fame, and Taylor Swift's songs have earned her the biggest fan base today: young people. Whoever wins the young wins the world. Her habit of writing songs has also become a killer feature to capture young people, she is famous for writing about her own growth experience, and the songs are full of youthful flavor, which is just in line with the hearts of young fans, they can understand the content of the songs, and they will naturally resonate, starting from adolescence, along the way, there will be a group of fans who will grow up with her. Youth is her innate advantage, and she uses this advantage thoroughly.

I didn't even know that my book was on the shelves, but when I first saw it, there was no manuscript in storage, and how many of them were changed for everyone. I hope that book friends will tell each other and help with advertising, your support is my strength!

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