Xiao Lin likes to play cards, and likes to buy automatic mahjong machines, provide free refreshments, and ask people to go.

In today's fierce competition and stressful life, all those who work hard are busy with their families, and those who just want to pass the time at the poker table are lazy, after all, limited. When he encountered three missing one, Xiao Lin invited Xie Han to make up the number, and when he saved the field more times, he was a fixed card partner.

Xie Han went to the hair salon to change his hair from a three-point head to a board size, and the short stubble could not cover the green scalp, and at first glance it seemed that he was a labor prisoner who had not been released for a long time. People are short in body, short in hands, short in legs, short in hair, narrow in face, short in neck, more and more thin and thin, with pointed mouth and pointed ears, small head, small face and small body, more like a monkey. He is short, originally a physical defect, a second-class cripple, appearance, posture, and monkey-like, because Sun Wukong was Bi Ma Wen, the villagers borrowed homophony, and gave him the vulgar nickname "Xie Shun", or "Plague Man". It sounds like a joke, nothing to do with discrimination and contempt, but the joke also contains three points of truth, putting aside the real name Xie Han and connecting the homophony, it is "avoiding the plague", and then expanding it, it is the common phrase "avoiding it like a plague god". The reason why people make fun of him is that he listens to his words and looks at his deeds, he is lazy and stupid, his family is poor and there are many brothers, his father is cowardly and his mother is vicious, I am afraid that he will not be able to marry a wife, and he will be beaten as a bachelor and become an old man. On closer inspection, the real meaning is that "women avoid it like a plague god".

When Yuan Qiuhua married Xie Han, people were not only surprised and curious, but also looking for flaws, and they all thought that Xie Han had grasped Yuan Qiuhua's handle. I didn't find the flaw, but I found that Yuan Qiuhua was not like a woman, he was a man in a woman's skin, and he lived like a man. Later, when Yuan Qiuhua's background and status were discovered, people recognized that she was still a hero among men, not only rich, but also powerful, not only good business, but also fine literature and art, not only made money for herself, but also made money for both collaborators and employees. Of course, she has conditions and standards, and ordinary people do not enter the eyes of the law, once it is enabled, there is no doubt about employing people, making the best use of their talents, and making a fortune together.

Some people ran into a wall in front of Yuan Qiuhua, and they were lucky enough to find Xie Han to open the back door, invite him to eat, drink and have fun, invite him to play cards and fish, and even promised to give away honorary shares, and the surplus will sit and receive dividends, and the loss will be implicated. Xie Han is greedy and cheap, and often recommends, but Yuan Qiuhua often politely declines, and doubles to repay Xie Han's personal debts, that is to say, Xie Han eats, drinks and has fun, and in the end, Yuan Qiuhua pays the bill. But no matter who pays Xie Han, he just cares about having fun, if someone treats him, he goes to eat and drink, and if someone invites him, he goes to play cards, anyway, with Yuan Qiuhua at the bottom, he has no worries. Due to the limitations of quality, character, financial resources and grade, he can't get involved in high-end clubs, nor can he rank among the top entertainment clubs, and the people he makes friends with are some low-level and ninth-rate characters. He also went to Qingyuan to engage in pyramid schemes, and he also used to lure and bite the hook and mortgage real estate, and every time Yuan Qiuhua had to find someone to dredge and pay for redemption. Such as illegal fundraising, gathering crowds to gamble, fighting with girls, and when the crime was serious, he was also detained, eaten in prison, and carried kiln bricks. When he was released from the detention center, he couldn't be honest for a few months, and the dog couldn't change his eating, and he was still swaggering, still eating and cheating.

People came prepared, surrounded him, and targeted. Coming and going, getting to know people for a long time, slowly, knowing his true face, understanding his true experience, from enthusiasm to coldness, from familiarity to estrangement, but the greed for money, let people rush forward and follow, there are people who quit because of disappointment, there are hopeful fillers, he has never lacked friends to eat, drink and have fun, and has never cut off friends who play cards and gamble.

There are people who ask for money and deliberately lose money, Xie Han pretended not to know and accepted it with a smile. In the same way, when he asks for help, he will also pretend that his skills are not as good as others, and deliberately lose money, and people will laugh and accept it. There are many more people who ask for him than he asks, and he not only can afford to lose, but he also gives generously.

As soon as they met, Xiao Lin wore a Chinese coat with rose red brocade inlaid with silver thread wrapped in plum blossoms, a silver-white wool pullover inside, and a gold necklace around her neck, reflecting the lipstick-coated lips more and more vivid, lined with tattooed crescent eyebrows, black eyeliner, and long false eyelashes, the more dazzling they were, the more foreign they were, fashionable enough, showing the "teasing" taste of the little woman, and the "merry" atmosphere of the accustomed. She wears a lotus-colored tweed skirt, dark gray wool pants, and pink thick-soled high-top boots.

She is slender, with full breasts, a round face and bent eyebrows supporting a smile, and a beautiful smile greets her, happy and happy, and said with a smile: You have a beautiful hairstyle, you are very energetic!

The literati and scholars could not endure the vulgarity, but the ordinary people were happy at first sight, happy like a happy Buddha, and laughed like a blooming flower. Xie Hanmo rubbed his skull, embarrassed, and said with a coquettish smile: The hairstyle that I just cut, I haven't gotten used to it, I'm not used to it, you say it's good-looking, I feel much more chic!

Xie Jiajiao looked back, glanced at it obliquely, and teased: Plague man, great! Hey, his wife has become a chic brother, how did he come back to life with full blood?

Xie Han said: Play cards, you transfuse more blood, my blood is full, and I will naturally be resurrected.

Xiao Lin said: I changed my hairstyle and changed my mood, Brother Han's luck is very smooth today, he must be a pan**, and he will be a grand slam!

Xie Han said: I borrow your auspicious words, and I am the same as Hu! My auspicious star is shining, and the door is clear, and you are also lucky, and the bar is blooming.

Xie Jiajiao said: I'm not greedy, as long as there are three laizi on each plate, start to listen to Hu, don't eat, don't touch, and then Haidilao.

Xiao Lin said: The third sister is not greedy, let's give priority to taking care of it, change the way of playing, don't play Sichuan mahjong, play Guangdong mahjong, okay?

Xie Han said: Just what I want! You three female generals, I am a male general, yin and yang are declining, every time you win, only I lose, strange, too coincidental, I have long suspected that you and you are cooperating with me to bully me.

Xiao Lin said: How is it possible? bad luck, chop your fingers, upset, wrong cards, can only blame you for being half-hearted, not focused. People sit at the card table, travel in space, three urges and four shouts before returning to the light, wait for the flowers to thank you, anxious, anxious to die!

Xie Jiajiao said: That's it, if it weren't for my favor, they wouldn't want to ask you to make do.

Xiao Lin said: Brother Han is refreshed today, what do you want, you must make the peace, win every game, one person will win the round, and one win to the end.

Xie Han said: auspicious, beautifully said, really won, I will share half of you! My half, please eat supper, shark fin, bird's nest, enough!

Xie Jiajiao said: Just talk and don't practice, fake tricks, play lip service, let's go to the table, it's better to act than to be excited, start experimenting!

The player noticed that Xie Han was in an unhappy mood and had a color on his face, so he asked the reason. He poured out his bitterness, complained, and poured out his wife's disrespect to her husband, and complained about his barbaric and claw-dancing brutality, and wantonly exposed his cruel and abusive oppression. The implication is that the reason why he has no chance to get rich is because she suppressed her talent, and blamed her for ruining her luck, not only could not help him, but also dragged him down, making him achieve nothing.

He always talks about his wife when he has nothing to do, this is not, that is not right, the person is not beautiful, the heart is not pure, the housekeeper is not prosperous, the financial management is not developed, only the lion roars in the east of the river, and the yaksha cruises, so that he does not dare to return to his home, so he can only wander outside. He opened his mouth and closed his mouth to keep saying that his wife was not gentle and considerate to her husband, unfilial and obedient to the elderly, disrespectful and friendly to her brothers and sisters, and always used dogs to run rampant in the family, making waves and calculating relatives and friends, causing his six relatives to look down on him, and shame on him to see his neighbors. All in all, it was he who was blind and married the wrong wife, which caused three generations of unrest, and only then did he lose nothing, and it seemed that his family life was as dark as a prison, which made people mistakenly think how unsatisfactory he was, and how he hated his wife.

Winning or losing at the poker table counts, but the words are not necessarily sincere, basically it belongs to having nothing to say, boring to talk about. But there is common sense in life, there is a normal state in marriage, enemies in the past life, and husbands and wives in this life, even if they quarrel fiercely, fight very fiercely, and use their hands very violently, the matter is very big, and the parents are alarmed to come forward as referees, relatives and friends rush to persuade them, and then the two will be reconciled as before, the quarrel will be noisy, the fight will be the fight, and the life can go on. No matter if you shout and cry, yell, or fight, you can't count how many times you have said it, but you still live with you until you get old. At first, seeing the appearance of the head breaking and bleeding, listening to the anger of the gambling curse and swearing, relatives and friends thought that they really wanted their wives to be separated, so they hurriedly exhorted, for fear that the two of them would be angry and do stupid things that would be difficult for everyone to solve. Slowly, I made more trouble, listened more, and persuaded more, only to realize that it was just something that was said in a moment of anger, and it would not really be divorced. Young couples come to playmate, see clearly the end of the comedy of the trouble, ask about the cause of the trouble, and help persuade is simple, nothing more than explaining, admitting mistakes, forgiving, and reconciling. So, slapstick is like acting, persuasion is also like acting, no matter whether relatives and friends persuade or not, and discord is muddy, anyway, the two will not really divorce, and they will find themselves under the stairs, what they want is not justice, but they are just making emotions, losing their temper, venting their complaints, and fighting for face. sighed for a while, broke the casserole and asked to the end, and forgot everything the next day.

Of course, people who don't know Xie Han will deeply sympathize and say: I'm sorry! Blame me for talking too much and arousing your sadness.

Xiao Lin showed a painful look, lowered her eyebrows and whispered, and said softly: I didn't expect it---

In addition to sympathy, they threw him a question: She is like this, why are you still with her?

Xie Han said: Naturally, I want to leave, I have proposed it eight times, if it weren't for the fact that the child couldn't leave his mother, would I be able to endure the humiliation until now?

Xiao Lin blinked her eyes in surprise: Every time I made a noise, scared the child into crying and frightened, it was I who personally came forward to dissuade her, and it took a lot of effort for Brother Han to accept her magnanimously.

Xie Han said: Having said that, that is, I don't want the child to suffer, if it weren't for dragging my children and daughters, I would have beaten her violently and swept her out of the house.

Xiao Lin smiled at Xie Han slyly: A strong woman, you can't change your stubbornness and domineering in all aspects, there are few days when you have nothing to do, and there are many times when you are in dire straits.

Xie Han said: The old lady doesn't hurt, the wife doesn't love, the children don't kiss, I play cards, scatter my heart, I can only feel sorry for myself.

When the card friend persuaded him to make do with it for the sake of the child, he seemed to have to bear the torture of his wife, he was wronged and lonely, he was holding his breath and empty, he was depressed and cold, he didn't live like a man!

There is a tigress at home, a man has a reason, he is qualified, and it is necessary to go outside to find warmth, talking to her is enjoyment, not talking to see each other is also enjoyment, talking to the heart, relatively affectionate, but also enjoyment.

Although marriage without love is immoral, marriage is the grave of love, for the sake of pure and clean love, do not go into the grave of death at the sight of light. Love is selfless dedication, don't put financial pressure, love is a great passion, don't suffer mentally, love is not reciprocated, don't be bound by responsibility, lovers who really love each other, don't need marriage, don't last forever, as long as you have it.

Eating at midnight to replenish dietary energy, Xiao Lin poured wine for him, scooped vegetables and soup, he was moved, his face was red, the two of them frowned, secretly sent Qiubo, and the card friends saw it in their eyes. Xiao Lin remembered that he liked to eat spicy kimchi, his gratitude, his flustered, flirting with each other, selling cuteness and teasing, and his card friends also listened to him.

Every man in the world will make mistakes, Xie Han can be an exception? The teacher is famous, and he said so many bad things about his wife, just to make excuses for making mistakes and whitewash the underground affairs. If a man wants to cheat, his mentality and perspective will change, and he doesn't even understand why he was crazy about marrying that woman in the first place. Perhaps love originates from false illusions, distance produces beauty, hazy brews wonder, and the authorities are the most ecstasy, while marriage may focus on the exchange of interests in reality, related to houses, cars, tickets, involving children, parents, relatives, friends, leaders, colleagues, and even including work prospects, social status, material wealth, living treatment, etc., is a mode of life in which each takes what he needs and gets what he wants.

After struggling to middle age and obtaining abundant material wealth, he has become numb to a stable and peaceful family life, and feels overtasted, especially feeling that the yellow-faced woman is unbearable and unworthy of being a burden, endless nagging, which makes him annoying, endless counting, making him bored, thinking that he used to live tired, now it's time to relax and relax, it's time to be rewarded, and he thinks that life is monotonous, the days are dull, it's time to be colorful, it's time to cook oil. Go out to find excitement, once you have an affair, even if you want to maintain the integrity of the family, but the change in mood has caused emotional abnormalities, not only weak and suspicious, but also sensitive and irritable, and the tone towards his wife is gradually blunt, the attitude is slowly bad, and the relationship is gradually tense. Of course, his wife felt it, so like an angry saint warrior, she inquired and investigated, followed and arrested, used extreme actions, exposed the public, turned his private affairs into public affairs, and forced him to make a choice, "Either I go or you go".

Whether it is a wise divorce, or a stupid concealment, or a relieved see-through, but in a male-centered society, women are still weak, still disadvantaged, destined to be innocent victims, self-dedication and passive sacrifice do not matter, wives and lovers are men's dolls, those who have money use money, those who have power use power, scribes use wisdom, and petty use deception, but the methods of play are different. The advantage of social status allows men's "love everywhere" to win steadily, in the name of love, enjoy more women, experience rich emotional experiences, and pillow mat various physical skills, secretly run in an open way, which is the tacit understanding between adult men. Due to the conventional rules of the game, no matter how women fight, they always lose, even if they die and the net is broken, or they die together, they will inevitably be trampled by many men who are in the same stream. The weak and the weak can't fight for the strong, the disadvantage can't fight for the superior, the affectionate and righteous lose to the heartless, and the ugliness and the evil can be rampant.

When a man engages in an affair, he can always find his wife's fault, yes and there must be a fault, and it doesn't work, the husband's betrayal is always the wife's fault, not a mistake is also a mistake, and he has to carry it if he hasn't done it, and then he is scolded and angry, lonely and miserable, and guards the cold kiln alone, and then endures the humiliation and burden, runs the family business, swallows his anger, waits for the prodigal son to play with money, and plays ruined and ruined, and then turns back to the shore, goes home to care for the elderly, and finally the husband and wife accompany Sun Le. Isn't it all like this in TV dramas? Other people's wives can do it, Xie Han is confident that his wife can do it too, and she will only do better, just like the advertisement, there is no best, only better, a good husband and wife, husband and wife are good couples, and lovers are tonic!