There is a slogan in the school, knowledge changes destiny, science arms the mind.

The teacher said that the quality of civilization cannot be pretended, and the academic level cannot be deceived, because gold will eventually shine, and it is difficult to fill the number for a long time, and the sun will sow heat, and the dark clouds will block the sun temporarily.

The magazine wrote that the economic foundation determines the construction of the upper level, and women are not only mentally independent, but also economically independent, and only when they are economically independent, can women change the fate of relying on men to survive, get rid of the confinement of the old-style feudal family, and force them to die without paying for their lives, and drive them crazy and irresponsible.

After graduating from junior high school, Yuan Qiuhua was unable to go to high school due to illness, and there was no other way for her except to get married. This life seems to be a foregone conclusion, the ordinary days of a township woman can be seen at a glance, what to do at the age of twenty, what to do at the age of thirty, what to do at the age of fifty, what to do at the age of seventy, the intention of life is all known, at a glance to see through the true nature of life, all think through, a little otherworldly thoughts, a trace of the idea of getting ahead, there is no one.

Get married and have children, be a conscientious housewife, completely revolve around the family, dedicate the best time of your life to your children and family, but you are trivial day by day, haggard, and old. But everything that housewives do, laundry and cooking, mopping floors and wiping tables, raising chickens and pigs, shopping and housekeeping, raising children, without a word mentioned in history and biographies, all sacrifices and dedications, disappear with the loss of life. What is the meaning of a woman living like this for a lifetime? Even if four generations are in the same house, what is the value of living a life? Even if there are many children and grandchildren, how much self does it embody? Doesn't the earth also turn the same way?

Fortunately, she had a hukou in Wuhan, and after her physical recovery, she entered the No. 4 National Cotton Factory as a turner. While she went to work, she went to night school and got a high Chinese certificate. Unfortunately, a few years later, there was a wave of layoffs, and she became a laid-off worker, and getting married was put on the agenda.

It is precisely because he saw through the true nature of life that Yuan Qiuhua was unwilling to lose himself under passive marriage, and took the initiative to choose to go to the Labor Bureau to learn sewing skills, and then went to Dongguan Yuyuan Shoe Factory to work.

In the city and the countryside, the people and things around her all told her that in today's era when men are generally impetuous and greedy, and it is popular to steal and eat gluttony, the husband who is desperate for women seems to have disappeared like a dinosaur, but Chen Shimei is all over the world, bullying the weak is a common disease in men's society, beating, scolding and abusing women and children is the tradition of the men's world, and there is no justice and humanity at all.

Women choose to divorce, although there are now housework compensation, fault compensation, and spiritual compensation, but youth is priceless! Besides, family life may be clear when it comes to money changes, and when it comes to love changes, it is a confused account. No matter how tilted the law is, it can't make up for the pain in a woman's heart. When people reach middle age, women choose to forbear, give up their profession to study housekeeping, it's late, give up self-attack on love, be stupid, give up work to be a housewife, and depression comes.

The girl is eighteen and one flowers, the scenery is no longer when the youth is gone, but it is just bright for a while, bright for a season, clinging to the climbing and living passively, the more she lives, the more she is depressed, the more she is outdated and conservative and lives negatively, the longer the more she depreciates, and the housewife is forty reduced to tofu scum. Men are her patron saints, she can't live if she doesn't get care, she is sentimental and at a loss, she lives a very pitiful life, she is slender and sensitive and helpless, and her body is bruised and confused, which often makes her more involuntarily rely on the favor of men, and she will not see the light of day when she is beaten into the cold palace. knows that it is not his fault, but for the sake of his children, he can only swallow his anger, and for the sake of the family, he can only make compromises. Knowing that it is unwise, the heart is unwilling and unwilling, but real life is more indisobedient than the written law, and I have to compromise, only to give in, give up sovereignty, lose myself, and live a particularly helpless, humiliated, and sad life.

And because he saw through the helplessness and helplessness of women in marriage, Yuan Qiuhua decided to take a different path from most women, instead of struggling to find a man who is negative to his wife and irresponsible for his family, and requires his wife to be loyal to her husband and responsible for her family, it is better to be responsible for herself as soon as possible. That is, to work hard to learn knowledge, work hard to learn skills, and polish yourself into a person who can rely on his own strength and can live like a man, so that he will have a future and stability in the future. She hopes that her skills will be more popular as she gets older, like a doctor, rather than like a young man, the older she gets, the more she fails, first of all, the talent in society, and then the woman in the family.

While working, she took adult self-study exams, obtained a college diploma, participated in computer training, and obtained a technician certificate. Gradually, the work has also changed from general workers to technicians, and then to white-collar workers, and the monthly salary has also increased from 300 to 600, and then to 2,000.

During this period, Yuan Qiuhua's junior high school classmates got undergraduate diplomas, but the state no longer allocates college graduates. Wang Zi'an was promoted from a grassroots post and has become a middle-level cadre at the stock level.

Zhao Furong complained to Yuan Qiuhua: Why am I so unlucky? The college student said that if he doesn't include distribution, he won't include distribution, this is forcing good people to become prostitutes!

Yuan Qiuhua said: It's really not good, then come out to work. You have a diploma, you can sit in an office, and you can be a white-collar worker.

Zhao Furong said: What's the use of getting a diploma? College students and migrant workers are just that. Look at the prince of other people, as far as his parallel goods are concerned, they are all officials! In this world, it doesn't matter that it is difficult to move an inch. Tell me, let's study hard in the cold window, what's the use?

Yuan Qiuhua said: People are more popular than others, family backgrounds are different, personal abilities are different, you can't compare your family background with him, but you have to fight with him for strength! You should earn a breath, strive to be stronger than him in the future, and prove to yourself that you can still get ahead without relying on your parents.

Zhao Furong said: To be honest, I don't have the strength to do this, how hard and tired I am! I haven't felt tired in a few years of college, but the experience of looking for a job in the past few months has made me weak and tired. Besides, the future is still unknown, whether it can be done or not, not necessarily.

Yuan Qiuhua said: If you want to be easy, then find someone who can give you a good life and get married.

Zhao Furong said: Can you help me refer to it, is Wang Zi'an suitable?

Yuan Qiuhua said: People can live without marriage, but they can't be ruthless. I don't feel for him, but I force myself to act, I can't have obsessive-compulsive disorder, and I am also a masochist, and I may end up schizophrenia.

Zhao Furong said: I don't talk about feelings when I get married, I don't think of myself as a person anymore, I'm not even a person anymore, am I still afraid of a loveless marriage?

Yuan Qiuhua said: If you are so cruel to yourself, I have nothing to say. It's just that fate is in the hands of others, and how can there be wealth and nobility? No one is much more stupid than anyone else! Poverty is not necessarily always poor, and it is better to rely on others in the end.

Zhao Furong said: Beautiful, beautiful, in front of real life, they are all styrofoam, vulnerable. Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son, is just a legend, willing to have a heart, the white head is not separated, just a fairy tale.

Yuan Qiuhua said: If you treat society as a puddle of dirt and filth, you are afraid that your future will really be dyed and deteriorated, and you will be disgusted by yourself.

Zhao Furong said: Can you do it without staining the sludge?

Yuan Qiuhua said: To live, people still have ideals and goals, and as for whether they can do it, as long as they do their best, they have a clear conscience.

Zhao Furong said: My heart has been decided, it is nothing more than a gamble, half of the winner and half of the loss.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Then I won't waste my tongue, I wish you only win and not lose, and make a lot of money!

Zhao Furong said: What words? Say something nice! You and I do business?

Yuan Qiuhua said: What? It was originally a transaction. Oh, I wish you a happy love!Ha, I wish you a happy marriage!Hee, congratulations on the early birth of a precious child!