Yuan Qiuhua mixed in the antique circle, participated in exchange forums, mixed in the literary circle, participated in cultural salons, mixed in the jewelry circle, participated in the reunion of Kuotai, further entered the club, and business school, and began to get involved in high society.

The club implements a membership system, only accepts intellectualized spiritual aristocrats, and excludes pure hedonistic nouveau riche. The membership procedures are complicated and the membership fee is expensive (minimum 10,000 yuan per month), which is a bit like the high-end clubs nowadays, which are very attractive to people in high society. Its "membership system" operation method and the setting of the threshold for membership not only keep the ordinary people out of the door, but also reject the "local tyrants" who are too impetuous, too snobbish, and too calculating.

"Ideological" and "elitist" are two major characteristics, requiring no special hobbies, but also ideal and moral self-discipline, open-mindedness, spiritual pursuit, redemption feelings, financial support, identity is an important condition for membership. There are not many people, the circle is very small, and at the same time it is small, private and closed, and its membership is not known to outsiders. Gathering large and small themes is nothing more than speculating on the general trend of the market, grasping the direction of policy, the opportunities of economic development, the ups and downs of social demand, and the future business adjustment.

The formulation of national policies will listen to the suggestions of think tanks, will solicit opinions from the elites, and then set up a trial stage in the society, will publicize and explain to the public in the media, and finally promote and implement them. The role of the club is to let members know all the suggestions of the think tank, the opinions of the elite, and the effect of setting up a trial before the media publicizes, and then respond quickly to prevent accidents and stop losses in time.

All matters involving confidentiality, internal information, and archival materials of state institutions have a certain period of time (ranging from 10 to 100 years, most of which are 50 years). However, things are done by people, materials are collected by people, materials are sorted out by people, and archives are managed by people, and people have weaknesses, bad roots, and weaknesses, and it is impossible to demand 100% of people to keep their mouths shut.

People are social animals, afraid of loneliness, afraid of loneliness, even if it is pure knowledge, wisdom, academics, need to delve into it, also need to share, motivate, communicate. So there was socializing, there were parties.

The club has always emphasized personal cultivation, so that people with different thinking, in this kind of face-to-face communication, it is easier to form a "rational atmosphere", and less saber-rattling "only self-correctness", become a "paradise" between big and small people to communicate with each other. The platonic spiritual romance and the beauty and mystery of the ideal make the empty and hesitant intellectual groups, business people, and social elites feel the need to solve spiritual confusion at the same time. Power and wealth make it easier for them to indulge, make moral restraint more nursing, and they are free from secular rules, and they see the darkness and complexity, embezzlement and corruption that ordinary people can't imagine, and they feel that they may not be able to control it better. How cruel the reality is, how difficult and dangerous it is to start a business, they are in the middle of the cracks, of course, they will not confront the country, and compete with society, not only can not operate, but the company cannot survive, if you want to make the legitimate business bigger, you can foul the law but not break the law, you can compromise and not rebel. This need spreads like a contagious disease, like a lost person, who wants the future direction, someone provides a plan, looks forward to risky action, receives spiritual guidance, agrees to huddle together for warmth, joins forces, seeks future victory, and begins to prepare for construction. Under the surface of eating, drinking, and enjoying the friendship of sports peers, the club conceals the role of "liaison stations" and "news distribution centers" of various factions, regiments, and circles, and these people call it "the holy place of the heart". They absorb advanced technological enlightenment, capture Reuters from the top, and spy on the weather vane at the top.

Yuan Qiuhua is young, in the eyes of the elegant uncle and the wise old man, she is a yellow-haired little girl, but she is not an ignorant girl, her intelligence is in her eyes. They were very kind to her, and patiently enlightened, "You are a little girl, the most important thing is to abide by the rules, don't make trouble for others, in short, be polite to others." Yuan Qiuhua holds the attitude of being a bystander and coming to learn, honest and honest, understand if you understand, yes, if you don't understand, if you don't understand, ask questions, if you don't, if you don't, you can't, if you don't, you explain. She is open-minded, childish, lively and unrestrained, she is not servile in front of His Holiness, she is hearty, witty and humorous, she is not domineering in front of the, she does not worship them, she is just curious, she is not interested in money, she is especially interested in people's hearts, and she always breaks the casserole and asks the end.

In the midst of such great turmoil and social change, the elite group in the middle class, as long as you carefully inquire about it, you will find that everyone has different reasons and motivations, and they are powerless, and they have been on the road for at least 20 years, and they have not fallen down, which is really something to be proud of. Success does not happen in a vacuum, it has a variety of social backgrounds and factors of individual choice. She listened carefully to their language expressions, hiding the loopholes in her true thoughts, identifying which ones were detours and which would hit a wall, and doing exercises and dress rehearsals for her future life. They admonished impatiently, "Girls, don't be reckless, be obedient and obedient!"

After dinner, I talked about the feelings of marriage, and I talked about it.

When I was a child, I was raised by my parents, and I was used to being served and pampered, and I needed my partner to take care of me in the way of my parents. Both men and women, imagine in their hearts that there is such a person, who not only has the mind to make money, but also understands my needs, provides me with the conditions I want, and at the same time has great patience, empathizes with me, and it is best to die for me, silently support me, take care of me selflessly, and take care of my whole family, so as to make everything better. In fact, they are accustomed to being served and connived, but they don't know how to serve and connive, in other words, they only know how to ask for love, they don't know how to give love, they only know how to be loved, they don't know how to love, the conflict intensifies, and then cheating, and the divorce rate is naturally high.

Men see cheating, they just play on the spot, and they just want to experience more, or feel different from usual. In fact, the essence of a man is to be spending, not to spend before marriage, but after marriage, there is no heart not to spend, the difference is only that he does not let his wife know, and his wife does not pretend to be confused. The third party can satisfy the man's dream of being an emperor, asking her not to find trouble, not toss, not to be dangerous, and it is best that I don't need to pay any price. Love is a false proposition, I don't believe it for a long time, if it can be solved with money, don't talk about love, talk about feelings, the most troublesome, the most miserable. Hearing about the past, ten memories and nine sorrows, hearing about love, ten people and nine injuries, just want to be a demon king of the mixed world. In the rich circle, extramarital affairs are just fun, and it is normal to change them in a few years.

Look at the woman smoking a cigar over there. She made a lover to a boss in Hong Kong, asked him to start a company for her, and took his orders to her company. She knew that a man would not divorce and marry her, so she used the resources in his hands to run the company well and develop new customers. By the time the man gets tired of her, she can already stand on her own and earn the money she wants. From the very beginning, it was a deal between them, he nurtured her to grow, she didn't want a name, she wanted money and a way to make money. For a man, he gets what he wants, and he is not afraid of being entangled by her, nor is he afraid of being discovered by his wife, even if he is discovered, he can get together and disperse. Young and beautiful is capital, there must be gains and losses, other people's comments are not important, the most important thing is that she has grown up, become smarter, life has become wonderful, and life will be different from now on.

Men's world, men's world, women, it's so cool under the big tree, and the flowers on the brocade are the most noble. In the past, men had three wives and four concubines, but now there are night light areas in foreign countries, so why can't they accept it? Hey, what are you telling you all this for? People live in the world by two things, inner courage and wisdom, and external friendship and popularity. First-class people have the ability and no temper, second-class people have the ability and have a temper, and third-class people have no ability and have a big temper.

You are a good girl, I can see this, your eyes are clean and clear, and you are a little girl who is a little silly with a simple mind. You don't have so many complicated hypocrisies and calculations, and you live in two different worlds with her. Seeing the world with a pure heart and living life with a joyful heart, the simpler the requirements, the richer the heart. Personality charm, good literacy, talent dignity, noble conduct, will be able to attract high-quality men, the other party knows your personality, knows that you are different from other women, appreciate a higher point, and will be more desperate for you. The husband and wife are evenly matched, the talent is matched, the wife fully supports, the backyard is peaceful, the husband fights for his career wholeheartedly, and the future is bright.

Marriage is about the right match, and husband and wife are both career partners and soul mates. She only has a junior high school education, whether it is knowledge, ideological connotation, or family upbringing, the quality of conduct is not enough, and it is impossible to marry into a wealthy family. In a man's heart, she is still a scumbag! It's just that her body is cleaner than that kind of woman! If she marries a wife and is virtuous, a serious person will not marry her. The ladder to climb up is completely closed, the passage for sliding down has been opened, and the people chasing her are scumbags, wolves and dogs, black and black, and there is no good end. If you have money and no background, you will have disaster. The society is too realistic, there is no money, and the people closest to you will look down on it. As long as you don't have money, the club will knock you out immediately. How can she be qualified to talk about dreams, ideals, youth, and career pursuits? When she goes in and out of the club, she just wants to find another backer, a protective umbrella, and the white-haired old man also hooks up! Why don't you climb to a high place? If you are stepped on, you must climb up! If you climb higher, others will step on it, and you must jump high enough!

Yuan Qiuhua has a solid basic skills, writes a large number of interview notes, consults a large number of original materials, and then cross-verifies and finds many contradictions. It is impossible for them to think of certain era signs, and it is impossible for them not to encounter them, either they are secretive, or they want to stop talking, or they selectively forget and block them from the beginning. The most powerful people are hidden behind the scenes. The high staff behind this, the forces behind it, are unknown, elusive, powerful, and unpredictable. The person who silently formulates the rules of this game behind the scenes, and at the same time silently controls the game world. They have been preparing with both hands, always carrying a parachute on their backs, preparing a lifeboat, and if they do, they will be admired by thousands of people, and if they don't, they will stop the loss at any time. The ubiquitous insecurity, no matter how calm the expression is, is entangled and contradictory inside, and the speech is vague and ambiguous, as if there is schizophrenia.

There are some truths, the deeper you explore, the more confusing you become. She was confused, and they comforted, "You are not a court, and I can't convict others, let alone close the coffin, and there will be people who will discuss these issues again, and there will be people who disagree with you and me." You try your best to be objective and realistic about the development of historical facts, but I cannot think that you must be the most absolute fact. ”