As the saying goes, a daughter who marries out spills water. Now that you are married, you have to bear the consequences of getting married, you can't still treat yourself as a child, and you can't ask your parents for food, clothing, and money; since you have already started a family, you have to bear the responsibility of building a family, and you have to solve your own affairs, so you can't stretch out your hand to ask your parents for money again, but you should give gifts every New Year's holidays, honor the elderly every month, or give alimony; and if you have opened an account independently, you must be responsible for your own life, and you can live at any level as much as you can and how much money you earn.

Thirty and standing, refers to meritorious service, rejuvenating the family and establishing morality. Xiao Lin and his wife didn't pay attention to this matter at all, they were in their early thirties, and they still tried every possible way to evade responsibility. Xiao Lin herself is flawed, her words and deeds are inappropriate, and she caused trouble at her mother-in-law's house, not to find a way to resolve the trouble and eliminate misunderstandings, but to slap her ass and leave, and escape back to her parents' house for refuge.

Although Xie Xiong is a husband, he is not a down-to-earth, hard-working, hard-working and motivated man, who originally made a living by fighting on the streets, idle, and did not do his job, and was already tired of the Xie family's hard life, coveting the Zhang family's small rich family background, and just wanted to take the opportunity of marriage to hitchhike, improve the living conditions, and change his fate, like the children of the Zhang family, have a good job and a good future. That is to say, he had no intention of being a farmer, like his father's generation, he relied on farming and planting vegetables, and worked hard to barely support his family, and he did not want to stay in Xie Hejia for a lifetime.

The couple was attacked, ostracized, and humiliated by the public, and felt that they couldn't live in Xie Hejia, so they dragged their family back to the city. In order to save expenses and reduce the cost of living, he chose to be old, gnaw at the old, eat, drink and live in Zhang's house, play the autumn breeze, mix his days, and step on watermelon peels - where he slides.

Xiao Lin has long been raised by the old man to lose her ability to feed herself, not only depends on her parents for food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also spends a lot of money on dressing, shopping only buys expensive ones, brand-name bags, high-end shoes, fur coats, catches up with fashion, strives to keep up with Miss Guan, and gambles fiercely on par with noble ladies. She used these luxury items to prop up the façade, create the image of a rich person, and show the life of a successful person, thinking that she could step into the social circle of the upper class society with one foot. Although the formal occasions of the official family, such as the New Year's party, press conference, opening ceremony, tea and fruit symposium, and the formal occasions of the business, such as the product launch conference, the unveiling ceremony, the song and dance publicity, and the cocktail party, with her identity and status, there is absolutely no chance to show her face on the stage, but informal occasions, such as Shouyan, wedding banquet, housewarming wine, and 100-day wine, as long as you are willing to pay the red envelope with the gift, the host family has no reason to refuse it.

However, noble taste, aesthetic taste, it is not enough to rely on a gorgeous dress, but more importantly, the inner quality, humanistic cultivation, that is, the ancients so-called poetry and calligraphy in the belly, true celebrities and scholars from the grace, that is, personal temperament, character charm. Like Liu Xiaoqing's version of Wu Zetian, the costume style is not luxurious, but it still looks domineering, not angry but mighty, and he has the demeanor of a king. Since then, various versions of the Emperor Wu, the costumes have become more and more gorgeous, and the decorations have become more and more luxurious, but the empress is either charming and charming, hooking up and currying favor like a concubine, or she has not entered the soft flowers and weak willows, and she relies on the protection and rescue of men like mentally retarded.

If there is no high-end car to pick you up, if you walk, the slender and slender high heels will become a torture tool, and if you squeeze the bus, the floor-length skirt will become a mopping cloth. If you go out of a high-end restaurant, the short clothes with a tight waist, the combination of overly bright colors, the superfluous decorations, the cheap jewelry, the makeup that is too thick, and the complicated hairstyle, even the waiting students can see at a glance, which is a sign of the inferior poor. The text has no inner quality, it is graffiti in the end, and the woman has no internal show, and it is always imitation. Because most of the upper-class celebrities are subtle and introverted, low-key, light but natural, simple but comfortable, graceful and luxurious, elegant temperament, generous words and deeds, and decent manners, they don't have to rely on clothes to prove themselves, and they will never wear formal dresses on informal occasions, and they disdain to show their charming bodies with bare chests and backs, and make the primary mistake of welcoming the vulgar tastes of the vulgar. The style they pursue is a half-concealed and half-concealed hazy beauty, and a sense of mystery that they want to reveal and hide.

Xiao Lin's painstaking outfit and equipment have become their laughing stock, and the trick of showing flesh is only worthy of going to the place of fireworks and willow lane, the place where the door is hooked, and the door is laughing, and the business will definitely be prosperous. Or joking with each other, she is quite good, with a big chest and a thin waist and long legs, a delicate body and a weak and supple body, often accidentally falling, often need a man to pull a hand, slowly support before slowly getting up, look at the chest and waist to peep at the thighs, if you can't hold it, will it become her benefactor?

The so-called support of nobles, even if they can meet nobles, if they do not have the potential of quasi-nobles and only lack the strength of opportunities, nobles will not reach out, who is willing to put their white fat and clean hands into the smelly garbage can, rummaging through the leftovers?

Dog meat is not allowed to sit at the table, and housewives who used to be based on the friendship of classmates, relatives with the same surname, and fellow villagers, and her friendly dealings, also drifted away. But Xiao Lin saw the luxury of high society, and became more and more dissatisfied with her own living conditions, and became more and more unwilling to bow to the wind. The market is bearish, and it stands to reason that the standard should be lowered, but the value is obviously shrinking, and it is necessary to increase the appetite and make it clear that it will not live.

The child is taken care of by her mother, she is still idle at home, it is not that she can't find a job, she is incapable, comfortable and stable good job, she can't take the turn, it is a love of vanity, dirty and tiring bad work, she does not do it, she takes the initiative to give up the original unit and the street office arranged, laid-off workers re-employment opportunities, unwilling to be a cleaner, is to enjoy, has no intention of going to work in other factories.

Except for Xie Xiong's odd job at a construction site, the family has no other source of livelihood. Xiao Lin got into trouble and got into trouble, only knowing that she was running around like a headless fly, and breaking her wings was basically useless.

In the face of difficulties, there is no way out except to cry and cry, complain and ask for help. The elders who are kind and generous, the rewards that come out of thin air again and again, make her mistake the mercy of the elders as the reward of her filial piety and virtue, and take it for granted that she can enjoy it with peace of mind, but the free funding of the good-natured old man has inadvertently cultivated a lazy daughter and lazy son-in-law, and has atrophied the will to work hard to reduce economic pressure, and she is only willing to get by lazily and continue to wait for the gift of the elders.

Of course, when you get the preference alone, you will kneel and bow and thank you, be grateful, and pat the beautiful words of gratitude like the water of the waves, endlessly, and welcome the friendly words of virtue, such as the back waves pushing the front waves, endlessly. The elders were touched and cared for her, always wanting to do something to improve her situation. At the same time, he was also trapped, and the old man, who had no worries about himself, had to make persistent efforts to earn money for her, solve difficulties on her behalf, and help her take care of the child. But the more she helps, the more dependent she becomes, the more she does it, the more incompetent she becomes, and the more subsidies she gets, the more greedy she becomes, forming a strange circle from which she cannot be extricated. In this way, the hardships and hardships of life were thoroughly savored, and even the sorrows of other sons and daughters-in-law were ignored.

The elders are preferred, too active in carrying out good deeds, too selfless dedication, and have no reservations about family property rights, leaving room for self-expansion for ambitious and private voyeurs. Xiao Lin used a hundred obedience, borrowing the favor and protection of the old man, cutting tofu with a knife and playing with two sides and three knives, or pretending to be weak and showing pity for pity. Xiao Lin received the lightness of the gift, the righteousness of the management, and the evasion and retreat of her brother and sister-in-law, so she decided that she was the only proud daughter of the family who was qualified to override and trample on all the rules of survival.

I don't know if I'm a guest under the eaves, I don't know how to keep my duty, but I have my teeth and claws dancing in everything, and I am flying all over the yard like a wasp, and I am half a home for my parents. Crying and crying at every turn, she seems to be weak and helpless, but in fact she has no fear, because as long as she cries like a bullied three-year-old child, her parents will stand up for her and indiscriminately reprimand her brother and sister-in-law, my sister is already pitiful enough, and you still have to fall into the well? My sister is unlucky enough, and you still want to cause trouble? As long as she finds enough stubble and has the ability to splash feces on her brother and sister-in-law.

Regardless of fairness and justice, private property and freedom, my brother and sister-in-law are not grateful to Xiao Lin, they are not satisfied, even if they hate her, they will not blame it in person, even if it is just a character shortcoming, no matter how small the fault is, they will not say it directly to their faces, this is the least family education. But it doesn't mean that not saying it behind your back, and saying it behind your back, is to avoid letting the parties get caught. Whether it's hypocrisy, it's insidious, in secular life it's always simple, it's complicated, it's tiring to work, it's even more tiring, sometimes it's the credit of doing ten things, but it can't offset the fault of one more mouth, and even the words in my heart don't dare to say, but my face changes sharply, commonly known as "black face smack, serving tea to send guests", or the eyes show a little surprise, commonly known as "rolling your eyes, wanting to rebel", which is also jealous.

When Yuan Chunhua and her husband quarreled, she said: Does your family marry a daughter, or do you recruit a son-in-law? What is the difference between eating and living with a grandson like this and recruiting a man to come to the door?

Zhang Haichao said: Those who recruit Lang to come to the door will be sent to the end of the year, break the pot and beat the flag, and go to the grave to sweep the grave. These, we should do, he wow, wants to replace us, there is no precedent for this. Family property is to be fought for, and filial piety will not be followed.

Yuan Chunhua said: Use your brains, make small moves, pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger.

Zhang Haichao said: Parents are here, Mo Duoyan. When the canteen cooks, no matter whether the bowl is deep or the plate is large, the chef has a number of spoons in his hand.

Yuan Chunhua said: The house foundation is a dowry, I am not satisfied, and I have to occupy the house, my heart is too greedy!

Zhang Haichao said: Parents raise tigers for trouble, luring wolves into the house, in front of our parents, we are Wu Song, and we can't do it!

Yuan Chunhua said: It depends on the owner to beat the dog, let alone the sister. She's pitiful, she's unlucky, and it's not caused by us, so she takes it upon herself. Why do we want to be bodhisattvas? When we suffer, who will save us?

Zhang Haichao said: Parents want to be saviors, and it is difficult for a clean official to judge family affairs, and the difficulty lies in the fact that the situation is greater than the reason, and the love is greater than the law.

Xie Jiani also muttered to Yuan Chunhua in private: If she doesn't live here, she won't bake the fire all day, there are not many children, and this kind of thing won't happen. Her child is fine, but she will make your child suffer! Don't mention the medical expenses, don't mention the compensation, and pretend that there is no such thing, not even a word of apology, and let people live!

Yuan Chunhua said: If you don't live well, then rely on life, swallow your anger, and make do with it.

Xie Jiani said: I have cubs, and if you have cubs, my aunt and grandmother will die! In the future, after a hundred years, the old man will act according to the old rules of thousands of years, and he will not tolerate mercy.

Yuan Chunhua said: Do I really have to give birth to cubs?

Xie Jiani said: Housewives are family-oriented, mothers are valued by children, don't be stupid. My mother was made by the palace magpie to make a nephew inherit his uncle because she didn't have cubs, and after the house occupied the land, she swept my mother and daughter out of the house!

Yuan Chunhua said: Oh, it turns out that since you were a child, your heart has been injured internally, no wonder you have to spend 30,000 yuan to give birth to triplets with the help of IVF medical technology!

Xie Jiani said: Nowadays, science and technology are developed, as long as you are willing to spend money, you can have a boy if you want to, and if you want to have a few twins, you can have a few twins. I still have the phone number of the hospital in the provincial capital, do you want it?

Yuan Chunhua said: I don't have any money on hand.

Xie Jiani said: The money is no problem, I will lend it to you. Wealth can be given up, gas cannot be lost, we must unite and unite with the outside world!

Yuan Chunhua said: The policy is good, the people are hardworking, it is not difficult to make a fortune, there is not much to fight for, and there is enough food and clothing for bones. It doesn't matter if the family property is made, but I can't figure it out, why do my brothers and sisters want to do this?

Xie Jiani said: The pig's head and wolf body and fox tail, my aunt and grandmother love money and lose love, and they do the way of captivity, and they have no sympathy for their mother's family.

Yuan Chunhua said: We are all victims, how can we not unite and not cooperate? If you have a way, tell me to resolutely follow, fight side by side, and never flinch.