Back then, no one in the Xie family told Yuan Qiuhua that his father-in-law could not actually be the master of the house, and what he told Yuan Qiuhua to do on weekdays was all with his mouth, but his brain. The scheming and mind-playing homework were all arranged behind the scenes by the palace magpie, and they were completed behind his back in his place. He only acts as a microphone. She didn't know the inside story of the Xie family, nor did she know their details. Whether her father-in-law said it to them, or what he said, she didn't know at all.

But Xie Ying's eyes were as cold as frost when she looked at Yuan Qiuhua from then on, and occasionally forced her to look over, and her little eyes burst with a green light like a hungry wolf, which made her back chill and the cold rose sharply.

Although Xie Ying said that he had a good figure in a long coat and a big hat, his head and brain were round, like a blue ball, his round head, and his smooth scalp were as green and shiny as lard; he was bald, above his forehead, around his head, above his neck, from his ears to the back of his head, he had no hair, and a few locks of thin and short hair on the top of his head were like a few yellow grass seedlings in dry land; his head was large, he had no forehead hair, no sideburns, but his face was extremely small, and his flat face was the size of a palm, with a pair of small eyesThe mouth is flat, the philtrum is short and squirrel, but the chin is long and pointed, just like a goat; the cheeks are fleshless, but from the forehead to the chin, from the corners of the eyes to the ears, the whole face is covered with pockmarks, dense, like a cut dragon fruit, and the potholes, like a river beach washed by a flood, uneven, gravel, and like raindrops falling on the lake, stirring up ripples, circle after circle, staring for a while, you will be dizzy; the head is big and the face is small, and the left and right sides happen to have a pair of provocative ears, the ear shape is prominent, the ear wheel is towering, the earlobes are thick, he plucks his ears from time to time, touches the earlobes, and seems to be eavesdropping on the mysterious radio waves。

With such facial features and a combined appearance, the first impression given to people is not only weird, but also terrifying. Xie Jiadi's little granddaughter, when she met him, she was so frightened that she retreated again and again, shouting "grimace" in her mouth, and sat on the ground with her buttocks, crying wow. The children of the tribe were afraid of him, and the more frightened the child was, the more he liked to scare the child, and he laughed when he was so frightened that he laughed.

The photo book said that the pockmarked face of the head cannot be crossed, the water snake waist is difficult to fight, and the most poisonous is the three white eyes. The two cheeks are incomparably rape, laughing and cunning before speaking, looking left and right without certainty, slender and fleshless to hide three knives.

Xie Ying has a bull head, a sheep face, a hemp face, looks old-fashioned, and has low eyebrows and drooping eyes all the year round, seeing him walking slowly with his hands behind his back, he looks like a worried little old man. Usually he doesn't talk much, and he doesn't like to join in the fun, as if he doesn't see anyone and doesn't care about anything. Listening to things that have nothing to do with it, he always skewed, twisted and curled up in a chair, first took off his shoes and socks, stepped on the chair bar with both feet, hugged his knees with his hands, looked tired and sleepy, like a cauliflower snake coiled into a pile of cow.

As the saying goes, a man with a bowed head and a woman with a back face are the most difficult, so don't mess with them. His temperament is also similar to that of a cauliflower snake, he can't hold down seven inches and can entangle people to death, but he catches the clamps tightly, lifts his tail and shakes it, and its bones are all broken one by one, and it is so soft that it is a straw rope. When I hear the unpleasant words related to the past, I don't interject, I don't justify, I don't cry out for grievances, others ask and answer, but the triangular eyes are half-open and half-closed, pretending to be absent-minded, sometimes looking for people to say good things about people, but in fact, they don't complain about it, they hold hatred in their hearts, and they squint out of the corners of their eyes and cast them into a dark corner, but they are gloomy and windy, flickering flames.

The people rely on the documents, and the officials rely on the seal. Xie Qingquan did not hold a family meeting, but personally presided over the separation of the two brothers' houses, turning the oral agreement into a documentary certificate, nor did he advocate that the birth of boys and girls be the same, clarify the facts of the four brothers' fields, and screen them in the form of documents, so as to completely solve the hidden dangers.

Yuan Qiuhua knew that it was bad, he pierced this layer of window paper, but the result was empty talk on paper, he tore off Xie Ying's fig leaf, which was bound to attract his jealousy, and he scared the snake, the snake would follow the stick if he didn't retreat, the wolf would save the sheep, and the wolf would bite off his hand if he didn't let go, and the secret fight was always more sinister than the open fight, the mental contest was greater than the tense confrontation, the tenacity of the will was better than the competition of strong attack and hard defense, and the long consumption was better than the quick decision. The reason why bad things are rotten is because the more you care about it, the worse it becomes, and you will rot with it and sink into it forever. Even if you win it in the end, the time, manpower, material resources, financial resources, and energy you have spent are gone with it, and it is not worth it.

She is also a person who has turned over somersaults in the world, does not pursue luxury, does not covet wealth, from lively and active to quiet and tenacious, from optimistic and cheerful to steady and steady, from panic to calm and confident, from willful and straightforward to self-discipline and restraint, life has tempered her shrewdness and ability, and the years have given her a calm and not frightened. found that Xie Ying occupied Xie Xiong's field, looking at Xiao Lin's pitiful appearance, according to Yuan Qiuhua's ability, she wanted to help Xiao Lin, and there was always a way to help, but she kept silent and refused to say a word. In the final analysis, it was Xiao Lin's selfish drill camp, and all kinds of small calculations and cleverness, that annoyed her. Xiao Lin's rhetorical hypocrisy, without the slightest hint of real concern and consideration for others, all kinds of display and show-off in a twisted manner, without any consideration for the feelings of others, only self-centered, always want to be the focus of everyone, if others are accidentally shinier than her, they will try their best to belittle others, or even trample on them. In Xiao Lin's heart, attracting attention, attracting people's spoiling, and eating all of them is all capital, regardless of whether it is correct, whether it is just, whether it should be, as long as it is beautiful and glamorous, cared for by others, sweet words, and addicted, it must be a lot of money to slaughter, and the life and death pain of others is even more indifferent and does not take it to heart at all. Yuan Qiuhua hates women to show off their posture the most, and they seek material enjoyment by hooking up with men. When the two met, they were busy arguing with each other, killing and killing in laughter.

Xie Ying found a gap in their fight, sowing discord, and breaking each one. He thought he was a master of layout, but he knew that Yuan Qiuhua was a tall man, scheming, and the people who made his wrists were unaware, and he had all his fame and fortune. Yuan Qiuhua never had a conflict with the Xie family head-on, and seemed to be trying to please everyone, but she didn't have to be like this, if she didn't please everyone, she wouldn't have anything to lose, but she was the third sister-in-law, and she wanted to be the third sister-in-law who knew the overall situation. On the surface, she doesn't care about anything, but in fact, she has carefully calculated everything in her heart, but she never takes the initiative to tell others. She will hold back when she is happy, she will hold back when she is angry, she will hold back when she is sad, and she won't let the other party see her emotions when she is killed.

For unfamiliar people, Yuan Qiuhua will show a cold and arrogant, sensitive and suspicious side, which makes it difficult to approach, but once she is acquainted, her gentle and understanding side will also thaw, just like a man, sticking a knife in the ribs for relatives and friends, fighting righteousness and squandering money. She will bear her duties and promises to the end, tolerate the violation of others three times at most, and will fight back on the fourth time, even if she has nothing, she will not hesitate to lose her reputation. When she is good to people, she pours out her heart and lungs, which is unforgettable for a lifetime, and once she turns the gun, the slightest friendship is gone.

Xie Ying's invasion, Yuan Qiuhua has already had a countermeasure, has deployed troops to line up, chess is divided into four steps, first within the family, outside the family, there is also the family, outside the family, there is the government, outside the government, there is also the law. You have a good plan, I have a wall ladder, what I play is scheming, and what I play is my heart's eye. Yuan Qiuhua is resolute and resolute, and the situation is passive, so she has to do everything possible to turn things around, sit still, and be caught, but it is not her style, she will only take the initiative to attack. After going through this incident, she already knew that Xie Qingquan was in the bag, and she couldn't count on it at all, and she had lived together for half a year, and she also knew that Xie Han had no opinions, and he couldn't be relied on at all, so she had to seek external advice and find a helper outside the house. Father-in-law has little time, as the saying goes, the eldest brother is the father, and if there is something to discuss with the eldest brother, even if he makes a mistake, it should not be big. But the problem is that the Xie family, young and old, including sisters and nephews, do not talk to the Xie Wen family, if they openly come to the door to ask for help, they will inevitably offend the Xie family, my father-in-law and mother-in-law can reprimand me for "disobedience and unfilial piety", my brothers and sisters can accuse me of "defecting to the enemy", Xie Han can scold me for "selling my husband for glory", or even "borrowing a knife to kill people and murdering my husband", but after marriage, I took out 50,000 yuan out of my own pocket and posted it to the Xie family, can I only exchange it for their abuse? Not necessarily!

Since ancient times, people gather in kind, things in groups, Xie Wen's family does not interact with them, it proves that they are not all the way, they are not in harmony with their hearts and hearts, it also shows that they are not the same people, besides, behind the scenes, the eldest brother and sister-in-law often help me, my father-in-law is seriously ill, and the eldest brother and sister-in-law also take out five thousand, occasionally I and the eldest brother and sister-in-law also communicate in private, in the face of their sneering and cold words, and the fierce and vicious shrew-style humiliation, it is also step by step, and everything is forbearance, if it is not for everything to give in, how can a family be preserved? To do this, you only need to avoid them, but you don't need to hide from the people, and the elders see or hear about it, and they all give a thumbs up and praise it. Daily chat, the clansmen talk about their unruly and rude, nonsense and unreasonable, neither avoiding me, nor hiding from the eldest brother, all of them are said, both enthusiastic reminders, and clear warnings, nothing more than not wanting good people to be framed by bad people again and again. What does this mean? From this, we can see how deviant and unpopular they are! Fool B does not realize that he is a fool B, not only is he ignorant, but he also knows nothing about their ignorance, and he does not understand what knowledge is, what it means to know, and what to do to understand.

According to common sense, when encountering this kind of thing, Yuan Qiuhua should discuss with Xie Han, and then solve the problem together, but Xie Han has no basic qualities, he is stubborn, does not accept new knowledge, has poor knowledge, does not know the goods, does not distinguish between good and bad, does not argue between right and wrong, she communicates with him, like a duck and a chicken, like saying a book from heaven. Xie Han has no opinion, although he is anxious when he encounters a big event, he can't come up with a reliable idea at all, and he just scolds a few words, but he can't solve any problems. He eats, drinks and has fun, and he can do whatever he wants, but when something happens, he has no master, and he doesn't know what to do. Like the occupation of the house, what kind of weighty words can he, an idler in the family who is not in charge of things, say anything weighty? Even if he can tell the truth, in the eyes of his parents and brothers, it is just another nonsense, you are a single person, you have no wife and no children, what kind of inheritance law is you talking about? Even the neighbors on the left and right laughed at him, he didn't learn to climb and walk first, he couldn't walk, but he wanted to fly, why didn't you go to heaven? After getting married, when Yuan Qiuhua mentioned the division of the house, he actually counterattacked, united with his brothers and sisters, and slandered her in an attempt to "occupy his house," which made her laugh. Don't expect him to help at a critical moment, it's good if you don't add to the chaos.

Not only IQ, EQ, but also experience, ability, or communication, networking and other comprehensive strength, the two have different levels and levels, even family background, knowledge and education, cultural quality, hobbies, are completely different, although they are people, but they are not the same kind of people at all, although they are husband and wife, but they are simply the same bed and different dreams. Xie Han wanted to find out Yuan Qiuhua's true thoughts and understand her extraneous words, it was very difficult, many times, she had to use "emotional intelligence" methods such as coquettishness, pretending to be weak, coaxing, pretending to be garlic, etc., and in case of emergency, she had to use the tricks of concealment, secret crossing, and avoidance. They are ignorant and ignorant, like clowns jumping off the beam, making a lot of trouble, and there is no peace up and down, but Xie Han is confused, his thinking is controlled by them, his words and deeds are brainwashed by them, he only listens to them, not his wife's words, and it is even more difficult to awaken his sense of responsibility to protect the family. She can only follow him to brush the donkey's hair, use the way of others, and treat them as others, and use their paranoid methods to deal with them. Xie Wen lacks basic knowledge, but he can absorb new knowledge and recognize goods. Such a person can keep pace with the times, grow rapidly, and with the increase of exchanges, there is a common correct and true understanding on general issues, and the two have more and more consensus.

Yuan Qiuhua met Xie Wen on the road, explained the situation in detail, and asked for his opinion.

Xie Wen said: Don't be anxious, hasn't Daddy officially expressed his position yet?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Ah Weng is powerless, afraid that he will be completely controlled by them and become a puppet completely. You know this better than I do!

Xie Wen said: You are so polite, puppet? You ask him for help?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Ouch, what should I do? Things have already gone wrong! Ouch, what should I do?

Xie Wen said: Don't panic! Let me think about it. Otherwise, you go to the patriarch and ask him to help you find a way?

Yuan Qiuhua said: If you alarm the clan, the matter will be a big trouble, do you really have to bother the clan to be tried and the ancestral hall to be discussed? Isn't it openly saying that Ah Weng is useless?

Xie Wen said: Daddy is useless, everyone has long recognized it. The biggest trouble is that the adoptive father does not want to adopt a son, and the father does not recognize the parent, how can that person live?

Yuan Qiuhua said: What's going on? I don't understand! What adopted son? Which one was adopted by Ah Weng? Or which one was the stepson brought over by his mother-in-law?

Xie Wen said: That person's life history is an open secret, but it can't be put in court for public trial! Well, just like a *, whoever lights the fire is a sinner. Sinners of two families, sinners of all relatives and friends, and even sinners of entire clans.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Oh, I understand, why that person has no fear, it turns out that this is the reason. Wow, I almost fell for it, it's so vicious! Fortunately, the big brother clicked, thank you!

Xie Wen said: What about this matter, as a junior, it is inconvenient for me to come forward, and you should not get involved, what should you do? Hang it up! Dry it into salted fish! Everything is business as usual?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Forget it, I'll still find the patriarch and bother him to knock on the mountain and shake the tiger.

Xie Wen said: Daddy is right, whether it is inheritance or succession, the clan must be consulted, and finally the family will vote collectively.

Yuan Qiuhua said: I'm also worried, as long as the three brothers have sons, that person is okay!

Xie Wen said: They are too aggressive, you don't accept the offer, continue to pretend to be confused, keep your duty, and live a down-to-earth life, and they don't have a problem with you. Remember, don't entangle with them, it's really competitive, fighting in the ring will only delay your good year!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Yes, for the sake of small profits, the family is fighting endlessly, it is not worth it!

Xie Wen said: With your ability, where can you not make a lot of money? If you want to live well, you have to make money, and money and tickets are only outside the body after death. When Daddy is gone and the child is born, you go back to the city, and don't stay here, look at their evil faces, and suffer from their sour anger.

Yuan Qiuhua said: I wrote it down, thank you for your concern!