Xie Ying dared to cultivate the fields of the two families, and that was because he married a good helper. His wife Ma Huilan, in addition to being stupid and black and not good-looking, is tall and big, rough and strong, full of strength, and is also a good hand at farm work.

Ma Huilan was born in a farming family, and her mother's family returned to poverty due to her father's long-term illness, and the disease changed from chronic hepatitis B to liver cirrhosis, then to liver ascites, and there is a possibility of liver cancer. After she was engaged and engaged, her father began to vomit blood and had to embezzle the bride price. After a month in the hospital, my father's condition was brought under control and he returned home to recuperate, but her dowry had to be reduced.

From the contemptuous look of squint in the eyes of the Xie family, and the ridiculous tone with prickly eyes, not only did they not feel any sympathy and understanding, but they also did not even have the least respect, even relatives and friends despised three points, even the clansmen neglected three points, and the concubines also showed off more and less than the dowry, the poor and rich of the mother's family, the support and help of the parents, the love and dislike of the in-laws, the beauty and ugliness of the appearance, and whether the child was male or female.

Although Ma Huilan is careless and sloppy, she can still distinguish between warm and cold feelings, and when she encounters the neglect of her in-laws, she is always in a position of rejection and harm, and feels that she is an outsider, she is more restrained, frightened, and guilty.

In less than half a year, the Xie family figured out Ma Huilan's character, and they couldn't see enthusiasm and unrestrainedness from her, bold and pungent, only timidity and meekness, hesitation and woodenness, so they became more and more mean and unceremonious to her.

According to traditional habits, it is natural for foreign daughters-in-law to be more generous and kind to their own family members, because no matter how their own family members cry and fight, they are still their own people afterwards, and they are still connected to the tendons when they break their bones.

But the truth is the truth, the reality is the reality, for the cultural attainment is not high, the lack of quality education for the rude people, morality is just preaching, and there is no emotional purification function, being kind and charitable is just the ideal, selfishness and evil is the norm, the truth is just a form, not a code of conduct and doing things, or the opposite, defeat is not known, and continue to make mistakes on top of mistakes.

There are two objective realities, one is bullying, raw chickens are pecked by cooked chickens in cages, cold layers are separated from each other, it is difficult to serve the elderly, it is difficult to tie the knots under the small, and it is difficult for peers to lift, the second is rejection, the same sex repels each other, the wind and rain and hail, the mother-in-law cannot sleep, the daughter-in-law cannot sleep, the aunt chews the tongue, and the sister-in-law scolds the family style. Originally, in family life, personal hobbies, temperament integration, and communication level, intentionally or unintentionally, formed a small circle, tangible and invisible, resulting in a sense of closeness or alienation.

The bride has just arrived, the situation is not familiar, her eyes see the living, her feet step on the ground, and she goes in and out of the family, and she does not know the north and south and the east and west, and it is difficult to tell which pier can be used by boat. Even if both parties are polite, don't hum or not, after all, the mother-in-law's family is preconceived, has a deep emotional foundation, and interpersonal relationships, even if you respect, I am humble, you are magnanimous, I am kind, everyone can get by on the face, you maintain and take care of it, I am grateful for the return, you dominate the world, I bow my head and cooperate, but each other is tolerated in their hearts, personality differences, and mental intelligence, always separated by a layer of indifference, lack of a family affection.

Especially when the foreign daughter-in-law is in an unfamiliar environment, there is a gap in all aspects, and the mother-in-law's family does not treat everyone equally, so her mentality is naturally unbalanced.

The snobbery of the Xie family, crooked mouth and flat tongue to look down on people, let Ma Huilan take a breath of relief, her mother's economy is tight for a while, and the dowry is in short supply, it doesn't mean that I will be poor in the future, I have to make a comeback to show them!

In order to repay the debts owed when they got married, they went out to see the moon and went home to count the stars, and the husband and wife worked hard day and night.

Xie Yingnian is strong and strong, and he is a veteran of farming, Ma Huilan does not show weakness, no matter what work he does, he accompanies him to the end, and feeds pigs and cattle, sells a pig in one season, sells a calf in two years, and the money is used to pay off debts, and the standard of living cannot rise.