I can't call you:

And only to plead with you with all sincerity!

Because it was too late, sooner, and because it was inevitable after all, I have to explain to you something that is very sad for you.

With all due respect, I am a married man who is now pregnant and unwilling to take remedial measures because of a mistake I made with your daughter.

This is a bolt from the blue for you and for me, and the difficulty of life lies in dealing with many things that you don't want to deal with, but you have to face the reality. The fact that I decided to tell you after discussing with your daughter to no avail is not an indication that I want to shirk responsibility, but rather that we want to work together to save as much as possible in order to limit the damage and impact to the smallest extent possible.

First of all, I must confess my mistakes and excuse you, after all, I am responsible for such an ending.

Secondly, I would like to touch briefly on some of the issues that need to be addressed so that you can understand the situation and make an informed decision.

First, the substantive problem between me and your daughter appeared in May or June of the previous year, before that, she already knew that I had a family and had a girl, and at the same time I knew that the relationship between our husband and wife was not very good, and I only said that divorce was possible, and repeatedly explained that remarriage is a matter of 24 years later, and I do not plan to find a stepmother for her until the child starts a family.

Second, before I have a substantive problem with your daughter, I made it clear to her that the current "Marriage Law" has been amended, and similar family disputes should be investigated for the legal responsibility of third parties. At that time, your daughter made it clear that she would not break up my family and that the law could not hold her accountable.

Third, due to my own financial difficulties, during my five-year relationship with your daughter, I did not give her any financial or material support, but she gave me selfless gifts and property, and took the upper route to borrow me to enter the middle echelon. Therefore, I once had low self-esteem and wanted to terminate the relationship with her, but she did not agree, and I never cared about my "dime".

Fourth, in contact with your daughter, I suggested that there be some measures to be taken to prevent the current situation from happening, she said that she was taking medication and that if something went wrong, she could go to the hospital to solve it.

From the above four points, it can be seen that the relationship between me and your daughter is purely a spiritual and physical relationship, and it is by no means a money transaction, material inducement, and love game. And I've really always thought that she felt the same way, and gave it all without asking for anything in return. Otherwise, she would not have made sacrifices for a poor person like me, who is not penniless, in the countryside.

And now, your daughter insists on giving birth to the child, and says that I am not responsible for everything in the future. With her ability and character, this is not implausible, but I have speculated from my life experience that life will indeed be quite difficult for her in the future. And this kind of hardship and poverty, especially poverty, a pampered and delicate lady like her cannot afford it.

First, it is unlikely that I will marry your daughter, is she really dependent on mother and son in this life, and will not marry again? And I do not have the financial ability and psychological capacity to support the outer room.

Second, your daughter still has savings, even if she can maintain it during the vacation after giving birth to the child, but before the child goes to school, she can't go out to earn money, how can the mother and son survive?

Third, our relationship is dishonorable, but the world does not know, if according to your daughter's will, let it develop, if she dies, or the child is seriously ill, it will inevitably trouble me, once exposed, in the future, you and I family, this reputation and family reputation should be considered?

Fourth, the family planning policy is so tight, either she can't give birth, or she will have to be fined, is this kind of punishment happy to accept? I'm especially sorry that my wife has already reported it to the relevant departments, first anonymously, and as soon as I obstruct it, she will change her real name, and she has the strength to break the net. I'm at fault, and I can't do anything about her, so I can only say sorry to you!

Fifth, my wife cried, made trouble, and hanged herself, and I was already anxious, and she quarreled with me from home, and the leader talked to me, clearly stating that "I will have a major demerit, be expelled from the party, and be suspended for one year of probation." I started from poverty, and my future was self-destructive, so why did you and your daughter help you at the beginning?

If I don't say that I'm selfish, I think it's better for us to deal with it quietly ourselves, and as for your punishment of me, it can be done at the same time. And before I am willing to take responsibility for this, I still want to ask you to think twice, reason, quiet, is what we need most at this time.

I am writing this letter to you, not to show that I am bold, but that I just want to work together to cover things up, hide them, and deal with them in silence.

After my wife led the family planning people to your daughter's unit to quarrel and scold, your daughter said that she wanted me to pay the price, what is this price? Does it mean that my wife will be separated, or will the family be ruined?

My parents learned that your daughter was pregnant with my son and called your daughter and asked to give birth to her and give it to them to raise. They said, if I don't recognize my son, they won't recognize him, and they will drive me out of the house.

In fact, people only live one breath, and if they mess around desperately, no one is afraid of anyone. You have the right to make a phone call, and the family planning person will be dismissed, and if you are pregnant or not, you need to apologize, and you only need to send a word, and I will also be dismissed. But I have a bad life, barefoot is not afraid to wear shoes, bald is not afraid to wear hats, you are not afraid of losing face, and I am not afraid of being ashamed.

It's just to avoid this from happening, so I explained it to you. If your thoughts are the same as your daughter's, then I have said it in vain, and I don't plan to live, but I have to fight for my life.

It should be noted that your daughter is only about four months pregnant, and from the perspective of the procedure to save the damage to the body, the sooner the better. Besides, your daughter is young, beautiful, and capable, and she must have no problem marrying the right Prince Charming.

In short, this is a reality, and I ask you to deal with it properly. If your daughter was in love at the beginning, and turned her face and didn't recognize people at this time, then I will admit it, people can't live without suffering, but I will never let go of the opportunity to fight on the basis of reason. So please be sensible and calm about everything.

As I said, I will resolutely take the responsibility that I should bear.

Finally, I sincerely plead with you!

At the same time, I also hope that you will understand and forgive me for this relationship with your daughter, and I hope you will help me break this relationship!

A person who asks for your forgiveness. (Well-known does not have to have)